jimmychang:
Read and understand,The first sentence is for Nigerian women the second sentence us for the men.If you no get sense no dey quote my mentions again abeg.Didn't you at least finish secondary school?

Which can daunces full nairaland.

Again, so men were wrongly groomed and so it is women to blame for the foolishness of thee upbringing of these men?

ChocolateAnon:


Yes they are bad there too but American women should be the last kind you date. Nigerian women are far better than American women(regardless of white/black).
Black American women are the most divorced, least married and have the highest rate of children out of wedlock than any other group.
How are they better than Nigerian women?

I agree with you normally. Bu the Nigerian women I've met here in the USA are either white washed or have taken on feminist behavior. I'm in my 20s and dating in the usa is horrible for Nigerian men. I met a beautiful women in nigeria that I would want pursue seriously but she is in nigeria and im in usa. I might have to come home for that cause you are right about american women.

Kobojunkie:
1. Stop spewing bullsheet! Even a 5-year-old these days knows love alone can't sustain a relationship. It is is full-time job of its own.

2. What 70% of men abroad? Also, I repeat, Cameroonians, Ghanaians, Benin, Senegalese, Chad, even Hausa men dey for that same UK married to Nigerian women, and we no dey hear even peep from them. Na only una dey go UK go make noise say na women do una, why? Na only una dey abroad?

3. Paul, who you attempted to quote there said instead that husbands and wives be willing to serve each other out of respect for Christ urged husbands to love their wives as wife respect their husbands. If you are a follower of Paul then my first question to you is are you at least serving your wife as Paul says you should?

You seem to want respect first before you show your woman love. You put your ego first and you think quoting from scripture will help you in what is foolishness? Please grow a brain this year.

I actually thought I was conversing with a matured mind, untill I read stop "spewing bullsheet!"

I won't bring my self so low to respond.

But they say experience is the best teacher.

Ghanians and Uganda's in diaspora complain more than Nigerians, it's an obvious fact.

Kobojunkie:
1. So the fault isn't with Nigerian women then but the fact that the western system does not allow Nigerian men the same freedoms dey enjoy in Nigeria?.
2. Essentially, these Nigerian men realizing themselves powerless against the western system and unwilling to accept blame for their refusal to adjust to the western way,turn around to blame Nigerian women for their woes? .

Yeah, in response to that. The ever hard working nigeria men, have decided to cut there losses leave them in nigeria after marriage ceremony. That is the new status quo. If they can't accept that, they are left to continue with there poor, miserable spinster life style, for the rest of there life. You are not exempted from this. If you don't like this. Then go make your money and stop living off men, in the name of relationship and marriage

Creativity22:
Yeah, in response to that. ....

Finally, we arrive at what I have been saying since my very first post which is that there is nothing wrong with Nigerian women. Instead, the mentality of the average Nigerian man, OP included, is where the major problem here lie. His tantrums, this attempt to shift blame on to the Nigerian women are a result of mental immaturity.

ogunara:

I agree with you normally. Bu the Nigerian women I've met here in the USA are either white washed or have taken on feminist behavior. I'm in my 20s and dating in the usa is horrible for Nigerian men. I met a beautiful women in nigeria that I would want pursue seriously but she is in nigeria and im in usa. I might have to come home for that cause you are right about american women.

Ohhhh. Okay I get you now. My bad bro. Yeah if they were born there, or they move to the USA they become just as bad. I thought you were comparing the ones who were in Nigeria they're while lives to the ones born and raised in America.

Good luck man. And be careful, many of these women just want that green card. Even Ghanaian women admit this on those street interview YouTube videos.

Ahmed0336:
Please don't generalize.

There are still good women out there.

He said 99%, he didn't generalise.

flokii:
I remember reading here sometime ago, how a man tricked his wife and kids back home only to return to his base abroad alone where he burnt all their travel papers and documents in the backyard of his house..
What is really happening?. why are the ladies behaving that way??
Same story same complains

Yes I read it. The truth is from people's experience their wives suddenly change when they arrive UK

ibkayee:

Lol

You are just upset that you cannot misbehave and get away with it. Your matrimonial misconduct and irresponsibility will not fly in the UK like it does in Nigeria.

I believe what you’re seeing is the UK legal system protecting women and children, maybe this is a shock to your system because in Nigeria it’s the complete opposite and they’re at the mercy of men. When you’re used to privilege, fairness will feel like oppression

The legal system isn’t perfect in the UK and there are some mischievous women out there gaming the system but for the most part, I doubt all these men would be a target if they were truly ‘innocent’.

