Luckysbab:

You want to join?

They see me that are interested in Marrying them but they are after wealth ..they are not praying for husband but a Money bag ,A Mugu they can control ,A Simp that would Take Stupidity as an Hobby

Anny69:
You want to join?

Am I single?

Luckysbab:


Am I single?

😃😃 Oh my...
Who's the lucky woman?

Anny69:
😃😃 Oh my...
Who's the lucky woman?

I haven't given that much thought.

isabi2lof:


You get money 😏

Offcourse i have money. Is there anyone on earth who doesn't have Money.

kennethfranc:


Agba nah you be this... Nothing wey you fit tell me

You don take your medicine today?

Amumaigwe:


I pity the unfortunate man she want to use as last resort. She will resent him till death.

Life usually punish people that don't have sense. I have stopped interfering with the processes of reality.

Any man wey don pass 30 and choose not to get sense for this internet age for woman matter, then I mostly likely no go pity am.

pansophist:


In the past, society were aware of the problem common with women, so arranged marriage was a norm.

Because if you leave a woman to her own accord, in many cases, she will first go and self-destruct before she have sense.

Since women retain value, any mistakes they make reduces that value they have by their very nature.

From promiscuity, abortions, emotional baggages, pride, arrogance, obesity, high taste, to name a few. Sadly, many see these vices as having "experience"

Wetin man pikin wan use an experience woman do? Experience that will make relationship more difficult for me and almost impossible to satisfy her? Because men before me "ti ba beje" (have destroy the place) lol

I have a female family relatives, and I see how she messed up by chasing good men away, then get older and the men she want to settle for are not even worth the ones she chased off in her prime.

Pride goes before a fall.

My broda. Na really pride goes before a fall.
I have an aunt too who was very beautiful during her prime.
She was very saucy and chased alot of good struggling guys away then with her attitude.
As grows older, quality men dried up and she became very bitter and takes offences at every little thing.
My mum do avoid conversations with her because she can just pick your words and take it out of context and explode.
Any small thing, you are mocking her because she is not married. What you said is stylishly throwing jabs at her because she is not married.
Out of desperation, she fell into the hand of one woli (prophet) at a prayer mountain she went to pray for hubby.
Woli wey be married man with 3 children still collect him own join to the extent my aunty borrowed him 2m wey him tell her to borrow him for whatever.
I was shocked to hear about the money because this is a woman that was chased with money in her prime, now na she dey used money chase man. How the mighty has fallen.
To cut long story short, she fell into depression when the man told her relationship finish and no money to give her back. Dribbling her.
From depression she degraded to mental problem. We had to bundle her to a local psycho home to treat her.
She looks stable presently

pansophist:


But right now, women go sleep around, turn their womb to graveyard via series of abortion, mess up themselves emotionally, that only manipulation will be degree, certificate and expertise they have, to get what they want in life.

Lol.

@ the bolded is Soo true.... Who needs an experienced woman? An experienced woman is a woman full of baggages and no man who knows his onions will go for that.

For men, 30s becomes the age of extreme loneliness. Your friends who did well for themselves will bone you. He will be invincible to girls, and parents are old expecting money from him.

He will watch as his life waste away in his eyes, and such a man becomes extremely dangerous, since he is a bag of frustration.

This your statement for men is true also.
It is actually what my immediate brother is facing.
He has squandered his 20s and his 30s are slowly drifting away in his own eyes.
He will be 33 next month..jobless, penniless, no wife, no children, no investment, no savings, no properties, no girlfriend... Just virtually Nothing.
He is frustrated and depressed. Resorted to hard drugs for consolation about his terrible life.
At first, when he came back from UAE after 5 years without anything, I was frustrated.
I wanted to explode at him for been a useless man but on getting home, I saw a highly depressed, suicidal man.
Statements like he should just die and go and meet his mum wasn't uncommon.
Even over there in UAE, my uncle working in the same company with him said prior to when the company deported him, he was going about for 3 weeks with knife contemplating commiting suicide.
Na so so suicide suicide suicide just dey him brain.
Omoh....I just had to adjust and borrow myself brain the way I talk to him make him no come kill himself kill me join.
All my angers and sharp mouth I don close am. I don jam wetin pass me. I have to respect myself.
I pick my words when advising him now. Conscious of my statement to avoid anything thing that will make him harm me.
He says I am doing well and just prefer them to surfer.
Why will I send him to UAE when there is Canada. Now, he wants to travel again.
I should bring money. He believes there is no future in Nigeria. He has no business skills, he can't even hustle. He is practically useless and very hard to help.

pansophist:


From promiscuity, abortions, emotional baggages, pride, arrogance, obesity, high taste, to name a few. Sadly, many see these vices as having "experience"

This mentality dey always vex my spirit. The funny thing is many of these "experienced" folks also show a strong sense of entitlement, as if their greater experience in promiscuity makes them more deserving of a spouse.

The world has really gone cr@,zy sha

Evolutionlove:


Offcourse i have money. Is there anyone on earth who doesn't have Money.

