Nazgul:

Unless the guy took her to a foreign restaurant, or all these cozy food outlets in VI, Ikoyi or lekki, no popular eatery sells a plate of food 12k. I still bought spiced chicken, fried rice, sauce and a refreshing soft drink for 2k on Wednesday at chicken republic.

So if I decide to go out with a date, I can just budget at most 5k for everything and we'll have a great time together. Now imagine her eating up to 12k in an eatery where a plate of food is sold for 2k?

The girl was wrong, stop all these your unnecessary grammar and admit it.

I use chicken republic but chicken republic is bottom of the barrel. It is for utility eating. Strictly for energy /nutrition But going on a date, you may want to switch it up a bit. You can easily spend this much at Burger King, for instance. For a supposedly mobile guy, 12k should not be cause for all this drama.

The vibe I get is one silly boy who has swallowed Andrew tate finish and is looking for clout. The girl should actually be able to engage a lawyer to sue the guy for putting her video out without her consent.


Hopefully the chicks with sense will see the video and take the lessons. Yes there are chicks who try to turn dates into exploitation, but 12k really does not seem like that much to me in this case.

Nwachi22:


Lol. The guy is talking based on his limited level of exposure. I wouldn’t blame him.

Lol I remember I stepped into one Chinese restaurant at Jabi lake mall earlier this year. When I saw the menu, my head wan burst. The cheapest food on that menu was stir fry pasta and it was 8k. I saw meals of 45k on the menu Lol.
I was going to pay for one of the seafood when my girlfriend dragged me out.

GloriousGbola:

I use chicken republic but chicken republic is bottom of the barrel. It is for utility eating. But going on a date, you may want to switch it up a bit. You can easily spend this much at Burger King, for instance. For a supposedly mobile guy, 12k should not be cause for all this drama.

The vibe I get is one silly boy who has swallowed Andrew tate finish and is looking for clout. The girl should actually be able to engage a lawyer to sue the guy for putting her video out without her consent.

Hopefully the chicks with sense will see the video and take the lessons. Yes there are chicks who try to turn dates into exploitation, but 12k really does not seem like that much to me in this case.

If I take a girl to a food outlet where cocktail alone might be around 5k, why should I frown if she eats up to 12k, I should expect such bill considering where I took her to.

But judging from the exclamation of the guy when he saw her bill, you'd agree with me that he took her to a much more affordable restaurant, that's why he was pissed off when he discovered she swallowed 12k.

The 12k isn't the problem here, the problem is her taking advantage of a date to fill her empty stomach. Dates are mainly for discussions not for quenching hunger. We're going there to talk not to eat. So why pay more attention on the food than the person taking you out, it's so wrong.

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Nazgul:

If I take a girl to a food outlet where cocktail alone might be around 5k, why should I frown if she eats up to 12k, I should expect such bill considering where I took her to.

But judging from the exclamation of the guy when he saw her bill, you'd agree with me that he took her to a much more affordable restaurant, that's why he was pissed off when he discovered she swallowed 12k.

The 12k isn't the problem here, the problem is her taking advantage of a date to fill her empty stomach. Dates are mainly for discussions not for quenching hunger. We're going there to talk not to eat. So why pay more attention on the food than the person taking you out, it's so wrong.

How can he 'discover' she swallowed 12k? Unless it is a very high end restaurant, all the prices are there for you to see. Anywhere I go I already have an idea of the prices. The story sef no add up

A date is part of a mating ritual. Which is why it is called wining and dining. It is just that broke Nigerians with their transactional nature have bastardized the whole scene into a zero sum game where each party is trying to outwit the other.

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Quite childish of the guy. Although I wouldn't sit here and pretend 12k is nothing in these buhari abi tinubu times. But I'm sure it was he who asked her for a date. Why did he not communicate his estimated budget? I'm sure there are nice and affordable places out there where you'd eat to your fill without even hitting 10k. It's a date and with no prior agreement, she's not obligated to eat within your budget. 12k is quite basic in some places... Creating a scene like this only makes him look like a jerk. Man up and pay up!

