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Re: What Can I Do About This by AfroKnight: 9:41am On Dec 16, 2023
You’re playing with your job Stamina777

Women are classist. A man might not mind being with his office cleaner but a woman would more likely than not take offence. She can even escalate it to harassment and seek your termination.

Face your work and leave her alone.

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Re: What Can I Do About This by besayag: 9:41am On Dec 16, 2023
Shoot ur shot n move on

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Re: What Can I Do About This by aremubabs: 9:41am On Dec 16, 2023
outoftheworld:

Use your tongue count your teeth boy.
Are you not ashamed of yourself working as a cleaner in the bank?



What is there to be ashamed about?




Haven't you heard that there is dignity in labour.




At least, he is not lazing about. He is working for his money. He is not defrauding people.

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Re: What Can I Do About This by Fatbam005: 9:41am On Dec 16, 2023
outoftheworld:

Use your tongue count your teeth boy.
Are you not ashamed of yourself working as a cleaner in the bank?
Ashamed because he stole right? Or he came begging for money from you. Who are you to castigate people for what they do survive? Be warned

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Re: What Can I Do About This by Whatisurproblem(m): 9:42am On Dec 16, 2023
Stamina777:
Please what do you mean by this
focus on your life first

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Re: What Can I Do About This by Think9ja(m): 9:42am On Dec 16, 2023
I don watch this film before.
The title is Bankers Love

Starring Nuela Njubuigbo and that actor that was once arrested with drugs in Murtala Muhammad International Airport
Re: What Can I Do About This by Cutehector(m): 9:42am On Dec 16, 2023
Lol.. She can keep you for knacks only.

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Re: What Can I Do About This by abbeyd2(m): 9:42am On Dec 16, 2023
Did you have any ambitions in your life, with your school cert? Better sleep and have a better dream of understanding. Focus on how you will become someone in life. Pursue your career instead of making your life miserable. Leave love, alone love will find you when you are successful in your career.

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Re: What Can I Do About This by Tregmas: 9:42am On Dec 16, 2023
pansophist:


Should he go and thief?

There is always someone who will do the menial jobs, and for now, it is him. His situation can change for the better, and such is life.

Dont shame a hardworking person, its disgusting.
I don't know why a hard working person should be ashamed of what he or she is doing. People love celebrating criminals at levels

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Re: What Can I Do About This by TheFinesseKid: 9:42am On Dec 16, 2023
ikeno:
Hypocrites and two face people full this forum.
He can't have a relationship with her cause she's a bank and he's a cleaner? But, a male banker can have a relationship with a female cleaner abi.
Try being friends with her, you can also compliment her on so many things.
it's sad but that's the reality of the world that we live in. Men don't care if you're a cleaner as a woman... They love you for who you are. I can't say the same for women. They'll consider you a bum.

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Re: What Can I Do About This by money121(m): 9:42am On Dec 16, 2023
outoftheworld:

Use your tongue count your teeth boy.
Are you not ashamed of yourself working as a cleaner in the bank?
Wahalai ooogbadun grin
Re: What Can I Do About This by aremubabs: 9:44am On Dec 16, 2023
Stamina777:
Hello nairalanders, please I need your advice on this. I work in a bank as a cleaner and I go on errands for bankers in the bank. Am 24 year old and I only have my school start with me. I have an ambition to further my education though.

So their is this lady banker I like so much. I do go on errands for her. She is in her youthful age too but might be a little older than I do. I love her but I don't know how to tell her. I fear she might cast me if I tell her my intentions or I might lose my self respect.

Moreover, I always feel lonely because I rarely socialize. I go on errands because of the tips I make from it. Nobody gives me money for not doing anything. I feel less cared for but I care more about my loved ones even though I only give to them. I feel lonely all the time cry

Please what should I do



Don't tell her that you love her.




First, try to be her closest friend. I don't know how you would do that. Work on your wits and humour. If you charm her with your intelligence and humour, I am sure she would be the one to confess her love.
Re: What Can I Do About This by Savedday2: 9:44am On Dec 16, 2023
Bro na konji the do you.

