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Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kobojunkie: 6:56pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
cococandy:That's typically how these stories turn out.. Beekind, take note! 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Slurity(m): 6:58pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
CoronaVirusPro:Advice from a shallow understanding of love. there are things that affect or kill love, not having your own kids by yourself or from the partner you are married to is one of them. Having kids together is a key sustainable achivement to remain loved and remain in marriage. I talk from experience 2 Likes |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Meerahbel: 6:58pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
beekind:Delete to that African mentality from your head, you can try IVF or adopt na |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kobojunkie: 6:59pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Kukutenla:Go pray your ignorance away first make we see that miracle happen. 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Royalcrusset: 6:59pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Kukutenla:#Sigh#....Your stupidity is heartbreaking. So you want to force treatment that I never took on me? Na wa oooo. I conceived without any medication, that may shock you smart pants. |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Royalcrusset: 7:01pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
omotolly22:The guy's matter is somehow sha....not very normal and quite exhausting. 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kukutenla: 7:02pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Royalcrusset:Like I said you dummy, I gave different reasons for pcos including psychological issues. So why are you only triggered by abortion and contraceptive? Even a man can become sterile based on psychological issues. I know you're afraid of owning up to your mistakes which is why you wish desperately that abortions and contraceptive can't be a cause for infertility. But this is real life not your fantasy. It does and that's a fact. Your personal experience is what you're trying to whitewash. You did somethings out of youthful exuberance and PCOS happened. It's ok. Learn and move on. Stop trying to fight facts. |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by omotolly22(f): 7:06pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Kukutenla: Someone that suffers from it ,is telling you ,you are still arguing you are just ashamed to accept your wrong Birth control pills are one of the first line treatment for pcos It is use to balance the hormone and regulated your cycle. If you are suffering from infertility, when you go to hospital ,some doctors would first give you combined contraceptives of estrogen and progesterone to balance your hormone for 3 months ,before you are given ovulation induction drugs Just learn and move forward abeg ,you are not a gynaecologist stop giving false informations |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kukutenla: 7:06pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
omotolly22:Who has mentioned cure for pcos here. Oh God!! I'm surrounded by idiots!! PCOS has causative factors. You nitwit keep yapping about the symptoms. If you use contraceptives for long periods, you're at risk of developing PCOS. Learn!! Abortion can cause irregular menses which is one of the chief symptoms of PCOS. It can also lead to loss of ovulation another symptom of PCOS. By the way, are you aware a woman can even get pregnant without menstruating? Darn!! Ignoramuses!! 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by FromZeroToHero(m): 7:06pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Chris2863:yes |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by omotolly22(f): 7:07pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Royalcrusset: Very annoying guy ,just arguing falsely with medical practitioners and people that suffer from it . |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kukutenla: 7:08pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Naaa. You need to pray your cynicism about faith and hope and your unbridled arrogance away. It's made you think everyone is against you when no one is. We're only discussing life and its complexities. Every dart is not targeted at you |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kobojunkie: 7:10pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Kukutenla:Faith and hope or foolishness and gullibility? In his book, The Descent of Man, Charles Darwin wrote : “Ignorance more frequently begets confidence than does knowledge.” 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kukutenla: 7:10pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Royalcrusset:So why did you use contraceptive when you were not menstruating? You sound really bereft of commonsense. Like I told your other nitwit, you can get pregnant even without menstruating. But is it the normal course of female reproduction? Use whatever scraps of brain you have |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Greenfaces: 7:12pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Jeyun: You're a mumu go.at There are 365 days in a year, how many years will it take someone to hit 80k if he slept with 1 new person everyday? Do tgr maths |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by omotolly22(f): 7:12pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Kukutenla: You that is talking, do you even know whether your sperm cells are healthy ,or your testerone level are okay ,or your prostate is normal Anything to just attack women, you think it is only women that suffer from infertility and hormonal imbalance Go and do research 40% of infertility problems are from the man |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kukutenla: 7:15pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
