ebijimi7:
Good morning landers, its a beautiful thursday morning here in lagos,
Ok so straight down to the business without much hassle.
It goes like this, ok I have this girl I'm dating she has been a lovable soul a friend,partner,lover and mother she is caring also I have never met a girl like that in my life since I became an adult the knky person that I know has those quality she possessed was my mum which is late now, she is from kwale I think a town In delta state and I am from ondo so we have been together for couple of years now so one day we had a heart to heart conversation she told me about her past and I also told her about mine thou I've dated some substantial amount of ladies sha, I don't want to mention before una call me (Ashewo or brostitute , so on the long run while explaining she told me what transpired between she qnd some of her exes the ones that kept deceiving her and collecting money from her she mentioned about 10 of them which she actually supported 2 to travel out of the country but they neglected and dumped her after they got over sea, more of like she fell into the hand of bad guys thou what kept ringing in my head and making me scared was the fact she made out with some of them and I still get angry knowing that fact sometimes she would be crying that I'm using her past against her just because she was inlove and it didn't work out within she and any of her ex , I loved her but this her past kept dragging me back and making me scared of taking the next step.
Not to mention all of what she has done for me but when I lost my mum she stood by me all through the difficult times she prays for me she was with me at the hospital for days until my mum passed out.
Looking at these are qualities I get confused the more because I dint know if I'm making the right decision by letting her go she rarely ask for anything
Please your candid advice I'd needed

talk2hb1:

So You Can’t Cope with that?
Is either you let her lie or you accept the bitter truth.

Their past does matter because they will judge you by their past, which is unfortunate!
But their is a common ground, if you still wants to keep her. At least you have upper hands now, and you can use it to your advantage.bro she is very supportive
Negotiate on your own terms if she will agree to them, I just believe you are better off.
If I am to negotiate these will be my terms:
1)No Simping, if their was before no more
2) bring something more tangible to the table beyond your vjay and b**bs
3) ….

ebijimi7:
Good morning landers, its a beautiful thursday morning here in lagos,
Ok so straight down to the business without much hassle.
It goes like this, ok I have this girl I'm dating she has been a lovable soul a friend,partner,lover and mother she is caring also I have never met a girl like that in my life since I became an adult the knky person that I know has those quality she possessed was my mum which is late now, she is from kwale I think a town In delta state and I am from ondo so we have been together for couple of years now so one day we had a heart to heart conversation she told me about her past and I also told her about mine thou I've dated some substantial amount of ladies sha, I don't want to mention before una call me (Ashewo or brostitute , so on the long run while explaining she told me what transpired between she qnd some of her exes the ones that kept deceiving her and collecting money from her she mentioned about 10 of them which she actually supported 2 to travel out of the country but they neglected and dumped her after they got over sea, more of like she fell into the hand of bad guys thou what kept ringing in my head and making me scared was the fact she made out with some of them and I still get angry knowing that fact sometimes she would be crying that I'm using her past against her just because she was inlove and it didn't work out within she and any of her ex , I loved her but this her past kept dragging me back and making me scared of taking the next step.
Not to mention all of what she has done for me but when I lost my mum she stood by me all through the difficult times she prays for me she was with me at the hospital for days until my mum passed out.
Looking at these are qualities I get confused the more because I dint know if I'm making the right decision by letting her go she rarely ask for anything
Please your candid advice I'd needed

ebijimi7:
Good morning landers, its a beautiful thursday morning here in lagos,
Ok so straight down to the business without much hassle.
It goes like this, ok I have this girl I'm dating she has been a lovable soul a friend,partner,lover and mother she is caring also I have never met a girl like that in my life since I became an adult the knky person that I know has those quality she possessed was my mum which is late now, she is from kwale I think a town In delta state and I am from ondo so we have been together for couple of years now so one day we had a heart to heart conversation she told me about her past and I also told her about mine thou I've dated some substantial amount of ladies sha, I don't want to mention before una call me (Ashewo or brostitute , so on the long run while explaining she told me what transpired between she qnd some of her exes the ones that kept deceiving her and collecting money from her she mentioned about 10 of them which she actually supported 2 to travel out of the country but they neglected and dumped her after they got over sea, more of like she fell into the hand of bad guys thou what kept ringing in my head and making me scared was the fact she made out with some of them and I still get angry knowing that fact sometimes she would be crying that I'm using her past against her just because she was inlove and it didn't work out within she and any of her ex , I loved her but this her past kept dragging me back and making me scared of taking the next step.
Not to mention all of what she has done for me but when I lost my mum she stood by me all through the difficult times she prays for me she was with me at the hospital for days until my mum passed out.
Looking at these are qualities I get confused the more because I dint know if I'm making the right decision by letting her go she rarely ask for anything
Please your candid advice I'd needed

kingthreat:
Be a man and forget her past. Infact forget her body count.
There's this freaky babe that 10 years ago was very wild. This girl did threeesome with my friend and I. We started even avoiding her because she had numerous sexual partners.
But as we speak, she's in Canada working in a top company there. Always showcases her family in a graceful way that you might even envy. Her past is gone and forgotten.

Headward:
From Kwale?? Omo use your brain well. I say make I update you

ebijimi7:
Good morning landers, its a beautiful thursday morning here in lagos,
Ok so straight down to the business without much hassle.
It goes like this, ok I have this girl I'm dating she has been a lovable soul a friend,partner,lover and mother she is caring also I have never met a girl like that in my life since I became an adult the knky person that I know has those quality she possessed was my mum which is late now, she is from kwale I think a town In delta state and I am from ondo so we have been together for couple of years now so one day we had a heart to heart conversation she told me about her past and I also told her about mine thou I've dated some substantial amount of ladies sha, I don't want to mention before una call me (Ashewo or brostitute , so on the long run while explaining she told me what transpired between she qnd some of her exes the ones that kept deceiving her and collecting money from her she mentioned about 10 of them which she actually supported 2 to travel out of the country but they neglected and dumped her after they got over sea, more of like she fell into the hand of bad guys thou what kept ringing in my head and making me scared was the fact she made out with some of them and I still get angry knowing that fact sometimes she would be crying that I'm using her past against her just because she was inlove and it didn't work out within she and any of her ex , I loved her but this her past kept dragging me back and making me scared of taking the next step.
Not to mention all of what she has done for me but when I lost my mum she stood by me all through the difficult times she prays for me she was with me at the hospital for days until my mum passed out.
Looking at these are qualities I get confused the more because I dint know if I'm making the right decision by letting her go she rarely ask for anything
Please your candid advice I'd needed

Tenrack:
dey play. It always comes back to bite hard. One way or the other. These females that keep multiple partner and sleep with them think they are wise. I really feel sorry for them. The seed they are planting. E go done for inside their marriage if e no done outside.

kingthreat:


Maybe it will bite hard for men like you. As a man, whatever your wife did sexually before she married you is not your business. If you choose to make it your business, it will be your pain.

Latty88:
OP be sincere, you too have had something to do with a lot of girls!

Just like the way some of those girls in your past used you likewise some of thee guys in her past used her too. Therefore you have no right to judge or condemn her.

If you cannot deal with her past free her quickly.

Tenrack:
LoL you're really delusional if you think it won't affect you if you marry her. brace yourself.