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Re: Married Men With No/ Low Source Of Income, How Are You Coping? by UnfairLife7(m): 12:58pm On Aug 16, 2023

00FFT00:

Most are definitely struggling under the heavy weight of "see finish" induced insults from their wives and even children.

That's what you get when you live in a society where core family and moral values have evaporated and what's left is extreme greed and moral decadence.

Yet, there are level-headed, hard-working women out there who stand by their struggling spouses and give them reason to believe and the will to succeed. My respect goes to these ladies.

it is not easy o bro. But bible said a man who couldn't provide for his family is an infidel.

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Re: Married Men With No/ Low Source Of Income, How Are You Coping? by OnonujuChrist(m): 1:02pm On Aug 16, 2023

Seunomobo:
My elder sister is married to a man with a very low source of income with three children.....

The thing is the man is not ready to do extra to make extra income for the family.

My sister has been doing odd jobs to ensuring the kids won't suffer...

Now my sister cant help but have a side boyfriend to help with the upkeep of the family, since the husband is utterly useless.....

Somethings are better left unsaid. You are a fool.!

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Re: Married Men With No/ Low Source Of Income, How Are You Coping? by Minjim: 1:03pm On Aug 16, 2023

I usually wake feeling wave of apprehension and a fear.
The worry is just too much especially when you have a baby to feed. That one doesn't send.

I've sold all the iron condemned around me already.
And I only survive on hope from reading the Bible

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Re: Married Men With No/ Low Source Of Income, How Are You Coping? by Fiscus105(m): 1:04pm On Aug 16, 2023

candidbabe:

They brought the hardship upon themselves
Why getting married when you know that, you are not capable of taking care of your wife and kids .
Or is it because of the free sex?

I pity you and ur mentality, perhaps because of ur age.

I know a man that worked tirelessly for 35 years, he also had one other business that was complement his civil service income then.

When he retired (5 years ago), 2 years into his retirement, his business that was operating and booming long time ago, crashed as a result of covid 19.

The contributory pension paid to him, (#5million), he joined other people to start factory, factory that if they succeed, it would bring hundred of millions in returns. Midway into establising the factory, other partners reneged on their promise sighting high insecurity of herds men.

WILL YOU SAY SUCH MAN NOT PLANNED AHEAD ENOUGH?

That was how the man collapsed. Now, four children in universities......thank God wife still in service.

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Re: Married Men With No/ Low Source Of Income, How Are You Coping? by DavidTech23(m): 1:05pm On Aug 16, 2023

candidbabe:

They brought the hardship upon themselves
Why getting married when you know that, you are not capable of taking care of your wife and kids .
Or is it because of the free sex?

Sex is not beneficial to all men

Re: Married Men With No/ Low Source Of Income, How Are You Coping? by Seunomobo: 1:05pm On Aug 16, 2023

Relevant123:
Youre ok with ur sis having side guy in her marriage cos
youre Yoruba!! It has occurred severally in my former area.
The way you presented the shows you dont see anything wrong with!!

Isnt it better she divorce the man than sleeping around as a married woman....
Im sure shes more than one guy out there

They're separated but living in the same house...

Useless man that doesn't care how food gets to the pot but still sits his ass down and eat knowing that it may be a side boyfriend assisting his wife financially...

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Re: Married Men With No/ Low Source Of Income, How Are You Coping? by Paramount01(m): 1:05pm On Aug 16, 2023

candidbabe:

They brought the hardship upon themselves
Why getting married when you know that, you are not capable of taking care of your wife and kids .
Or is it because of the free sex?

Many ladies force themselves just to marry by decuving the gullible guys that they will add their own o cope with it,just to come and add more liabilities to the guy

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Re: Married Men With No/ Low Source Of Income, How Are You Coping? by Seunomobo: 1:05pm On Aug 16, 2023

cucumbar:
are you serious? Na she tell you say she don get boyfriend?

Yes she tell me...

Make I kill am?

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Re: Married Men With No/ Low Source Of Income, How Are You Coping? by Christian07(m): 1:07pm On Aug 16, 2023

Seunomobo:
My elder sister is married to a man with a very low source of income with three children.....

The thing is the man is not ready to do extra to make extra income for the family.

My sister has been doing odd jobs to ensuring the kids won't suffer...

Now my sister cant help but have a side boyfriend to help with the upkeep of the family, since the husband is utterly useless.....