GloriousGbola:

How can he 'discover' she swallowed 12k? Unless it is a very high end restaurant, all the prices are there for you to see. Anywhere I go I already have an idea of the prices. The story sef no add up

One plate of Rice, spiced chicken, salad, moi moi, another spiced chicken, one cup of ice cream, another plate of fried Rice, sauce, moi moi, salad and spiced chicken for take away....etc. Like play like play money don reach 12k. Whereas the guy is still on his first plate eating comfortably.

That's how some girls eat when on a date.

I remembered during my NYSC I took a girl out on a date. This girl drank 4 bottles of big stout, ate 3 plates of catfish pepper soup, was still begging me that she wants to eat gizzard and barbecued fish. Like I had to stop her at some point before she swallows 100k in one sitting.

Unfortunately, she went out on a date with a very useless man with poverty mentality. Food of 12k is not big enough to cause such public fuss and video recording just to tarnish her image.
It's too pity.

Jennyclay:
Please can you just shut up and let us hear word

You broke men are the most disgusting and irritating men living on earth. Why would he go on a date without holding enough money

I’m very sure the lady was on her own jejely when the broke fool asked her on a date.

How much is 12k that the broke fool refused to pay?? Eh?? How much??
If a guy take me out, only a bottle of red wine I will order alone is over 8k and we haven’t even talked of food and other things.

Big shame on all broke men!!! Shame!!

I think anything broke is very annoying , whether man or woman

Sijo01:



Where in the video did you hear all that you wrote here?

Though the voice over covered their voices. I watched the video earlier on another platform. The only thing the girl was begging for was that the guy should return her powerbank he took to enable her charge her phone and pay.

If not that the guy is stuupid and broke, looking for who to embarrass and trend, why will he cease the girl's powerbank. Nonsense

This thing just dey pain me. I wish I can see the guy face to face and punch him in the face. What right does he have to embarrass the lady like that? Mscheew

MetroLane:



This Pig is looking for who to roll in the mud with her.


I won't give you that satisfaction, You are the Queen of your mud kingdom, roll in your mud alone.....

What bothers me most is the fact that 20 human beings who claim to have a functioning brain actually liked her reply 😭🤣

Proserpina:
Lol a dinner date isn't for discussion. If you want to get to know your person of attraction better try amusement parks, exhibition centers, museums, gardens etc.

Restaurants are for dinner dates where you go to eat

I can fix a date with you by 7p or 8pm because of the nature of your work. People go to dinner dates cos they work during the day and only have time at night to hangout. Some people even work through weekends, like doctors, Customer Care staffs, support engineers...etc.

About your suggestion, do you know the traffic situation in Lagos before attempting to drive to an amusement park or museum or an exhibition center...etc?

And with the fuel subsidy removal how many people would risk driving for hours on traffic just to go on a date? Most guys would just opt for a good food outlet cos it's closer and most especially comfortable cos you'd get to sit at a cool spot and enjoy their AC.

It's you ladies that come to dates with this mentality of "make I go chop him money" you have to change that orientation. Cos dates are not for eating. If you want food, cook at home and eat or stylishly chip it in when coming for the date so that the guy would prepare himself.

Nwachi22:


Ofcourse, the guys that date me give me the luxury to choose where I would like us to hang out. Trust me, I look at a man’s pocket first before taking that decision. I understand that all five fingers are not equal.
Atimes, when we go out, I pay the bill. It’s no big deal.

Now it is "they give you the luxury to choose", not that you tell them where to take you?

So, by some miracle of coincidence, the rare scenarios where men ask a woman to choose where they will like to go for a date, is the norm in your own life?

Yeah right!

SIGN language being employed here!

S-I-G-Need to win tactics. A woman will lie to ensure she wins a point at all cost when she is in a jam.

"the guys that date me give me the luxury to choose where I would like us to hang out" ........................bollocks lie after seeing her folly.

