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Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by Blitzking: 4:00pm On Oct 16, 2023
MuMuOnBail:
Na wa ooo


The way I ride my above 30 years old side chicks eeh. You will hate me if you are a lady.

Sometime I Pity their future husbands if they eventually find one unlucky chief.

I leave this ladies with a mark & title to remember called 'Empress Reservior Kpekus' (E.R.K1).
No near above 30 Yr old lady dey scope am with marriage if u just want enter into her honey pot..cos those ladies are very vicious once dey fall in love and e no dey too tey dem..just give them small affection dem go begin give u signal Wey blind man go even see.

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Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by kaymart: 4:07pm On Oct 16, 2023
BItt:
Humans are not meant to be lonely, if you have no intention to be lonely and depressed at your old age, it's best you get married.

And it's best you get married while still young but since life has no definite path, if you can't get married at an age lower than 30, just make sure you work and have money, men will come
You sound like someone with brain.
DM me Ur number let's talk.
Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by Bighead95(m): 4:12pm On Oct 16, 2023
Animegirl:
Marriage is not a do-or-die affair or a guarantee of happiness or a secured future.

Singleness also has its own benefits while it lasts, but some ladies would rather remain in an abusive relationship or courtship just because they believe they are running out of time and that age is no longer on their side.

Ladies approaching their late 20s and reaching 30 or even 40 think that it should not be heard that they do not have a boyfriend or suitor. Come on, ladies, don't be deceived by any man that you're getting old without children. There are kids out there who want a mother; you can adopt and still live a happy life. Don't be deceived that your beauty will fade away once you clock a certain age, these are lies!

Getting married is not a guarantee you will make it to heaven; we are all going to die, and we won't possibly remember our families we left here on earth.

In fact, there are opportunities for you to engage in, such as further studies, volunteering in social activities that are beneficial to other people, among others. You get to make connections without limiting yourself.

In fact, why most men want you to marry so quickly is because they are scared of the woman you shall become without them.

I'm not saying you shouldn't marry, but don't be pressured by what people say. As you achieve a level of success without a man, you will realize how much you don't need a man to be happy. Please, ladies, live your life for you.

My humble submission kiss

What's the need of working/hustling for MOney to get our basic amenities when we all gonna die..... Because when we die we will all leave everything to the 🌎...

Or
.what's the need of putting cloth on which we all gonna get naked when we die ...

Or
Make I dey talk am dey go grin grin angry grin grin

Dey give yourself unnecessary HOPE..

Better go MARRY

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Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by bluefilm: 4:15pm On Oct 16, 2023
Kajaard:
I learnt a lot when I started watching those podcasts and it has helped me a lot.

Fresh'n'Fit/Kevin Samuels/Andrew Tate/Daily Wire podcast/Ben Shapiro/Jordan Peterson/Matt Walsh/Candace Owens/Amala Ekpunobi et al cool

You can add Pearl to your list...
Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by AlphaHakimi: 4:19pm On Oct 16, 2023
Don't be deceived. The pride of every woman created on earth is to be called someone's wife and probably a mother.

You see, as you grow older, your preferences in life changes. You begin to desire certain things especially if you see women your age. A time will come when you as a single lady will ask to go out with your married female friend and you will hear things from her like " Emeka my son is graduating from secondary school thus week, and next week Aisha my daughter will be participating in her singing competition and I have to attend both, therefore I have no time to go out with you"

You will feel pained, you will begin to wish you had a family of your own.

Advice of the day:

Life is a culmination of all the experiences you have had. At the beginning, you were a baby and experienced undiluted love, you grow up into a teenager and you feel the burst of hormones and energy. You become an adult an you begin to take up responsibilities. You get married and have children and you begin to be a family man/woman. Your kids grow up and get married and you become a grand parent and if you are lucky, you become a great grand parent.
Let it never be said that out of your own decision, you decided to be a single old lady. Why give up on other experiences of life after becoming an adult

Shalom

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Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by vickydevoka(m): 4:34pm On Oct 16, 2023
Animegirl:
Marriage is not a do-or-die affair or a guarantee of happiness or a secured future.

Singleness also has its own benefits while it lasts, but some ladies would rather remain in an abusive relationship or courtship just because they believe they are running out of time and that age is no longer on their side.