Yimu

isabi2lof:


Yimu

You still Dey Play

You never ready..

SSpeter:
I naturally will not contribute but I where you said "We focus on marriage and let a lot around us rot" got my attention. Hence I would like to ask what should people channel this essence or energy that we are channeling on marriage on? We like to use the Western world as a yardstick, I have lived in both the USA and Northern UK, and one thing infact the only thing the average white man values about Africans is our marriage and our sense of family. Forget about the white you see on TV, everyone should get married, marriage is important, because after 45 it begins to get lonely. My wife was a financial expert but she switched to clinical psychology cos we saw the huge market for it. The statistics for people depressed, and miserable with mental health issues alarming. We are currently seeking licensing to open a full mental health home in England and Scotland. The more egalitarian we become should not mean that the fundamentals of society (marriage and family) should be jettisoned. As Africans we do not understand what we are doing, we don't have the supporting structures the whites have yet we are looking at their family disorientation as a form of emancipation. It will end badly.

Interesting comment you have there.

However, at the bold, the cost of living has ballooned such that many young adults are not interested in marrying. This has resulted in low birth rates across many countries, especially in the developed world. The UK where you reside, has witnessed birth rates plummet drastically. So, while marriage is good, the costs involved are too high to bear. In return, some see the need to be single while others opt for DINK status (Dual Income, No Kids).

Before, I thought young Oyibos were just stoopid or overpampered, but having witnessed/read how the cost of living affects people's lives, I understand why many are putting off marriage - which affects childbirth rates.

If young people in Canada, the Netherlands, South Korea, Singapore etc., are putting off marriage, I understand their plight. E no easy.

Evolutionlove:


You still Dey Play

You never ready..

Abi na you dey whine me , I no NL ,dem sabi troll person

Yet when they get married, they will make life tough for everyone including the husband, in-laws, neighbours and friends.....

Berrityga:
Funny thing. Last year I met this girl tried talking to her she insulted the he’ll outta me. She got pregnant for a guy who left her and ran back to the north. Now she and her child are in the streets. I give her 3k every week for her up keep. Tho my friends think I’m stupid for helping her after what she did to me! I just tell them I’m doing it for her child.

Yes, you are a simp.

EconomistXplain:
.....my ex once told me sh can never marry a man earning 5k daily...nd we even calculated it as 150k this was said in 2019 wen bag of rice was 22k, 2bedroom flat is 250k .. now rice is 45k 2bedroom flat is 500k...

sh is still single nd now stooping low nd doing all house choirs including washing a guyz clothe regularly to appease him to marry her...yes, the guy earns about 150k.. but we in 2023..

only reality Humbles women

Gerrard59:


Interesting comment you have there.

However, at the bold, the cost of living has ballooned such that many young adults are not interested in marrying. This has resulted in low birth rates across many countries, especially in the developed world. The UK where you reside, has witnessed birth rates plummet drastically. So, while marriage is good, the costs involved are too high to bear. In return, some see the need to be single while others opt for DINK status (Dual Income, No Kids).

Before, I thought young Oyibos were just stoopid or overpampered, but having witnessed/read how the cost of living affects people's lives, I understand why many are putting off marriage - which affects childbirth rates.

If young people in Canada, the Netherlands, South Korea, Singapore etc., are putting off marriage, I understand their plight. E no easy.

The cost of living is increasing geometrically and it is mounting pressure on households but that shouldn't discourage getting married and having a family. Marriage requires planning and a concerted and conscious effort from both parties involved. Marriage doesn't require lump sums of cash saved and stashed, it only requires frequent cash-flows for sustenance. People often think that not having a wife and kids will make them richer, however I have seen 47 year olds without wives and kids yet they don't have duplexes neither do they drive Porsches.
The society exists in a strata, and if you live within your strata planning in marriage because less stressful. For example, there are no tuition costs if your kids will attend public schools from primary to secondary and we also have public universities in Nigeria. Hence the cost of training a child becomes less burdensome.

Jerrydox:
At 20 they PLAY

At 30 they PRAY

At 40 they PAY

Cmanforall:


A friend was serious about one pretty lady, but the lady told him she wasn't ready at 23. Her expectations may be that a very rich guy will come for her ( may be because she's pretty like a model). She's 29 or 30, and single.

The rich guy is still coming.

omooba969:
I once dated a lovely lady in 2018, a lone-parent and very open-minded. We were good together and I believed it was a nice idea to settle down with her. Seeing each other for like 7 months and she started mounting pressure on me to marry her, but TBH I wasn't mentally prepared for that.

I tried to reassure her but I think oversharp dey worry her or maybe some people were advising her. I was becoming uncomfortable in the relationship and I discussed with her about stepping aside if she felt I was wasting her time or blocking other prospective suitors.

To be fair to her, she didn't give me an outright YES to my question but her body language changed, she began to drift away from me. I stopped going to her place, I stopped fvcking her and I later stopped calling her - she didn't bother really.

