₦airaland Forum

BareFacedLies:
If you like leave your marriage because of what Nairaland chief feminist Kobojunkie said.

When you do you will realise that the only real options available to you in the dating pool in Nigeria are widowers and possibly divorcees.

You're not likely to find a single guy in Nigeria who will readily marry a divorced woman with kids instead they will be taking turns to fuçk you.

If you must know the husbands of most of your friends also have sidechicks but they are more discrete about it so stop envying them.

Shut up, if your niave mother stayed with your father and suffered emotional abuse from your abusive father that doesn't mean she should remain with an ANIMAL as an husband. Can u people try this rubbish u are doing to African women with white woman? Useless men everywhere!!

Sonnobax15:

Imagine some werey for up just dey advice madam op to cheat on her husband .

That's to tell you how irredeemable our society has become........When you come online to seek advice,na then you go know say over 90% of people using smart phones are just humans with the brains of native goats

Oga if ur daughter is in her situations what will you advice her to do? No be to open mouth wa dey talk like Mumu, na your gender dey behave like animal for another person pikin life so. So since u get sense pass all of us advice her, what should she do?

Prettygirl200:
Seriously, is this the advice you would give to your daughter? She should bear it? Are u serious? So you men now make cheating something a woman should bear in marriage? What If she gets infested with AIDS or any other disease's, u are seriously mad!! Stupid men everywhere!!

If you are not the mad one, point out where I support infidelity in marriage. Remain mad until you do it.

immortalcrown:
If you are not the mad one, point out where I support infidelity in marriage. Remain mad until you do it.

You didn't support infidelity but you were advicing her to bear it? Isn't that supporting infidelity? You want her to be infected with diseases not so? Your madness will continue to raise to power 100 till you have sense. Idiot!!

Prettygirl200:
You didn't support infidelity but you were advicing her to bear it? Isn't that supporting infidelity? You want her to be infected with diseases not so? Your madness will continue to raise to power 100 till you have sense. Idiot!!

Remain the mad one until you point out where I support infidelity in marriage. Your madness immeasurable. Remain mad until you explain how telling her to bear the situation means supporting the situation. Remain mad until you explain how telling her to bear the situation means telling her to enjoy the situation.

immortalcrown:
Remain the mad one until you point out where I support infidelity in marriage. Your madness immeasurable.

Abeg gettat, na una kind go abuse woman emotionally till she gets BP, infect her and still play the manipulation card. "She should bear it and not divorce him" wait till ur daughters get married then u can give that advice. Foolish man with periwinkle brain.

Prettygirl200:
Abeg gettat, na una kind go abuse woman emotionally till she gets BP, infect her and still play the manipulation card. "She should bear it and not divorce him" wait till ur daughters get married then u can give that advice. Foolish man with periwinkle brain.

Remain mad until you explain how telling her to bear the situation means supporting the situation. Remain mad until you explain how telling her to bear the situation means telling her to enjoy the situation.

Wait for your daughter to get married before you challenge my opinion.

Prettygirl200:
You didn't support infidelity but you were advicing her to bear it? Isn't that supporting infidelity? You want her to be infected with diseases not so? Your madness will continue to raise to power 100 till you have sense. Idiot!!

I tell you...religion don destroy many people's ability to reason.

immortalcrown:
Remain mad until you explain how telling her to bear the situation means supporting the situation. Remain mad until you explain how telling her to bear the situation means telling her to enjoy the situation.

Wait for your daughter to get married before you challenge my opinion.

Thunder fire you and that your worthless opinion, opinion wey go Kee you. I don tell you when you have a daughter and she marries an animal, tell her this same advice not to someone else's child? U people can only treat African women this way and get away with it, try am with white woman, she will kick you out like the trash most of you Nigerian men are. Rubbish!!

Prettygirl200:
Thunder fire you and that your worthless opinion, opinion wey go Kee you. I don tell you when you have a daughter and she marries an animal, tell her this same advice not to someone else's child? U people can only treat African women this way and get away with it, try am with white woman, she will kick you out like the trash most of you Nigerian men are. Rubbish!!

Remain mad until you explain how telling her to bear the situation means supporting the situation. Remain mad until you explain how telling her to bear the situation means telling her to enjoy the situation.

Wait for your daughter to get married before you challenge my opinion.

Kobojunkie:
I am afraid the senseless one here is you! Her husband is cheating on her, she is crying out that she is already emotionally and psychologically beaten up in marriage, yet your comeback is to demean any possible choice she intends to make to resolve her condition that does not include a future with the same man who hurt her.

Many of you are plain wicked and I don't blame you all as I instead blame your Nigerian upbringing, religion included, for the most part.

Can't you even read at all, madam toxic? I said she should leave her husband and go and look for a man that will not cheat on her. If she can't find one, let her look for clay and mould one by herself.
Stay there and be vibrating..
Whether you like it or not, he will cheat on you. If you must marry, you must accept that fact.

Kobojunkie:
How do you cope? Well, you are already doing just that which is accepting that what you are worth is a cheating husband who has no respect for you nor values your emotional and psychological wellbeing. That is coping right there and you are doing a hell of a job of it for that Mrs. Badge.

ENP don drop quote, OP if you like listen to people on this forum them dey find people wey go join their club

Sandralight:
Divorce him he obviously don't care about you and don't listen to those men that will advice to stay because if the tables were turn, they will be the first to tell the husband to leave you.
The truth is most men can't take when they diss out, they expect women to take their cheating bullshit because to them we don't have feelings, you staying in a marriage with constant cheating will affect you mentally and emotionally in the long run, you will become a shadow of yourself and many people that goes through this usually dies young from High blood pressure and studies have shown that stress causes some cancers, do you want to keep living a life where you will be in constant stress and pain because of your husband.

I always tell people life is too short to be so unhappy, marriage is supposed to be a union, a happy union and if one is hurting the other, it's better to leave because Trust me if you cheat once you husband will never forgive you, so just leave forget all those talk of nobody want a divorce woman because they are fear mongering tactics to keep your unhappy in a loveless marriage.

Try to build yourself, become financial independent and you will surely meet the one that will make you happy and always remember life is too short to be unhappy

Equality in cheating advocate but not equality in financial responsibilities in the family. The day women bring 50 percent of the money in the marriage then I will listen to equality bullshit in cheating. Divorce am make hungry finish you . Why did you marry again? They say I want a man that will take care of my financial liabilities , a man that will buy me a car , give me money and make things easy for me is that an equal man with you? Think, when you solely wait on a man to give u money for pad what do you expect? Equality? Dey play

When it gets to your turn divorce him and go back to the trenches where you came from , this one is still enjoying freebies from men when you get married then repeat that line.

I feel like this amount of lack of empathy is because a lot of people are unable to view things from a different perspective.

idahme:
Equality in cheating advocate but not equality in financial responsibilities in the family. The day women bring 50 percent of the money in the marriage then I will listen to equality bullshit in cheating. Divorce am make hungry finish you . Why did you marry again? They say I want a man that will take care of my financial liabilities , a man that will buy me a car , give me money and make things easy for me is that an equal man with you? Think, when you solely wait on a man to give u money for pad what do you expect? Equality? Dey play

When it gets to your turn divorce him and go back to the trenches where you came from , this one is still enjoying freebies from men when you get married then repeat that line.