Cut the crap. You are entitled and selfish, hence you are not worthy of a man of substance to date or take seriously.

Many of you woman lack the personality, mentality, skills and dating ethics to be of value to a man.

"I pick the restaurant where I want to be taken" ..............What dafucking chic!

Skit.

Nwachi22:


You did not read the part I mentioned that most men don’t appreciate when I opt to share the bill or take care of the bill. Some say that it makes a lady appear rude to them. The reason why I try to discern and work with what the man has at the moment and support him (if he permit me).

The part I want to read is the part where you are calling the woman out and holding her accountable.

Can you direct me to that part?

All I see is your attempt at blaming a man and holding a man accountable for a woman's bad behaviour.

Jennyclay:
Please can you just shut up and let us hear word

You broke men are the most disgusting and irritating men living on earth. Why would he go on a date without holding enough money

I’m very sure the lady was on her own jejely when the broke fool asked her on a date.

How much is 12k that the broke fool refused to pay?? Eh?? How much??
If a guy take me out, only a bottle of red wine I will order alone is over 8k and we haven’t even talked of food and other things.

Big shame on all broke men!!! Shame!!

All these entitlement na only Nigerian women carry am for head

For East and South part of Africa bills are split between the two when they go out

Same thing Overseas if you take a woman out, the bills are split

This entitlement always comes from Nigerian women

So it's not about 12k or being broke
Our women here are over entitled

unbiased2021:


Lol I remember I stepped into one Chinese restaurant at Jabi lake mall earlier this year. When I saw the menu, my head wan burst. The cheapest food on that menu was stir fry pasta and it was 8k. I saw meals of 45k on the menu Lol.
I was going to pay for one of the seafood when my girlfriend dragged me out.

Yeah eating at Chinese restaurant will be around the amount you talked about

But there dishes makes sense and worth it

advanceDNA:


U dont have to spend higher unless u are doing mumu gentleman....na simp no dey fit talk him mind allowing himself to be used...

..immediately u see she's not alone.. respectfully clear am say "i did not budget to entertain more than you and I.. or u just lock up and refuse to order...no crime there naa... how u go dey fear to talk untop ur own money....

You have to realise that the average Nigerian male is raised to be a simp by default and when they are with the female folks, generally think with their d*cks instead of their brains.

Jennyclay:
Please can you just shut up and let us hear word

You broke men are the most disgusting and irritating men living on earth. Why would he go on a date without holding enough money

I’m very sure the lady was on her own jejely when the broke fool asked her on a date.

How much is 12k that the broke fool refused to pay?? Eh?? How much??
If a guy take me out, only a bottle of red wine I will order alone is over 8k and we haven’t even talked of food and other things.

Big shame on all broke men!!! Shame!!

I hope when you dad was dating your mum he bought all what type?

@ElBenny.
The video you posted doesn't explain much of what you narrated.

By the way; since the girl would eat N50k food at a go in a restaurant; she has no excuse that her phone battery is dead. She can as well pay N12k instead of this public embarrassment.

unbiased2021:


Lol I remember I stepped into one Chinese restaurant at Jabi lake mall earlier this year. When I saw the menu, my head wan burst. The cheapest food on that menu was stir fry pasta and it was 8k. I saw meals of 45k on the menu Lol.
I was going to pay for one of the seafood when my girlfriend dragged me out.

😂 You want show your babe say you get money.
She must be a very nice person. Someone who is worth keeping.

On the second thought, if her phone was truly Dead, I believed the restaurant has light to charge her phone.

No be Folake be that?

quickhubservice:
Omo but who make am a must say na de guy go pay. Like I understand courtesy but why make a scene when the guy says no.

If you ask a girl out, it is understood that you will foot the bill.
But you should take a girl to a place you can afford.

Gamesmart:


Now it is "they give you the luxury to choose", not that you tell them where to take you?

So, by some miracle of coincidence, the rare scenarios where men ask a woman to choose where they will like to go for a date, is the norm in your own life?

