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Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by BoboNogoDie: 7:08am On Jul 30, 2023

DonroxyII:
You are a Fanatic Coward ... Upon Everything Everyone has Written, you only picked a Lady to be running your epistle upon ....

Common Sense, Virtue & Modesty are all Modules of Religion....

What Do You Think Religion is all About or God's Intent for Religion

There are alot of Mothers out there who are Happy with Their Daughters No Matter What, Her Daughter Won't Be the worst Nature Will Churn Out unto the World Neither The Best..

Kindly Desist from Running Your Depressions On Fellow Human Being ....

God, Una No Understand...
Religion, Una No Understand...
Life, Una No Understand....

Even Por.n Stars Dey Marry ... Go & Check the Stats ... Retire Olosho na dem sabi Marriage Management Pass as Per Say Experience Dey ..

See Pray to God wellwell make ihm help You Cuz Na Nigga Like You Dem Sisters Go Run Street thinking You Don Find Jewel Without Knowing Na Okrika You Ayarge ...

Na Person Wey Sabi Street Dey Know Street Girl ...

Just Be Running People Up & Da like Mad Men!

Who be this frustrated hay wu!? grin

Why are you venting your frustration and miseries on me? Na me turn your life upside down? grin

Na me deflower you? Na me turn your holes to public toilet?
Abeg shift grin

Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by Merry100: 7:20am On Jul 30, 2023

Some people are hyping this virginity thing too much. If a virgin is pretty and intelligent, she will definitely attract good suitors. Virginity is not even written on the forehead, and men are looking for wives, not virgins. Some virgins don't even marry well because they don't know how to play their cards properly.

Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by TemmyT002(m): 7:34am On Jul 30, 2023

It has so many advantages and disadvantages.
You may get married and later realize you are a sex freak. If your spouse is the type who doesn't like sex, you will start regretting not experimenting more when you were single.

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Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by MentalCase98: 7:41am On Jul 30, 2023

BoboNogoDie:

How old are you?
You kids should stop that line of always mentioning Andrew Tate... Before him, there were many intelligent guys who spoke against the imbalance and unfairness men go through and how many should value themselves.
Kids like you can't know Tom Lekis, Kelvin Samuels (maybe you've been seeing him recently on Tiktok) and many others.

Are you dense? I simply said that particular phrase that the poster I was quoting mentioned came from Andrew Tate because I have heard him say that verbatim, and I just happen to agree that any man who does not want to know the sexual history of his wife is a weak man. What’s the problem there?

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Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by francisduru: 7:43am On Jul 30, 2023

Yes, if only she’s a virgin

Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by Johnholt909: 7:55am On Jul 30, 2023

Savedday2:
Don't allow any 9ja girl scam you with that nonsense.

They know that after sex most guys will start thinking with their brains hence, they brought that condition so you won't think with your brain.

They are fully aware that they are not worth being married to.

The bottom line is all 9ja girls are ashawo both the ones forming GF or church girl. They are all the same.

The fact that you have never caught your babe doing ashawo, doesn't mean she is not an ashawo

That’s absolutely right.

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Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by Quebec91(m): 8:01am On Jul 30, 2023

Sonnobax15:

I used to believe in it,not until another man came out from nowhere and married the same banny I've been preserving for marriage . Right now, once you cross my part,na steady banging and wiping now

Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by Quebec91(m): 8:01am On Jul 30, 2023

Treasure17:
Maybe before the advent of technology and Tinubu. But now, it's a must.

Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by Plight21(f): 8:07am On Jul 30, 2023

Puss360:
Infact sef... While dating, we will do till we get tired...
I need to know the man I'm getting married to....
If it's too big or too small...
If na who go kill me with sex ...
I'll know all these before marriage...
I must make sure we are compatible before marriage...

Wedding day, I'll wear white and stand on alter like virgin...
After all only God and the man besides me know I'm not "Pure"... But who cares...
Las las pastor will wish us "Happy Married life"...
That's all that matters..

You made mention of the word compatible.

The fact is, I don't think there's sexual compatibility in marriage as long as it involves both genders.

Does that means if you've sex with that man/lady while dating and you're not sexually compatible, that means you'll still have to jump to the next dick or vagina all in the name of searching for sexual compatibility!

How many penis or vagina are you going to sample before reaching the final bus-stop? cry

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Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by Wannabenz: 8:12am On Jul 30, 2023

If your intention is to marry her. Make sure she gets pregnant before marrying her. Most of this girls get issues,to get pregnant now na big time wahala.

