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Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:12pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Raalsalghul: 🤨 |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:16pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Raalsalghul: I pity you. And you think you are getting younger? Be there and be dragging the dance floor with smallies like Pansophist and Martinez them wey you suppose pave way for and dey give advice. See you see old age. No wonder he didn’t want me to see his face in that picture. Grey hair go don full him head finish. No go marry, you hear! I dey wait grandpikins o! |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Raalsalghul: 8:23pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl: As you see me so Victoria, I no like stress. I just want to be taken care off, travel round the world, see the different places, eat good food, make money and take care of my self. I no come this world come stress. I like soft life as you see me so. Lol @ grey hair. |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:29pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Raalsalghul: You can get that within the confines of marriage too. You are just selfish. If you like, marry, if you like, don’t. When are my grandkids arriving? 🤨 |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Raalsalghul: 8:34pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Abeg leave talk. When are you booking our next vacation? |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by frozen70(f): 8:52pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Lexzeey: I think your expectations are too high for the ones you cane across The most important thing you should be looking for is a woman who will give you peace Who have a good sense of direction When you find one train her to the level of intelligence that you want It doesn't necessarily mean her going back to school You can train her through daily communication and accessment with her Expose her to the kind of knowledge that you want If you are not ready to do the above then be ready to keep searching 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:53pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Raalsalghul: Look at you. See how marriage talk dey pepper you for body. Vacation at Santorini, abi? |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Ishilove: 9:16pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Lexzeey:. 5 Likes
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Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Raalsalghul: 9:18pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl: If we broke marry na, una go say we be infidels. As we no come marry, she say na selfish. Oya tell me when you wan fix date make son of man renew him passport. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 9:58pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Raalsalghul:38 years and unmarried, and you're proud of it, oga we're not cut from same tree, I don't roll that way. |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 10:00pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
frozen70:That's alot of work o, I'm not going to be responsible for training someone's daughter, training children to behave the way you want is hard enough, you wan come train adult, which power I get? 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by frozen70(f): 10:03pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Lexzeey: Training a woman to suit you as a man is not difficult, the most important thing is for her to love you and respect you Once a man can get a desire respect from his woman, you can go tailor her to your taste 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Olarewaju89: 10:27pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Michaelspresh: Do you want to marry him. |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 10:41pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
frozen70:Lol have you seen the current generation of girls? They feel they know everything and trying to alter Thier behavior is equal to trying to manipulate and cage them, I no get the strength abeg 1 Like |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Mcslize: 2:47am On Jun 10, 2023 |
Raalsalghul:Eh?👂 |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by chidifrank(m): 2:52am On Jun 10, 2023 |
IbrahimSkiba:May I shoot my shot with you |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by chidifrank(m): 2:53am On Jun 10, 2023 |
Michaelspresh:trying to shoot my shot wit you but NL is not having so many options for that |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by linearity: 2:57am On Jun 10, 2023 |
Lexzeey: But, there is something missing in your ‘honest assessment’. Do you have money? Where do you live? How do you live? What kind of job do you do? A typical 9ja girl is looking for someone to shoulder her financially for the rest of her life and they can sense that from your social media page, the way you carry yourself, etc. Look for financial stability and Nigeria girls would naturally be attracted to you. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by chidifrank(m): 2:57am On Jun 10, 2023 |
Dear op, it's okay with what you desire and seek . It's a sinful world and I like that fact that you are trying to at least live a nice life by getting married rather than just fornicating up and down. Just somehow difficult this generation getting such minded gender like you if sex or money spending are not involved to propel it. Some said we should find a truly God fearing lady. Many of them thinks that way too. Good luck Bro. you are not alone 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Fash20: 6:15am On Jun 10, 2023 |
eazzzy1: I wasn't expecting the third option 😅 |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by frozen70(f): 8:22am On Jun 10, 2023 |
Lexzeey:Lol Keep searching, get one and modify that one It may take time but it will worth it |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by garriAndsugar: 8:29am On Jun 10, 2023 |
Lexzeey:You go really stubborn for real life.. wetin be your problem self, you no wan take any advice but you bring your issue come here.. na too much sense go finish you last last by the time you go jam one wicked intelligent girl 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 9:01am On Jun 10, 2023 |
garriAndsugar:That'd be an awesome experience, something challenging for once, that'd be a first, that is exactly what I am looking for sir, not the regular boring and dumb Nigerian girl, capisce? |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 9:02am On Jun 10, 2023 |
frozen70:Lol, alright, lemme get one first before thinking of zombifying her. |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 9:06am On Jun 10, 2023 |
linearity:Since it's important to you, I don't know if I have money or not, because being rich means different things to different people, I am comfortable, I'm paying my bills, and helping my siblings with school fees, hospital bill and all, but I'm not one to blow my horns, I don't have a car yet because it's not something I really need rn, my priority is to stop paying rent but for now I'm renting, then there's what I do, I am a software developer working freelance, doing other side jobs like crypto, basically alot online from here and there to make ends meet, I am sure you're familiar with the Nigerian way of survival, I'm not a degree holder though, did some polytechnic stuff and stopped, and I'm not comfortable telling you why, and lastly what do you mean how I live? I don't know, maybe try to make it to the next day? So confusing. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Lexzeey: 9:09am On Jun 10, 2023 |
chidifrank:Thanks, all the comments in this thread and you're the only one who is seeing it from another perspective, they're insinuating that something is wrong with me, they forgot that it's not about having just any girl, heck I can bed different hookup girls everyday if I want to as long as there's money, I'm just looking for a partner. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by frozen70(f): 11:19am On Jun 10, 2023 |
Lexzeey:Good start |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:43am On Jun 10, 2023 |
Raalsalghul: Bills on you, abi? My bags are well-packed. |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Gerrard59(m): 4:45pm On Jun 10, 2023 |
Lexzeey: Then be prepared to do so o. You think women will follow you not for what you have, but your personality? Na your personality go pay house rent? School fees? Feeding items? Fuel? I think you need to go out more, make platonic friendships with ladies from different walks of life, enjoy yourself. The bold is very important because you cannot enjoy your time again once you marry and have children. You now live for your children, not yourself. So, find time to enjoy yourself as a man now before marrying. Someone mentioned developing yourself to enter the top 10% of men since that group are targeted by women from all walk of life. By being in that group, women do the chasing, not you. However, you should not enter that group because you want to be chased by women, but because you want to live a comfortable life as a man. You come across as the type that wants to marry before 30 but life has not been fair to you financially during your 20s. Well, such is life, but enjoy yourself before marriage o. There is no room for personal enjoyment and relexation when you don marry and born two children in present day Nigeria. Except you are the type that is willing to sacrifice his personal enjoyment for raising children. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Gerrard59(m): 4:52pm On Jun 10, 2023 |
Lexzeey: There are many intelligent ladies who can hold conversations. But since you have no friends and social life, how you wan see them? The problem is from you. You think you are the best thing since sliced bread, yet you don't have money, you don't have friends and have no social life. If you had a flourishing career or business that gives you financial stability but live as a monk, one would have said pretty OK. Na women sef go dey look for you. But now, nothing financial dey stable. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by Gerrard59(m): 4:53pm On Jun 10, 2023 |
garriAndsugar: Exactly. Dude thinks he is some Nobel laureate material but has not published in a renowned peer-reviewed journal. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Approaching My 30s And I'm Looking For Something Serious But No Luck So Far by BlackMan6969(m): 4:54pm On Jun 10, 2023 |
Word! slawomir: 1 Like 1 Share |
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