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Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by BabaIbo: 7:29pm On Jul 20, 2023
jesmond3945:
are you from south west?

I see what you're trying to do there... cheesy grin😂🤣
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Almiron: 7:30pm On Jul 20, 2023
E be like say I don watch this movie
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by BALLOSKI: 7:30pm On Jul 20, 2023
ConfusePoint:
Ranting. Ranting. Ranting.

I have decided to rant out my predicaments on this forum today.

What is the way out of poverty for me?

One inlaw is even living with us, making it 8 in number, all in one room.

This thing don come big pass me.

I know most of you here would blame me for impregnating a woman to give birth to that number of children but then, life is life. It happens like that sometimes.

They say a poor man's prayer is "e go better" but instead of things to get better in Nigeria, everyday things get worse.

Truth is, except I drive myself out of this mess to a better life for me and my children, this poverty that is so stricken will likely be extended to my children, which I really don't want.

No two ways about it except ...

But like a car without tyres, can it move even if it has fuel? Definitely no.

For 4 days now, I sleep outside in an abandoned car because of financial war at home. I can't go back home and I even feel like never to go back there but should I abandon them like that and run away? To where?

When I went to the market the other day with 5k to buy food items for the house, I was crying and talking to myself on my way back because I came back with almost nothing.

Nigeria have succeed to plug life out of poor Nigerians. The poor cannot breathe again. Let's die and go.

Advice: never give birth when you are not financially strong. Unfortunately, I've learned my lesson the hard way.

Life happens.

How do I help this family better than I am trying?

Wishing you the best in all you do.

I think I dedicate a verse in Joeboy's "sip my Alcohol" to you: so many trouble, so many problem. I feel like to run away, but na who go solve them.

E no easy...

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Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Nobody: 7:30pm On Jul 20, 2023
Quebec91:
Everything you saying, the guy already pointed them out in his post already, he said, "life is life"

So the million dollar question is why is he telling us and what does he want us to do?

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Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Bowwow11(m): 7:31pm On Jul 20, 2023
ConfusePoint:
Ranting. Ranting. Ranting.

I have decided to rant out my predicaments on this forum today.

What is the way out of poverty for me?

One inlaw is even living with us, making it 8 in number, all in one room.

This thing don come big pass me.

I know most of you here would blame me for impregnating a woman to give birth to that number of children but then, life is life. It happens like that sometimes.

They say a poor man's prayer is "e go better" but instead of things to get better in Nigeria, everyday things get worse.

Truth is, except I drive myself out of this mess to a better life for me and my children, this poverty that is so stricken will likely be extended to my children, which I really don't want.

No two ways about it except ...

But like a car without tyres, can it move even if it has fuel? Definitely no.

For 4 days now, I sleep outside in an abandoned car because of financial war at home. I can't go back home and I even feel like never to go back there but should I abandon them like that and run away? To where?

When I went to the market the other day with 5k to buy food items for the house, I was crying and talking to myself on my way back because I came back with almost nothing.

Nigeria have succeed to plug life out of poor Nigerians. The poor cannot breathe again. Let's die and go.

Advice: never give birth when you are not financially strong. Unfortunately, I've learned my lesson the hard way.

Life happens.

How do I help this family better than I am trying?

Wishing you the best in all you do.
you need beating you are part of those causing overpopulation in this country there for making unemployment a major problem to Nigeria government

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Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Dyfynezz12(m): 7:31pm On Jul 20, 2023
Funny enough this man wey dey rant so fit still born another one to complete am half a dozen.

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Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by TheEndless: 7:31pm On Jul 20, 2023
ConfusePoint:
Ranting. Ranting. Ranting.

I have decided to rant out my predicaments on this forum today.

What is the way out of poverty for me?

One inlaw is even living with us, making it 8 in number, all in one room.

This thing don come big pass me.

I know most of you here would blame me for impregnating a woman to give birth to that number of children but then, life is life. It happens like that sometimes.

