Referred:
Responsible men rarely tell lies. They like to present things the way they are. Unfortunately, women don't like to hear the truth. Some of them have high tastes that are not even realistic. But when they see someone who claims to possess all their quests, that's the right guy for them.
Meanwhile, this kind of attitude is not limited to women. It also happens in labour market and in business. If you can tell the recruiter what he wants to hear, there's possibility that you will get the job.
In business, for example, if someone asks you how long will it take to get something done, when you tell them the truth, it doesn't get down well with them. You see them rushing to someone who promised to perform 'miracle' within a day. It's after they have gotten their fingers burnt that they realized their mistakes.
Even in making investment decisions, how can someone fall for a promise of 50% returns without 1-4 weeks?
So, it's not just about women alone. Truth is always bitter. However, it may be bitter but it's always to our benefits if we can swallow it.

We are wired to Combat the Truth & Facts That's why experience is our best teacher ...

Anybody telling the truth always will simply die like rat because those who love lies would murder such person & those who love truths are cowards that wouldn't blink an eye for a fellow patriot....

Truth Must be Twerked in order to survive & Succeed ... That's the game players use & Gbam they won their girls over ... Even if is Job, If You sabi Toast Girls till She get wet on Instant, You will Win HR Over & Be Changing Jobs like Boxers .... It's a Transferrable Skills

Truth guys are too slow for average women ...
A woman could be slow but she doesn't want a slow nigga ... Women's womb are wired to twitched for the Best Dude ...

Most Women love their guys with actions, Vibes & Swags .. especially this Gen Z, if You ain't Missing Your SU with Players stunt ... Dem go help you bang ya wife ooo cuz Eyes of everyone don break ....

When women eyes break O ti lor unlike our Grandmas wey no sabi Anything....

Bluezy13:


Shut up!

... Ya Papa Left Nyansh

He doesn't understand what he's saying.

In Islam, has he publicly stated that he drinks, he can't be called to witness or be trusted with anything again according to Islamic jurisprudence unless he turns new leaf.

IconicR:
Your second paragraph isn't true because I use to hear my cousins say a Muslim can't take alcohol because his/her prayers won't be accepted for seventy days. So going by your statement you are only implying that your prayers are valid but not in a mosque and I'm only seeing this from you for the first time

You can stray and get hooked, it's better you don't stray.

If I was single, I wouldn't mind having a drug dealer like Ghost from Power..🤭🤭🤭

Onkoolos:


will u prefer a drug dealers, womanizer and drunkard over a calm and nice guy??

Women love being treated badly.. reason they fall easily for bad boys.
That's the only reasonable explanation to the question OP raised.

FalseProphet1:
I see more women falling for bad boys, I see more hearts being broken, I see marriage ending in Nigeria by next year.

This I have seen.

You are actually blind🤣🤣

Haha.

Imagine.

Where is that 70 days written please?

Why giving fatwa on what you don't even understand

Do you know the implications of that?

Hadith written by many Islamic scholars? you're type of Muslim of Yoruba origin that makes some people call us FAKE.


Please desist from saying all you know NOTHING about. Please

iammo:


Salat kind of prayer of 5 times a day is what am talking for the 48 hours.

The issue with Islam is many Hadith exist written by different Islamic scholar given different teachings and rulings, so your cousin is equally right on his 70 days

But standardly after 48 hours all alcohol should have left your blood stream and you can observe the solat

However simple prayers can be said at anytime even when drunk

DonroxyII:
... Ya Papa Left Nyansh

E pain am

What do you mean by simple salats?

iammo:


Salat kind of prayer of 5 times a day is what am talking for the 48 hours.

The issue with Islam is many Hadith exist written by different Islamic scholar given different teachings and rulings, so your cousin is equally right on his 70 days

But standardly after 48 hours all alcohol should have left your blood stream and you can observe the solat

However simple prayers can be said at anytime even when drunk

Franzinni:
It is hardwired in them to fall for the bad boy even if they know he is no good for them but when nature hold you, you go fear autopilot...

