purples25:
150k can disappear over house rent alone, and that's for a small house in a remote area.

She made the right choice.

Lol

Jovialjune1:



All these poverty mentality males sef

So because they come from families of poverty, means they should keep wallowing in poverty, they should not set standards for themselves and whoever they want to marry abi? A worthy woman for marriage is the one that loves poverty right?

Is it not men that are doing yahoo, kidnapping, anything evil to get rich? Who do am pass una? But when it comes to women saying what they want all of you will start foaming in the mouth as if we beat you, see how all of you above came out with guns blazing on what doesnt affect you, she said her preference, tell your sisters and daughters to embrace poverty no one cares.

Lol! Where is this rabid female dog coming from? I didn't beat you oo,so direct your frustration elsewhere.
Pathetic, compound fool.
It's your useless father and brothers that are poverty mentality males.

Dimaya:
In a controversial discussion, a young lady named Bamisaye says after getting married to her boyfriend, she won't get pregnant until he earns above 200K.

How practical is this in Nigeria considering the fact that most people today earn less than 100K?

Please watch and share your thoughts.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t66DkQl0j50

Let's help this sister by informing her husband. Thanks.

kaboninc:


Lol

Which one be 'lol' kwa? Is it not true?

I don’t see anything wrong with what she said. Forget about her preference, who really wants to bring children in this world to suffer? Money is important , extremely important. Men are normally the dominant providers..stability is a must.

olabrinks:
I don’t see anything wrong with what she said. Forget about her preference, who really wants to bring children in this world to suffer? Money is important , extremely important. Men are normally the dominant providers..stability is a must.

Of course you won't see anything wrong with her preference. Did you even watch the video?

She said she will get a civil service job paying 200k fresh out of polytechnic with her marketing diploma. And she won't get pregnant for her husband until he earns over 200k

eepeepook:
Lol. Cheap. Entry level is 250 - 400k monthly. The problem is she isn't attractive enough to command such from a man.

This is brutal!

Jovialjune1:
She's 💯 right, it's just common sense for a man to earn above 200k in this present Nigeria.

Madam, pray tell us how.
How can you guarantee every man in Nigeria of marrying age earns above 200K?

Kind madam, pray tell us how.

Jovialjune1:



All these poverty mentality males sef

So because they come from families of poverty, means they should keep wallowing in poverty, they should not set standards for themselves and whoever they want to marry abi? A worthy woman for marriage is the one that loves poverty right?

Is it not men that are doing yahoo, kidnapping, anything evil to get rich? Who do am pass una? But when it comes to women saying what they want all of you will start foaming in the mouth as if we beat you, see how all of you above came out with guns blazing on what doesnt affect you, she said her preference, tell your sisters and daughters to embrace poverty no one cares.

You can insult men all you like. But most men in Nigeria don't have a financial pathway that leads to 200k monthly.

Most men just don't. And if young women aren't ready to cooperate with young men to start families, I'm afraid there'll be a lot of unmarried Nigerians in the future

She is very right except that she said he instead of we.

The burden of making money should not be on one person when there are two adults in the home.

Even a stay at home should involve herself in some kind of business especially online so as to add value to the home no matter how little or she can just be a home internal auditor to save cost in running the home. It all adds up as income.

That is good. Why get pregnant on a low salary.

That's a ready excuse for the guy. Keep commiting fornication and when she asks for marriage you will tell her that your pay is not up to that.

Devil is a liar.

Really

purples25:
150k can disappear over house rent alone, and that's for a small house in a remote area.

She made the right choice.

How many Nigerian men earn over 200K monthly?

Dimaya:


How many Nigerian men earn over 200K monthly?

Direct answer: I don't know.

What I do know, however, is the cost of baby food. I know the cost of pampers. I know the things a baby needs.

If y'all are fine running from pillar to post to feed the baby, fine raising your baby on pap and water, if you want to feed your baby agbo when sick and you want constant quarrel based on how hard you're working to barely feed, continue.

Na same una go hear am. Since you want to earn 100k and have three babies on your neck.

purples25:


Direct answer: I don't know.

What I do know, however, is the cost of baby food. I know the cost of pampers. I know the things a baby needs.

If y'all are fine running from pillar to post to feed the baby, fine raising your baby on pap and water, if you want to feed your baby agbo when sick and you want constant quarrel based on how hard you're working to barely feed, continue.

Na same una go hear am. Since you want to earn 100k and have three babies on your neck.

It doesnt really cost that much to feed a baby. The most important fear is medical emergency.

kaboninc:


It doesnt really cost that much to feed a baby. The most important fear is medical emergency.

I feed a baby. It costs much if you want a healthy, well fed, good looking baby.

Men shouldn't decieve themselves. By the time a man sees his baby looking thin and 'just there' while his friends kids are looking plump and pretty, he will start to blame the mother. Forgetting that he is the one who insisted on feeding the baby on small pay.

Last last we both know where all these pretences will end. Side chick with a good job to produce and care for a fine plump baby. Or a second wife, for whom you guys will end up bringing out that same money you didn't want to spend before.

Instead of admitting their mistakes, men will start a second family with a woman and kids who will look good because he spends better on them. Why not gather that money now and spend on this first wife and family. So you won't start having greed for a better looking family when your baby is looking bad due to not being catered for properly...

