₦airaland Forum

emmylight4u:
...this is the part nobody told us. If you intend to japa, please build a relationship in Nigeria to a reasonable extent that will enable you get married and move your spouse over....some people will not like this my advice

Calitoscassius:
I have never experienced any of these, maybe co's i was born and bred in London E17.


Op, go to pubs, nighclubs, attend colleagues birthday paties, try wetherspoon pubs, yes it can be lonely in the UK sometimes for people who came to live here. Even the people who were born here experience so much loneliness that is why most drink alchohol daily or smokes something. Some work allday and night just to overcome loneliness, some have kids so as to overcome loneliness, Op if you want to have kids to overcome loneliness i will be happy to hook up with you. I am not looking for relationship but i am desparate to have a chilld or children.. i have met many nigerians doctors, psysiotherapists and nurses here in England they appear to be lonely too, even when i invite them to the pub for drinks they don't turn up., one IGBO man a doctor from Enugu i met in Tescos i gave him my number but everytime i call him he is talking about cooking soup or making garri or working i even wanted to introduce him to one of my white woman colleague from work but he couldn't even be bothered to turn up, he keep saying that he will bring his former girlfriend from nigeria, even his former nigerian girlfriend seems to have moved on, i was like guy women plenty here in our island here, why would you wanna bring a girlfriend from Enugu? He is always on watsaap with his Enugu friends, i said to him mate! Forget dem people and start blending in with people over here, start making new friends even in his work, start forking your doctor friends. Problem also is, he doesn't drink alcohol, more than half of Brits goes to the PUB, Pubs are part of British culture.



He didn't even understand the terms of his 2 years work visa, when he told me he might move to london, his visa is tied to his NHS work on our island he cannot just leave, he even said he might move to America from here, i was like yea! Right! How are you gonna do that with your 2 years UK work visa?

He tells me he went to church to look for other nigerians, (me i am not religious, i don't believe in God) i even organised white girls for him but he is afraid to fork them saying it is a sin . eventually i deleted his number.


One other nigerian woman i know was so lonely one day i visited her in her room, without notice she just took her cloths off and said Kings would you like to fork me? i was like come on! She has already told her landlord and flat mates that i am her cousin, i cannot fork her now.

There are so many women or men to choose from over here, if you want to be noticed you must put yourself out and be ready for lots of relationships disappointments. No body dey look anybody face, people will not come in your room or house to make friends with you, you have to invite them to come.

Op, i mean it, you and I can hook up and make babies. Just email me, Good luck

ednut1:
The average Nigerian babes abroad with good job feels like a queen or a goddess. Does not give good or upcoming men a chance. The well to do guys know they are in demand and will keep using and dumping them. Later they will be crying

Badgers14:
Don't be fooled by that.. most Germans speak and understand English aber as a matter of national pride.. they won't speak English.. you will be surprised if you are Fluent in German, on a very good day the same folks you thought don't speak English will be conversing with you in English and switching back amd forth depending on the conversation/topic

Calitoscassius:
I have never experienced any of these, maybe co's i was born and bred in London E17.


Op, go to pubs, nighclubs, attend colleagues birthday paties, try wetherspoon pubs, yes it can be lonely in the UK sometimes for people who came to live here. Even the people who were born here experience so much loneliness that is why most drink alchohol daily or smokes something. Some work allday and night just to overcome loneliness, some have kids so as to overcome loneliness, Op if you want to have kids to overcome loneliness i will be happy to hook up with you. I am not looking for relationship but i am desparate to have a chilld or children.. i have met many nigerians doctors, psysiotherapists and nurses here in England they appear to be lonely too, even when i invite them to the pub for drinks they don't turn up., one IGBO man a doctor from Enugu i met in Tescos i gave him my number but everytime i call him he is talking about cooking soup or making garri or working i even wanted to introduce him to one of my white woman colleague from work but he couldn't even be bothered to turn up, he keep saying that he will bring his former girlfriend from nigeria, even his former nigerian girlfriend seems to have moved on, i was like guy women plenty here in our island here, why would you wanna bring a girlfriend from Enugu? He is always on watsaap with his Enugu friends, i said to him mate! Forget dem people and start blending in with people over here, start making new friends even in his work, start forking your doctor friends. Problem also is, he doesn't drink alcohol, more than half of Brits goes to the PUB, Pubs are part of British culture.



He didn't even understand the terms of his 2 years work visa, when he told me he might move to london, his visa is tied to his NHS work on our island he cannot just leave, he even said he might move to America from here, i was like yea! Right! How are you gonna do that with your 2 years UK work visa?

