biomi:
will not try it
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Floramie:
Not at all.

abidem4real:

No! She's the greatest mistake of my life. Marrying her has made my life a shadow of itself.😭😭😭😭

TrainPark:


Hell NO

Emeraldswt:


Yes, I will. He's the only one that cools my temper.. 18years and still counting.

Emeka71:
Hello babe; please can we talk?

TheMostComplex1:


Is she really divorced?

pongwa:
capital NO! Take this to the bank

olorundipe9090:


Never ooooooo




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lavylilly:
I don't know but it obvious she had a bad experience from the venom she spits in thread as this

lavylilly:
Hi, yes we can drop your email

ahnie:

He's never going to contact you,I have told him you re a male slut .

You want to be stupid abii,maybe you think I m amongst those ladies you n your useless lots intimidate on this forum just to shut them up.

You never know me....I will frustrate you till you hang your balls.

You re categorizing me in the same singlemum league like your useless mother abii,the earlier you steer clear from me on this forum,the better for you.

HIV contractor

finegirl233:

I'm your silent follower since i joined nairaland. Some comments are very annoying for sure but just let it slide. You are bigger than this ma

Didi2d:
I knew somethings but still went ahead, na me dey regret now

absoluteSuccess:


If she's been your sister or mother, would you have changed her during the windfall?

How long you think the wealth will last? What assurance do you have that the fine woman will not bring your downfall?

You get the woman destiny assigned to you. Like Yoruba would say, marriage is a place of education, a school that is.

If your wife is bad, make her good.
If she's good, make her better.
If she's better, make her the best.

Don't stop improving the women in your life. Whatever you do through them will come back in folds to you. Never mind their weaknesses.

mikkyjay:
The answer is no, I would have insisted on not marrying her, because I saw all the red flags, but eventually bowed to pressure now I'm suffering it alone.

Strafudeen:


Do they accept they have weaknesses?

Klass99:


I didn't o and my post wasn't meant as an attack, just a statement of fact from someone who doesn't like rigma-rollers and rigma-rolling around issues.

What he did is something I often encounter online and offline. It just made me think what is wrong with these people sef, how did they manage to pass exams in school? When they skirt around issues and don't answer questions directly.

The thing is not rocket science na. If you have it good say so and tell us why. If you have it bad say so and tell us why OR don't tell us anything at all. But what I don't want to hear is this philosophical dogmas about marriage it is exasperating.

Nairalander248:


Do I look like unmarried person to you?

UyaiIncomparabl:


Do you know what exactly is wrong with her?

Strafudeen:
things like what?

pappy4real:


I wish I knew, I've tried all I can to ask her and to salvage the situation but now I'm fed up. I just want out

TheCongo2:


And why would they say YEs if they don't mean it?

blabulu2000:


Most of dem are just a bunch of liars. They are saying yes " because their wives know their user name on this platform...I can bet you this opinion didn't represent a typical Naija husband. Most of them are regretting... because of their entitled mentality "Wives they have married....tueh "
No be me dey follow you suffer for your marriage....keep on suffering and pretending....till death do you part

Xpol:
lol you expect everyone in such situation to come on public forum like this and open their family affairs? Some women wey dey always chop correct beating from their husband go still dey tell their friends outside say my husband is lovely and caring like say na jazz the man dey use for them. Do you expect me to come on nairaland and be say my wife is these and that? Not every cloth we fit dey wash outside(openly).

Klass99:


I didn't o and my post wasn't meant as an attack, just a statement of fact from someone who doesn't like rigma-rollers and rigma-rolling around issues.

What he did is something I often encounter online and offline. It just made me think what is wrong with these people sef, how did they manage to pass exams in school? When they skirt around issues and don't answer questions directly.

The thing is not rocket science na. If you have it good say so and tell us why. If you have it bad say so and tell us why OR don't tell us anything at all. But what I don't want to hear is this philosophical dogmas about marriage it is exasperating.

one4GOD:
wont even marry at all, not because of my spouse but because of what I know now about myself and creation.