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Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by Steep: 8:13am On Jul 30, 2023

I am not the only one living in my body, the Holy Ghost is living in there too and he owns me.
How will you feel if someone take your very expensive house and turn it to a dumping site, or your expensive clothes to rag?

1 Corinthians 6:19 What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?

So yes no sex before marriage because The Holy Ghost me and I honor the Lord.

Romans 6:12 Let not sin therefore reign in your mortal body, that ye should obey it in the lusts thereof.

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Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by Plight21(f): 8:14am On Jul 30, 2023

zezebabs:
If the girl pussy is virgin, i can DO no sex before marriage

But if na gbaz gboz , no sex before marriage is not possible

Lol..

I can't laugh

Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by Verysmart101: 8:22am On Jul 30, 2023

ukaface:

Because after you dis virgin her and eventually she does you wrong and you decide to break the relationship you will give her back her virginity Abi?

Auntie understand his words naaa.He means he can do no sex before marriage with only a virgin.If u nor be virgin he will continue to pipe finish

Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by Verysmart101: 8:23am On Jul 30, 2023

VTJN:
I'm happy the so called Ashawo are getting married every Saturday to highly successful men

Just as the divorce rate of those same ashawo too skyrocket on a regular basics

Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by Verysmart101: 8:23am On Jul 30, 2023

ukaface:

Thousands of virgins have been told that lie and guess what? They have been dumped with no marriage

Did u understand what he wrote at all?

Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by Puss360(f): 8:45am On Jul 30, 2023

DonroxyII:
You Must Be Born From Year 2000 Upward ....

Chop Clean Mouth, Na Only God holy Pass

Even if I born 1900, na money dey make life sweet grin

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Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by Kemadealadire(f): 8:49am On Jul 30, 2023

Basicend:
It is still the best process before marriage.

Bcoz such a union will stand upon a just and honoured foundation.

Marriage is carved out by God, his words and leadings guarantees a sustainable and indeed glorious union.

The West have deviated, that is why you see most marriages there don't even stand up to 5 years.

If God leads, he aligns a person that can carry the weight of his purpose for you. . He also creates and energize love.

Full stop, I started reading comments starting from the OP, lol and I am shaking my head.
It's the ladies who won't have sense I pity even if you decide not to open God, very irritating comments, this generation is done for.

Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by Puss360(f): 8:49am On Jul 30, 2023

BoboNogoDie:

This is not really about religion, it's about common sense, virtue and modesty.
BTW, you didn't answer the simple question: Are you proud of your bodycount?
As for your response about your daughter, will you be happy if your daughters take after you 100% ?

Lastly, any Man that wouldn't care about your sexual past and would put a ring on you can never be a high value man.
Only dolts and simps don't care.

See Mr man, marriage to a retired olosho, will give a man rest of mind.. even in your absence... She give you kids, she gives you the best sex, she stands by you through thick and thin... Nobody, I repeat, nobody can entice her with anything, coz she has been there, done that, and is now married...
I'm not saying every girl should be a slut, but I'm telling you that, prostitute can also be good housewife...
I mean, what more do you need when your wife cooks for you, dress well both indoors and outdoors, takes care of your children.. even your guys sef dey envy your wife...
What more does a man needs??
Irrespective of what we desire in life, we will get old... And by old age, we will look back at our lives and reminisce about good old times ...
This is life.. Live it, love it..."Gotv" lolzz

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Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by Merry100: 8:52am On Jul 30, 2023

Kemadealadire:

Full stop, I started reading comments starting from the OP, lol and I am shaking my head.
It's the ladies who won't have sense I pity even if you decide not to open God, very irritating comments, this generation is done for.

Lol, apart from religious beliefs why should a lady keep your virginity. Non-virgins are also getting married every weekend so why the pity. A good guy will continue to be good whether he marries a virgin or not.

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Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by Slimplush: 8:59am On Jul 30, 2023

jmoore:

The condom you use in fornicating, do you test it before buying?

After having sex with a virgin in the name of testing and you are not satisfied, will you return the virginity back?

not actually quoting you negatively.... But I must say

Female gender have been using that lame mentality to Bleep with the other gender until the other gender start waking up, and of course, the female gender always have their way regardless of the situation

But When the table turns.. Men are scum in which they get what they made most men to be!!!

Today is Sunday and I don't reply mention cheesy

Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by Kemadealadire(f): 9:00am On Jul 30, 2023

Merry100:

Lol, apart from religious beliefs why should a lady keep your virginity. Non-virgins are also getting married very weekend so why the pity.

