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Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by LeeSmart: 4:09pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Junkie my guy, i hail oo |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Rechargeam247(f): 4:09pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
The level of ignorance on this thread is baffling. A virgin lady can have infertility issues, PCos, Fibroids and the likes. |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by xtervaganza(m): 4:09pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Na virgin wey Israel marry put am for problem oo No forget lol |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by GreatOchuks: 4:09pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
AbuTwins:You must be a thief , you just stole this piece of advice from my mind before I had to drop it here... 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kukutenla: 4:12pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
beekind:This your story touch me sha. But (if true and not just cruise), are you really sure she's a virgin? You need to be careful and sure of who and what you're dating because PCOS does not just spring up out of the blue. Part of the causative factors of PCOS are use of contraceptives and abortion. Another one is poor hygiene and diet especially obesity and diabetes so if any of this is the cause then that means you have specific work to do on her before you marry her. That said, at 27, PCOS is easier for her to manage. There are so many curative drugs to help with conception and worst case, IVF. But above all, be sure she's truly a virgin as PCOS in virgins is rare and might be a pointer to some emotionally destructive childhood/teenage years. The bottom line is you need to find out more about your girlfriend. Don't just swallow everything she has told you. Good luck |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by tunapawizzy: 4:13pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Lovemeharder:and what happens if that miracle doesn't happen. both of them are going to be miserable. He should respectfully and nicely let the babe go her way. She can still get a man that will be open to adoption if she cant have a child of her own. They both deserve happiness but as it is, if the worst happens, both of them will be miserable, she will be dealing with childlessness, and a husband that is not going to stand by her. the man too will also be unhappy and u wont blame him if he decides to go outside to test his ability to have a child. 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Jamie1000: 4:13pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Life is a risk. a 27 year old lady is very much fertile for child birth. Take the risk bro. If she's truly a virgin, she deserves a good man. Because, if you loose her, nah shege and wereh u go meet for street |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by BigDawsNet: 4:14pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
beekind: It's a 50/50 for you now... She's a virgin and you cant have sex with her to confirm if she's fertile now.. So I guess you should let her go in peace... if u know u can't risk it... Pls don't take away her virginity... that's her pride pls |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by sundayoluwatimi(m): 4:15pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
My wife has PCOS. We got to know after we wedded. We have two children now and we don't want to even have a third one. While I understand your fears, PCOS is not a fertility issue that closes the chance of childbearing. My wife joined a community of other women who have PCOS and one after the other, they have their children. I don't know of all of them but I kept hearing of childbirth news from that group. What assurance do you have that a lady who menstruates monthly won't have pregnancy delay? You cannot tell. Best bet is to trust God as you follow the path you are on. We cannot always predict the future accurately just by the information we have today especially when we have little to do to that future while God has a lot to do in it. If you doubt this comment, you can check my Facebook page (not profile) via "Sunday Anani" to see for yourself. Wish you the best. 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kobojunkie: 4:16pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Kukutenla:In his book, The Descent of Man, Charles Darwin wrote : “Ignorance more frequently begets confidence than does knowledge.” 3 Likes |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kukutenla: 4:16pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:You sound aggressive. Be calming down |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kobojunkie: 4:17pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Kukutenla:Says the ignorant one who beats his chest with so much confidence. |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kukutenla: 4:18pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:I'm very sure you're the ignorant one here Ma. PCOS does not just happen out of the blue. But the way you're defensive, it might be that the shite smells on you. Just live with it ok? You'll be fine |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by AbuTwins: 4:18pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
GreatOchuks: Na the best option be that o! |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kukutenla: 4:19pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:No Ma. You're the aggresive and ignorant one here. Your comments on the first page belies your mindset. |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kobojunkie: 4:19pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Kukutenla:In his book, The Descent of Man, Charles Darwin wrote : “Ignorance more frequently begets confidence than does knowledge.” |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Procashtips(m): 4:20pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
beekind: Why did you not check your health and sexual status before going to meet her people? Well tough decision must be made. Either forge ahead or call it quit. |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by GreatOchuks: 4:21pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Like my nigga said upstairs. Go ahead , marry her traditionally , don't marry her Under the Act (Court Wedding) ,, then try impregnating her , if she doesn't conceive after 3 years, start firing on all Cylinders outside,, any lady that conceives for you and gives birth after DNA confirms it's yours of course , you can go ahead and marry her as a 2nd wife or just keep her as a baby mama . The goal is not to allow your Family Lineage wipe off without a legitimate Biological child to carry on the blood line |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by myk2mic: 4:23pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: See knockout punch/quote 😂😂😂 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kukutenla: 4:23pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Have you read the book? It seems you don't understand it. Reason why you keep quoting it |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by nonhuman(m): 4:24pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
beekind:this is exactly my case o, let me learn from advice you got here, |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by tunapawizzy: 4:24pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
ademola2017:the boldened is the real problem, the possibility of the boldened is there. So at what what point should he stop trying and what next after that. God forbid, if it happens that way that the child is still not coming, will u say he should keep trying forever, considering the guy sounds like he desires to have a child of his own badly(which is a beautiful thing that no one can blame him for). |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by descarado: 4:25pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
humilitypays: Tomorrow if a woman here has an upper hand, do cone and preach life is brutal sermon. |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Godmind2022(m): 4:25pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
beekind: Don't marry her if you REALLY WANT YOUR OWN BIOLOGICAL CHILDREN. |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by MissJoy29(f): 4:27pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
The irony of it all will be if you eventually leave her & you both marry other people only for her to give birth & your wife won't. So the question is, "how are you sure the next person will conceive? It's really an odd world where strange things are happening. Marry her if you love her enough. You might be pleasantly surprised. |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by descarado: 4:27pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Beremx:You mean a 27yrs old lady can't be a virgin, berem? |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Focusmind: 4:27pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Don't be bamboozled into anything. If your mind is doubtful about her fertility, considering also the issue your senior brother is passing through, you have the right to abort mission. Your interest is more on having your own kids, which is in order. If that's your priority, don't compromise on it and don't entertain any doubt about the fertility of your would be partner. It would be so discomforting for two brothers to be on the " yet to give birth " list after wedding. 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by tunapawizzy: 4:29pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
beekind:the stakes are high for you on multiple fronts, just leave. you both have time to heal, she's just 27, she can still get someone, dont manipulate her into losing her virginity if u know u will leave if she doesnt get pregnant. If your desire to have a child of your opinion is bigger than anything else in this matter, then that is what will make u happy and you should go for it. So set the babe free 2 Likes |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by TheRealestGuy(m): 4:29pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
beekind: You're trying to play God Also, even more worrisome is the fact that you're obsessed with having children and this seems to be your sole reason for wanting to get married? You're letting fear rule your life. Ordinary PCOS is what you're running away from? Again, you're trying to play God and everyone I know who's tried to do this ends up in bitter regrets. If she is a good wife, then do not lose her out of fear of the unknown. PCOS is very common and easily treatable with lifestyle changes and healthy living. I am saying this as someone whose woman was diagnosed with same and we're expecting our first in a few months. Let go of fear and start living your life to the fullest man. Cheers. 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kobojunkie: 4:30pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
MissJoy29:That is a terrible question to ask. You don't shackle a partner because you fear the next person may not be able to satisfy you. That is not marriage but prison camp. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by descarado: 4:33pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
TheWinterBird:Thank you for saying that. Down syndrome, schizophrenia, adhd, so many of them out there are products of older men Higher risks of mental illnesses in their kids. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by ROYALMAXCLEANER: 4:35pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
beekind: Then you move on to another lady, leave that lady.... Pls move on, down of a man is not the end of his life.... |
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