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Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by easytig(m): 3:38pm On Aug 18, 2023
We call dem aunty gwe gwe gwe ,or gwegwelina ,or aunty gwegs.God forgive me na play I dey play o,na joke o
The lord is their strength.
AmyNwa10:
It's for this very reason; the dear of being unmarried at 30 as a lady that has pushed a lot of women to ending up with any man just to be tagged, "she married early."

The men aren't even helping, since they have a knack for calling >30 unmarried ladies derogatory names such as evening newspaper.
We'll just marry anyhow to avoid all of that.
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by frankson1(m): 3:38pm On Aug 18, 2023
Omoapena:
Fact remains, once you’re 30 and not married, your chances become slim and guys will only see you as unserious person when it comes to relationship, you may be successful career wise but when it comes to relationship, you’re unserious


Abeg, it's not by force to give advice undecided undecided
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by bonnyhope: 3:39pm On Aug 18, 2023
If you are a lady between 27-32yrs old and a virgin

Send me private message for a serious relationship

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Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Angelfrost(m): 3:39pm On Aug 18, 2023
Karlifate:


Yeah, right.


A woman attaining spectacular career success increases the probability of her divorcing her husband.

Why?

Because when her status in the macro hierarchy rises, it increases the probability that she will attain status higher than her husband‘s, thereby cause her attraction to her husband to die because he no longer appeals to her hypergamy.


Men, if your wife suddenly gets a promotion at work, that increases the probability of her divorcing you.


If a husband‘s income is higher than his wife‘s income, the probability of divorce is low.


If a husband‘s income is lower than his wife‘s income, the probability of divorce is high.


Income is a proxy for ‘Status in the Macro Dominance Hierarchy‘.


Honestly, I can neither agree nor disagree with you on these...!

I have been in great relationships with higher-earning ladies, and your theory didn't hold.

A lot of the divorce cases of today involve men earning far higher than their wives... I know a lot of unions where earning power is reversed between husbands and wives, yet their love and unions grew stronger.

See ehn, a woman who starts disrespecting her husband openly and blatantly when she starts earning more probably never really respected him, even when he was the macro earner... The same woman would cheat on him while he earns more with someone who offers more.

Well, the possibilities and impossibilities are endless... The drama in Marriage is just not for the unprepared.

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Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by frankson1(m): 3:40pm On Aug 18, 2023
IconicR:
Seriously? How old are you then?


I'm 72, and single not pressured.

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Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Nobody: 3:40pm On Aug 18, 2023
AmancalledGod:
Taaa make i hear say you dey 60 plus
I'll be 64 by December

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Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Omoapena(m): 3:40pm On Aug 18, 2023
frankson1:



Abeg, it's not by force to give advice undecided undecided

It’s not by force to listen to every advice
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Nobody: 3:41pm On Aug 18, 2023
frankson1:



I'm 72, and single not pressured.
😲 how have you been coping with singlehood or were you ever married at a point
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by vickydevoka(m): 3:41pm On Aug 18, 2023
blessingnenye:
A lot of ladies are scared of 30. What's really wrong with 30? Why so dreadful with the age, after all it's just a number!!! Even with a lot of accomplishments, being 30 and single can be so pressurizing among out ladies, owing to the pressures from families and society to get married. Sometimes, this pressure sums up the reason why majority delve into an unfruitful marriage.

If you are a lady in her 30 and single, and you have good character, a bit fair since I'm dark, not really tall since I'm a bit tall, slim since I'm huge. Hit me up. Don't be shy
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by blessingnenye(f): 3:41pm On Aug 18, 2023
[quote author=blessingnenye post=125136816]A lot of ladies are scared of 30. What's really wrong with 30? Why so dreadful with the age, after all it's just a number!!! Even with a lot of accomplishments, being 30 and single can be so pressurizing among out ladies, owing to the pressures from families and society to get married. Sometimes, this pressure sums up the reason why majority delve into an unfruitful marriage.

