I have a female bestie!!!
We’ve known each other for well over 15 years now, I don’t sexualise her, I’ve never ever done that, that been said, no woman would give me an ultimatum!!! My friend has done for me, and has been there for me countless times!!! I can’t sever that coz you’re uncomfortable!!!
Moreover, she’s not even in the country anymore.. so what’s the fuss??

casualobserver:


What is there to ask you need to walk away. The girl has made it clear you are not her priority.

As simple as ABC

The way forward??! That's quite simple na!

Learn to trust that she is having a strictly platonic relationship with a clearly heterosexually active opposite sex, or get the fvck out!

Every real man with even half a brain knows the better option of the two above.

The boy na madman.

Most people no get problem for this life

Amotolongbo:
She can go on to marry the bestie.

It still baffles me how a fully grown man doesn’t understand what to do in this kind of situation. A man should see himself as the priority in whoever he is dating. If their is another man standing ahead of him in a woman’s life, the best is to move on

Such a simple matter... Some guys just like stressing their mental health.

MALIGNANTHost:
Good morning NLers, This is a new relationship less than six months and a long-distance one.

The guy confronted his girlfriend whether she's having a male bestie and the girl acknowledged.

The girl said that the bestie is even the one making her dreadlocks.

After the chat, the girlfriend made it clear to his boyfriend that she would rather break up the relationship than for her to leave the male bestie as her bestie has done for her what no guy including the current boyfriend can do.

What's the way forward please

You are a Male I guess.

The male bestie is her real relationship

Omo na the bestie sabi hit am

MALIGNANTHost:
Good morning NLers, This is a new relationship less than six months and a long-distance one.

The guy confronted his girlfriend whether she's having a male bestie and the girl acknowledged.

The girl said that the bestie is even the one making her dreadlocks.

After the chat, the girlfriend made it clear to his boyfriend that she would rather break up the relationship than for her to leave the male bestie as her bestie has done for her what no guy including the current boyfriend can do.

What's the way forward please

What fúcking way forward? The bestie is the real boyfriend and they are banging, she's with your friend for his money, shebi na long distance

Senior mugu

Mtcheeeew!...rubbishNESS redefined
If I'm in a serious relationship with you and I ain't your bestie, ogun kee the relationship!

Rexie96:
Lol, get that bicth pregnant and leave her and her bestie to carry the baby expenses

Na Fvck I dey Fvck that kind babe...with full protection o....

Amotolongbo:
She can go on to marry the bestie.

It still baffles me how a fully grown man doesn’t understand what to do in this kind of situation. A man should see himself as the priority in whoever he is dating. If their is another man standing ahead of him in a woman’s life, the best is to move on

you're correct baba naso I take dey jonz before I was served proper breakfast💯

bestpunterever:
Na Fvck I dey Fvck that kind babe...with full protection o....

MALIGNANTHost:
Good morning NLers, This is a new relationship less than six months and a long-distance one.

The guy confronted his girlfriend whether she's having a male bestie and the girl acknowledged.

The girl said that the bestie is even the one making her dreadlocks.

After the chat, the girlfriend made it clear to his boyfriend that she would rather break up the relationship than for her to leave the male bestie as her bestie has done for her what no guy including the current boyfriend can do.

What's the way forward please

The boyfriend should simply let the girl go and continue with her bestie... Goat and Yam can not stay together in one room. One must be eaten..

She will always want to leave the vicinity of her boyfriend to go and answer her Bestie's call so why does the boyfriend want to add himself to that equation?.

Amotolongbo:
She can go on to marry the bestie.

It still baffles me how a fully grown man doesn’t understand what to do in this kind of situation. A man should see himself as the priority in whoever he is dating. If their is another man standing ahead of him in a woman’s life, the best is to move on

he is obviously dating a girl who is less than 25years. Many girls less than 25 reason that way. Some over 25 still do but they are fewer. Most have wisened up that men don’t tolerate it.

Besties nah coded fvckmate dem be, for college dat year besties dey nack agbamda steady

Rexie96:
Lol, get that bicth pregnant and leave her and her bestie to carry the baby expenses

Dey play.
Any pregnancy at this point will most likely belong to the bestie. For now both are careful to avoid pregnancy. If the distance BF just touch the girl once, the girl and BF will begin unprotected marathon knacking to ensure she gets pregnant to trap the guy.

Girl is using bestie's wife/marriage to fool the distance BF just like the bestie is using the distance boyfriend to fool his wife.
The girl is far more attached to bestie. sexually and otherwise,

Nor be today we know the game.

Pseudo Designation Called Bestie

He's shagging her. Her bf or gbewudani- please-hold-my clothe bf has been fooled and played. If he goes in on them, he'll catch them pants down.

