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Seun:
If you help a man, he will appreciate it for a long time. If you forget, he will remind you. It is as if he owes you a debt. The guy that helped me to bring back Nairaland in 2014 could do no wrong in my eyes until last year. And even now, you won't catch me saying anything against him.

If you help a woman, she will appreciate it for a short time. 3 days. ;DA week. A month. 3 months. Then it's as if you never helped her. It's history. Your help is like a subscription. Once it expires, you can be ghosted. Unless you renew it. And there are many other subscribers, so stop feeling as if yours was such a big deal. 😭

PS: Please o; I don't do redpill. Women are not ungrateful. They recieve help all the time, which they deserve. I'm just speaking from pain. 😭

Jewessgratitud3:
Really? .

DenreleDave:
How are you?

Tranquility2345:
Na only you spit facts. Man, woman. All are the same. Man wey you go dash money today, tomorrow he go expect you to dash am again. You no give am, then you become enemy number one. All of them are the same. Broke people are very wicked and ungrateful

maestro299:
Oga Seun, wetin happen?

Proserpina:
This is coming from a man who wants to get rid of misogynists and bring women/ladies back to his forum.


Interesting.

bukatyne:
Na woman show Seun shege; Na broke person show you shege......

Every mallam with im kettle

Seun:
If you help a man, he will appreciate it for a long time. If you forget, he will remind you. It is as if he owes you a debt. The guy that helped me to bring back Nairaland in 2014 could do no wrong in my eyes until last year. And even now, you won't catch me saying anything against him.

If you help a woman, she will appreciate it for a short time. 3 days. A week. A month. 3 months. Then it's as if you never helped her. It's history. Your help is like a subscription. Once it expires, you can be ghosted. Unless you renew it. And there are many other subscribers, so stop feeling as if yours was such a big deal. 😭

PS: Please o; I don't do redpill. Women are not ungrateful. They recieve help all the time, which they deserve. I'm just speaking from pain. 😭

Seun:
If you help a man, he will appreciate it for a long time. If you forget, he will remind you. It is as if he owes you a debt. The guy that helped me to bring back Nairaland in 2014 could do no wrong in my eyes until last year. And even now, you won't catch me saying anything against him.

If you help a woman, she will appreciate it for a short time. 3 days. A week. A month. 3 months. Then it's as if you never helped her. It's history. Your help is like a subscription. Once it expires, you can be ghosted. Unless you renew it. And there are many other subscribers, so stop feeling as if yours was such a big deal. 😭

PS: Please o; I don't do redpill. Women are not ungrateful. They recieve help all the time, which they deserve. I'm just speaking from pain. 😭

James39:
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your help to a lady is like a subscription
Cracked me up

Dizzyyish:
Psychologically, emotions are strongly tied to memories. If you positively stimulate a woman's emotions well, you've etched yourself into her mind (that's why some exes can bed them after relationship has ended [even in marriage] ). And it's the same for (strong) negative emotions.

Gratitude is a virtue, not an emotion, so they're quick to forget it.

Seun:
If you help a man, he will appreciate it for a long time. If you forget, he will remind you. It is as if he owes you a debt. The guy that helped me to bring back Nairaland in 2014 could do no wrong in my eyes until last year. And even now, you won't catch me saying anything against him.

If you help a woman, she will appreciate it for a short time. 3 days. A week. A month. 3 months. Then it's as if you never helped her. It's history. Your help is like a subscription. Once it expires, you can be ghosted. Unless you renew it. And there are many other subscribers, so stop feeling as if yours was such a big deal. 😭

PS: Please o; I don't do redpill. Women are not ungrateful. They recieve help all the time, which they deserve. I'm just speaking from pain. 😭

StrongAlphMale:
You'll hardly see a girl using that phrase for a guy. Like I said wether she invest in that relationship or not Dude she's keeping her options open.

No be today girls start to ask guys for advice. And how does that makes her your girl? Which one is my girl my girl everywhere on nairaland? Is she your wife yet or what exactly?

When was the last time we see a girl using the phrase "my guy my guy or my man my man? They don't even use the word "my" na guys dey always dey excited to use that word. It's Simpson in nature Dude. Make Una stop am! Worst of all, she isn't your wife yet. If she mistakenly becomes your wife that means you'll start screaming my mama my mama everywhere.

StrongAlphMale:
Limit the attention you give to her or rather just dump her and end the relationship.


Broke girls thinks they're doing a guy a favour by dating him. They believe the guy is the reason they're poor. They believe they have no problem being broke themselves.

