letstalksense:
There is this lady I plan to marry, which I have made known to her already even before she travelled for her NYSC. Although she just came back from NYSC service recently. We are just discussing the way forward and on the process I was asking her about her sexual life and how recently she had sex. After insisting for her to answer. She opened up and told me she had a sexual relationship during her NYSC service. And the reason was because I didn't call her at a particular time so she thought I have find anther woman. And that was when I was having some personal challenges. According to her, they ended the sexual relationship in the camp. That she is sorry and all that. I didn't really expect that attitude from her as she seem to look responsible and Godlily. I was just disappointed even though I pretended like everything is well. And I was also thinking she had the courage to tell me the true.

Now I have to make my decision, but needs a matured advise and guidance from a mature mind please.

Do think I should continue my marriage plan with her?

Pease what do you advise I do?

Thanks in advance.

why marry in the first place, marriage is overrated, just Bleep around and enjoy ur life. Luckily one of the girls will carry belle for you

I don try to settle matter like this come turn the bad person...
Baba do wetin dey ur mind

What if she had lied to you that nothing happened? You will still believe her. Shes a nice girl for been truthful and sincere and she loves you. Just warn her never to try such again. Forgive her !

Continue if you truly love her .. getting married to virgin doesn’t guarantee happy home. But do your background check and make sure her mother is still with her father

Most ladies have sexual relationships during NYSC. It takes a very disciplined lady to complete her NYSC without having sex. If you think she’s sincerely sorry and won’t do it again you can forgive her but if you are the type that can’t forgive a girl who has cheated on you, I will advice you to leave her and move on.

Personally I don’t forgive cheating. That’s me.

Truth is...MEN don't forgive Cheating...Know this...Know PEACE...

Why do u ask questions to which you already know the answers?

Just passing, am tired of this relationship bullsh*ts.


Remember brother, Okafor's Law is real and can be applied at any time or day, good luck with your decision.

I don't always understand why people likes taking their private affairs to court of public opinion where every dick, tom and harry will be advicing you. Even people that haven't advised themselves. Oga, my question is...are you intending to marry a virgin. If not why are so anxious about her camp sexual life when you've not put a ring on that finger. Have the girl not be fucking before you know her. Since you needed advice here, send me her no let me talk sense into her!!!

Jeon:
Why can't women be polygamous since men are polygamous in nature?.

I always laugh whenever I see complains like this, for fuvk sake men also engage in sexual explore with other ladies, but will get pissed off if the same card is been played on them.

Can you fuvk around the way a man can without having feelings for the men? If no then stop deceiving yourself that you can see sex the way men see it too.

She had sex in NYSC camp. Any girl that have s*x in camp is a no go area for me. Its shows total lack of self control. Three weeks?

If I were in your shoes I will move on. If you accept her she will lose respect for you and will probably see you has simp. Baba go and look for amerix on twitter or telegram to build your frame.

letstalksense:
There is this lady I plan to marry, which I have made known to her already even before she travelled for her NYSC. Although she just came back from NYSC service recently. We are just discussing the way forward and on the process I was asking her about her sexual life and how recently she had sex. After insisting for her to answer. She opened up and told me she had a sexual relationship during her NYSC service. And the reason was because I didn't call her at a particular time so she thought I have find anther woman. And that was when I was having some personal challenges. According to her, they ended the sexual relationship in the camp. That she is sorry and all that. I didn't really expect that attitude from her as she seem to look responsible and Godlily. I was just disappointed even though I pretended like everything is well. And I was also thinking she had the courage to tell me the true.

Now I have to make my decision, but needs a matured advise and guidance from a mature mind please.

Do think I should continue my marriage plan with her?

Pease what do you advise I do?

Thanks in advance.

It's your choice

You can forgive her or leave her alone

In the Bible, God told Hosea to marry a prostitute and he complied

Think about it, pray on it and make a decision.

letstalksense:
There is this lady I plan to marry, which I have made known to her already even before she travelled for her NYSC. Although she just came back from NYSC service recently. We are just discussing the way forward and on the process I was asking her about her sexual life and how recently she had sex. After insisting for her to answer. She opened up and told me she had a sexual relationship during her NYSC service. And the reason was because I didn't call her at a particular time so she thought I have find anther woman. And that was when I was having some personal challenges. According to her, they ended the sexual relationship in the camp. That she is sorry and all that. I didn't really expect that attitude from her as she seem to look responsible and Godlily. I was just disappointed even though I pretended like everything is well. And I was also thinking she had the courage to tell me the true.