omotolly22:Suffers from what? Just ask her to be honest, look up the causes I listed and tell you if she has not had one or two of them in her life. You dingbats need to get a hold of yourselves. You're typing trash. No doctor will first give you prescription without running tests except of course your village doctor. The doctor should order for tests on you to ascertain what exactly ails you. Use your brain if any again and ask yourself how birth control pills are able to induce menstruation. That will lead you out of the blind spot you find yourself. And you that is claiming progesterone and estrogen, are you a gynaecologist? Bleep off 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Adanambra1(f): 7:16pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Kukutenla:is alright. thank you |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kukutenla: 7:17pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:No Faith and hope. Feminism and atheism have bred so much arrogance in so many women that they think they know it all when they know nothing. They are also ready to fight facts and knowledge that does not glorify their excesses and irresponsibility. You need Jesus to fix you 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kobojunkie: 7:19pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Kukutenla:Seems more like foolishness and gullibility. In his book, The Descent of Man, Charles Darwin wrote : “Ignorance more frequently begets confidence than does knowledge.” |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by omotolly22(f): 7:19pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Kukutenla: You too bleep off .giving wrong information about, Just going to Google to pick up point that you don't understand, to cover up your ignorance You should be worried about your testicles and leave women with pcos to deal with it themselves Want to form woke,for something you know nothing about |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kukutenla: 7:21pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
omotolly22:Are you really this daft or you're pretending? How did I attack women? This is just like saying excessive intake of alcohol which can lead to infertility in men is an attack on men. How does that make sense? You fickle women need to get a hold of yourselves!! Why make it a personal matter anyway? If you say 40% of infertility issue is from the man, does that excuse the fact that majority of infertility is from the woman? You're nailing yourself with your fingers cause I was intelligent enough not to turn it to a gender war but see what you just did. I'm disappointed in your ability to reason devoid of emotions!! 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Blackdisciple(m): 7:24pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Then move on... |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kukutenla: 7:24pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:No wonder you're so aggressive You believe Charles Darwin who said you descended from apes and baboons. No wonder you're so illogical. Trying to be like your famed ancestors eh? Like I said, demonising religion does not make you smarter, it only makes you more cynical. Faith is not the reason for your frustrations. 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by realtalk19: 7:25pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
beekind: From Getting pregnant and carrying to term successfully with giving birth to a healthy living baby is only by God's grace. Even with the PCOS she can still get pregnant and have a baby successfully.marriage goes beyond having kids and being fertile. What if you part ways and you meet your kind of woman as desired,what if despite passing all medical fertility test she is still not pregnant or not able to carry to term ,will you not still face the same fears? What if the lady with PCOS have kids before you after parting ways because you feel she has a health challenge you could not deal with You can follow up medically and settle down properly with an open mind of being there for each other . Marriage is like a vehicle with no manual on how to drive it. |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by omotolly22(f): 7:26pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Kukutenla: See what this ignorance man is saying, psychological issues causing pcos where . Pcos is an endocrine disorder ,no one knows the cause , it can sometimes be heredity too in female . Weight gain , and sugary foods only worsen the systoms and make it more obvious Just have shame and accept your ignorance, you cannot know everything |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kukutenla: 7:27pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
omotolly22:Funny thing is none of you dingbats have been able to give the cause for pcos different from the ones I listed You just desperately want me to be wrong on two out of the rest so you can move your troubles on to the next innocent man. Own it woman!! You can't eat your cake and still have it. The earlier you accept responsibility for life's choices the better. Nothing can't be fixed. But you need to accept responsibility. That's usually the first step. |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Royalcrusset: 7:29pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Kukutenla:LMAO. Every human has made mistakes in life, silly. Only cowards run away from theirs. According to research, specific cause of PCOS is not known, however animal models were used to SUGGEST chemical and genetic causes. No where was abortion or contraceptives mentioned as cause of PCOS, you fool. Onset of PCOS can be after puberty which was quite my case. Yes, pills and abortion may cause hormonal imbalance but they cannot cause PCOS, stupid! Where did you get your info from? can you quote journal or article to back it up, stupid? Nope! according to CDC.... https://www.cdc.gov/diabetes/basics/pcos.html according to Cleveland clinic..... https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/8316-polycystic-ovary-syndrome-pcos according to NIH.... https://www.nichd.nih.gov/health/topics/pcos/conditioninfo/causes. |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by centpado(m): 7:30pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
This is not a good advice thuo, in my opinion Life is brutal ko, life is brutal ni , giving motivational quotes humilitypays: |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Kukutenla: 7:31pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
omotolly22:You don't know jack. A woman who is depressed can develop pcos. A woman suffering from PTSD can develop pcos A woman having psychological issues due to rape or sexual violence can develop pcos Are you daft or learning right now? |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Royalcrusset: 7:31pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
omotolly22:LMAO. The guy na native doctor. Psychological issues indeed. Dude is on a cruise...... 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But At Almost 40 Years Old, I Cannot Ignore Her Fertility Issues. by Royalcrusset: 7:33pm On Nov 28, 2023 |
Kukutenla:Native doctor, please provide a link to back up you claims. At least let me learn something today. You be real clown! |
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