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Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by ukaface(f): 7:54pm On Jul 29, 2023
zezebabs:
If the girl pussy is virgin, i can DO no sex before marriage

But if na gbaz gboz , no sex before marriage is not possible

Thousands of virgins have been told that lie and guess what? They have been dumped with no marriage
Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by tollyboy5(m): 7:54pm On Jul 29, 2023
I use to believe it but ladies thought otherwise. So i wised up. grin grin grin
Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by DenreleDave(m): 7:55pm On Jul 29, 2023
ukaface:

Because after you dis virgin her and eventually she does you wrong and you decide to break the relationship you will give her back her virginity Abi?

Notin special about it..

Many ladies disvirgined guys too and left them

Did we cry hell?

A lady, my first closest girlfriend disvirgined me and still reported a false rape allegation against me...

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Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by Jackiedemie(m): 7:55pm On Jul 29, 2023
Capital No
Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by jaxxy(m): 7:57pm On Jul 29, 2023
cutecommend:
I support No-Sex till marriage, but there are concerns about this ideology in this present dispensation..
What No-Sex in Marriage means especially in this generation..

(1) It means No-Sex with my partner because I want to marry him or her, but I will be having sex with other people or my EX.

(2) It may mean No-Sex with you, so that I can benefit certain nice things from you, and because if you sleep with me, you may stop doing the nice stuffs..

(3) It may mean No-Sex with you because I don't like you nor see a future with you, and will dump you when the right person comes.

(4) It may mean no-sex with you, and no sex with anyone else because I don't want sex with anyone at all; whether I love them or not.

(5) It means, no sex with you and no sex with anyone else, because I love you, and I want to make the relationship clean before I marry you.

I believe in it only depending on the right reason and right conditions.

Anything else I will not advice u play along because people are not as truthful as u think.
Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by Savechild23: 7:57pm On Jul 29, 2023
Nooooo

Some men prick no dey stand at all no be say na poor erecting but not at all so how u go take no? Some are forming no sex no marriage while some women na lesbian without any feelings for men at all, how u go carry no except romance!?

Remember sey dating is filled with better presence and na better knacking dey decipher am so once u begin knack very closely, a lot of shenanigans will unfold ASAP

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Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by VTJN(m): 7:57pm On Jul 29, 2023
erico2k2:

No sex B4 marriage is a hype, most people who put that in front already had sex and aint virgins, they had bad expiriences.
not al
Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by driand(m): 7:57pm On Jul 29, 2023
Samantha124:
I want to believe in it, but it's not easy.

So far those people that I know who claimed to be virgins and waiting until marriage are now baby daddies and baby mamas out of wedlock.

And once you ask them what happened with waiting till marriage, they get angry and say you're judging them... They even cut me out of their lives because they think I'm judging them when I ask them out of curiosity... grin grin grin

continue asking out of curiosity

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Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by erico2k2(m): 7:58pm On Jul 29, 2023
VTJN:
not al
never said all, but this no sex B4 marriage is a fuss
Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by VTJN(m): 8:01pm On Jul 29, 2023
erico2k2:

never said all, but this no sex B4 marriage is a fuss
I'm in support of it though. The benefits outweigh the demerits

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Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by blesdman(m): 8:02pm On Jul 29, 2023
Savedday2:
Don't allow any 9ja girl scam you with that nonsense.

They know that after sex most guys will start thinking with their brains hence, they brought that condition so you won't think with your brain.

They are fully aware that they are not worth being married to.
Bro, wrong generalisation.

The bottom line is all 9ja girls are ashawo both the ones forming GF or church girl. They are all the same.

The fact that you have never caught your babe doing ashawo, doesn't mean she is not an ashawo
Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by blesdman(m): 8:02pm On Jul 29, 2023
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Wrong generatlisation
Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by Farid24224(m): 8:03pm On Jul 29, 2023
In Islam, we don't have sex before marriage... Some couples do engage in it but it's highly forbidden...

Being with my girlfriend since 16 and I haven't touched her (even handshake) and am 21 🥱🥱

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Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by blesdman(m): 8:04pm On Jul 29, 2023
erico2k2:

never said all, but this no sex B4 marriage is a fuss
True. Though it worked for me....but alot of things in life are scams....so do what works for u not what u hear in society to be the norm

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Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by janeedema(f): 8:04pm On Jul 29, 2023
If the reason you are abstaining from premarital sex is not because you fear God, then you've missed it already.

The sin of immorality is a sin against your body. You are becoming one spirit with someone who isn't your husband under God. You dishonor God by this.

Sex blinds your eyes to seeing what you should see. You ignore all the red flags. Is it worth it?

Well, I don't know if you're a Christian, of course.

The question ringing in my mind after reading your stuff is this:

How many people will you sleep with in the name of certifying sexual compatibility?

What happens if you aren't sexually compatible? You let him go and start again?

How about if it doesn't end in marriage? So, you continue the testing?

Is the basis for marriage having sex? Like aren't we missing the context of the marriage institution altogether?

What happens if your husband becomes incapacitated by an illness or accident and can't have sex any longer?

Do you divorce him or cheat on him.

Don't you think sex is overly exaggerated?

If it takes sex to sustain a marriage, most marriages of porn stars will still be intact

In the olden days, our parents got marriage without having premarital sex and their marriages lasted a lifetime.