They say a poor man's prayer is "e go better" but instead of things to get better in Nigeria, everyday things get worse.

Truth is, except I drive myself out of this mess to a better life for me and my children, this poverty that is so stricken will likely be extended to my children, which I really don't want.

No two ways about it except ...

But like a car without tyres, can it move even if it has fuel? Definitely no.

For 4 days now, I sleep outside in an abandoned car because of financial war at home. I can't go back home and I even feel like never to go back there but should I abandon them like that and run away? To where?

When I went to the market the other day with 5k to buy food items for the house, I was crying and talking to myself on my way back because I came back with almost nothing.

Nigeria have succeed to plug life out of poor Nigerians. The poor cannot breathe again. Let's die and go.

Advice: never give birth when you are not financially strong. Unfortunately, I've learned my lesson the hard way.

Life happens.

How do I help this family better than I am trying?

Wishing you the best in all you do.
What is your name? 🙄
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by fetrillion(m): 7:31pm On Jul 20, 2023
ConfusePoint:
Ranting. Ranting. Ranting.

I have decided to rant out my predicaments on this forum today.

What is the way out of poverty for me?

One inlaw is even living with us, making it 8 in number, all in one room.

This thing don come big pass me.

I know most of you here would blame me for impregnating a woman to give birth to that number of children but then, life is life. It happens like that sometimes.

They say a poor man's prayer is "e go better" but instead of things to get better in Nigeria, everyday things get worse.

Truth is, except I drive myself out of this mess to a better life for me and my children, this poverty that is so stricken will likely be extended to my children, which I really don't want.

No two ways about it except ...

But like a car without tyres, can it move even if it has fuel? Definitely no.

For 4 days now, I sleep outside in an abandoned car because of financial war at home. I can't go back home and I even feel like never to go back there but should I abandon them like that and run away? To where?

When I went to the market the other day with 5k to buy food items for the house, I was crying and talking to myself on my way back because I came back with almost nothing.

Nigeria have succeed to plug life out of poor Nigerians. The poor cannot breathe again. Let's die and go.

Advice: never give birth when you are not financially strong. Unfortunately, I've learned my lesson the hard way.

Life happens.

How do I help this family better than I am trying?

Wishing you the best in all you do.
You are one of the problem of Nigeria.
5 children Oga!
Haaa!

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Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by TheBillyonaire: 7:32pm On Jul 20, 2023
Relocate to a village and learn farming. Stop complaining.

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Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Bashnigga(m): 7:32pm On Jul 20, 2023
Op are any of Ur kids twins...
If NO, then u no try at all 😞

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Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Quebec91(m): 7:33pm On Jul 20, 2023
That i wonder as well, guess hes just lamenting

We all feeling Tinubu's heat generally but differently from household to household cheesy
Rayban25:


So the million dollar question is why is he telling us and what does he want us to do?

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Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by pannyman(m): 7:34pm On Jul 20, 2023
I think the OP just made up this scenario to stimulate discussion. It's fictional.

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Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Benjaniblinks(m): 7:34pm On Jul 20, 2023
God will punish you for bringing children you can't take care off I sware angry
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by ednut1(m): 7:34pm On Jul 20, 2023
You and your wife are mad

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Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by bluefilm: 7:34pm On Jul 20, 2023
ConfusePoint:
Ranting. Ranting. Ranting.

I have decided to rant out my predicaments on this forum today.

What is the way out of poverty for me?

One inlaw is even living with us, making it 8 in number, all in one room.

This thing don come big pass me.

I know most of you here would blame me for impregnating a woman to give birth to that number of children but then, life is life. It happens like that sometimes.

They say a poor man's prayer is "e go better" but instead of things to get better in Nigeria, everyday things get worse.

Truth is, except I drive myself out of this mess to a better life for me and my children, this poverty that is so stricken will likely be extended to my children, which I really don't want.

No two ways about it except ...

But like a car without tyres, can it move even if it has fuel? Definitely no.