Ladies approaching their late 20s and reaching 30 or even 40 think that it should not be heard that they do not have a boyfriend or suitor. Come on, ladies, don't be deceived by any man that you're getting old without children. There are kids out there who want a mother; you can adopt and still live a happy life. Don't be deceived that your beauty will fade away once you clock a certain age, these are lies!

Getting married is not a guarantee you will make it to heaven; we are all going to die, and we won't possibly remember our families we left here on earth.

In fact, there are opportunities for you to engage in, such as further studies, volunteering in social activities that are beneficial to other people, among others. You get to make connections without limiting yourself.

In fact, why most men want you to marry so quickly is because they are scared of the woman you shall become without them.

I'm not saying you shouldn't marry, but don't be pressured by what people say. As you achieve a level of success without a man, you will realize how much you don't need a man to be happy. Please, ladies, live your life for you.

My humble submission kiss
All ladies need rich men. Rich men just want to f*ck

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Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by vickydevoka(m): 4:35pm On Oct 16, 2023
Animegirl:
Marriage is not a do-or-die affair or a guarantee of happiness or a secured future.

Singleness also has its own benefits while it lasts, but some ladies would rather remain in an abusive relationship or courtship just because they believe they are running out of time and that age is no longer on their side.

Ladies approaching their late 20s and reaching 30 or even 40 think that it should not be heard that they do not have a boyfriend or suitor. Come on, ladies, don't be deceived by any man that you're getting old without children. There are kids out there who want a mother; you can adopt and still live a happy life. Don't be deceived that your beauty will fade away once you clock a certain age, these are lies!

Getting married is not a guarantee you will make it to heaven; we are all going to die, and we won't possibly remember our families we left here on earth.

In fact, there are opportunities for you to engage in, such as further studies, volunteering in social activities that are beneficial to other people, among others. You get to make connections without limiting yourself.

In fact, why most men want you to marry so quickly is because they are scared of the woman you shall become without them.

I'm not saying you shouldn't marry, but don't be pressured by what people say. As you achieve a level of success without a man, you will realize how much you don't need a man to be happy. Please, ladies, live your life for you.

My humble submission kiss
All ladies need rich men. Rich men just want to f*ck n go. Marriage is very difficult ladies shouldn't bother

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Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by don89(m): 4:40pm On Oct 16, 2023
As if you dont know that women envy themselves alot ,it is almost the end of the road or do or die for them. Not when you see your mates in their husbands house with kids .Only those who are not normal among them that dont see getting married as so.
Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by vickydevoka(m): 4:44pm On Oct 16, 2023
victory36:
It's 2023, I don't know why people not just women are still so worried about marriage in a world where you can be what you want to be despite your gender. People should rather direct that energy to achieving their personal dreams rather than hinging your happiness and fulfillment on another individual who might even turn out to be the worst person you'll ever meet.
Exactly, that's y I don't want any woman
Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by vickydevoka(m): 4:45pm On Oct 16, 2023
BItt:
Humans are not meant to be lonely, if you have no intention to be lonely and depressed at your old age, it's best you get married.

And it's best you get married while still young but since life has no definite path, if you can't get married at an age lower than 30, just make sure you work and have money, men will come
Exactly. Mem will come.

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Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by flourish01(m): 4:48pm On Oct 16, 2023
Absolutely, this post speaks volumes of truth! Marriage should never be a societal pressure or a measure of a woman's worth.

It's crucial for everyone, especially women, to understand that their happiness, fulfillment, and success are not contingent upon a relationship status. Embracing singleness can be liberating and empowering. Pursuing personal goals, education, and social activities can bring immense joy and satisfaction.

It's essential to focus on self-love, self-discovery, and personal growth. True happiness comes from within, not from societal expectations or relationships. Every individual, regardless of gender, deserves to live life on their terms, and this message resonates strongly here. Live life authentically and unapologetically! 🌟
Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by Fahvvy: 4:49pm On Oct 16, 2023
Holluwhakemmy:
You are not making sense too in some part of your advice.

Really? grin...

Please point out those parts you claim don't make sense undecided...

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Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by Holluwhakemmy(f): 4:52pm On Oct 16, 2023
Fahvvy:


Really? grin...

Please point out those parts you claim don't make sense undecided...
🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by Evolutionism: 4:55pm On Oct 16, 2023
bluefilm:

Do you need fresh & fit or Andrew Tate or even Kevin Samuels to spell out the gospel truth to you?