This should tell you something.

All this sexual compatibility deception is not going to make your marriage work.

Sex has never made any marriage. It isn't a foundation for marriage as stated by the manufacturer of marriage. Knowledge, wisdom and understanding is.

I pray we embrace knowledge and know peace.



Puss360:
Infact sef... While dating, we will do till we get tired...
I need to know the man I'm getting married to....
If it's too big or too small...
If na who go kill me with sex ...
I'll know all these before marriage...
I must make sure we are compatible before marriage...

Wedding day, I'll wear white and stand on alter like virgin...
After all only God and the man besides me know I'm not "Pure"... But who cares...
Las las pastor will wish us "Happy Married life"...
That's all that matters. grin grin

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Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by Jewessgratitud3: 8:04pm On Jul 29, 2023
Hotfreeze:
No sex till marriage but you can collect money before marriage.

Wey the money? tongue
Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by Holluwhakemmy(f): 8:05pm On Jul 29, 2023
Yes till wedding night if you are not okay by it then move on I'm not a fornicator unless we both agree to do it before marriage

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Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by KIDfurniture(m): 8:05pm On Jul 29, 2023
Oh sorry e enter ur body Abi. You better don’t end up like ur dad. I know u well well.

















































Anny69:
You be fool.
Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by omooba969(m): 8:05pm On Jul 29, 2023
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
I used to believe in it,not until another man came out from nowhere and married the same banny I've been preserving for marriage angry. Right now, once you cross my part,na steady banging and wiping now angry

Eweeeeee! 😂😂😂
Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by Benwallt(m): 8:06pm On Jul 29, 2023
No yes I do I don't
Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by KIDfurniture(m): 8:06pm On Jul 29, 2023
Oh sorry e enter ur body Abi. You better don’t end up like ur dad. I know u well well.






Anny69:
You be fool.
Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by Elsueno: 8:06pm On Jul 29, 2023
Yes....Iam d embodiment of that shyt & holiness is ma middle name..Seriously though, NO SEX B4 MARRIAGE

Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by highchief1: 8:07pm On Jul 29, 2023
cutecommend:
I support No-Sex till marriage, but there are concerns about this ideology in this present dispensation..
What No-Sex in Marriage means especially in this generation..

(1) It means No-Sex with my partner because I want to marry him or her, but I will be having sex with other people or my EX.

(2) It may mean No-Sex with you, so that I can benefit certain nice things from you, and because if you sleep with me, you may stop doing the nice stuffs..

(3) It may mean No-Sex with you because I don't like you nor see a future with you, and will dump you when the right person comes.

(4) It may mean no-sex with you, and no sex with anyone else because I don't want sex with anyone at all; whether I love them or not.

(5) It means, no sex with you and no sex with anyone else, because I love you, and I want to make the relationship clean before I marry you.
if she’s a virgin yes.u can’t be telling me no when u are doing doggy with one dirty boy.

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Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by omooba969(m): 8:07pm On Jul 29, 2023
Holluwhakemmy:
Yes till wedding night if you are not okay by it then move on I'm not a fornicator unless we both agree to do it before marriage

Yinmu 😏😏, you can tell that to Bro Bernard. cheesy
Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by fistonati(m): 8:08pm On Jul 29, 2023
It's no longer advisable, considering what's breaking homes and level of Indiscipline
Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by ukaface(f): 8:08pm On Jul 29, 2023
DenreleDave:


Notin special about it..

Many ladies disvirgined guys too and left them

Did we cry hell?

A lady, my first closest girlfriend disvirgined me and still reported a false rape allegation against me...
Can you hear yourself atall?
So if it’s nothing special then why are you specific about a virgin?

If I’m to think like the society, men ain’t to cry over loss of virginity, no one has ever placed pride on male virginity , male sexuality even animals is characterised by dominance, to lead the female ( according to the society) now won’t it be absurd for males to cry over virginity?

Do you know the hype the society once gave female virginity??

Dey play

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Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by dbestuncle: 8:08pm On Jul 29, 2023
5!
However it's 5 beacause that is how God wants us to live and it's very possible to do so and people are still doing it.
Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by Holluwhakemmy(f): 8:09pm On Jul 29, 2023
omooba969:


Yinmu 😏😏, you can tell that to Bro Bernard. cheesy
he knows about it already I'm going to keep it God help me

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Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by Purvan(m): 8:09pm On Jul 29, 2023
Hehe


Risky because you fit marry woman way no get womb or fit born pikin


Na there your matter go tie wrapper

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Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by SonofGod231: 8:09pm On Jul 29, 2023
Why??!If I were to meet a modest chic with decorum and sense why not,at least with Zero bodycount....Not someone that goes about flashing everything then you'll cum and be telling me wait until where?!
Something wey out of the 40million guys in 9ja like 150 don lick... What's all the wait for!

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Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by jayAjoku(m): 8:10pm On Jul 29, 2023
I don’t even believe in no sex before The first date why will i believe in no sex before marriage? Make person dey drive car wey I wan buy for me ?

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Re: Do You Believe in No-Sex Before Marriage? by pretydiva(f): 8:12pm On Jul 29, 2023
Yes I do. Marriage should be honorable and bed undefiled.

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