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Very thoughtful answers.....

Yes..
I'm a living witness.

Capital NO.

There must be coitus to legalize the friendship.

A man and a woman relationship includes

Business Partnership
F*ck Buddies
Dating relationship
Neighbours - Just neighbors (not friends)

Once friendship don dey involve without dating/Kpenshing.

Most likely - One person will be using the other psychological, physically, mentally, without one knowing whats up until things becomes clear

Other Possible scenarios
👉 One person keeps the other by d side incase their plans fail. They have a fall back plan
👉 One person or both will develop feelings (which wont look like friends anymore)
👉 If that feeling develops and they r both friendzoned. One or both partners becomes jealous of the person's real mate.

Other people shud come with points sha o.

As a rule for me. As a man to woman strollzz.
Its either we are doing business or we r f*cking.

Yes. Depending on your age and maturity

From your teenage years to perhaps 36years your libidos are high, you have high testosterone and you want more sex...

sometimes after 36 you have probably fvcked black white, yellow, green, fat , slim, girls.. and sex isn't your priorities

When sex is no longer your priorities you set a realistic goal of relationship

Some of the best friendships I ever had...

Have actually been with women!

Yes full time. Not all men want sex from women , not all women want money from men ..If you ever find a genuine friendship of the opposite sex .you will know life is not all about sex. The main thing they should all draw their boundaries when necessary.

That’s for the woman to decide

Yeah. Currently with one.
She's a childhood friend tho!

For what?

If you are benefitting one way or the other. Yeah

Them no dey keep goat and yam together; according to my mpa. 😮‍💨

ONLY if the Man is UGLY and BROKE and the Woman is Unattractive!

But once the Guy is handsome and the Lady has cute Breasts and Yanch,
One of them MUST catch Feelings.

Yes....But it depends on who they are and the kind of mentality they both have..

Currently,my bestie is a female........and we've been like that for years...Tho feelings were coming along the way at a certain time,but I had to control mine...

omoh..........my current bestie is a female

Sonnobax15:

Yes....But it depends on who they are and the kind of mentality they both have..

Currently,my bestie is a female........and we've been like that for years...Tho feelings were coming along the way at a certain time,but I had to control mine...

Do you think She has controlled hers?

Illegal1:
omoh..........my current bestie is a female

Make Una continue to dey Deceive unaSelves .

I have done this Female Bestie thingy and I can Tell you, Is a WASTE of Time.

Most Female Besties of Guys Just wants to Use Them to Pass time!
They will Hug, Touch and be Rubbing you but Steadily looking for a Rich Dude for proper relationship.

Once they see such Guy, they will DUMP you!

malaria:
Yes full time. Not all men want sex from women , not all women want money from men ..If you ever find a genuine friendship of the opposite sex .you will know life is not all about sex. The main thing they should all draw their boundaries when necessary.

The opposite sex you want to make ur friend, won't he/she have lover/husband or wife?
How did you want him/her to be feeling when she sees you going close to her husband?

If you think nothing is happening between you and him, will other parties think in that way too?

What about ur own lover? Do you think he/she would be comfortable with that too?

Will you because of friendship not settle down or you want ur marriage to suffer because of mere friendship with opposite gender?

IF YOU ARE A MARRIED WOMAN AND UR HUSBAND BEAT U AND THROWN YOU OUT AS RESULT OF UR MALE FRIEND WHICH HE MISTAKEN FOR INFIDELITY, IM SURE YOU WILL STILL BLAME UR PARTNER AND CLAIM INNOCENCE, MEANWHILE, "Marriage na scam crew" WILL NOT BLAME YOU BUT MARRIAGE INSTITUTION.

yes. Big yes.

You attract what you think. If it's the other room that is on your mind you will eventually go there. If you are disciplined, you know where to draw the line. This idea that something must happen, sometimes I ask if these people grew up with their parents or grandparents because if they did they will see and learn a lot

rabankonchas:
Very thoughtful answers.....

It is quite possible when you have two sexually disciplined individuals who know and value the relationship above the possible rush of hormones/chemicals through their bodies.

I have two male friends and I can't have sex with them. They more beneficial to me as friends.

Sometimes, I have the thoughts like if I sleep with so and so, how do we continue being friends?

Nah!!!

I reject am!

Ireportlive:
Yes. Depending on your age and maturity

From your teenage years to perhaps 36years your libidos are high, you have high testosterone and you want more sex...

sometimes after 36 you have probably fvcked black white, yellow, green, fat , slim, girls.. and sex isn't your priorities

When sex is no longer your priorities you set a realistic goal of relationship

So if your wife of 36 tells you she has a a very good male friend, you'll assume she is matured? And at 36, as a guy, you start practicing celibacy because you are matured?

Most of you just open your mouth waaaaa, and spew rubbish. I wonder the mumus that liked your post

BigDickProblems:
So if your wife of 36 tells you she has a a very good male friend, you'll assume she is matured? And at 36, as a guy, you start practicing celibacy because you are matured?

Most of you just open your mouth waaaaa, and spew rubbish. I wonder the mumus that liked your post

You are still young, just look at your moniker sef, you are not worth arguing with Mr bigdick

Why can't they be? Haven't u seen many girls on campuses who have guys as best friends n they remain cool

Ireportlive:
You are still young, just look at your moniker sef, you are not worth arguing with Mr bigdick

Lols, you can't have a small schlong and think smart. If not, answer those questions.

Yes




There are a lot fággots that are besties with females

Vinnie2000:
Make Una continue to dey Deceive unaSelves .

I have done this Female Bestie thingy and I can Tell you, Is a WASTE of Time.

Most Female Besties of Guys Just wants to Use Them to Pass time!
They will Hug, Touch and be Rubbing you but Steadily looking for a Rich Dude for proper relationship.

Once they see such Guy, they will DUMP you!

omoh...........i never told u i want to marry her

Nibo, Sibo.

I can only be your friend if I want to fvck you.

Ere kini aja ba ekun shey?

If not that we live in a morally bankrupt society, this question ought to have been ignored because it doesn’t make sense

Ok

Stop asking stupid questions like this in 2024

Pre-puberty boy and girl