Merry100:

Who are guys sleeping with, dolls?

If only guys can stay without sex before marriage.... The number of divorces will be less. Marriage and sex will be sacred, more enjoyable and satisfying.

Even when you think girls are chaste and no sex before marriage, they be like you don't know my Worth. Because they already lost the worth and stylishly implying they're already broken.

phemmyfour:
Putting the blames on the girls.....are they not sleeping with men?

If men are not putting pressure on them, the demand will be less

As far as you're not in danger of rape, respect your sanctity and say NO. Contact is contagious

Sunmolar:


As far as you're not in danger of rape, respect your sanctity and say NO. Contact is contagious

Nonsense, You that is making request isn't a saint either. Stop making it look like a war against a particular gender.

If there is no demand, supply will decrease.

Sunmolar:


Even when you think girls are chaste and no sex before marriage, they be like you don't know my Worth. Because they already lost the worth and stylishly implying they're already broken.

🤣🤣🤣 Do you know my worth? My worth is virginity.

Lol. Are you implying that virginity is the worth of a lady? I am sure you are talking about those immature ladies who are yet to understand life.

cutecommend:
I support No-Sex till marriage, but there are concerns about this ideology in this present dispensation..
What No-Sex in Marriage means especially in this generation..

(1) It means No-Sex with my partner because I want to marry him or her, but I will be having sex with other people or my EX.

(2) It may mean No-Sex with you, so that I can benefit certain nice things from you, and because if you sleep with me, you may stop doing the nice stuffs..

(3) It may mean No-Sex with you because I don't like you nor see a future with you, and will dump you when the right person comes.

(4) It may mean no-sex with you, and no sex with anyone else because I don't want sex with anyone at all; whether I love them or not.

(5) It means, no sex with you and no sex with anyone else, because I love you, and I want to make the relationship clean before I marry you.

I don't just believe in it, I practiced and applied it. Ultimately, it is worthwhile and amazing principle.

It is divinely instructive and required but just like everything else, people are free to either comply or disobey the instructions.

But they were always in my case too, busy telling me of how sex before marriage was not good as if I was sleeping around with different men... And in all those times that they told me, I never saw the need to be defensive, I just listened and kept quiet while I continued to do me.

And I don't care if I lose them because they're not the kind of friends I'd want to keep anyway, I don't make friends with hypocrites.

Now they're single parents, while I don't have a baby yet and soon I'll be getting married to the same guy they used to criticize me for, just because I was sleeping with him and not even ashamed of it.

Icebreeze:


I will advise you not to be curious next time.
For you will end up losing most of your friends that fall in this category.

Puss360:

See Mr man, marriage to a retired olosho, will give a man rest of mind.. even in your absence... She give you kids, she gives you the best sex, she stands by you through thick and thin... Nobody, I repeat, nobody can entice her with anything, coz she has been there, done that, and is now married...
I'm not saying every girl should be a slut, but I'm telling you that, prostitute can also be good housewife...
I mean, what more do you need when your wife cooks for you, dress well both indoors and outdoors, takes care of your children.. even your guys sef dey envy your wife...
What more does a man needs??
Irrespective of what we desire in life, we will get old... And by old age, we will look back at our lives and reminisce about good old times ...
This is life.. Live it, love it..."Gotv" lolzz

Don't let anyone deceive or fool you, it's absolutely impossible for a prostitute to be or make a good wife. If you've been messing with some guys that tells you that your sexual past and experience doesn't matter, believe me, it's either they don't have sense or they don't want a serious and committed relationship with you. They mostly just want you for fun - sex etc...
The moment any girl start having multiple bodycount, she becomes broken and damaged emotionally especially. Sex is a very important and sacred thing and way beyond the physical... YOU EXCHANGE ENERGIES WITH YOUR SEXUAL PARTNERS...

There's no sensible, reasonable and high value man alive that will want or prefer to marry someone that has been ran through by multiple men. Even you won't like your sons lt brothers to be married to such girl, IRRESPECTIVE of the situation or circumstances, so don't be a hypocrite.

Also, no child alive will be happy or glad to learn that his or her mother used to be a "DOG".
Marriage and being married is much more than just wanting good sex, a cook or someone to bear children for a man. No high value and sensible man will find joy in making a prostitute or SLÚT the mother of his children. Every sensible man wants a woman that a lot of men want but never have had, and not a woman every man wants and many have had.