They see nothing wrong dating a rich guy, they think they're in the same level with him. Broke girls are delusional

48noble:
Whatever you do for your fellow man... Is only keep for me

DenreleDave:
Who doesn't know you?

Seun:
If you help a man, he will appreciate it for a long time. If you forget, he will remind you. It is as if he owes you a debt. The guy that helped me to bring back Nairaland in 2014 could do no wrong in my eyes until last year. And even now, you won't catch me saying anything against him.

If you help a woman, she will appreciate it for a short time. 3 days. A week. A month. 3 months. Then it's as if you never helped her. It's history. Your help is like a subscription. Once it expires, you can be ghosted. Unless you renew it. And there are many other subscribers, so stop feeling as if yours was such a big deal. 😭

PS: Please o; I don't do redpill. Women are not ungrateful. They recieve help all the time, which they deserve. I'm just speaking from pain. 😭

Jeferious:
Oga, e be like say you dey new to this game. How would you address a babe who's your love interest, and who's also romantically interested in you? Do you have to act cold and bland so that you'd be seen as the ultimate redpiller? To achieve what na?

The "My" is a possessive pronoun showing that you're entitled to this person in a way. I have also heard my own girlfriend address me as "my man" when I was trying to reassure her that I'm not flirting with her friend. I wonder if you expected him to address his girlfriend as "one of dem girls"...or "the girl wey I dey f##k".

The principle still remains: don't fall HOPELESSLY in love. No cross bridge for who no fit cross gutter for you. If she starts acting funny, show her who the chief clown is. Till then, I don't mind making my girlfriend feel special

Seun:
Women use the term, "my man" or "my guy" all the time.

StrongAlphMale:
You're not entitled to her Dude, and hence the phrase "my" is irrelevant.

You can use "my" or "mine" for possession such as your house, your car, your money etc, not for a human being let alone a girl who isn't even your wife. U dey whine me?

This isn't a matter of redpiller or not, how can you ascribed her as yours even though multiple dudes are also chopping her back to back? Which one is my girl my girl everywhere on nairaland abeg?

Girls hardly Use that phrase for a guy physically let alone using it online. They're of course keeping their options open as stated above. Make una stop am! All these my girl my girl on nairaland is becoming increasingly worrisome, you hard see a girl using that phrase for her boyfriend here on nairaland, dey know exactly what they're doing. Always keeping their options open. But guys all over nairaland go dey halla my girl my girl everywhere. How is she your girl? Are you her father? Abi na your wife she be? Dude you don't owe her and she's not your girl. Which one is my girl my girl everywhere on nairaland?

Animegirl:
Is not about helping a woman, you men still want something more under her legs. You always feel entitled to her body, marriage, even her time, is only few good men that don't ask anything in return.

As a lady I always go back to appreciate, is not even a gender thing. But anytime I go back to appreciate is when can we see

Seun:
Women use the term, "my man" or "my guy" all the time.

StrongAlphMale:
You're not entitled to her Dude, and hence the phrase "my" is irrelevant.

You can use "my" or "mine" for possession such as your house, your car, your money etc, not for a human being let alone a girl who isn't even your wife. U dey whine me?

This isn't a matter of redpiller or not, how can you ascribed her as yours even though multiple dudes are also chopping her back to back? Which one is my girl my girl everywhere on nairaland abeg?

Girls hardly Use that phrase for a guy physically let alone using it online. They're of course keeping their options open as stated above. Make una stop am! All these my girl my girl on nairaland is becoming increasingly worrisome, you hard see a girl using that phrase for her boyfriend here on nairaland, dey know exactly what they're doing. Always keeping their options open. But guys all over nairaland go dey halla my girl my girl everywhere. How is she your girl? Are you her father? Abi na your wife she be? Dude you don't owe her and she's not your girl. Which one is my girl my girl everywhere on nairaland?

dhiqson:
Wise Man dey let una know say women keep their. Options open
Hence they don't personalize nobody!! Even if he's always in her gut

But you people, blinded by love and wet hole just want to argue
Fr tho, I've never read a lady here saying "my guy"
She'll rather say the guy I'm seeing

eclatante:
This story isn't complete

Akano5:
I need an android phone to learn copywriting and other digital skills.
Nobody has help me since but, if i were a lady, i would have been gifted an Iphone.


Men don't help themselves, crazy world!

Jeferious:
What if the dude in question addresses dozens of other girls as "my girl" too? Words mean nothing, my brother. Na action be the main koko