He tells me he went to church to look for other nigerians, (me i am not religious, i don't believe in God) i even organised white girls for him but he is afraid to fork them saying it is a sin . eventually i deleted his number.


One other nigerian woman i know was so lonely one day i visited her in her room, without notice she just took her cloths off and said Kings would you like to fork me? i was like come on! She has already told her landlord and flat mates that i am her cousin, i cannot fork her now.

There are so many women or men to choose from over here, if you want to be noticed you must put yourself out and be ready for lots of relationships disappointments. No body dey look anybody face, people will not come in your room or house to make friends with you, you have to invite them to come.

Op, i mean it, you and I can hook up and make babies. Just email me, Good luck

obaidan:
Sadly they still tell average blavk guys, you are not my type....person wey no be anybody type dey brag about having a type

Maria96:
Hmmm
https://www.instagram.com/p/Cu1M-PngolX/?igshid=Y2I2MzMwZWM3ZA==

Mryacks:
I dey tell you.....life ehn

Fatbam005:
After all said and done, everyone on earth is a sojourner and one day death must come whether in UK or India, Lagos or Somalia. Let's us fear God and keep his commandments

NinjaMetahuman:
The rolling stones.

CSTRR:
I know two female PhD candidates in America.

Top of their game academically, but aging fast with no hope of partner.

One of them dey WhatsApp me per hour due to loneliness.

Rahkman:
how is my comment misogynistic?? Black women Nd Asian men re the least desired group in the dating game ,its on Google I didn't manufacture it..you can check it online

EconFinance:
Wow wow

merrymike47:
Do you have a sister? I like you already.

hammerFC:
BLACK WOMEN ARE NOT THE LEAST DESIRED, ACTUALLY THEY ARE THE MOST INTIMEDATING TO OTHER RACES.


SHE IS THE MOST DESIRED AND CURVACEOUS WOMAN ON THE PLANET.


DONT TAKE MY WORD FOR IT, JUST GO TO GOOGLE AND TYPE CURVACEOUS, GOOGLE IMAGES WILL JUST SHOW YOU BLACK WOMEN.


QUEEN OF BOOTY, IF U DONT LIKE THEM, U MUST BE GAY.


NO WHITE WOMAN OR OTHER RACE, CAN KEEP ME FROM GOING BACK TO THE AFRICAN QUEEN.


THEY GET ME HORNNY EVERYTIME. CC: COCOCANDY

luminouz:
Let me take them off your hands, bro!!!

You don't need to carry the stress alone.

elkon:
Eh yah so sorry about that. Gimme your digits let me become your social media friend.

IbrahimSkiba:
Was the CAPITAL LETTERS necessary

Almiron:
You can’t eat your cake and have it. Make she Dey enjoy her loneliness.

Omoawoke:
Loneliness will kill all Nigerian girls in Canada , Uk and US

Insha allah

I remember when I first got to UK, no Nigerian girl looked at my face because I was a student. They didn’t give a shittt about me. The female friends I had weren’t Nigerians, not a single one. They were chasing guys already settled and those ones using them to play wayo

I moved to the US and same thing happened, when I finally finished school and became settled, they came like flies everywhere.

Girls should learn one thing, that single guy that you see still trying to get life settled, working hard to make progress will eventually become successful.
The guys in their 40s that you are clinging to went through same phase. Unfortunately many of them aren’t available anymore. They have been taken.
If you want to make it work, find a responsible guy that truly care about you and work together with him to make progress. Work together as a family, not every time you will meet ready made products

shielaAhmed:
You can spend half the time used in writing this epistle in booking a flight back to MMIA












Nonsense 😠

Omoawoke:
Loneliness will kill all Nigerian girls in Canada , Uk and US

Insha allah

I remember when I first got to UK, no Nigerian girl looked at my face because I was a student. They didn’t give a shittt about me. The female friends I had weren’t Nigerians, not a single one. They were chasing guys already settled and those ones using them to play wayo

I moved to the US and same thing happened, when I finally finished school and became settled, they came like flies everywhere.

Girls should learn one thing, that single guy that you see still trying to get life settled, working hard to make progress will eventually become successful.
The guys in their 40s that you are clinging to went through same phase. Unfortunately many of them aren’t available anymore. They have been taken.
If you want to make it work, find a responsible guy that truly care about you and work together with him to make progress. Work together as a family, not every time you will meet ready made products

ovie8200:
Please learn to know to make friends. A place like England shouldn't be easy to make friends because the country is very diverse and also lot of Nigerians and Africans lives there.

CSTRR:
Na my two wives you wan take.?

Polygamy is legal in my State.