Berrityga:
Funny thing. Last year I met this girl tried talking to her she insulted the he’ll outta me. She got pregnant for a guy who left her and ran back to the north. Now she and her child are in the streets. I give her 3k every week for her up keep. Tho my friends think I’m stupid for helping her after what she did to me! I just tell them I’m doing it for her child.

Berrityga:
Funny thing. Last year I met this girl tried talking to her she insulted the he’ll outta me. She got pregnant for a guy who left her and ran back to the north. Now she and her child are in the streets. I give her 3k every week for her up keep. Tho my friends think I’m stupid for helping her after what she did to me! I just tell them I’m doing it for her child.

Karleb:


I have read too many of such stories.

Our women are overwise and I think they need serious help in terms of choosing the right partner.

jamesversion:

If you know those ladies, tell them I will marry all of them.

pansophist:


In the past, society were aware of the problem common with women, so arranged marriage was a norm.

Because if you leave a woman to her own accord, in many cases, she will first go and self-destruct before she have sense.

And by then, it's too late.

I have a female family relatives, and I see how she messed up by chasing good men away, then get older and the men she want to settle for are not even worth the ones she chased off in her prime.

Pride goes before a fall.

Persephone1:

As long as it's not to "find husband"
I'm small size nah 😃 Petite lady.

This reminds me of a discussion I had wife my mum's pastor some weeks ago. I was at her place and the man wanted to convince me to come to church. I was paying attention to him ooo until he said " when you come to church, get involved in church activities, the lord will settle you and give you a husband. Nne I just log out, he went on and on about a brother that found his wife in a church he pastored before bla bla bla. When he finished I told him plainly that this is why I don't like adult church o or attending church at all. Everything about a woman to them is marriage Find husband, have a home. Pastor open mouth for a while then went on and on on how I shouldn't allow Satan and feminist lie to me lol see ehn I just weak. I asked him questions when I started feeling guilty about putting a man of God on hot seat, I told him I will come to church and work for God while I'm at moms place but it's because it is what it's right to do and not because of man.

He Sha let me go after two hour of lectures

pansophist:


Reality sef don handle you wotowoto offline

Na turn by turn, e go reach all of us. Especially if your family no plan anything down for you, just as Naija no plans anything down for all of us.

This life eh, e de pain me say na when we de inside soup, we de learn. If bad thing never happen, we de stubborn and think say we be the exception.

Na others go suffer, not us. Na others go de jobless, not me. God like me, but maybe hate others, na why life no better for them.

For men, their test in life is to hustle hard in their 20s, to be valuable in their 30s and ride on that as they grow older.

For women, it's to catch the best man in their 20s, then ride into motherhood from there.

Of course there might be delineation to this rule, but at the very basic, it's what it is.

But right now, women go sleep around, turn their womb to graveyard via series of abortion, mess up themselves emotionally, that only manipulation will be degree, certificate and expertise they have, to get what they want in life.

For men, 30s becomes the age of extreme loneliness. Your friends who did well for themselves will bone you. He will be invincible to girls, and parents are old expecting money from him.

He will watch as his life waste away in his eyes, and such a man becomes extremely dangerous, since he is a bag of frustration.

This life. Na as you lay your mat, you go sleep on top am.

Lol.

flokii:
Men are the prize for that gender.

As a guy, a king, you don't need to slmp for noone, they should be the ones rushing you like imdomie.

Evolutionlove:




Everybody Go Humble Last Last

membranus:


All of them, as in all of them?

Bra, you try.

Eunoiaa:


Oh, so pastor knows our antics already.

It's good to know our message is permeating the offline small small.


Likeee, the whole of Jesus' existence is literally glaring for us to see that marriage is a choice. It is optional. And someone's life isn't useless if they are not doing so quick enough.

You're petite?? ?? ?? ?? Whyyy do I always think you were tall? You appeared so the few times I've seen you.


See now that there are literally women, lots of them willing to get married o, but ndi online alfas will not let us rest. These are women that will accept their conditions 100% and more, but they'd rather die fantasising about controlling unwilling women than go to meet the ones who are ready to accept them wholly. Silly people.

Yes he does ooo, he said you lots are not happy but will come online to deceive young minds like mine. So henceforth I won't want to read your posts anymore.

Lol Marriage is good no doubt,but I believe it shouldn't be the whole essence of a person's existence. We focus so much on marriage in Africa that we let a lot go rot around us. It is well. it's just conditioning and African mentality. A true believer would understand will that God deal with people individually, his plans and time for everyone differs. Reminds me of Rebekah Brown. Lol.

