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Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by FROGMAN101(m): 10:13am On Sep 23, 2023 |
pansophist: This is facts who knows if he has bad behavior we don’t know about. A elder brother can not just leave you stranded unless something is happening |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by DyingFetus: 10:45am On Sep 23, 2023 |
Kys you pathetic son of a bich |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by Openfortruth: 11:13am On Sep 23, 2023 |
Stevenbright: Thank you. I will try my best. Not as if he has much but some things can be bought and kept in the house when there's a little money. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by Openfortruth: 11:14am On Sep 23, 2023 |
FROGMAN101: Can I drop his phone number with you? |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by wisdomkid: 11:45am On Sep 23, 2023 |
The first replies bother me though. I think blood over everything else? OP, do you have any clash with your brother prior before coming to the city? What does he do for a living? Do you have sibling communications? Because it sounds like you guys don't talk. Maybe he's ashamed that he can't provide for you? I don't know sha. Just saying that blood brothers don't behave like this, except something happened. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by DomPerignon: 12:37pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
As my life was about to become useless in the village, I came to the city to stay with my older brother and learn phone repairs. Nah dem. Always disturbing us with their never ending family wahala. |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by DomPerignon: 12:38pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
Openfortruth: Ibo amaka The belle crushing poverty that is in that their yeast no be here. |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by Justdare: 12:39pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
MS247: God bless you! Your likes keep me on this platform. Thank you |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by Pipefitter: 12:40pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
MS247: Where the 1k go come from? Heaven? 6 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by pikechukwu6(m): 12:41pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
How many times have you approached him over this issue? How many times you seek advise from your parents or immediate brothers or sisters over this? you just bring topic that will not change the price of commodities in the market |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by 12345baba(m): 12:42pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
Abeg stop forming stories. The way wrote this shows u are well enlightened than what u portray to be. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by JoshTim: 12:43pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
MS247:.what is wrong in a brother helping his younger brother. 2 persons and of different tribe from mine, i housed and fed them for more than 3 months. you should check if you are still human enough to feel others pain. Get out. 7 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by Semaj77(m): 12:43pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
Mindlog: The brother seems to be struggling as well |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by Gajagojo: 12:43pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
If You go to the market and buy a dog and don't feed it You are starving it Saying your brother is starving you implies In your head you think he is responsible for feeding you. Even animals in the before they eat don't wait for their brother Nobody owes you anything Good morning DID YOUR BROTHER INVITE YOU TO COME AND LIVE WITH HIM |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by uche393: 12:44pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
it's very painful, learning a skill without someone backing you up is a bad thing to experience. maybe it not easy for your brother, but it's wickedness if he has the capability and he's not taking care of you. you might consider looking for a job maybe fuel attendant or any job while you stay with your brother. since you are not from a financial buoyant family, consider going to the national open University. at least you can work and study without depending much on people. learning a skill is important, but man gats to chop first. look for a job. |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by layzie: 12:47pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
@ op, No where did I read in this write up that u discussed these concerns with your brother. But u have written almost a page to faceless people u don't know to advise u what exactly? Based on this one sided story? Pls go have a talk with ur brother first. Tell us exactly what u told him about your situation and food and what/how he responded. Then we can have a proper basis for good advise if any |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by Gajagojo: 12:47pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
JoshTim:Nothing wrong in a person helping another person whether brother or not If you Can If you cannot there is nothing you can do. It is HELP Help is different from responsibility Your children are your responsibility not your brother Yes help them if you can but it is NOT their right or entitlement 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by AfonjaConehead: 12:48pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
Openfortruth:As an apprentice,don't you get something little at times from your boss? You can also explore things to your oga to let you have some time in case you find some menial works to do....most people especially lagosians hussled real bad and hard on the streets when we ported years ago. Try and find menial jobs you can do time to time and when you do,try and also follow the advice above,buy some food you can afford and put at home...life is hard these days and your brother may not be finding it easy.. remember,he's got his own life to live. |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by ppogba: 12:49pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
It amazes me how people frequently make us of the words " entitlement mentality" in most discussions on this platform. Probably maybe because it was not in existence when I was growing up. Gradually, seeds are being planted now. When it starts to yield fruits then, eyes go clear. Like seriously, junior brother from the same parents? 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by Mindlog: 12:49pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
Semaj77: You don't have been rich to be compassionate, he may be struggling as the elder brother but the way he is going about it, is not humane. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by julybaba(m): 12:49pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
Openfortruth:He doesn’t see you as a brother. He sees you as a burden 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by remiopash: 12:49pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
Openfortruth: Seat him down and talk to him in a very respectful manner. He might have assumed you are making money already from the work. Let him know that you are starving .And that you too will be contributing when you start making money. |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by Chetas81(m): 12:50pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
MS247:because you the Nigerian citizen live on miracle, not intelligence 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by Gajagojo: 12:50pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
DID YOUR BROTHER INVITE YOU TO COME AND LIVE WITH HIM 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by Oyindidi(f): 12:50pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
Sorry o, had it been na early part of this year you post this your story, I for pity you but after our last born wey we sponsor wedding say we no do enough, I no dey support younger siblings. Go back to village if the hunger too much. My 2cent |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by Chetas81(m): 12:51pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
Openfortruth:entitlement is not allowed |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by stevups(m): 12:51pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
MS247: Well done.. very good opinion |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by paskal16: 12:52pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by Xkale1996(m): 12:54pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
MS247:Very Good advice |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by aycapri(m): 12:55pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
MS247:you are exactly like the brother in question or worse than him. He said he just came In from the village and has nothing on him at the moment. He treks to where he is learning, and you even told him to go and explain to someone who knows his situation. Nah, you no try. Try to be your brother’s keeper, no one knows tomorrow. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by Gajagojo: 12:57pm On Sep 23, 2023 |
Mindlog: You lack wisdom If you did you would realise there are two sides to every story. Hearing one side and passing judgment is not wise. A person who is old enough to marry is living like a bachelor cooking noodles and you think the best thing for him is to become father to one brother. So he won't marry and arrange his life? The OP is an adult he can and should wake up. If that brother dies won't he live? |
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