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When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by Toks2008(m): 5:51pm On Jan 21, 2016
This is an eye opening piece that pertains to every form of affair but i will use the marital union as a yardstick as it seems to be a more committed and stronger form of union.This write up is not about an affair which started on a shaky terrain but it is about a romantic affair that was so sweet,calm,beautiful... and all of a sudden like a horror movie,the whole story suddenly turns tragic.

Everyday, we see headlines about a guy proposing to a lady in a certain unique and romantic way and many ladies begin to fantasize about how and when their bae will do same to them.

The wedding ceremony has become more important than the marriage proper and it is no longer news that many marriages crash shortly after the razzmatazz of flamboyant wedding celebration and super romantic pre-wedding shoots and much more.

It is pertinent to understand that the only institution created by GOD himself is marriage and nothing gladdens the heart of Satan than to see that same institution destroyed on earth and this is why he will go all the way to see as many breakups as possible in marriages or potential marital union because satan knows that in most cases,break ups breed Adultery and fornication, hatred,disorientation for the children as well as carry over resentment for the partied involved which could be a ground for a recurring breakups.

Marriage or any purposeful romantic affair is not a physical union but 100% spiritual but manifesting in the physical and when trouble occurs, it will always seem to be the fault of either the man or the woman when the truth of the matter is that it is most likely to be a spiritual attack that needs spiritual defense.


While i agree that some people in romantic affairs can be very careless and indiscipline, we must understand that there are some marital conflicts that look so ordinary and usually explainable yet could be as a result of spell from people within or outside the family especially marriages of African descend.

I have heard of strange things leading to marital break-up.

-Marriages destroyed because of argument over N20 toothpaste.

-Man calls off wedding during reception over unguarded comment of the bride made only to his hearing.

-Man stabs his wife over argument about who gets a larger meat size on the plate.

-Man beats his wife to death over very flimsy issues.

-A man or woman suddenly leaves a marriage and children and starts a life with a new person without any logical reason.

-A man or woman who have been so decent and Godly suddenly starts misbehaving.

-A man who have proposed marriage to a lady suddenly starts misbehaving and many more instances


When we start noticing strange changes in a spouse or potential spouse who have before that time maintained a proper status quo,it is not the time to start nagging,cursing,blaming or fulfill the wish of Satan by heading for a break up but that is the time to fight the battle on your kneels,to pray and fast and depend on the creator of that institution to make repairs.

As they say in my dialect;"Ori bibe ko ni ogun ori fi fo...meaning cutting off the head is never a solution to a lingering head-ache.

Hope this makes sense.

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Re: When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by Smellymouth: 5:56pm On Jan 21, 2016
E long oo shocked

As I don be FTC, na to use my smellymouth face those below me grin

Yawns!!!!! Chai.. my mouth dey smell sha shocked

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Re: When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by ronald4lif(m): 5:56pm On Jan 21, 2016
Ok. sad

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Re: When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by Toks2008(m): 5:58pm On Jan 21, 2016
Smellymouth:
E long oo shocked

Lol! better learn to read because it is far shorter than a page content of hardly chase novel.

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Re: When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by icedbeatz: 5:59pm On Jan 21, 2016
#20 paste? Hahahaha toks toks i believe you sha.....
Some broke theirs over the last piece of meat or something, ladies why must you guys always want the last piece of anything? Nawao

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Re: When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by CaroLyner(f): 6:01pm On Jan 21, 2016
over to them married folks

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Re: When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by Toks2008(m): 6:03pm On Jan 21, 2016
CaroLyner:
over to them married folks

This is not only for married people but everyone in a committed affair.

Lalasticlala i guess people should learn a thing or two from this.

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Re: When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by Nobody: 6:04pm On Jan 21, 2016
Wow super cool

Prayer nd fasting without cease hmmmm gat it op tanx

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Re: When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by Amypat(f): 6:05pm On Jan 21, 2016
icedbeatz:
#20 paste? Hahahaha toks toks i believe you sha.....
Some broke theirs over the last piece of meat or something, ladies why must you guys always want the last piece of anything? Nawao
its our nature lol

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Re: When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by dollyjoy(f): 6:06pm On Jan 21, 2016
well said.

tolerance and understanding is paramount in the marriage institution.


the instances you cited can be overlook if tolerance is there.

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Re: When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by menabae(f): 6:08pm On Jan 21, 2016
Hian..I'm allergic to long things joor..

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Re: When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by Toks2008(m): 6:08pm On Jan 21, 2016
dollyjoy:
well said.


tolerance and understanding is paramount in the marriage institution.



the instances you cited can be overlook if tolerance is there.

Hmmm, my sister, May God not let us see a spiritual attack on our union because tolerance and understanding will totally be forgotten

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Re: When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by Monalisa185(f): 6:09pm On Jan 21, 2016
ronald4lif:
Ok. sad
is that all?undecided

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Re: When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by Nobody: 6:21pm On Jan 21, 2016
Your solutions are spiritualy based with no intellectual reasoning to it, simple actions like a heart-to-heart talk with your spouse can help, or better still visit a shrink, i bet pastor Chris and dear Anita are champions in fasting and speaking in tongues, yet they went online to wash there dirty linnings.