Now I have to make my decision, but needs a matured advise and guidance from a mature mind please.

Do think I should continue my marriage plan with her?

Pease what do you advise I do?

Thanks in advance.

Did You Have Any Other Sexual Intercourse With Any Other Lady While She Was Away For NYSC ?


If You Can Respond To This Question in Truth, Then We Can Proceed To Giving You The Best Response For Your Situation

Jeon:
Why can't women be polygamous since men are polygamous in nature?.

I always laugh whenever I see complains like this, for fuvk sake men also engage in sexual explore with other ladies, but will get pissed off if the same card is been played on them.

Your brain is stuffed with cow dung. Are men and women equal? Who gives access to sex, men or women? A woman who gives it up easily is cheap and not respected while a man who gets it easily is the envy of most men.
You want women to be polygamous like men but only want men to be responsible for security and providing for the family.
I repeat your brain is stuffed with cow dung.

If she had said something else and you found out, you would have called her a liar. We all know how school and nysc is, we don't know your own sexcapades or what you intended to find out by those questions. Allow that girl breathe, if you love her and she reciprocates then wife her

"Don't ask, don't tell". Antidote to marital headache.

wolement:
She had sex in NYSC camp. Any girl that have s*x in camp is a no go area for me. Its shows total lack of self control. Three weeks?

If I were in your shoes I will move on. If you accept her she will lose respect for you and will probably see you has simp. Baba go and look for amerix on twitter or telegram to build your frame.

Obviously, She Had Wild Sex After Camp Too (Most Likely).



She's Just Cajoling Him To Think That She Had Sex Over 12 Months Ago During Camp.



If He is Wise; He Should Move On.

Oga OP, move on... This one don fail. Imagine the lame excuse.

letstalksense:
There is this lady I plan to marry, which I have made known to her already even before she travelled for her NYSC. Although she just came back from NYSC service recently. We are just discussing the way forward and on the process I was asking her about her sexual life and how recently she had sex. After insisting for her to answer. She opened up and told me she had a sexual relationship during her NYSC service. And the reason was because I didn't call her at a particular time so she thought I have find anther woman. And that was when I was having some personal challenges. According to her, they ended the sexual relationship in the camp. That she is sorry and all that. I didn't really expect that attitude from her as she seem to look responsible and Godlily. I was just disappointed even though I pretended like everything is well. And I was also thinking she had the courage to tell me the true.

Now I have to make my decision, but needs a matured advise and guidance from a mature mind please.

Do think I should continue my marriage plan with her?

Pease what do you advise I do?

Thanks in advance.

It's good thing she told you the truth but would she have told you if you did not ask or pressured her? Also, she has not learned from her mistake since she is trying to put the blame on u instead of being remorse for her act. This is a sign that she will do it over and over again. Well start by taking her to the hospital for pregnancy and HIV test.

Lastly take the issue to God in prayers and make ur decision.

Why dint you call her, for the whole service year when u know that women love attention.

Jeon:
Why can't women be polygamous since men are polygamous in nature?.

I always laugh whenever I see complains like this, for fuvk sake men also engage in sexual explore with other ladies, but will get pissed off if the same card is been played on them.

Lol. In as much I do not support guys cheating. Women bears the consequences more. For example, women suffers the consequences more like getting pregnant, falling breasts, widening vagina, etc. All these doesn't affect guys. The best is for d woman to keep herself for her man.

Jeon:
Why can't women be polygamous since men are polygamous in nature?.

I always laugh whenever I see complains like this, for fuvk sake men also engage in sexual explore with other ladies, but will get pissed off if the same card is been played on them.

Better put it this way, why can't women be ashawo and not be judged cos some men lack selfcontrol.

so cause u didn't 📞 her due to some circumstances, she TRULY SERVE=DISTRIBUTED her pushy to willing DICKSON ? Imagine if u marry her and u have challenge, (may you NOT see CASE.Nah so she go dey give POLICE,JUDGE, LASTMAS,EFCC,KAI her pusI FREELY .She's NOT A WIFE material. LEAVE HER B4 GOD LEAVE U

Carcholce:
In 2024, one thing I really want to do is to be able to completely avoid threads that has to do with man and woman relationship. I don tire to read these things. Reading posts as these is not helpful to the mind, and if you are not strong minded, it plants hates towards the opposite gender.

OP, sorry for not contributing to help your situation. Happy new year in advance. Extend my greetings to your fiancée!

