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Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by tollyboy5(op): 3:39pm On Apr 11, 2024
Proserpina:
All these are financial responsibilities and you have already stated that you want your woman to share as a co-provider.
I was not talking about other expenses. If you read all my past comment you noticed I focus on feeding.
Food! Why will a woman feel I must feed her everyday or give her feeding money when it does not involve me and my children.
You've missed my point, the lady said a man must feed her.
That's crazy, reason why I said a woman who can't feed herself should not even get married
Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by Proserpina:
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Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by folake4u:
Proserpina:
You see that phrase "Your husband is taking care of you o" it must be true in my life. It won't be something I will hear and cry inwardly. God forbid grin grin

I can't believe these guys are complaining about something as little as feeding their wives. If their wives now ask for the luxury nko? Hell will let loose ooo grin grin
Lol I'm going through comments and laughter wan kill me.

Even normal boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, the man will feed his babe, talkless Marriage?!!

Later these empty vessels will lie/ boast to their fellow men that they're in charge of their homes and performing in za oda room.

Something wey fit be say the sex na no foréplay, 85 seconds of thrusting and a loud finish that produced two drops of sperm.

Mtchewww. undecided
Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by tollyboy5(op): 4:03pm On Apr 11, 2024
Proserpina:
I tell you this you are not ready to take up a woman's responsibility but you want her to share in yours... It is well
1) If the food she eat is my responsibility, what will be her own responsibility?
Lol... I'm not jealous, I don't envy the petty trader at all grin grin .

Some of you quantify and monetize everything that you question your women's duties in marriage. I hope you stop that because you may not really enjoy your marriages if you continue that way.
Look I'm not nice like my dad.
I know what I want from a lady.
A woman can support you, most women if not all do because the truth is most men in Nigeria can't shoulder 100% financial responsibilities in their families. In this economy? Lol.
Women have been doing this without any noise but it is still the same you that comes online to create posts and make noise.
God bless those that did without much noise. Why problem is the unprepared attitude. I don't want that.
It's the entitlement that I really find annoying here. The fact that women are helping you financially doesn't mean it is their jobs or their responsibilities or you should demand more. So please don't feel entitled and stay away from marriage if you are not ready to accept that it is your duty to provide for and protect your family.
She's not helping to feed herself. If she leave my house I will cope well. She's an extra expenses on me.
Feeding yourself as an adult is not helping your boyfriend or husband
Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by tollyboy5(op): 4:06pm On Apr 11, 2024
Proserpina:
Infact tollyboy5 you must take your wife to Maldives every three months grin grin grin


That cry unna wan cry, una go cry am tire today grin grin grin
Na you I go marry insha Allah.
You go see pepper walai grin
Shebi you be foodu, no worry you chop well b4 marriage. After then I go open yah eyes.
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Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by folake4u: 4:23pm On Apr 11, 2024
Proserpina:
Likkkkkkeeeeee I'm weak. Something as cheap as feeding. So they don't want to feed their wives anymore. grin

Take charge indeed .

Lol I'm short of words self.
Nor be small thing mehn. I don't envy those who marry their kind.

I'm amused by their takes honestly.
Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by BarrElChapo(m): 4:26pm On Apr 11, 2024
Nazgul:
Never take what a lady says online seriously. Most just want to catch cruise and mislead naive and unintelligent girls.
Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by tollyboy5(op): 4:26pm On Apr 11, 2024
Proserpina:
Now I want to believe you are trolling.

A piece of advice for you though, please stay single.

Thanks
If I give woman Belle and she try to comot am, I go sue am straight!
grin I go show am pepper.
Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by TheRedpillguy: 4:27pm On Apr 11, 2024
Problem is she based everything on sex, but sex gets old fast and not that interesting, she will get older and the man will start using this ideology to get sex from young Women who think the same as her. At this point the man really don't care Abt what she does.
Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by Moniya4Real(m): 4:27pm On Apr 11, 2024
she made it known unambiguously that sex to her is transactional
Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by Empresa: 4:28pm On Apr 11, 2024
tollyboy5:
This lady made this statement on a thread. I would love to know if that's how ladies think so I can also update Elon musk chip in my head with the latest IA grin
There's nothing wrong with what she said. She acknowledged the fact that wives are supporters and she was blunt about it. So it's all good.
Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by NairaMaster1(m): 4:29pm On Apr 11, 2024
tollyboy5:
This lady made this statement on a thread. I would love to know if that's how ladies think so I can also update Elon musk chip in my head with the latest IA grin
She's right. We are Africa.
Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by folake4u: 4:30pm On Apr 11, 2024
Proserpina:
Now I want to believe you are trolling.