Merry100:

You expressed your thoughts in a mature way and made your personal desire clear without imposing it on others. If only some other guys can be this mature.

I would like to offer you some advice. If a woman claims that she is keeping her virginity because of you, even if she engages in other forms of sexual activity that do not affect the hymen, she will still claim she is still a virgin and impress you with the preservation of her hymen but if a woman is motivated by religious beliefs, she cannot deceive God, so it is likely that she would choose to abstain completely from sexual activities and there are also other substantial motivation that can make a woman keep her virginity.

Fair points. Note that I have been married for over a decade. My wife didn't have sex before marriage.

Druss:


Fair points. Note that I have been married for over a decade. My wife didn't have sex before marriage.

Good.

Merry100:

🤣🤣🤣 Do you know my worth? My worth is virginity.

Lol. Are you implying that virginity is the worth of a lady? I am sure you are talking about those immature ladies who are yet to understand life.

Lol. Are you implying that virginity is the worth of a lady?

No..... But on the long run of marriage, there wouldn't be emotional damage, try to maintain a balance between the past and present.....most ex still talk to their ex.... and trying to figure out who's the best between the past and present.... It's better not to be part of that euphoria. If I'm with Richard life may be better than been with Robert?

1stola:

Don't let anyone deceive or fool you, it's absolutely impossible for a prostitute to be a make a good wife. If you've been messing with some guys that tells you that your sexual past and experience doesn't matter, believe me, it's either they don't have sense or they don't want a serious and committed relationship with you. They mostly just want you for fun - sex etc...
The moment any girl start having multiple bodycount, she becomes broken and damaged emotionally especially. Sex is a very important and sacred thing and way beyond the physical... YOU EXCHANGE ENERGIES WITH YOUR SEXUAL PARTNERS...

There's no sensible, reasonable and high value man alive that will want or prefer to marry someone that has been ran through multiple men. Even you won't like your sons lt brothers to be married to such girl, IRRESPECTIVE of the situation or circumstances, so don't be a hypocrite.

Also, no child alive will be happy or glad to learn that his or her mother used to be a "DOG".
Marriage and being married is much more than just wanting good sex, a cook or someone to bear children for a man. No high value and sensible man will find joy in making a prostitute or SLÚT the mother of his children. Every sensible man wants a woman that a lot of men want but never have had, and not a woman every man wants and many have had.

Okay... But all children alive will be happy up hear that their father was once a stud... mess this mess that...

When you point a finger at others, remember 4 fingers are pointing at you....

A man who is a virgin that deserves to marry a virgin..
If you aren't a virgin, I see no reason you looking for one...
Whether you've had one body count or 100 body count, the fact is that, you have tasted pleasure...

Sex Nd the whole lots of activities that comes with it doesn't describe a person behaviour or attitude....
Stop being hypocritical here....

If my mother was a slut while young, and I grew up knowing she is the best mother on earth that I as her child can die for her....
See, next life, I will still want that same mother...

I repeat, Marry your spouse for WHO they are, and not WHAT they are... Nobody holy pass...

I rest my case...
Court Rise...
Case dismissed...

phemmyfour:
Nonsense, You that is making request isn't a saint either. Stop making it look like a war against a particular gender.

If there is no demand, supply will decrease.

People who talk like this maintain a hard line of pretense.... Never agreeing with themselves that they made a mistake in the past...... keep wooing the gullible ones to fall into their trap of lies

Sunmolar:


People who talk like this maintain a hard line of pretense.... Never agreeing with themselves that they made a mistake in the past...... keep wooing the gullible ones to fall into their trap of lies

lolz he chickened out

Funny tread

Puss360:

Okay... But all children alive will be happy up hear that their father was once a stud... mess this mess that...

When you point a finger at others, remember 4 fingers are pointing at you....

A man who is a virgin that deserves to marry a virgin..
If you aren't a virgin, I see no reason you looking for one...
Whether you've had one body count or 100 body count, the fact is that, you have tasted pleasure...

Sex Nd the whole lots of activities that comes with it doesn't describe a person behaviour or attitude....
Stop being hypocritical here....