I just wonder why the young people of this perverse generation feel they are wiser than their fellow mortals?

DEM DEY FVCK STEADY

Ebubu2:
he is obviously dating a girl who is less than 25years. Many girls less than 25 reason that way. Some over 25 still do but they are fewer. Most have wisened up that men don’t tolerate it.

Olosho phase girl. Her eyes go clear later.

That 20 to 25 age na something else these days.

guy ! i can relate to this, your girl is in Egypt i guess cause i once had same experience and i caught my ex fucking the married male hairdresser making her dreadlock for her , never allow your woman visit a male hairdresser cause most of them are fucking most of their clients, my EX was even the one who invited the guy to her house and she forgot i have her Facebook login details so my mind just told me to log in and i discover their chat that night cause she went offline immediately the guy arrived her apartment... she started begging me to forgive 🙏 her next morning when i told her about my discovery of the chat and she denied it that the guy only came to visit, according to the whole chat is not their first meeting, a visit that make her go offline which stop me from reaching her all night because she thought am a fool , from that day the feelings i have for her just break into pieces... funniest part she still keep in touch with that guy after all my warning ⚠ that if i find something of such again that it would be final between us... las las i finally walk away from that useless girl that refuse to stop contacting her married male hairdresser....

Amotolongbo:
She can go on to marry the bestie.

It still baffles me how a fully grown man doesn’t understand what to do in this kind of situation. A man should see himself as the priority in whoever he is dating. If their is another man standing ahead of him in a woman’s life, the best is to move on

As simple as ABC

MALIGNANTHost:
Good morning NLers, This is a new relationship less than six months and a long-distance one.

The guy confronted his girlfriend whether she's having a male bestie and the girl acknowledged.

The girl said that the bestie is even the one making her dreadlocks.

After the chat, the girlfriend made it clear to his boyfriend that she would rather break up the relationship than for her to leave the male bestie as her bestie has done for her what no guy including the current boyfriend can do.

What's the way forward please

Cut the crap! Bestie kó, breastie ní! The babe is just another regular call girl!
Just Blip, pay and go!..The most foolish pastime in Nigeria today is to take a regular babe seriously

skj1377:
The guy should stop the long distance relationship. Look for a lady near you . Long distance relationship is waste of resources and emotions

Not my own long distant relationship abeg. Stop speaking for everyone

Abegii......

Bestie my foot.... What exactly are they bestie-ing that u can't bestify?

AreaFada2:

Olosho phase girl. Her eyes go clear later.

That 20 to 25 age na something else these days.

to get a sensible girl that’s less than 25years hard pass palm kernel. It’s as if it’s only the virgins among them are sensible. Once she’s non virgin and less than 25 na so so carry all the food put together dey chop at once in name of bf, bestie, coursie, namie (namesake), dey föck all of them.

And they have the guts to blame men for sleeping around in marriage when they’re at peak and have money forgetting they lived their own peak sleeping around too at less than 25years when body was fresh and peak. Yet they insult men haven done their own, they claim this one is marriage and is different. Aunty sleep abeg, virginity is as sacred as marriage so if u didnt give me that dnt question my fidelity in marriage. And if u dare cheat back na ur papa house u will return while I remarry


In all I’m open to dating above 25 years who has taken time to drop her baggages such as no bestie, selfish attitude, stubbornness, and situationships with ex.

Barbertoonde:
guy ! i can relate to this, your girl is in Egypt i guess cause i once had same experience and i caught my ex fucking the married male hairdresser making her dreadlock for her , never allow your woman visit a male hairdresser cause most of them are fucking most of their clients, my EX was even the one who invited the guy to her house and she forgot i have her Facebook login details so my mind just told me to log in and i discover their chat that night cause she went offline immediately the guy arrived her apartment... she started begging me to forgive 🙏 her next morning when i told her about my discovery of the chat and she denied it that the guy only came to visit, according to the whole chat is not their first meeting, a visit that make her go offline which stop me from reaching her all night because she thought am a fool , from that day the feelings i have for her just break into pieces... funniest part she still keep in touch with that guy after all my warning ⚠ that if i find something of such again that it would be final between us... las las i finally walk away from that useless girl that refuse to stop contacting her married male hairdresser....

Has she finally married or what’s up with her since u last saw her or heard from her?

MALIGNANTHost:

How is the current boyfriend wrong?.
Is the boyfriend being unnecessarily jealous?
Is the current boyfriend having dirty mind as she said?

Unnecessarily jealous, controlling, filthy minded and pathetically insecure

Am in one right now that's the way am seeing it too but I just started

skj1377:
The guy should stop the long distance relationship. Look for a lady near you . Long distance relationship is waste of resources and emotions