You must be a bully

Re: Married Men With No/ Low Source Of Income, How Are You Coping? by Seunomobo: 1:07pm On Aug 16, 2023

easzypeaszy:
Say you... No dey use ur sister lie.. It easy fr u to say dan even hlp him strt up somtin.
May be u ursef if its true dat she is ur sister don't even hv a single job.
U wan dey blame who get 1
Abeg shift wt ur Ashawo sister

Na my sister no be me....

Cos no need to lie cos osiwin like u no fit beat me...

You think say me be hypocrite like your sister wey go dey Bleep around but still claim chaste..

Okpor

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Re: Married Men With No/ Low Source Of Income, How Are You Coping? by FRANKOSKI(m): 1:07pm On Aug 16, 2023

It's not easy oo my brother. God is fixing me in ways that I can't explain. GLORY TO HIM ALLELUIA AMEN !

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Re: Married Men With No/ Low Source Of Income, How Are You Coping? by Babaken(m): 1:08pm On Aug 16, 2023

abba190:
with 3 children and currently unemployed i am thinking of endin it all. life feels bored and meaningless to me.

If you end it what of the kids.

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Re: Married Men With No/ Low Source Of Income, How Are You Coping? by Seunomobo: 1:08pm On Aug 16, 2023

OnonujuChrist:

Somethings are better left unsaid. You are a fool.!

Your mother is a fooll
May thunder strike her dead.

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Re: Married Men With No/ Low Source Of Income, How Are You Coping? by UnfairLife7(m): 1:10pm On Aug 16, 2023

Seunomobo:

They're separated but living in the same house...

Useless man that doesn't care how food gets to the pot but still sits his ass down and eat knowing that it may be a side boyfriend assisting his wife financially...

I have seen someone like this too. He has 5 children but very poor. His wife get money to sustain the children from her man friend and the cleaning job she does in school. Some men no supposed marry truly

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Re: Married Men With No/ Low Source Of Income, How Are You Coping? by Seunomobo: 1:13pm On Aug 16, 2023

OnonujuChrist:

Somethings are better spoken and aired out. My mother and I are fools

Re: Married Men With No/ Low Source Of Income, How Are You Coping? by UnfairLife7(m): 1:13pm On Aug 16, 2023

Seunomobo:

Your mother is a fooll
May thunder strike her dead.

this is too harsh.

Re: Married Men With No/ Low Source Of Income, How Are You Coping? by Zackattack: 1:14pm On Aug 16, 2023

easzypeaszy:
u go wait tire.
By den Pampers wl be 10k and Nan wl be 5k
Ur 500k won't still meet up

At least he dey enjoy his life rather than bringing children to this world to come suffer.
He's far better than those who are married with kids that are regretting their parents.

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Re: Married Men With No/ Low Source Of Income, How Are You Coping? by Carcinogenic(m): 1:15pm On Aug 16, 2023

BigBlackPreek:
At 31 years of age, I've lost interest in women let alone approaching them for friendship

It is like an herculean task for me

I've never had a girlfriend before and many may it difficult to believe...

please is something wrong with me or am I the only one in this kinda situation?

I had my first girl friend at 32 barely a year ago and had sex. Today, I make close to 200k monthly and still doubling my hustle. There is nothing wrong with you. Probably you are a discipline person
and working on your goal. You don't need money to f##k a girl below your class. No bi broke boys de give girls belle?. You don't need that distraction now.

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Re: Married Men With No/ Low Source Of Income, How Are You Coping? by FireUpNow(m): 1:15pm On Aug 16, 2023

candidbabe:

They brought the hardship upon themselves
Why getting married when you know that, you are not capable of taking care of your wife and kids .
Or is it because of the free sex?

What if he was doing well when he married and after having kids turned upside as a result of sickness or business losses?

Re: Married Men With No/ Low Source Of Income, How Are You Coping? by Sleeky2020(m): 1:16pm On Aug 16, 2023

God is the one in charge.

Re: Married Men With No/ Low Source Of Income, How Are You Coping? by FireUpNow(m): 1:17pm On Aug 16, 2023

Zackattack:

At least he dey enjoy his life rather than bringing children to this world to come suffer.
He's far better than those who are married with kids that are regretting their parents.

How wealthy are your parents when they gave birth to you?