The answer is NO.

When a woman seriously starts considering a man for a serious relationship, 9 out of 10 times, her thought is "is he rich or financially well off to take good care of me?"

When a guy starts considering a woman for a serious relationship, 10 out of 10 times, his thoughts is " is she young and beautiful"


These thought processes are not taught

They are deeply etched and ingrained in the human DNA.

Typical nigeria relationship and affection lol.

In as much all women around the world are hypergamy in nature.

Nigerian men and women mentality is horrible.

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Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by UnemployedGradu: 5:00pm On Oct 16, 2023
tuzle:
I will be 30 very soon and I don't have plans of marriage anytime soon. There are other things occupying my mind now and marriage is the least. At least before I reach 33
are you male or female?
Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by Fahvvy: 5:01pm On Oct 16, 2023
Holluwhakemmy:
🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

I thought so grin...

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Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by athaliya(f): 5:14pm On Oct 16, 2023
jackmrandy:





that 30+ lady reading this now will be smiling. Aunty come let me tell you the truth, if at 30 as a woman, no marriage, no kids, no spouse, no serious relationship, no career, you need to sit yourself down and ask yourself certain questions like what you did with your life in your early and late 20s. Don't let all these motivational speaker who are already married and living sweet life with their families put sweet words into you. The fact is, you have to face reality as it is. Check yourself. those men you rejected, those guys you said no to, they were ready but you feel they don't match your expectations. You were very choosy. and now the time is against you and ticking seriously. Let me tell you one thing , even if you like get all the money in this world as a woman, get the best career and profession, investments, if you don't have a child or not looking to have one some day, your whole effort on earth is wasted. As you will not be remembered for anything once you are gone finally and there will be no one to take over your legacy. So you that is still in your 20s think well. I don't even want to talk about the biological side of it. You see that beauty that is catching you and shaking you like alcohol, it's going to fade away within a blink of an eye. Don't play you will learn the hard way

Children can be gotten by adoption or surrogacy.

Many women have lost their lives to marriage.
I support marriage but marriage isn't a do or die affair.

It's these kinda evil posts that push women into abusive marriage so they can be Mrs. When she dies, una go begin trend #Justice4Mohbad, #SayNoToDomesticViolence yen yen yen

I pity those who rely on public opinion to find happiness.
Your kind will mock reverend sisters and young widows for being unmarried.

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Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by Holluwhakemmy(f): 5:16pm On Oct 16, 2023
Fahvvy:


I thought so grin...
hmmmn bad thought 🤔
Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by Akano5(m): 5:24pm On Oct 16, 2023
[quote author=tochez24 post=126290900]


When i see Young girls from 16 to 22 years wasting their time dating their age mates or doing hookups.... i laugh at them!!!

Smart girls know that they don't have time to waste, so you see them keeping their virginities intact while looking for a serious older dude that will wife them!!!

Before you say jack, they're already hooked and wifed up... then they begin to grow with their husbands both academically, financially and otherwise ♂️

But the stupid ones are all dating yahoo boys, jumping from one club to the another, loosing the sweetness of their pussies in stupid relationships then in their 30's they begin to look for pity!!!! When they are scattered

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Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by jackmrandy: 5:24pm On Oct 16, 2023
athaliya:


Children can be gotten by adoption or surrogacy.

Many women have lost their lives to marriage.
I support marriage but marriage isn't a do or die affair.

It's these kinda evil posts that push women into abusive marriage so they can be Mrs. When she dies, una go begin trend #Justice4Mohbad, #SayNoToDomesticViolence yen yen yen

I pity those who rely on public opinion to find happiness.
Your kind will mock reverend sisters and young widows for being unmarried.




my post is not evil and also its not intended to shame anyone. facts are different from opinions. everything stated are facts and not opinion. Talking about adoption, even the child you adopted a day will come when the truth will surface and the child will start looking for his or her true parents. This generation we are now, we need not to sugar coat anything. say it the way it is, you need to be strong to survive this era we are now. And talking about those going to get married just because they want to be called mrs, are they blind that the person they want to marry have some flaws they don't like? don't be blinded by love. Out of 10 there is one that have something that she needs and ready to standy by her if she brings her self down to that person.
Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by tuzle(m): 5:25pm On Oct 16, 2023
UnemployedGradu:
are you male or female?
male
Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by PoliteActivist: 5:26pm On Oct 16, 2023
AlphaHakimi:
Don't be deceived. The pride of every woman created on earth is to be called someone's wife and probably a mother.