Read through the thread, a relationship isn't marriage, how many people will you sleep with before it ends in marriage, ladies lose out more in this regards, the same set of guys will still go around trying to make you the laughing stock in town. It's best to abstain from premarital sex, sharing a part of you with everyone you meet makes no sense.

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Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by Chibuezem(m): 9:04am On Jul 30, 2023

cutecommend:
I support No-Sex till marriage, but there are concerns about this ideology in this present dispensation..
What No-Sex in Marriage means especially in this generation..

(1) It means No-Sex with my partner because I want to marry him or her, but I will be having sex with other people or my EX.

(2) It may mean No-Sex with you, so that I can benefit certain nice things from you, and because if you sleep with me, you may stop doing the nice stuffs..

(3) It may mean No-Sex with you because I don't like you nor see a future with you, and will dump you when the right person comes.

(4) It may mean no-sex with you, and no sex with anyone else because I don't want sex with anyone at all; whether I love them or not.

(5) It means, no sex with you and no sex with anyone else, because I love you, and I want to make the relationship clean before I marry you.

I support this and practise it.....However I don't shove it into people's life, I know of ladies that have not tasted the forbidden fruit.

Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by Merry100: 9:21am On Jul 30, 2023

Kemadealadire:

Read through the thread, a relationship isn't marriage, how many people will you sleep with before it ends in marriage, ladies lose out more in this regards, the same set of guys will still go around trying to make you the laughing stock in town. It's best to abstain from premarital sex, sharing a part of you with everyone you meet make no sense.

I grew up seeing people get married as virgins. I am a virgin myself, but I don't aspire to marry the way most virgins do. Not all non-virgins engage in promiscuous behaviour. I have friends who only dated a few guys before meeting their potential partners, and their relationships are very healthy. The reason you mentioned is not a valid justification for a woman to abstain from premarital sex.

Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by Greenfaces: 9:26am On Jul 30, 2023

Basicend:
It is still the best process before marriage.

Bcoz such a union will stand upon a just and honoured foundation.

Marriage is carved out by God, his words and leadings guarantees a sustainable and indeed glorious union.

The West have deviated, that is why you see most marriages there don't even stand up to 5 years.

If God leads, he aligns a person that can carry the weight of his purpose for you. . He also creates and energize love.

I am just reading these their dumb opinions and shaking my head.

I was a virgin at 34 and my wife was a virgin at 30. Today God has blessed us with 2 lovely kids within 2 years. My business has blossomed and every thing about life and sex is fine. People think sex is all that makes up a marriage. God's blessing is the best thing we need in life. They should keep testing.

Among the people who were testing are those that were called to death during fornication. We are not hearing from them that is why we think its okay to be like them

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Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by Pokka5(m): 9:34am On Jul 30, 2023

I believed n did it

Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by abidem4real: 9:39am On Jul 30, 2023

cutecommend:
I support No-Sex till marriage, but there are concerns about this ideology in this present dispensation..
What No-Sex in Marriage means especially in this generation..

(1) It means No-Sex with my partner because I want to marry him or her, but I will be having sex with other people or my EX.

(2) It may mean No-Sex with you, so that I can benefit certain nice things from you, and because if you sleep with me, you may stop doing the nice stuffs..

(3) It may mean No-Sex with you because I don't like you nor see a future with you, and will dump you when the right person comes.

(4) It may mean no-sex with you, and no sex with anyone else because I don't want sex with anyone at all; whether I love them or not.

(5) It means, no sex with you and no sex with anyone else, because I love you, and I want to make the relationship clean before I marry you.

Of course I believe provided the wife to be is a proven virgin. Besides that, any man that agrees to no sex before marriage in this age is a born mad man!

Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 9:40am On Jul 30, 2023

Because sex is very important to me when I think if marriage, I will make sure his 3rd leg is not just working but it's powerful. I'm not entering one chance with a dead manhood..what will be doing in marriage with someone who scammed me with no sex before marriage thing?

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Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by DonroxyII: 9:44am On Jul 30, 2023

Puss360:

Even if I born 1900, na money dey make life sweet

Correct

... Nothing Truer !

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Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by DonroxyII: 9:47am On Jul 30, 2023

BoboNogoDie:

Who be this frustrated hay wu!?
Why are you venting your frustration and miseries on me? Na me turn your life upside down? Na me deflower you? Na me turn your holes to public toilet?
Abeg shift

Ya Papa Left Nyansh !
Leave that Girl alone ....

Do You Believe in Sex Before Marriage or Not ?

No dey come here dey Preach how Judas became a Carrot

Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by Mrrock199026(m): 10:09am On Jul 30, 2023

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