When you start dating that girl, you will see, she is the real devil himself. Don't let those innocent look deceive you!

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Re: What Can I Do About This by Benwallt(m): 9:44am On Dec 16, 2023
Stamina777:
Hello nairalanders, please I need your advice on this. I work in a bank as a cleaner and I go on errands for bankers in the bank. Am 24 year old and I only have my school start with me. I have an ambition to further my education though.

So their is this lady banker I like so much. I do go on errands for her. She is in her youthful age too but might be a little older than I do. I love her but I don't know how to tell her. I fear she might cast me if I tell her my intentions or I might lose my self respect.

Moreover, I always feel lonely because I rarely socialize. I go on errands because of the tips I make from it. Nobody gives me money for not doing anything. I feel less cared for but I care more about my loved ones even though I only give to them. I feel lonely all the time cry

Please what should I do

Guy, take courage and tell her. If you can't say it to her in person write on paper and add the the package she sent you next time.

Forget about self respect but be sure the manager is not interested in her o so you won't get the boot

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Re: What Can I Do About This by Kemadealadire(f): 9:44am On Dec 16, 2023
Lol

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Re: What Can I Do About This by gigabyte13: 9:44am On Dec 16, 2023
outoftheworld:

Use your tongue count your teeth boy.
Are you not ashamed of yourself working as a cleaner in the bank?


Ashame of what exactly....
His he doing something illegal or illegitimate...
Abegggggggggg getaaaaaattttt
Like you are better than him.
Your present president in Nigeria was once a taxi driver in USA. He even got a slap on one of the trips from a client.
Re: What Can I Do About This by Kog45(m): 9:46am On Dec 16, 2023
outoftheworld:

Use your tongue count your teeth boy.
Are you not ashamed of yourself working as a cleaner in the bank?
Cleaner job wey guys dey do for abroad use am build houses,buying cars and anytime on vacation dey enjoy themselves giving little money to friends na you dey rubbish like this....this is the issue with Nigerians we always looking down on people doing menial jobs and they are better than fake and packaging liars living lowlife pretending that they are better.

Well,to the cleaner,pls try and save more and have better education to support yourself

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Re: What Can I Do About This by obayendo1010(m): 9:46am On Dec 16, 2023
Motivate yourself, learn skill or forex trade, be bold and have future plans, always wait for opportunity to present yourself big, lastly hope you are good looking, if not start gym class to look physically fit....you will always get what you invest your energy on.

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Re: What Can I Do About This by campbelljosh(m): 9:46am On Dec 16, 2023
Bro code 1: Don't date where you earn
Bro code 2: Self development is paramount
Bro code 3: Taking risks is normal but not all risk is worth taking cos some main ruin or damage you.

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Re: What Can I Do About This by dapotemi: 9:46am On Dec 16, 2023
You're about to LOSE FOCUS!!
What do I need to do to RE-FOCUS your attention?
Re: What Can I Do About This by zedegit: 9:46am On Dec 16, 2023
outoftheworld:

Use your tongue count your teeth boy.
Are you not ashamed of yourself working as a cleaner in the bank?

Some people who have upgraded started from somewhere.

Have you heard Ronaldo story? Osimhen story? You speak like someone who has lost touch with reality.

Checkup a psychiatrist.

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Re: What Can I Do About This by Offpointng: 9:47am On Dec 16, 2023
ikeno:
Hypocrites and two face people full this forum.
He can't have a relationship with her cause she's a bank and he's a cleaner? But, a male banker can have a relationship with a female cleaner abi.
Try being friends with her, you can also compliment her on so many things.

It's not Hypocrisy... If na ur sister dey work for bank she go gree date a cleaner??

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Re: What Can I Do About This by jaxxy(m): 9:47am On Dec 16, 2023
what's is ur aspiration in life? u must think about it and how to achieve it.

u can only be friends with ur female Banker Co worker. No try tell her anything more unless she shows u she likes u. Don't rubbish urself.