Yeah right!

SIGN language being employed here!

S-I-G-Need to win tactics. A woman will lie to ensure she wins a point at all cost when she is in a jam.

"the guys that date me give me the luxury to choose where I would like us to hang out" ........................bollocks lie after seeing her folly.

Cut the crap. You are entitled and selfish, hence you are not worthy of a man of substance to date or take seriously.

Many of you woman lack the personality, mentality, skills and dating ethics to be of value to a man.

"I pick the restaurant where I want to be taken" ..............What dafucking chic!

I understand your type and I pray they never come my way. I can’t descend down to your level to trade words with you.
You simply lack exposure and have limited knowledge. That I understand .

Gamesmart:


The part I want to read is the part where you are calling the woman out and holding her accountable.

Can you direct me to that part?

All I see is your attempt at blaming a man and holding a man accountable for a woman's bad behaviour.

Nna, there is no need pointing out anything to you because it’s obvious we don’t have same level of exposure and understanding.
I don’t want to end up trading words with you because that’s where you’re headed.

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pansophist:
But 12k small na. I mean, some restaurants inflate prices so high that just a bottle of wine and food might be bothering 20k. But again, this is a situation of medicine after death.

As a man, if 12k is too much to pay, then don't go to a restaurant that charges a lot. Also, who brought up this idea that dates have to be about eating and spending huge?

How about a date in the park, or at the beach? so you buy snacks from the supermarket, sit somewhere, talk, and enjoy nature/views? Without the noise, distraction, and encapsulating spaces that are typical of eateries?

We should really be easy on people. 12k is not much. He could have just paid but signed off from her matter. The 12k he spent becomes the sacrifice he has to bear to not be with someone he aint compatible with.

I mean the babe was begging, is his heart made of stone? come on. I repeat, 12k is not much. And as a man, you should know that you lead the tempo. If she suggests what seems like an off-limit to your pocket, you say no.

If you are asking a girl out, you retain the privilege to pick a place you can afford. If she refuses to go because she has a higher taste, then you just end it there, no need to dress up and get this disgraceful result which could have been filtered from the start.

Well said. Depending on one's class, I don't think 12k is too much to spend for food on a date ( for the Nigerian middle class).

Nwachi22:


I understand your type and I pray they never come my way. I can’t descend down to your level to trade words with you.
You simply lack exposure and have limited knowledge. That I understand .

I understand you are the type that feel you are the ish and prize.

They are many of you in the modern day. Delusionals!

Stop the delusion. You are definitely not a prize! You are of low value as a partner and need brain re-engineering to understand how to be a proper lady, who is valuable enough for the real prize: a top man that has status, and who can provide and protect.

Delusionals usually end up on the shelf. Many as washed-up, past-it single mothers, still keeping up their moral and ego by publicly saying they are single because they are looking for a high quality and high value real men, and that there are none available in the world anymore, when the reality is that those kind of men are plentiful but just would not want them and are busy with attractive young girls. Worse for the Delusionals is that average men don't want their past-it assses too; beyond using them for sex.

Kobicove:


I also heard of the China story where the stupid lady invited about 23 people on date she had with another guy

Omoh.........the story shock me i swr

Guy man life can be full of stress sometimes. You invite one four follows.
A date with a Bayelsa girl in Phc by Delta park. She entered car passenger front sit, another four opened the back sit. She reassured me when she noticed my look that they would drop at Alakahia UPTH gate. At UPTH gate, i packed for them to alight from the car. One in the middle stretched forward with a seductive eyes, told me they would like to follow their friend that they were lonely this weekend. She backed it up with a promise that they wouldn't shoot up my bill that they just wanted to have fun. I took them to karaoke at GRA. They were quite appealing anyway and entertaining. At the end of the day i only paid for first round of drink, gizzards and taxi to take them back. A guy who couldn't resist their singing talent requested to join my table and subsequently picked up balance bill.