A bad boy give them drama and a woman without drama is like a big dick with erectile dysfunction. They crave the adventure, the rollercoaster, the unpredictability, the machismo, they are even ready to put up with being smacked around like a rag doll once in a while, they always have a ready excuse for the bad boy as to why he beat her up. They are usually invested in the allure of bad boys untill they begin to approach the wall say around 28, with a stretched out 🐈, a couple of abortions and a plethora of mental and psychological problems, then they find a simp who has been trying to land a hot babe all his life but face rejection after rejection becasue he is too short or too something... Then like a narcissist, they tailor thier attitude and character to align with his desires until after a couple of kids and marriage then boom, he is not meeting up to thier expectations, his sex life is poor, he works too much, then they rekindle old flings with thier ex who lives far away, send him a couple of nudes just to activate the he goat in him, he finds a way to come to town, she keeps the kids with the simp and goes to get her guts pushed in by the bad boy... She comes back home to the simp who believes he is doing what a man should do and taking care of his family without the slightest clue that he is only playing a game society has put before him and generations before him... If you have a good woman hold her tight and treat her right becasue it's a jungle out here.

To Cur.se you come dey Hungry Me ...

You just describe life Cycle of Relationships In a Nutshell ....

Mind You, Some women shall become Insane without their ex shining them because some Dudes(Houseband) are just Wacko & Wierdo without Games ....

Sex is Bland without Spices ... Women Love Being Led in all Spheres Not Doing the leading ... She get Bored Easily without Spices!

Lumig:
Because they're also bad with bad intentions.
Law of Magnetism
Like attracts, unlike repel

You've just displayed your poor knowledge of science on a global stage.

If ONLY you know that where there's Sharia law, you'll be given 40-80 strokes of cane for getting drunk as punishment according to Sharia, you be saying this.

iammo:



Solar is the kind of prayer offered five times mostly in mosques

Dua is a kind of prayers you recite anywhere , you can recite Dua for different purposes

Alcohol doesn't stop your Dua

DonroxyII:
Your own is always different ... How could a Med Doc be Mad at the same time ... Hope U ain't a Surgeon sha as Specialisation .. .... Jesus ... Ur own dey cut ✂️ my mind always ... !

Naso we see am o.
I really did crazy things in Med School. I'll try and update my diary Sha. How do you know I'm a surgeon by specialization?

iammo:

Personally as a guy, you can't be my friend if you don't have one of this vices

Smoke

Drink

Or

Womanize


Men without vices are very strict, boring and sometimes wicked


.

You need a change of heart/soul.

Every thing you should hate is what you love.
And some day you going to be a father. Is this the type of children you plan to raise and churn into society?

Who is responsible for your irresponsibility?

1. Your parents?
2. Your siblings?
3. Your friends?
4. Media/Entertainment?

You need to change your circle of friends first of all and your mindset about life and apparently a lot of things.

God have mercy on whatever is left of your soul.

iammo:


Salat kind of prayer of 5 times a day is what am talking for the 48 hours.

The issue with Islam is many Hadith exist written by different Islamic scholar given different teachings and rulings, so your cousin is equally right on his 70 days

But standardly after 48 hours all alcohol should have left your blood stream and you can observe the solat

However simple prayers can be said at anytime even when drunk

There is no any prayer that can be said in Islam while you are drunk, you are crossing the line, if you don't the rules you simply ask.
Taking alcohol is completely forbidden in Islam ,it was allowed initially during the prophet's time but it was letter banned completely because when your are drunk instead of you to praise and glorify Allah you end up insulting, demeaning and doing all manner of disrespect to Allah, and also because it does more harm than good.
The prohibition of taking alcohol is clearly stated in the Qur'an is not a Hadith. I pray Allah should assist you to stop drinking alcohol

ThatFairGuy1:
He doesn't understand what he's saying.

In Islam, has he publicly stated that he's can't be called to witness or be trusted with anything again according to Islamic jurisprudence unless he turns new leaf.

Well, it's your word against his

Farfalla:


Nothing to be proud about.

You must be very young and shallow to think that these 3 vices, which are likely to kill you before your time, are attributes upon which your friendships should be based on.

You males choose dangerous, unhealthy lifestyles and when you come across statistics of men dying before their wives you start shouting upandan that marriage stress kills men when it's mostly the stupid life choices most men make which kill them. This includes driving like Safari Rally drivers on a two-way lane.

Hahaha. Leave them to their folly.

In their old age, it's their wives that nurse and feed them saltless unripe plantain and oil-less vegetable soup.

folake4u:


Hahaha. Leave them to their folly.