Run ur race
Re: What Can I Do About This by qtguru(m): 9:47am On Dec 16, 2023
Guy don't shit where you eat. Women are not kind when you are not on a financial tax bracket. A man can do the opposite, unless the lady sees prospect in you.

Guys dey watch too much Telemundo these days.

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Re: What Can I Do About This by Hassanmaye(m): 9:47am On Dec 16, 2023
Ballzproblem2:
is he not a human being? na una type they push youths into crime
You know most people are Rich online till you visited their residence in the ghetto
Re: What Can I Do About This by tojahh(m): 9:47am On Dec 16, 2023
You go'on learn the hard way

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Re: What Can I Do About This by lordnkem000(m): 9:48am On Dec 16, 2023
Jewessgratitud3:
😂 😂 😂 24 yrs old boy, instead of planning to go back to school na to embarrass yourself dey hungry you.

Let me advise you. That lady will not accept you number one, because of class. Her class is higher than yours and she'll be looking for someone with same or higher class not you who's just a school cert holder worse is you're even working in her office as a cleaner and errand boy.if you were working somewhere else, it would have been better.

Lastly, if you still love your job, just abort mission because it might take a bad turn and affect your job.

Please work on going back to school or at least learn a skill. Just develop yourself before talking about relationship.
Gbamsolutely
That was a good advice my friend. That guy should abort mission

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Re: What Can I Do About This by Passionnn: 9:48am On Dec 16, 2023
Stamina777:
Hello nairalanders, please I need your advice on this. I work in a bank as a cleaner and I go on errands for bankers in the bank. Am 24 year old and I only have my school start with me. I have an ambition to further my education though.

So their is this lady banker I like so much. I do go on errands for her. She is in her youthful age too but might be a little older than I do. I love her but I don't know how to tell her. I fear she might cast me if I tell her my intentions or I might lose my self respect.

Moreover, I always feel lonely because I rarely socialize. I go on errands because of the tips I make from it. Nobody gives me money for not doing anything. I feel less cared for but I care more about my loved ones even though I only give to them. I feel lonely all the time cry

Please what should I do
Consider the scenario here. She has money, independent woman and probably has a lover or even a fiance. And she is your senior both in the office and age as well.
She has not given you any green light.
Stop fantasizing and concentrate more on how to improve your status. Even if she toast you and pay your groom price she will turn you into an unpaid cleaner and house keeper in her home.
Bottom line: if you do not have the necessary resources to maintain a woman or household, focus on acquiring them. After that, go after your dream woman. Or rather your dream woman will come running after you.

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Re: What Can I Do About This by Offpointng: 9:48am On Dec 16, 2023
obayendo1010:
Motivate yourself, learn skill or forest trade, be bold and have future plans, always wait for opportunity to present yourself big, lastly hope you are good looking, if not start gym class to look physically fit....you will always get what you invest your energy on.

What forest area in Nigeria should he be looking at?? SW or SS??

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Re: What Can I Do About This by NOGRUDGES(m): 9:49am On Dec 16, 2023
Abeg Hussle, when done make money e get the way everything go just align, you sef go come understand this your post



MAKE MONEY FIRST
Re: What Can I Do About This by boxypane(m): 9:49am On Dec 16, 2023
outoftheworld:

Use your tongue count your teeth boy.
Are you not ashamed of yourself working as a cleaner in the bank?
The shame is actually on you boy.
Re: What Can I Do About This by ThatCEO: 9:50am On Dec 16, 2023
pansophist:


Should he go and thief?

There is always someone who will do the menial jobs, and for now, it is him. His situation can change for the better, and such is life.

Dont shame a hardworking person, its disgusting.

He can look for someone his level. Banker girls usually have this hungry n condescending look about them since they know have seen too many many balance. I always see the bullshit beneath their smiles

However, he can try chatting totally platonic, n approach gradually. But if he goes full attack, she might rubbish or report him n he might lose the job. But maybe losing a cleaner job might be a blessing for him

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