You spoke my mind. It's draining at this point

I mount with you Oniovo. Very unhealthy for the mind.

Carcholce:
In 2024, one thing I really want to do is to be able to completely avoid threads that has to do with man and woman relationship. I don tire to read these things. Reading posts as these is not helpful to the mind, and if you are not strong minded, it plants hates towards the opposite gender.

OP, sorry for not contributing to help your situation. Happy new year in advance. Extend my greetings to your fiancée!

Carcholce:
In 2024, one thing I really want to do is to be able to completely avoid threads that has to do with man and woman relationship. I don tire to read these things. Reading posts as these is not helpful to the mind, and if you are not strong minded, it plants hates towards the opposite gender.

OP, sorry for not contributing to help your situation. Happy new year in advance. Extend my greetings to your fiancée!

Are you okay? The foolish boy ghosted her?

If you can't leave with her cheating on you, let her go.

Jeon:
Why can't women be polygamous since men are polygamous in nature?.

I always laugh whenever I see complains like this, for fuvk sake men also engage in sexual explore with other ladies, but will get pissed off if the same card is been played on them.

So, why is she sorry then if woman is also created for be polygamous in nature?

letstalksense:
There is this lady I plan to marry, which I have made known to her already even before she travelled for her NYSC. Although she just came back from NYSC service recently. We are just discussing the way forward and on the process I was asking her about her sexual life and how recently she had sex. After insisting for her to answer. She opened up and told me she had a sexual relationship during her NYSC service. And the reason was because I didn't call her at a particular time so she thought I have find anther woman. And that was when I was having some personal challenges. According to her, they ended the sexual relationship in the camp. That she is sorry and all that. I didn't really expect that attitude from her as she seem to look responsible and Godlily. I was just disappointed even though I pretended like everything is well. And I was also thinking she had the courage to tell me the true.

Now I have to make my decision, but needs a matured advise and guidance from a mature mind please.

Do think I should continue my marriage plan with her?

Pease what do you advise I do?

Thanks in advance.

Even though I am a strong redpiller and anti-feminist...but

Swear say you no knack another babe while she dey do her NYSC

Anyone that has sex in NYSC camp is not responsible.

letstalksense:
There is this lady I plan to marry, which I have made known to her already even before she travelled for her NYSC. Although she just came back from NYSC service recently. We are just discussing the way forward and on the process I was asking her about her sexual life and how recently she had sex. After insisting for her to answer. She opened up and told me she had a sexual relationship during her NYSC service. And the reason was because I didn't call her at a particular time so she thought I have find anther woman. And that was when I was having some personal challenges. According to her, they ended the sexual relationship in the camp. That she is sorry and all that. I didn't really expect that attitude from her as she seem to look responsible and Godlily. I was just disappointed even though I pretended like everything is well. And I was also thinking she had the courage to tell me the true.

Now I have to make my decision, but needs a matured advise and guidance from a mature mind please.

Do think I should continue my marriage plan with her?

Pease what do you advise I do?

Thanks in advance.

if it’s only a sexual relationship and nothing more than that then go ahead and marry bro as long she is doing everything she needs to do for you I don’t see how this should be an issue abi you think say woman body na firewood ? As long as you are not there she has to take care of herself sexually

letstalksense:
There is this lady I plan to marry, which I have made known to her already even before she travelled for her NYSC. Although she just came back from NYSC service recently. We are just discussing the way forward and on the process I was asking her about her sexual life and how recently she had sex. After insisting for her to answer. She opened up and told me she had a sexual relationship during her NYSC service. And the reason was because I didn't call her at a particular time so she thought I have find anther woman. And that was when I was having some personal challenges. According to her, they ended the sexual relationship in the camp. That she is sorry and all that. I didn't really expect that attitude from her as she seem to look responsible and Godlily. I was just disappointed even though I pretended like everything is well. And I was also thinking she had the courage to tell me the true.

Now I have to make my decision, but needs a matured advise and guidance from a mature mind please.

Do think I should continue my marriage plan with her?

Pease what do you advise I do?

Thanks in advance.

The next person u might be dating might be worse and she will never mention it to you. Stick to her but do this:
Make a big deal out of the issue to see 1. how she reacts and 2. to let her know that such will never be tolerated.
If after you made a big deal out of it and she felt calm and undisturbed, run n leave the relation as it is a clear indication that she doesn't value and she is still seeing someone else n possibly the NYSC guy.