[https://loveonet.com/5-strategic-ways-to-handle-a-cheating-partner/quote]
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by sageb: 3:41pm On Aug 18, 2023
Kevineleven:

It means you are under society pressure, it is like a demonic attack, its women that will attack you the most, they are always the one most available to the devil.
These are the attacks
1: If you are single guy above 30 they will know, because you will look far much younger than your age, handsome, at peace and clean.
2 They will start coming close to you even married women, you will think this is friendship but they are trying to find out your age, they are looking at your body for a sign that you are above 30, signs like, small bald hair, wrinkles on forehead or gray hair on your beards, once they see any of these.
3: The attack, they will start putting sir in their greeting even though they are older than youu(Good morning sir, how your family) , this is not out of respect but they are looking for a way to tell you that you are old enough for marriage.
4: They will gossip about you
5: You will hear birthday songs often in your neighborhood, even in the church, again the song is to tell you that you are old.
6: They will send their children to play in your compound.



Solution
Become harsh and intolerable

So hilarious😂
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Chetas81(m): 3:42pm On Aug 18, 2023
The Nigerian ladies need no man, as you can see how single mothers full every corner of Nigeria, still looking for New love

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Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by FireUpNow(m): 3:42pm On Aug 18, 2023
Them go for IVF since you have made lot of money
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Edusouls(m): 3:43pm On Aug 18, 2023
b3llo:
Am a guy but the feeling of being single over 30 years of age is not funny.
is never late for a Man U should be thinking of how to hold on to some skills, Job or trade that would sustain you, but ur here getting worried u ain’t married at over 30? Una think say marriage na honey?

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Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by vickydevoka(m): 3:43pm On Aug 18, 2023
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
If you like,lose yourself and die of depression due to pressure from the society......

Everything good will surely happen when it's time comes....

Personally,I don't let society pressure to have an advantage over me...Cuz I know I'm unique in my own way......And no need to over push things,cuz las las everywhere go stew.
Oga tell them the truth and stop false hope. Use statistics and not emotion. Most ladies will end up single in this out generation reason been that the economy is bad and the competition of expensive lifestyle is high.

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Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by frankson1(m): 3:44pm On Aug 18, 2023
Mosba:
Being 30 should worry every woman because no sensible guy will marry a lady at 30. Any girl age 30 and still single is never going to make a loving wife. They would have over used themselves and when the husband now need them after marriage then they will start giving all kinds of excuses as to why they hate sex. Avoid 30 years old and above ladies for marriage and have peace



I wonder where some of you guys get the false informations you post online undecided undecided
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by xtvn(m): 3:44pm On Aug 18, 2023
Cohabitation i love that
Angelfrost:


Your generalization is weak and amusing (Ignorant too)...!

In today's hyper-sexed generation, do you know how many sexual encounters ladies and guys below 30 have had??!

The day some girls below 18 opened up about their sex life, my lower jaw almost knack ground... Those girls had seen it all!

The truth is... Marriage no longer holds the attraction and lure on young people as it did decades ago. I have seen young men grow serious cold feet a few days before their weddings, and the same with brides.

Like it or not, in years to come, young people will turn their backs on marriage, and opt for cohabiting.
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by frankson1(m): 3:45pm On Aug 18, 2023
IconicR:
😲 how have you been coping with singlehood or were you ever married at a point



I've never been married and I'm coping very well.

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Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by GENES11S: 3:45pm On Aug 18, 2023
Kevineleven:

It means you are under society pressure, it is like a demonic attack, its women that will attack you the most, they are always the one most available to the devil.
These are the attacks
1: If you are single guy above 30 they will know, because you will look far much younger than your age, handsome, at peace and clean.
2 They will start coming close to you even married women, you will think this is friendship but they are trying to find out your age, they are looking at your body for a sign that you are above 30, signs like, small bald hair, wrinkles on forehead or gray hair on your beards, once they see any of these.
3: The attack, they will start putting sir in their greeting even though they are older than youu(Good morning sir, how your family) , this is not out of respect but they are looking for a way to tell you that you are old enough for marriage.
4: They will gossip about you
5: You will hear birthday songs often in your neighborhood, even in the church, again the song is to tell you that you are old.
6: They will send their children to play in your compound.