You are the second person I will be arguing this with. I'm not tall! I'm just 5'5. Yes I'm not short for a lady but not tall. I'm petite if we don't pay attention to the front

Most of them are always looking for who to tame and change nah . I read a thread not long ago, that one wants to know if he can change a hook up lady to wife material . Wife material wey dey so gown and pray inside church,he no see them

eleniyan2020:
single men don't need that!

Berrityga:
abi nah.

Persephone1:
Yes he does ooo, he said you lots are not happy but will come online to deceive young minds like mine. So henceforth I won't want to read your posts anymore.

Lol Marriage is good no doubt,but I believe it shouldn't be the whole essence of a person's existence. We focus so much on marriage in Africa that we let a lot go rot around us. It is well. it's just conditioning and African mentality. A true believer would understand will that God deal with people individually, his plans and time for everyone differs. Reminds me of Rebekah Brown. Lol.

You are the second person I will be arguing this with. I'm not tall! I'm just 5'5. Yes I'm not short for a lady but not tall. I'm petite if we don't pay attention to the front

Most of them are always looking for who to tame and change nah . I read a thread not long ago, that one wants to know if he can change a hook up lady to wife material . Wife material wey dey so gown and pray inside church,he no see them

Jerrydox:
At 20 they PLAY

At 30 they PRAY

At 40 they PAY

Jagaban2012:
All these greedy ladies will not have husband.....because their intention of going to marriage in the first place is wrong.....some of our guys are seriously weeping for having some of them as wives....
Most of them date or marry you for what they will benefits from you and not for real love....some of them use guys as a poverty alleviation project....some guys work and nothing to show for it.....

Ha! this is the judgement day.....let them keep crying to God.....as far as their heart is right they have husband soonest and build a happy home and some of them that their heart are not right will not get husband forever and ever

simplepee:
Madness.

okeganiyu:
Good muslim single lady that is ready for marriage should contact me on WhatsApp 07064417083.
I don't have car
I don't build mansion but and not hungry.

SSpeter:
I naturally will not contribute but I where you said "We focus on marriage and let a lot around us rot" got my attention. Hence I would like to ask what should people channel this essence or energy that we are channeling on marriage on? We like to use the Western world as a yardstick, I have lived in both the USA and Northern UK, and one thing infact the only thing the average white man values about Africans is our marriage and our sense of family. Forget about the white you see on TV, everyone should get married, marriage is important, because after 45 it begins to get lonely. My wife was a financial expert but she switched to clinical psychology cos we saw the huge market for it. The statistics for people depressed, and miserable with mental health issues alarming. We are currently seeking licensing to open a full mental health home in England and Scotland. The more egalitarian we become should not mean that the fundamentals of society (marriage and family) should be jettisoned. As Africans we do not understand what we are doing, we don't have the supporting structures the whites have yet we are looking at their family disorientation as a form of emancipation. It will end badly.

Berrityga:
Funny thing. Last year I met this girl tried talking to her she insulted the he’ll outta me. She got pregnant for a guy who left her and ran back to the north. Now she and her child are in the streets. I give her 3k every week for her up keep. Tho my friends think I’m stupid for helping her after what she did to me! I just tell them I’m doing it for her child.

Eunoiaa:


Oh, so pastor knows our antics already.

It's good to know our message is permeating the offline small small.


Likeee, the whole of Jesus' existence is literally glaring for us to see that marriage is a choice. It is optional. And someone's life isn't useless if they are not doing so quick enough.

You're petite?? ?? ?? ?? Whyyy do I always think you were tall? You appeared so the few times I've seen you.


See now that there are literally women, lots of them willing to get married o, but ndi online alfas will not let us rest. These are women that will accept their conditions 100% and more, but they'd rather die fantasising about controlling unwilling women than go to meet the ones who are ready to accept them wholly. Silly people.

Karleb:


I also think you are stupid for helping her.


I'm not sorry but I don't pity these ladies. They had it coming.

Berrityga:
Funny thing. Last year I met this girl tried talking to her she insulted the he’ll outta me. She got pregnant for a guy who left her and ran back to the north. Now she and her child are in the streets. I give her 3k every week for her up keep. Tho my friends think I’m stupid for helping her after what she did to me! I just tell them I’m doing it for her child.

Berrityga:
Funny thing. Last year I met this girl tried talking to her she insulted the he’ll outta me. She got pregnant for a guy who left her and ran back to the north. Now she and her child are in the streets. I give her 3k every week for her up keep. Tho my friends think I’m stupid for helping her after what she did to me! I just tell them I’m doing it for her child.