For 4 days now, I sleep outside in an abandoned car because of financial war at home. I can't go back home and I even feel like never to go back there but should I abandon them like that and run away? To where?

When I went to the market the other day with 5k to buy food items for the house, I was crying and talking to myself on my way back because I came back with almost nothing.

Nigeria have succeed to plug life out of poor Nigerians. The poor cannot breathe again. Let's die and go.

Advice: never give birth when you are not financially strong. Unfortunately, I've learned my lesson the hard way.

Life happens.

How do I help this family better than I am trying?

Wishing you the best in all you do.

Ronu.
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by toprealman: 7:34pm On Jul 20, 2023
The rate at which Tinubu’s apologists are creating new monikers is alarming. This is barely 2 months ooo.

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Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Guynexttdoor: 7:35pm On Jul 20, 2023
Maybe the one room you are talking about is not the one room them dey build now for port Harcourt.
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by muykem: 7:35pm On Jul 20, 2023
You creat your problem by yourself. My GMD has only three children as billionaire, you have 5 in your poverty.

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Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by MichaelSokoto(m): 7:35pm On Jul 20, 2023
find any which way to finance a morning & nite akara-frying bizness for ur wife first, then I can advice u further from there...

NB: u can get that free finance money from one or two of those online loan sharks them if u can't get from anyone else!

cool

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Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Meerahbel: 7:35pm On Jul 20, 2023
Awalokan

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Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by SMARTMOTORS(m): 7:35pm On Jul 20, 2023
Noo! Pls don't stop! Continue dey lay Egg na, shebi na 30pieces dey make up one crate??.....una go dey born born pikin like say una be fowl! Nonsense!

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Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by omababe(f): 7:36pm On Jul 20, 2023
ConfusePoint:
Ranting. Ranting. Ranting.

I have decided to rant out my predicaments on this forum today.

What is the way out of poverty for me?

One inlaw is even living with us, making it 8 in number, all in one room.

This thing don come big pass me.

I know most of you here would blame me for impregnating a woman to give birth to that number of children but then, life is life. It happens like that sometimes.

They say a poor man's prayer is "e go better" but instead of things to get better in Nigeria, everyday things get worse.

Truth is, except I drive myself out of this mess to a better life for me and my children, this poverty that is so stricken will likely be extended to my children, which I really don't want.

No two ways about it except ...

But like a car without tyres, can it move even if it has fuel? Definitely no.

For 4 days now, I sleep outside in an abandoned car because of financial war at home. I can't go back home and I even feel like never to go back there but should I abandon them like that and run away? To where?

When I went to the market the other day with 5k to buy food items for the house, I was crying and talking to myself on my way back because I came back with almost nothing.

Nigeria have succeed to plug life out of poor Nigerians. The poor cannot breathe again. Let's die and go.

Advice: never give birth when you are not financially strong. Unfortunately, I've learned my lesson the hard way.

Life happens.

How do I help this family better than I am trying?

Wishing you the best in all you do.
I understand your predicament OP. It really can be frustrating when you're in this kind of situation.
You took the best step by speaking up though. The way forward for you, right now would be to find a solution to your problem.
I'm a student and I earn passively by publishing on Amazon.
If you're interested, you can start up and begin earning too. At least you'll be earning in dollars and that would remove a whole lot of financial strain off you. If you're interested, you can send a dm. It's well with you and your family ❤️💕.

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Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Nobody: 7:36pm On Jul 20, 2023
ConfusePoint:


A driver for a farm.

If you drive Keke Napep on hire purchase, you will make nothing less than 70k in a month.

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Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Stevosty: 7:36pm On Jul 20, 2023
True definitely of quagmire, I guess you are among the team children bring good fortunes, oga just share the children with your relatives who are well to do, keep just one of them, tie your preek and double your hustle.

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Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Akalia(m): 7:36pm On Jul 20, 2023
Why are poor people reproductively active in Nigeria?