If my mother was a slut while young, and I grew up knowing she is the best mother on earth that I as her child can die for her....
See, next life, I will still want that same mother...

I repeat, Marry your spouse for WHO they are, and not WHAT they are... Nobody holy pass...

I rest my case...
Court Rise...
Case dismissed...

Lol
The problem with most of you is that, it's hard for you to accept reality. Sadly, you most times end up learning your lessons the hard way....
SEXUALITY DETERMINES A LOT ABOUT YOUR PERSONALITY AND DEFINES WHO YOU'RE.
A CHILD WITH GOOD MORALS AND THAT WAS BROUGHT UP BY RESPONSIBLE PARENTS CAN NEVER BE A SLǓT, BE DOUBLE DATING AND DOING HOOKUPS.
Historically and in almost every race and culture, women sexual purity is far more important than men's. This makes sense and even biologically and Scientifically, it's only women that can have doubts of paternity of a child.
What I mean is that, if you spread your legs for two guys within a week and you get pregnant, YOU CAN NEVER KNOW OR BE SURE WHOSE BABY IT IS THAT YOU'RE CARRYING. If a man sleeps with 100 women within one week and they all get pregnant without seeing other men many weeks or months before the recent man and they are all very sure about this, the man is 100% responsible.
When it comes to sexuality, you can not compare a man and a woman, there's no even reason to compare unless you just want to be a senseless and delusional feminist.
Nobody is saying men should mess around and not marry as a virgin. Sexual purity is good and important for both gender, but in reality, it's you women that suffers the retributions of sexual misbehaviours the most. Take it or leave it.
I am not a hypocrite, I'm just stating the facts.
There's absolutely no value and gain in being a SLÚT and messing around, whether you're a religious person or not.

The difference between a mother who used to be SLÚT and a father who used to be a stud is VERY VERY DIFFERENT, ONLY A FOOL WILL THINK OTHERWISE.
NONE IS GOOD BUT, 100% OF EVERY CHILD ALIVE WILL PREFER TO TAKE A FATHER WHO USED TO BE A STUD THAN A MOTHER WHO WAS A PRÕSTITUTE, IRRESPECTIVE OF THE GENDER OF THE CHILD.

cutecommend:
I support No-Sex till marriage, but there are concerns about this ideology in this present dispensation..
What No-Sex in Marriage means especially in this generation..

(1) It means No-Sex with my partner because I want to marry him or her, but I will be having sex with other people or my EX.

(2) It may mean No-Sex with you, so that I can benefit certain nice things from you, and because if you sleep with me, you may stop doing the nice stuffs..

(3) It may mean No-Sex with you because I don't like you nor see a future with you, and will dump you when the right person comes.

(4) It may mean no-sex with you, and no sex with anyone else because I don't want sex with anyone at all; whether I love them or not.

(5) It means, no sex with you and no sex with anyone else, because I love you, and I want to make the relationship clean before I marry you.

Number 5 all the way, no sex with anyone till marriage.

Sunmolar:


Lol. Are you implying that virginity is the worth of a lady?

No..... But on the long run of marriage, there wouldn't be emotional damage, try to maintain a balance between the past and present.....most ex still talk to their ex.... and trying to figure out who's the best between the past and present.... It's better not to be part of that euphoria. If I'm with Richard life may be better than been with Robert?

If a lady chooses to remain a virgin, it should be because she wants to, not because some men who are not virgins themselves prefer virgins. Non-virgins are still getting married every weekend because most men are looking for good wives, not specifically virgins.

You mentioned that most ex still talk to their ex. That suggests that a significant number of people, including men, are unfaithful. Should women also start looking for virgin guys without exes to avoid being married to unfaithful men?

Merry100:

If a lady chooses to remain a virgin, it should be because she wants to, not because some men who are not virgins themselves prefer virgins. Non-virgins are still getting married every weekend because most men are looking for good wives, not specifically virgins.

You mentioned that most ex still talk to their ex. That suggests that a significant number of people, including men, are unfaithful. Should women also start looking for virgin guys without exes to avoid being married to unfaithful men?

This is one of the reasons I believe no sex before marriage. Both parties not likely to leave their ex. You talk to ex after marriage, what's interesting in it?

Jewessgratitud3:


Who is this one?