Let me add. Shey na second hand cloth una wan buy for your children, this one that you're saying a baby is low cost? Is that the legacy you are planning for kids that haven't even been born, right?

No plans for baby cot, you plan for the mama to spread wrapper on the floor right? You won't buy flask for keeping baby food, or few baby toys? You won't buy pampers, you're planning that the mother should wear her hands out washing re-washable nappies and such?

You people are wicked o. That's the plan for your beloved mother and baby. You want them to suffer while you continue to earn 'let my people go' salary. You self no go enjoy that kind life.

Any way if you want to struggle like that, who am I to say no

purples25:


I feed a baby. It costs much if you want a healthy, well fed, good looking baby.

Men shouldn't decieve themselves. By the time a man sees his baby looking thin and 'just there' while his friends kids are looking plump and pretty, he will start to blame the mother. Forgetting that he is the one who insisted on feeding the baby on small pay.

Last last we both know where all these pretences will end. Side chick with a good job to produce and care for a fine plump baby. Or a second wife, for whom you guys will end up bringing out that same money you didn't want to spend before.

Instead of admitting their mistakes, men will start a second family with a woman and kids who will look good because he spends better on them. Why not gather that money now and spend on this first wife and family. So you won't start having greed for a better looking family when your baby is looking bad due to not being catered for properly...

I could show you my son. And I repeat, it doesn't cost much to feed a child and keep that child healthy and nourished.

purples25:
Let me add. Shey na second hand cloth una wan buy for your children, this one that you're saying a baby is low cost? Is that the legacy you are planning for kids that haven't even been born, right?

No plans for baby cot, you plan for the mama to spread wrapper on the floor right? You won't buy flask for keeping baby food, or few baby toys? You won't buy pampers, you're planning that the mother should wear her hands out washing re-washable nappies and such?

You people are wicked o. That's the plan for your beloved mother and baby. You want them to suffer while you continue to earn 'let my people go' salary. You self no go enjoy that kind life.

Any way if you want to struggle like that, who am I to say no

Less than 200k a month salary will provide basic and healthy needs for both mother and child.

kaboninc:


I could show you my son. And I repeat, it doesn't cost much to feed a child and keep that child healthy and nourished.

Sorry, where in Nigeria do you live?

Can I ask what brand of food you bought monthly in the early months and how many packs per month?

How much was the cost of delivery?

Immunization cost or were you on insurance (like me)?

Is the mother contributing to the welfare of the child?

Cost of registering for antenatal?

Cost of your baby's oil, cream, soap per month.

Just list monthly expenses and grade them, drop here.

Please I don't mean to be rude, hope you don't misunderstand me. I'm just curious, honestly.

purples25:
150k can disappear over house rent alone, and that's for a small house in a remote area.

She made the right choice.

It's 200K monthly. How much does the average Nigerian earn?

Dimaya:


It's 200K monthly. How much does the average Nigerian earn?

Okay, I know the average Nigerian earns little, but can you explain this to a baby born or unborn? Or the staff at a hospital before delivery, or won't she give birth in a hospital? How does the man want to by pass all the things the baby needs, unless he means to neglect that baby.

Toh, it is possible to do with less, but do you realize that having a baby on less means running from pillar to post looking for funds up and down? Well, there's no problem. They can do delivery at home, scrape money for antenatal and all other pregnancy complications. Buy two shawls and baby things at any trader's store in the market. Also feed baby pap when the baby is ready for food to reduce cost. Cloth nappies, and second hand clothes as baby is growing.

Shikena.

purples25:


Okay, I know the average Nigerian earns little, but can you explain this to a baby born or unborn? Or the staff at a hospital before delivery, or won't she give birth in a hospital? How does the man want to by pass all the things the baby needs, unless he means to neglect that baby.

Toh, it is possible to do with less, but do you realize that having a baby on less means running from pillar to post looking for funds up and down? Well, there's no problem. They can do delivery at home, scrape money for antenatal and all other pregnancy complications. Buy two shawls and baby things at any trader's store in the market. Also feed baby pap when the baby is ready for food to reduce cost. Cloth nappies, and second hand clothes as baby is growing.

Shikena.

breakfast served hot

Even 200k a week is too little this days. Lol

Dimaya:
In a controversial discussion, a young lady named Bamisaye says after getting married to her boyfriend, she won't get pregnant until he earns above 200K.

How practical is this in Nigeria considering the fact that most people today earn less than 100K?

Please watch and share your thoughts.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t66DkQl0j50

Why can't she also combine resources with her husband?

What if he starts earning 200k and then loses the job...?

May GOD give some women sense.

Why then did she get married at first when she knew her husband is earning below 200k. No be juju be that..

She's not realistic

Why get married to him in the first place??!... In today's economy, a couple without kids will still struggle on a combined income of 200k monthly!


...And for the umpteenth time, why on Earth will any man marry a woman without a job, earning capability, and financial skills??! Surely, every woman should be able to offer more than sex to a marriage!

Jovialjune1:



Daft.

How much are you earning?

Elmojiid:
You have no reason to get married to him if he earn less than 200,000, you're liability to him already

You are very correct.