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Re: When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by Nobody: 6:25pm On Jan 21, 2016
Preach, preacher!!!

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Re: When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by Nobody: 6:26pm On Jan 21, 2016
Hmmmm.undecided


I would have read all that But on a second thought, Why would I When It is not a 6 credit load Course I'll pass. & I did passundecided.

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Re: When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by tommychow(m): 6:28pm On Jan 21, 2016
I think the praying should be done before the marriage MAINLY BY WOMEN. And their worst enemy is the social pressure of marrying at the "right age". Lots of females (not all o) believe marrying at the "right age" means the perfect and promising marriage. They dump a good man that arrives too early because they wanna explore OR they dump a good man because he's not yet financially stable and isn't ready to marry her at the "right age". Then these women will ignorantly commit to men who are ready to marry. In their years of courting, she'll see red flags but no, she has to marry at the "right age". They'll throw one mad wedding, go for honeymoon. Then the man's true color will begin to manifest year after year. THAT'S WHEN SHE'LL START PRAYING FOR A GOOD MARRIAGE! "God please change my husband".

For me, men are usually the cause of bad marriages because of infidelity and pride. Women usually fight to make their marriages work. So women, you need to do the praying much much more...and before the marriage not after.

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Re: When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by Toks2008(m): 6:33pm On Jan 21, 2016
RexKex:
Hmmmm.undecided


I would have read all that But on a second thought, Why would I When It is not a 6 credit load Course I'll pass. & I did passundecided.

lol!

Honestly if this is too long for you to read then i can bet my left testicle that you won't be able to read long notes which means you go be olodo for school.

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Re: When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by Nobody: 6:36pm On Jan 21, 2016
Toks2008:


lol!

Honestly if this is too long for you to read then i can bet my left testicle that you won't be able to read long notes which means you go be olodo for school.
lol. grin. I sense you're a prophet, albeit a fake onecheesy.

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Re: When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by Toks2008(m): 6:56pm On Jan 21, 2016
RexKex:
lol. grin. I sense you're a prophet, albeit a fake onecheesy.

Tarrrrh!

Nigerians have very bad reading culture walahi..imagine someone saying this one long,,lol!

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Re: When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by ronald4lif(m): 7:01pm On Jan 21, 2016
Monalisa185:
is that all?undecided

Yes, that's all. tongue

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Re: When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by Nobody: 7:11pm On Jan 21, 2016
ronald4lif:
Ok. sad
LMAO




When I started I was like okay, it is something about God, it should be good then I got to the spiritual attacks and I went cry

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Re: When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by cruzita(f): 7:20pm On Jan 21, 2016
BLAME THE MEN WHO HAVE SUDDENLY JOINED WOMEN TO NAG INSTEAD OF HANDLING ISSUES LIKE A MAN

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Re: When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by Monalisa185(f): 8:17pm On Jan 21, 2016
ronald4lif:

Yes, that's all. tongue
no, that's wickedtongue

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Re: When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by ronald4lif(m): 8:26pm On Jan 21, 2016
Monalisa185:


no, that's wickedtongue

Bia, nwanyi hmmm Kedu afa obodo gi afu sef, odika ibido go icho okwu? undecided
Re: When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by misspicy(f): 8:29pm On Jan 21, 2016
Randyhot:
Your solutions are spiritualy based with no intellectual reasoning to it, simple actions like a heart-to-heart talk with your spouse can help, or better still visit a shrink, i bet pastor Chris and dear Anita are champions in fasting and speaking in tongues, yet they went online to wash there dirty linnings.
grin
Re: When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by ronald4lif(m): 8:35pm On Jan 21, 2016
daretodiffer:

LMAO




When I started I was like okay, it is something about God, it should be good then I got to the spiritual attacks and I went cry

The thread taya me. I no even know where to start address am. Whether to start with the religious sophistry that marriage is the creation of God and with crediting bible as the source when marital institution is older than any present religion.

People don't just want to read and get factual information but would rather feast on what organized doctrines says. I don't even know what he means by spiritual attacks. Stuff that aren't evidenced based don't sink to me.

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Re: When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by Monalisa185(f): 8:35pm On Jan 21, 2016
ronald4lif:


Bia, nwanyi hmmm Kedu afa obodo gi afu sef, odika ibido go icho okwu? undecided

tongue
Re: When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by ronald4lif(m): 8:37pm On Jan 21, 2016
Monalisa185:


hahaha...ichoro kam choo gi okwu ebe'a?

Ka naba ura nwata, ona chi echibe gi na anya? sad
Re: When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by Monalisa185(f): 8:39pm On Jan 21, 2016
ronald4lif:


Ka naba ura nwata, ona chi echibe gi na anya? sad

tongue
Re: When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by Ishilove: 9:03pm On Jan 21, 2016
Makes perfect sense
Re: When Your sweet Romantic affair suddenly turns bitter. by Toks2008(m): 9:35pm On Jan 21, 2016
Ishilove:
Makes perfect sense

Spiritual maturity at work.

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