Is it the one that so many of you have succeeded in abusing your bodies with different sexual partners and are now walking about with disease riddled bodies looking for who to infect?

E go soon clear you all the consequences of your actions.

Now clap for yourself.
Lol....

1stola:

Lol
The problem with most of you is that, it's hard for you to accept reality. Sadly, you most times end up learning your lessons the hard way....
SEXUALITY DETERMINES A LOT ABOUT YOUR PERSONALITY AND DEFINES WHO YOU'RE.
A CHILD WITH GOOD MORALS AND THAT WAS BROUGHT UP BY RESPONSIBLE PARENTS CAN NEVER BE A SLǓT, BE DOUBLE DATING AND DOING HOOKUPS.
Historically and in almost every race and culture, women sexual purity is far more important than men's. This makes sense and even biologically and Scientifically, it's only women that can have doubts of paternity of a child.
What I mean is that, if you spread your legs for two guys within a week and you get pregnant, YOU CAN NEVER KNOW OR BE SURE WHOSE BABY IT IS THAT YOU'RE CARRYING. If a man sleeps with 100 women within one week and they all get pregnant without seeing other men many weeks or months before the recent man and they are all very sure about this, the man is 100% responsible.
When it comes to sexuality, you can not compare a man and a woman, there's no even reason to compare unless you just want to be a senseless and delusional feminist.
Nobody is saying men should mess around and not marry as a virgin. Sexual purity is good and important for both gender, but in reality, it's you women that suffers the retributions of sexual misbehaviours the most. Take it or leave it.
I am not a hypocrite, I'm just stating the facts.
There's absolutely no value and gain in being a SLÚT and messing around, whether you're a religious person or not.

The difference between a mother who used to be SLÚT and a father who used to be a stud is VERY VERY DIFFERENT, ONLY A FOOL WILL THINK OTHERWISE.
NONE IS GOOD BUT, 100% OF EVERY CHILD ALIVE WILL PREFER TO TAKE A FATHER WHO USED TO BE A STUD THAN A MOTHER WHO WAS A PRÕSTITUTE, IRRESPECTIVE OF THE GENDER OF THE CHILD.

Ok

Hotfreeze:
No sex till marriage but you can collect money before marriage.
You can eat shawarma before marriage.
You can collect iPhone 14 before marriage.

Oloriburuku ole

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I dont like it biko

Perfection is on no one.

Samantha124:

And I don't care if I lose them because they're not the kind of friends I'd want to keep anyway, I don't make friends with hypocrites.

Now they're single parents, while I don't have a baby yet and soon I'll be getting married to the same guy they used to criticize me for, just because I was sleeping with him and not even ashamed of it.

In whatever you do just be yourself dear.
Don't give a fück about what people have to say. For it will always ends in regrets.

I know that perfection is on no one, that's why I don't normally go around judging other people.

But if you're gonna judge me, just know that one day I'm gonna ask you some burning questions...

I wasn't even judging them, but I was just asking out of curiosity because it's better you hear the story from the horse's mouth rather than listen to rumours.

Icebreeze:
Perfection is on no one.



In whatever you do just be yourself dear.
Don't give a fück about what people have to say. For it will always ends in regrets.

Samantha124:
I know that perfection is on no one, that's why I don't normally go around judging other people.

But if you're gonna judge me, just know that one day I'm gonna ask you some burning questions...

I wasn't even judging them, but I was just asking out of curiosity because it's better you hear the story from the horse's mouth rather than listen to rumours.

You eh...

Do bear it in mind some horses will never voice out rather they will become aggressive.

That is the reason why we encounter so many issues in our relationships and marriages. People forget that sex is spiritual. It is like a sacred ritual between two people. When you have sex, there is a form of bonding, fluids are exchanged. And when the Bible talked about no sex before marriage, the Bible wasn't kidding. But we humans think that we are smarter than God, so we circumvent everything, forgetting that there was a reason why God said no sex before marriage.

lavylilly:
Actually, some ladies take this no sex before marriage nonsense too far. Ask Linda ikeji, she will tell you. Its just bullshitt. You can't be telling lies, deceiving people and yet now be forming celibate all in the name of marriage. She's eventually was at the back collecting d!ck
Who are you deceiving?

hmmmmmm...Okokobiokor.. Na woman mouth you hear am so