A piece of advice for you though, please stay single.

Thanks
Lol. Leave am.

Life always have a funny way of teaching one bitter lessons. cheesy
Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by Angelfrost(m): 4:30pm On Apr 11, 2024
Okay... I agree that a man should be the provider as the head of the home.

However, what's with the weaponization of sex?!!

Is sex now one-sided?!! Is it solely designed for a man's enjoyment?!!

If that's the case, why do women commit adultery?!! Why do sugar mommies exist?!!

If you are not a prostitut*, why does a man have to compulsorily pay whenever he has sex with you?!!

At what point did such idiotic mentality enter into the sacred union of marriage?!!


Omo... Most of you are mentally unwell in this generation. undecided
Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by Semaj77(m): 4:31pm On Apr 11, 2024
Proserpina:
Where's the lie in her post?

As a man it is your responsibility to take care of your woman, if you can't you have no business with marriage.
No lie there but there's one issue , I don't mind being the sole provider to all our needs but you in turn must submit to me fully since we're going the traditional way , also I'm entitled to marry another over you if I so wish
Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by Thinktwicemybro: 4:31pm On Apr 11, 2024
Proserpina:
Where's the lie in her post?

As a man it is your responsibility to take care of your woman, if you can't you have no business with marriage.
Shatap
Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by ozo13(m): 4:31pm On Apr 11, 2024
Proserpina:
Where's the lie in her post?

As a man it is your responsibility to take care of your woman, if you can't you have no business with marriage.
what if along the line something happens to the man may be and he is unable to provide despite been a cool man when he was able to.
Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by NairaMaster1(m): 4:31pm On Apr 11, 2024
Proserpina:
Eyah... Sorry ehn

So you want your wife to bring food stuff that she will eat from her father's house while being married to you.

May I not be unfortunate in life grin grin

Oshi len she grin
Don't mind all these Jambites on Nairaland. Nollywood and japa mentality has finished them. The man MUST feed the family. We are African
Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by Moniya4Real(m): 4:31pm On Apr 11, 2024
this is brutal o🤣… but on the flipside, same you would be mad if the guy is always too Hot and ready to give it to you at every given opportunity.


folake4u:
Lol I'm going through comments and laughter wan kill me.

Even normal boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, the man will feed his babe, talkless Marriage?!!

Later these empty vessels will lie/ boast to their fellow men that they're in charge of their homes and performing in za oda room.

Something wey fit be say the sex na no pre-intimacy, 85 seconds of thrusting and a loud finish that produced two drops of sperm.

Mtchewww. undecided
Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by rockog: 4:32pm On Apr 11, 2024
Can you hear MUMU talking
Proserpina:
Where's the lie in her post?

As a man it is your responsibility to take care of your woman, if you can't you have no business with marriage.
Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by Proserpina:
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Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by tollyboy5(op): 4:32pm On Apr 11, 2024
NairaMaster1:
She's right. We are Africa.
I'm from Lagos state Epe that's not the culture I met with my grandmother. (RIP)
Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by BigYash: 4:32pm On Apr 11, 2024
As if no be she dey cum pass during d sex. I can’t marry an idiot like that... Not that I can feed her,but for the fact that she talks like a fool,makes her not wife able.. Sex is sacred to her and I am sure her Toto go don take more than 5 preek so.. Any man that is still foolish for these ladies,will remain a fool forever..
Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by Proserpina:
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Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by CaptainFM1: 4:33pm On Apr 11, 2024
She's spot on.

The first tangible evidence of love is "giving".
Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by folake4u: 4:33pm On Apr 11, 2024
Proserpina:
He should wait in his papa house, somebody will come and marry him grin grin grin
He will wait long oh.

Women these days aren't playing, even village girls sef don wise up. cheesy
Re: For Men, Can You Marry A Lady With This Ideology? by benzion72(m): 4:34pm On Apr 11, 2024
Nowadays ladies want you as a man to conquer the poverty thier father could not conquer in the past 50 years
Don't worry it is either you are end up as G boy sacrifice or stay single for life
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