These 99% (according to you) of Nigerian women in the UK cannot all be reporting these men for no reason at all.

so many things are wrong with you,a woman can murder someone in your front and you will call it self defense

Nigeriagood:
so many things are wrong with you,a woman can murder someone in your front and you will call it self defense

Ok

Thermodynamics:

I don't care, it's either I kill the bitch and escape to Nigeria, or I kill the bitch and kill myself.

After I don carry one hopeless fufu eating Nigerian girl from a poor family come UK she go come de form femininst on top my head, send me out of my house and still de collect my money join.

I go murder her and accept whatever the consequences is.

how do you people see relocation? It’s just like Americans relocating to Europe to start a new life as family. Since when did this so called relocation turned competition? So because you relocated ur family you want them to kill themselves for you? No! I don’t want that in my life. Truth be told, Nigeria men are terrible to their women. U all should rather marry from other continents or countries. I’m tired of hearing all this shit. Marrying a Nigerian man as a Nigerian is toxic, they don’t understand anything except money and greed. You all want to cheat and misbehave and still have your wife to take ur shit because we relocated? I won’t even let my kids marry a Nigerian, you all are greedy and disloyal.

Fruit4me:
how do you people see relocation? It’s just like Americans relocating to Europe to start a new life as family. Since when did this so called relocation turned competition? So because you relocated ur family you want them to kill themselves for you? No! I don’t want that in my life. Truth be told, Nigeria men are terrible to their women. U all should rather marry from other continents or countries. I’m tired of hearing all this shit. Marrying a Nigerian man as a Nigerian is toxic, they don’t understand anything except money and greed. You all want to cheat and misbehave and still have your wife to take ur shit because we relocated? I won’t even let my kids marry a Nigerian, you all are greedy and disloyal.

It's a man's world, dealt with!

OmoIjebuOde:
My wife is a Nurse and she's about to relocate to the UK.

I will join her later with the kids. Are you now advising me to remain in Nigeria because of UK government?

until u learn,we are not tired of reading story hear

otipoju:


With due respect you are asking some rather silly questions. So you don't know that in Nigeria, you call your Uncles " Bros" ?

Why do you want me to reveal details of family matters on a public forum.

Why do you think someone cannot be a full time housewife for 17 years when the husband works extremely hard to ensure that his families needs are met. That bros has never worked for anyone since 1997. He has been self employed quitely doing his logistics business.

Are you saying a woman that was receiving this benefits monthly cannot build two houses over the course of 17 years or what exactly is your point.

Please ask reasonable questions bro. You no be small pikin. You self don tey.

Anything that concerns women, NL ladies always showcase the reason why most of them don't have sense...

You geh time shaah...

jedisco:


If Nigerian womrn are the issue, you can marry an oyibo wife. She will lick your foot, serve and worship you.

I dont know why any Nigerian man much less black man would want a cavebeast as a housewife. They expire past the age of 25 and then start looking like one of those undead ghouls from Michael Jackson's thriller in their mid 30s.

Get yourself a real woman ya loser. A black one.

Fruit4me:
how do you people see relocation? It’s just like Americans relocating to Europe to start a new life as family. Since when did this so called relocation turned competition? So because you relocated ur family you want them to kill themselves for you? No! I don’t want that in my life. Truth be told, Nigeria men are terrible to their women. U all should rather marry from other continents or countries. I’m tired of hearing all this shit. Marrying a Nigerian man as a Nigerian is toxic, they don’t understand anything except money and greed. You all want to cheat and misbehave and still have your wife to take ur shit because we relocated? I won’t even let my kids marry a Nigerian, you all are greedy and disloyal.

Nigerian woman are by far one of the worst in the world, talking about being greedy, you Nigerian women only date for benefit, you always task men for money and if they don't give you, you get angry and start misbehaving, when you are married if you husband happens to loose his job a typical Nigerian woman will start disrespecting and treating their husband like trash. Nigerian women don't love unconditionally, y'all only love men for what they can provide so don't talk about greed.

I just saw one couple, I mean they looked like a couple and the woman was just walking with a stern face while her obviously embarrassed looking husband was following behind pushing a baby in the tram. I have seen this scenario played out so often here, its disgusting! Total role reversal. The husbands bring the kids to school, do shopping, even carry the wife's hand bags. Its OK and romantic if they are doing all these willingly but if under duress from their wives then its just too bad.
Dear men, don't say no one told u all...

rickpat:
most men abroad complain just because they don't have the freedom to cheat, physically and verbally abuse their wife and get away with it the way they do in Nigeria...

oga go and be responsible...

they have very bad women and they still have very good women..coming here to create a new account and start generalising makes you very weak and irresponsible..if your MARRIAGE failed doesn't mean everybody will fail like you..carry ya cross!..keep your baseless and generalized advise to yourself.

good luck to you buddy

If you are really a man, you eyes will open soonest.