Only recently, I bumped into her at a lounge and we had a little chat - obviously she's still single & I'm single too...lol 😂

Her plan B didn't work out.

emmaodet:


My broda. Na really pride goes before a fall.
I have an aunt too who was very beautiful during her prime.
She was very saucy and chased alot of good struggling guys away then with her attitude.
As grows older, quality men dried up and she became very bitter and takes offences at every little thing.
My mum do avoid conversations with her because she can just pick your words and take it out of context and explode.
Any small thing, you are mocking her because she is not married. What you said is stylishly throwing jabs at her because she is not married.
Out of desperation, she fell into the hand of one woli (prophet) at a prayer mountain she went to pray for hubby.
Woli wey be married man with 3 children still collect him own join to the extent my aunty borrowed him 2m wey him tell her to borrow him for whatever.
I was shocked to hear about the money because this is a woman that was chased with money in her prime, now na she dey used money chase man. How the mighty has fallen.
To cut long story short, she fell into depression when the man told her relationship finish and no money to give her back. Dribbling her.
From depression she degraded to mental problem. We had to bundle her to a local psycho home to treat her.
She looks stable presently

Siofra
Goodlady

Shey una Dey see

Karlifate:


The rich guy is still coming.

Possibly

pansophist:


You don take your medicine today?

I'm sorry sir...

Guyman01:
I have a sister inlaw who is not yet married and has a good job. She lived with me and my wife for a few years before she got her own house, she has a good paying job but she never contributed anything in running the house, I used my salary to cater for my family and her basic needs such as eating whatever we prepared, she didn't ask one day how the rent or NEPA bill was paid, never bought a basin of Garri or cup of rice for one day except when she didn't like what my wife prepared and she will go and buy indomie with eggs and bread for herself.

Stinginess should be her second name, she didn't have a stable serious relationship, I knew that in this day and time no young man wants a stingy woman as fiancee, I told my wife my observations and when she tried to advise her it almost caused a quarrel as she accused her of insulting her because she is not yet married and living with us.

But I told myself it will be difficult for her to get a man to willingly propose to her and tie himself with liability despite her being a working class lady with her stinginess.

Most of those ladies problems has to do with their attitudes and characters despite all their beauty and resources

Honestly, if you partner notice you are stingy it can never work

Karlifate:


Her plan B didn't work out.

Lol 😁 no mind her, na mumu girl.

emmaodet:

My broda. Na really pride goes before a fall.
I have an aunt too who was very beautiful during her prime.
She was very saucy and chased alot of good struggling guys away then with her attitude.
As grows older, quality men dried up and she became very bitter and takes offences at every little thing.
My mum do avoid conversations with her because she can just pick your words and take it out of context and explode.
Any small thing, you are mocking her because she is not married. What you said is stylishly throwing jabs at her because she is not married.
Out of desperation, she fell into the hand of one woli (prophet) at a prayer mountain she went to pray for hubby.
Woli wey be married man with 3 children still collect him own join to the extent my aunty borrowed him 2m wey him tell her to borrow him for whatever.
I was shocked to hear about the money because this is a woman that was chased with money in her prime, now na she dey used money chase man. How the mighty has fallen.
To cut long story short, she fell into depression when the man told her relationship finish and no money to give her back. Dribbling her.
From depression she degraded to mental problem. We had to bundle her to a local psycho home to treat her.
She looks stable presently

God forgive me this early morning.

I don laff so tey as i dey read this post.

The Way you Write ehn, You know how to balance all the Ingredients

This thing called LIFE ehn. LIFE no be anybody Mate. Na why i dey humble and always begging the FORCEs behind It every morning when i wake up and same thing applies before i turn in for the Night.

isabi2lof:


Abi na you dey whine me , I no NL ,dem sabi troll person

Make we meet for Mail if you dey Shy then

Evolutionlove:


Make we meet for Mail if you dey Shy then

Okay

Evolutionlove:




God forgive me this early morning.

I don laff so tey as i dey read this post.

The Way you Write ehn, You know how to balance all the Ingredients

This thing called LIFE ehn. LIFE no be anybody Mate. Na why i dey humble and always begging the FORCEs behind It every morning when i wake up and same thing applies before i turn in for the Night.

My broda..........hmmm that is why i also pray regularly to my God that guides me, my ancenstors and oracles make them just they mercy me.

bro, if life turnaround at someone negatively ehnnn....hmmmmmm.. nothing you do will make sense. All efforts will be null and e go be like sy witch dey follow person.
During my low low low days, wetin man no do finish? i go many prayer mountains, carry sacrifice, do iwe odo(i don bath tire for celestia stream...i no even fit count am) but nmow i just look back and laff at those dark days

emmaodet:




My broda..........hmmm that is why i also pray regularly to my God that guides me, my ancenstors and oracles make them just they mercy me.

bro, if life turnaround at someone negatively ehnnn....hmmmmmm.. nothing you do will make sense. All efforts will be null and e go be like sy witch dey follow person.
During my low low low days, wetin man no do finish? i go many prayer mountains, carry sacrifice, do iwe odo(i don bath tire for celestia stream...i no even fit count am) but nmow i just look back and laff at those dark days

Exactly that's LIFE.