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Re: I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness by sonnie10: 5:55pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
Take an active role in any setting, it could be church, community, social club or volunteer somewhere. That will give opportunity to interact with people outside your immediate circle and build your confidence in leadership. Proactively look out for these opportunities and make them feel your presence. |
Re: I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness by Kingcalls: 5:55pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
Gay tendencies 2 Likes |
Re: I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness by Biola67: 5:56pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
Family problem |
Re: I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness by ednut1(m): 5:56pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
Future trans 🥲 1 Like |
Re: I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness by Biola67: 5:56pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
Go drag like 2 for trenches. You go reset |
Re: I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness by ObaaOfYorubaLan: 5:57pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
Effizybozz: Do you have a girlfriend? Hope it's not what I'm thinking that's making you shy
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Re: I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness by Farid24224(m): 5:58pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
Onucs: E shock you abi... Me too, me brain ain't braining!!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness by Flamemignon1(m): 6:00pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
madscientist88:This is so spot on but I don't think he's gay,just feminine. As someone who've travelled the world,I've seen gay men that bears the mannerisms and norms of masculinity infact no one knows they are gay until you ask,they are dominant, confident and masculine and I've seen straight men like him who are feminine.....at the end of the day,no one is a 100% masculine and 100% feminine 3 Likes |
Re: I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness by Adewale1603(m): 6:00pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
It's normal stuff to introverts. How old are you? With time, you will get over it. When you get more matured and experience, you will get all over these and others. As you're getting more mature, you'll begin to gain more confidence or boldness as time goes by, you wouldn't even see this as an issue again, you will be bothered and occupied on your future goals, ambitions and how to make money 2 Likes |
Re: I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness by Slynation(m): 6:01pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
Use am cash out...na una dey ball now, be like bobrisk, jayboogie and James brown...!! 1 Like |
Re: I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness by isaiahethan: 6:01pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
Effizybozz: Bobyrisky brother |
Re: I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness by checky619: 6:03pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
Effizybozz: Hit the Gym 3 months straight... Thank me later |
Re: I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness by todugo(m): 6:05pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
Dude must be suffering from low testosterone and an introvert at the same time. Bro, go do testosterone test to check how low it is. After words the doctor should place you on some testosterone therapy to bring it up to normal level. Being shy around your fellow man is NOT right. Don't listen to any one telling you to embrace it. Shit is not normal. This is how some people with this issue graduate from that to transgenders, all because of listening to people who said it was ok. 2 Likes |
Re: I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness by AskNgige2: 6:07pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
Leave guys and go Hustle.. Pple like u are deadly.. Using shy method to kill guys |
Re: I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness by Farid24224(m): 6:08pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
Namaster: Ah... Ahhhhh Be calming down na... |
Re: I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness by NkanuSon: 6:08pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
Sorry to ask but how does masturbation affect our self esteem?? occfx: |
Re: I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness by Danmisra(m): 6:11pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
If really you are an introvert you will hate crowd not shy away. Extrovert say you are shy ,you are not shy , you just like spending time alone that's it. I will advice you to read the book titled" the quiet " you will understand yourself more than ever and appreciate your uniqueness. The issue of friends start by getting closer to your family friends and those closer to your siblings. Introverts are like that everywhere. But then when you master yourself, you will become respected, productive, and responsible because by design your more creative and productive than most people. Just read books on introverts and social life and start mingling gradually. Goodluck 1 Like |
Re: I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness by Herbiodun09: 6:14pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
Effizybozz: Make i no talk |
Re: I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness by occfx: 6:16pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
NkanuSon: Messes up with your psychology. 1 Like |
Re: I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness by Obidense: 6:17pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
My nigga you need weed… smoke weed or eat edibles and thank me late. I wish you could listen to my advice |
Re: I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness by Effizybozz: 6:18pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
jeromestarks: You don’t know me, you haven’t even seen me and you say I irritate you?? Continue to be irritated my dear infant choke on it. Ozuor 2 Likes |
Re: I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness by Germi9: 6:18pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
how ol are you cos there are lots of kids here on NL |
Re: I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness by Oasis777: 6:18pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
Diddycsbsb:my guy tell am o |
Re: I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness by Englishisamust: 6:19pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
Danmisra: By which author?? is it susan cain?? |
Re: I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness by jeromestarks: 6:22pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
Effizybozz:You even sound like a gay. Nonsense! Calling a fellow guy "my dear". No wonder you're shy around guys. You're a woman in man's skin. Shame on you. Please avoid me. I'm not gay. Stupid something. god forbid gayism. 1 Like |
Re: I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness by VicM6: 6:24pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
mtcheew, why shall i shy, am i not a people. |
Re: I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness by NkanuSon: 6:24pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
Can u be a bit specific with examples occfx: |
Re: I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness by Effizybozz: 6:26pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
Adewale1603: Oh so soothing! Bless you bro I appreciate this words |
Re: I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness by hashtagged(m): 6:27pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
Effizybozz: Read your Bible it would give you all the boldness you ever need 1 Like |
Re: I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness by Nobody: 6:34pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
No doubt james brown and bobrisky is in you 1 Like |
Re: I’m Shy Around Guys, How Do I Overcome The Shyness by sgtponzihater1(m): 6:34pm On Jul 15, 2023 |
All will be well bro. Medically type anxiety self help on Google and follow through with the program freely available on platforms like YouTube. On your own take a mental track of the thoughts you have when you are around these people. Write those thoughts down. Write the exact opposite in a separate place, and start affirming the opposite, even if it's not your reality at the moment. Your words influence your thoughts and then influence your outlook about life. If you are a Christian then add Christian affirmation. Breathing techniques is very helpful, you can research diaphragmatic breathing, and do these just before facing stressful situations or instances that trigger these. The most powerful way I know for Christians is to feed on the word of God daily, even multiple times a day, that it becomes as essential as eating and cooking to you, you do not go a day without looking it. The bible will make you wise, bold, humble, respectable and strong. It's shapes your character and conversation. All the best my brother. PonziHater |
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