Re: Married Men With No/ Low Source Of Income, How Are You Coping? by Seunomobo: 1:17pm On Aug 16, 2023

UnfairLife7:
this is too harsh.

His wasn't harsh when he insulted me first because I gave my sincere opinion of things, with his unsolicited advice of what to say or not say.......

If any body calls me a fool, Ara ma pa ni (in Oba Solomon's voice)

You cannot bully the unbullied......

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Re: Married Men With No/ Low Source Of Income, How Are You Coping? by MrsTwrite(f): 1:17pm On Aug 16, 2023

E no easy at all.

Re: Married Men With No/ Low Source Of Income, How Are You Coping? by easzypeaszy(m): 1:18pm On Aug 16, 2023

Zackattack:

At least he dey enjoy his life rather than bringing children to this world to come suffer.
He's far better than those who are married with kids that are regretting their parents.

I can bet u, he desnt hv upto 50k in his acctn or savings...so still ends same way.

Re: Married Men With No/ Low Source Of Income, How Are You Coping? by terrezo2002(m): 1:21pm On Aug 16, 2023

abba190:
with 3 children and currently unemployed i am thinking of endin it all. life feels bored and meaningless to me.

That's because you have not realised the purpose of your existence. You have been believing that money is what you need to live life.
Stop chasing money. Look for Jesus Christ. He is the solution to your problems.

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Re: Married Men With No/ Low Source Of Income, How Are You Coping? by UnfairLife7(m): 1:23pm On Aug 16, 2023

FireUpNow:

How wealthy are your parents when they gave birth to you?

if as a man you cannot provide shelter, food and education for your children then I'm afraid i see no reason why giving birth.

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Re: Married Men With No/ Low Source Of Income, How Are You Coping? by Ibiyinka90(m): 1:25pm On Aug 16, 2023

DenreleDave:
To all the men out there that are married and blessed with kids..... How are you coping?

How are you surviving with no job?

How are you surviving with low source of income?

How is your home? How do u keep going despite the hardness?

My experience today seeing a family man is not good ....

I feel so bad that I am so helpless to help forever......

Your sadness will be over... Every difficult thing in your life will be solved... You and ur family will smile......

God bless all struggling married men with responsibilities....

That is why you must marry right not just beauty or status. In marriage, whatever you married for would fade but the reality would remain. My wife is quite an understanding woman with high level of mentality. She's the reason why am not regretting in a time like this

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Re: Married Men With No/ Low Source Of Income, How Are You Coping? by Obyangel: 1:25pm On Aug 16, 2023

candidbabe:

They brought the hardship upon themselves
Why getting married when you know that, you are not capable of taking care of your wife and kids .
Or is it because of the free sex?

My dear, sex is not free even in marriage.

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Re: Married Men With No/ Low Source Of Income, How Are You Coping? by mipeesoft(m): 1:25pm On Aug 16, 2023

Amen to your prayers.

DenreleDave:
To all the men out there that are married and blessed with kids..... How are you coping?

How are you surviving with no job?

How are you surviving with low source of income?

How is your home? How do u keep going despite the hardness?

My experience today seeing a family man is not good ....

I feel so bad that I am so helpless to help forever......

Your sadness will be over... Every difficult thing in your life will be solved... You and ur family will smile......

God bless all struggling married men with responsibilities....

Re: Married Men With No/ Low Source Of Income, How Are You Coping? by Figger(m): 1:27pm On Aug 16, 2023

Atk1nson:
Not to go back, we've been preaching for Nigerians to vote wisely for over 8 years now.

Many lamentations even by people who supposedly have jobs and earn average. The thing reach everybody las las.

Cant even pick calls from Nigeria anymore because situation hook people, any message you cant drop on whatsapp, forget it.

No be only u oh, I don block many people both on WhatsApp and normal call from naija, complain and tasking too much to bear.

Re: Married Men With No/ Low Source Of Income, How Are You Coping? by easzypeaszy(m): 1:28pm On Aug 16, 2023

Seunomobo:

Na my sister no be me....

Cos no need to lie cos osiwin like u no fit beat me...

You think say me be hypocrite like your sister wey go dey Bleep around but still claim chaste..

Okpor

Not every other persons or ppl is lik ur family.
I just pity her bc it's better she divorce n settle wt d so called rescue officer b4 all of una go regret am.
Nawaooo so like dis u kw say 2 dinco dey Bulaba ur sister punny.. U try oo

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