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Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by futurehope81(m): 7:37pm On Jul 20, 2023
You are not serious with your life. Infact you are very wicked for bringing dis does children into the world to suffer

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Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Inyaky(f): 7:37pm On Jul 20, 2023
Your wife toto get honey abi, that 40k is too small, the only thing that will help you is to get a land and farm corn, ground nut, beans or any other food crops that will save you from buying food later.

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Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by flokii: 7:37pm On Jul 20, 2023
Make I no abuse the OP.. how on earth will you have 5 kids with such income? Haven't you heard of family planning??
It's carelessness on your part, whether you accept it or not.. Some of you think because you have sex easily means you're better than the rest which is totally false.

Did you know at a time in China, it was 1 child to a household?.. like you can't have more than one kid because they wanted to reduce poverty.

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Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by abobote: 7:37pm On Jul 20, 2023
You can open business for your wife with 20k, she can start vegetables, buying from any bush market around. Or she can start fries, yam, plantain and patato or akra and pap.

Your own no too bad, as you no get money, mek you use children de consol yourself

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Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by motionarena: 7:39pm On Jul 20, 2023
ConfusePoint:
Ranting. Ranting. Ranting.

I have decided to rant out my predicaments on this forum today.

What is the way out of poverty for me?

One inlaw is even living with us, making it 8 in number, all in one room.

This thing don come big pass me.

I know most of you here would blame me for impregnating a woman to give birth to that number of children but then, life is life. It happens like that sometimes.

They say a poor man's prayer is "e go better" but instead of things to get better in Nigeria, everyday things get worse.

Truth is, except I drive myself out of this mess to a better life for me and my children, this poverty that is so stricken will likely be extended to my children, which I really don't want.

No two ways about it except ...

But like a car without tyres, can it move even if it has fuel? Definitely no.

For 4 days now, I sleep outside in an abandoned car because of financial war at home. I can't go back home and I even feel like never to go back there but should I abandon them like that and run away? To where?

When I went to the market the other day with 5k to buy food items for the house, I was crying and talking to myself on my way back because I came back with almost nothing.

Nigeria have succeed to plug life out of poor Nigerians. The poor cannot breathe again. Let's die and go.

Advice: never give birth when you are not financially strong. Unfortunately, I've learned my lesson the hard way.

Life happens.

How do I help this family better than I am trying?

Wishing you the best in all you do.

You will have to relocate your family to d UK for a better life
Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by vickydevoka(m): 7:39pm On Jul 20, 2023
ConfusePoint:
Ranting. Ranting. Ranting.

I have decided to rant out my predicaments on this forum today.

What is the way out of poverty for me?

One inlaw is even living with us, making it 8 in number, all in one room.

This thing don come big pass me.

I know most of you here would blame me for impregnating a woman to give birth to that number of children but then, life is life. It happens like that sometimes.

They say a poor man's prayer is "e go better" but instead of things to get better in Nigeria, everyday things get worse.

Truth is, except I drive myself out of this mess to a better life for me and my children, this poverty that is so stricken will likely be extended to my children, which I really don't want.

No two ways about it except ...

But like a car without tyres, can it move even if it has fuel? Definitely no.

For 4 days now, I sleep outside in an abandoned car because of financial war at home. I can't go back home and I even feel like never to go back there but should I abandon them like that and run away? To where?

When I went to the market the other day with 5k to buy food items for the house, I was crying and talking to myself on my way back because I came back with almost nothing.

Nigeria have succeed to plug life out of poor Nigerians. The poor cannot breathe again. Let's die and go.

Advice: never give birth when you are not financially strong. Unfortunately, I've learned my lesson the hard way.

Life happens.

How do I help this family better than I am trying?

Wishing you the best in all you do.
Fake account, fake story

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Re: 38 Years Old, 40k Salary, 5 Children Living In One Room by Absolutebeau: 7:39pm On Jul 20, 2023
What a way to reason! Na wa o. So while saving to buy a bag of rice or beans, they should be feeding on air?

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