Does this woman look like someone unhappy and  unfulfilled? Compare to some married women you know. Marriage is not for everyone!
Marriage is ok, but don't forget, you can also have and enjoy your own children without marriage. What you do need is money!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UIQ68UWdWKs?si=0ppacNpOPpWuQQhy

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Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by UnemployedGradu: 5:32pm On Oct 16, 2023
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Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by Umadam: 5:36pm On Oct 16, 2023
People want to change the Gospel to suit their own philosophy.
God said! OH YE GO INTO THE WORLD AND MULTIPLY... CAN ONLY A WOMAN MULTIPLY?

U NEED A HUSBAND...... LIVE A DECENT AND A HUMBLE LIFE, HUMBLE HUSBAND WILL COME TO YOU MY SISTER.
Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by Flamemignon1(m): 5:36pm On Oct 16, 2023
Dshocker:


If you finish deceiving yourself, the reality is; No woman will be happy at a certain age having not been married.

Seems pressure is coming on you.
Why do you men love to speak for women? Just say the ones you know
Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by UnfairLife7(m): 5:38pm On Oct 16, 2023
Dshocker:


If you finish deceiving yourself, the reality is; No woman will be happy at a certain age having not been married.

Seems pressure is coming on you.
are men also happy not having money at some certain age? Are men also happy to be single due to lack of money at a certain age?
Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by deyplay: 5:38pm On Oct 16, 2023
victory36:
It's 2023, I don't know why people not just women are still so worried about marriage in a world where you can be what you want to be despite your gender. People should rather direct that energy to achieving their personal dreams rather than hinging your happiness and fulfillment on another individual who might even turn out to be the worst person you'll ever meet.
and marriage is not a personal dream? Once you start earning enough or precisely in millions or you are fairly financially capable, you will discover that the more money you have without a relationship life, the more you will hate the money. If you have never crossed a million, please don't quote me!!

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Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by Flamemignon1(m): 5:38pm On Oct 16, 2023
OyeofIkoTuN:
Dey play....

You won't be here typing trash if your daddy didn't play with your mummy or your mother decided to take your trashy ideas.

Spits
People don't need to get married to have kids today,what century are you living in?
Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by UD101(m): 5:38pm On Oct 16, 2023
Join NSPPD streams of Joy, alot of testimonies coming out from there
Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by UnfairLife7(m): 5:40pm On Oct 16, 2023
OyeofIkoTuN:
Dey play....

You won't be here typing trash if your daddy didn't play with your mummy or your mother decided to take your trashy ideas.

Spits
it was their choice to give birth not her own choice.
Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by UnfairLife7(m): 5:46pm On Oct 16, 2023
Stop decieving yourself, because you can't get a partner. I don't understand why some of you women like to decieve themselves. Reality is reality.face the reality the way it is, stop consoling yourself with mere words while drowning emotionally.

How can you say, it's not mandatory a woman gets married, Are you mentally alright.

Who would take care of you, when you get old and can't walk properly.

Who would inherit what you've worked for. All your life. You guys should stop decieving yourselves because things are not working right for you.

This is just like saying, a man that can't provide for his family or doesn't have a job, and would be like, it's fine. I can't provide, it's fine i can get a job, its not mandatory i get a job, since i can't. Instead of him to continue search and hustling till he gets one.and can provide.

Stop decieving yourselves, so you don't comit suicide, when you get to 50.
You know nothing man

Biblically it is accepted if you chose not to get married. It is not against God's wish neither did you commit any crime. Go and read your Bible to understand better

Besides, where did you ever hear that if you didn't marry nor have kids you will suffer at old age? Have you not seen old people suffering despite having children? I have seen old people suffering because their children are also poor. Na pikin wey get dey take care of their parents

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Re: Ladies- Crossing Age 30 without A Spouse Is Not The End Of The World. by AroOkigbo(m): 5:51pm On Oct 16, 2023
Na so Linda made us to believe. If not pregnancy and for childbirth, we for nor nor say she sef de secretly collect.

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