Solution
Become harsh and intolerable

grin grin grin grin. Can't stop laughing grin grin grin grin

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Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Nobody: 3:45pm On Aug 18, 2023
frankson1:




I've never been married and I'm coping very well.
Be lying 👀👀👀👀👀

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Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by blessingnenye(f): 3:47pm On Aug 18, 2023
[quote author=zed7 post=125140913]Do women still marry under 30? I haven't seen any in a long while. Seems the average age of marriage for a woman is now 30 to 35 and men is between 35 to 40.

The modern woman doesn't marry as early anymore, most women want to graduate and settle in their career before getting married. This has also caused an increase in the birth of special needs children. All my opinion and observations. [/https://loveonet.com/5-strategic-ways-to-handle-a-cheating-partner/]
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by tiswell(m): 3:48pm On Aug 18, 2023
zed7:
Do women still marry under 30? I haven't seen any in a long while. Seems the average age of marriage for a woman is now 30 to 35 and men is between 35 to 40.

The modern woman doesn't marry as early anymore, most women want to graduate and settle in their career before getting married. This has also caused an increase in the birth of special needs children. All my opinion and observations.
kindly explain
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Nobody: 3:50pm On Aug 18, 2023
You forget about what society thinks and live your life.

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Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by AmancalledGod: 3:50pm On Aug 18, 2023
IconicR:
I'll be 64 by December
Really and you are not married, why nah or have you been heart broken all this why I could be of help if you can talk to me

My father is 63 years and I'm 27 year's now, my elder brother is 29 year's married with one kid
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by vickydevoka(m): 3:51pm On Aug 18, 2023
b3llo:
Am a guy but the feeling of being single over 30 years of age is not funny.
Lol. I'm worth over 50 milion but I'm not ready to settle in the next 5 yrs. I have trust issues, especially women. How can I marry even if I'm above 30. They strategy I'm about to employ is to make more money as financial security incase she start behaving like evil spirit I will have something to fall back to

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Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by frankson1(m): 3:51pm On Aug 18, 2023
IconicR:
Be lying 👀👀👀👀👀


Ahhh!! You started the lying grin

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Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by vikkogg: 3:51pm On Aug 18, 2023
I'm a 34 year old single guy and I'm gainfully employed.
Quote me and let me know how you feel about us being friends.

blessingnenye:
A lot of ladies are scared of 30. What's really wrong with 30? Why so dreadful with the age, after all it's just a number!!! Even with a lot of accomplishments, being 30 and single can be so pressurizing among out ladies, owing to the pressures from families and society to get married. Sometimes, this pressure sums up the reason why majority delve into an unfruitful marriage.

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Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Nobody: 3:51pm On Aug 18, 2023
AmancalledGod:
Really and you are not married, why nah or have you been heart broken all this why I could be of help if you can talk to me

My father is 63 years and I'm 27 year's now, my elder brother is 29 year's married with one kid
My son it's a long story but I'm good.

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Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by mauchiz: 3:52pm On Aug 18, 2023
One lady was rescued from suicide on lekki Bridge.

Is good to get married early, but be careful when choosing your partner and be ready emotionally and physically for marriage.
Marriage is not for babies, is for matured minds.
Maturity is not by age.

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Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by Nobody: 3:52pm On Aug 18, 2023
frankson1:



Ahhh!! You started the lying grin
How did you know I'm lying? You just assumed so
Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by easytig(m): 3:53pm On Aug 18, 2023
I believe a lady must bring something to the table i.e get herself busy one way or the other legitimately like most of thier mums,not by being semi unclad on social media and begging boys online for peanuts if she wants marriage with the other gender, marriage is not a poverty alleviation program neither is a relationship.no man in his right senses will value a leech abi na parasite in the figure of a lady.

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Re: Being 30 And Single Lady, How Do You Cope With Pressures From The Society? by blessingnenye(f): 3:53pm On Aug 18, 2023
[quote author=AmyNwa10 post=125194532]It's for this very reason; the dear of being unmarried at 30 as a lady that has pushed a lot of women to ending up with any man just to be tagged, "she married early."

The men aren't even helping, since they have a knack for calling >30 unmarried ladies derogatory names such as evening newspaper.
We'll just marry anyhow to avoid all of that. [ https://loveonet.com/5-strategic-ways-to-handle-a-cheating-partner/

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