In their old age, it's their wives that nurse and feed them saltless plantain and oiless vegetable sauce.

It is unripe plantain according to pocohantas

Are you a Muslim, are you married or dating one, do you wanna be one?

Why are you hung up on this? Besides, religions are scams!

IconicR:
Your last paragraph is confusing, what do you mean by simple prayers
Are there any other prayers aside the five times daily prayers?
If you are from the north or having lived in the north you'll understand my views

Consumption of alcohol by Muslims is totally prohibited in the north and as such invalidates all types of prayers till after 70days

GloriousGbola:



It is unripe plantain according to pocoha.ntas

Lol. Unripe and saltless.

iammo:




Personally as a guy, you can't be my friend if you don't have one of this vices

Smoke

Drink

Or

Womanize


Men without vices are very strict, boring and sometimes wicked


.

. I never wanted to be a womaniser but it came naturally especially as height..money and brains enter the equation na me con dey reason how to protect myself cos these ladies aren't smiling they wan hook me. I just dey look dem..dem neva see anything. Most I keep at arms length.

dontrulee:


Naso we see am o.
I really did crazy things in Med School. I'll try and update my diary Sha. How do you know I'm a surgeon by specialization?

We are Both "Mad" but I'm still a Virgin Sha

Update ya library, Na because of ya Sexcapades make me dey follow you oo so I go dey learn stuff make someone no dey help me battibatti my woman ...

ValarDoharis:
Are you a Muslim, are you married or dating one, do you wanna be one?

Why are you hung up on this? Besides, religions are scams!

I like to ask questions and besides what does an atheist like you know about religion to call it scam

The starve the ladies of something that is valuable to them: ATTENTION

Bluezy13:


E pain am

olori pelebe ..

iammo:




Personally as a guy, you can't be my friend if you don't have one of this vices

Smoke

Drink

Or

Womanize


Men without vices are very strict, boring and sometimes wicked


.

Aptly put....

iammo:




Personally as a guy, you can't be my friend if you don't have one of this vices

Smoke

Drink

Or

Womanize


Men without vices are very strict, boring and sometimes wicked


.

You dey hear talk? When did it become okay to even have any of those habits you mentioned? How does not having them make you wicked? One day we will wakeuo and ask ourselves how bad turned to normal and everyone lives with it. Bullshet mentality.

Little21:

Good girls may fall for bad boys, but if you find out he is just player, why would you still stay with him?? A girl knows a bad boy if they see one, but if she fall for him despite that... It means she only chose what she want too choose. As a girl if you know the kind of person you are, and the kind of person you want.. You won't settle for the exact opposite. Some were deceived. I won't evade that part. A bad boy can start acting all good for you. Even though it's all too get in the girls pant.. but the girl will fall for it, thinking if he is becoming a new leaf, just for her. No matter what others say, that the guy is a player, and will never change. Cuz people don't change. She will still wanna believe, it's a miracle, that a guy change, just for her. And in the end she will end up as a victim.

Same goes for guys too.

Bro, women know they are players yet they are wired to fall for opened minded person with less emotions -- bad boy. Women are careless being, they just wanna have fun but not accountable for its outcome.

Just want a free-from-obsession lifestyle. Sadly, in the end both the good guys and bad guys are called scum. Funny gender😅

Dey fall bços some of them don't have Sense

Akharmony:
Most women love to b lied to

lie is sweet truth is bitter ....

Nevertheless Both the liar & Lieee shall Chop BabaGod Koboko as time goes On when everything cast & Truth gets Unveilled.

I'm not an atheist. I believe God exists and that he created the universe.

But i don't believe in Jesus, or Mohammed

IconicR:
I like to ask questions and besides what does an atheist like you know about religion to call it scam

Kingosytex:


I have heard the bolded over a thousand times but it's not true.
It's a fallacy used by many who involve in one or all of the above vices to make those who don't feel less of themselves.

I don't drink, I've never smoked all my life, I don't womanize but I'm one of the most compassionate people you can ever come across.

My cousin always tease me with 'you don't drink, smoke, womanize, who do you catch your fun?'
To me, the above aren't fun. I don't say they are bad. It's not just my thing. I'm not wired that way.

So How do You Catch Fun ... How Wan learn !