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[quote author=Joy83 post=27011357]You just talked like a complete novice in life matters. For the fact that there is moral decadence in the society doesn't mean morality is bad or as a result of lack of opportunity . Having sex with a woman is one of the cheapest things and readily available things we have in our environment today, due to the kind of unashamed ladies and peer pressure that pervade our environment.
But it takes only a great and self control man to stay without sex till marriage due to enormous temptation these so called today's ladies put men.
Personally, I have passed through university and other organization in a very active capacity where I had many encounter with females that admired me and even tempted me to have sex with them, yet I overcame GOD bless you.It's my utmost delight when I see sagacious people that reason like me! One of the most sensible and encouraging comments so far!

datalossvictim1:
I give up! On you though...

Good.

That will save us alot of data.

Odilafta:
Let devil keep dansing shoki on your head while his angels are busy singing skelewu for you.
Call it over or under rater,you'll have what fits you at the end of the day.
Virgin men have better things to worry about,such as how to expand their businesses,face their studies and make it in life than praying Nkechi is not pregnant from that one night fling,that Agatha will not r3mber he was among the guys who deflowered her,that the itching on his d..ick is not staph,that his daddy will not mistakenly see the condom in his bible and that the sudden loss of weight is Aids.

God bless u with an accelarating .speed.not having an intercourse before marriage remains the ultimate no matter d inspiration d devil gives some here.

treasuregr8:
For me..I will preserve my virginity for my future husband. But to marry a virgin as a husband?, HELL NO, because I wouldn't want after reserving my pleasure for my wedding night, when the D-night way I go enjoy well well comes, he go de look me like mumu wey no get bearing. Na the husband wey sabi hin work sure pass jare..wetin be male virginity?, does he want to gain his wife faithfulness With it like women does?.
I know some will ask. You want to keep your virginity and let your future husband deflower other females?,
Losing virginity no be by force. A man can't deceive u to sell your virginity without your consent.
Virginity Is a matter of choice, you keep it ifm u really want to despite the temptations.

So my dear future husband, wherever you are now, no say you dey keep virginity for me o, I no need your virginity, na me go keep mine for u.
So enjoy yourself. Practice for the wedding night.
But no enjoy through rape o, if them dash you willingly, collect willingly. But don't forget to protect yourself.

I drop my case

What you probably dont know is the fact that a guy has had many sexual escapades does'nt mean he can satisfy a woman. What a fallacy. For such guys, sex does'nt really mean much, psychologically they are used to it. Conversly, the fact that a guy is a virgin does'nt mean he is not 'good' in bed. A guy who keeps himself (for reasons best known to him) somehow has prepared himself for that 'D-night', he has read about sex, seen sex related materials learned a lot about it anticipating that day. He is more likely to be eager to satisfy his wife, and besides; for him, sex is'nt just a call of nature but an important bond. The fact that he is virgin does'nt mean he is not a 'bad boy'.

treasuregr8:
For me..I will preserve my virginity for my future husband. But to marry a virgin as a husband?, HELL NO, because I wouldn't want after reserving my pleasure for my wedding night, when the D-night way I go enjoy well well comes, he go de look me like mumu wey no get bearing. Na the husband wey sabi hin work sure pass jare..wetin be male virginity?, does he want to gain his wife faithfulness With it like women does?.
I know some will ask. You want to keep your virginity and let your future husband deflower other females?,
Losing virginity no be by force. A man can't deceive u to sell your virginity without your consent.
Virginity Is a matter of choice, you keep it ifm u really want to despite the temptations.

So my dear future husband, wherever you are now, no say you dey keep virginity for me o, I no need your virginity, na me go keep mine for u.
So enjoy yourself. Practice for the wedding night.
But no enjoy through rape o, if them dash you willingly, collect willingly. But don't forget to protect yourself.

I drop my case

You have a enticing case though.......

Odilafta:
yes,any p?

it may not be u, ur brain hot. U are pretty young in that pics to possess such brain






Not meant to abuse

damosky12:
What you probably dont know is the fact that a guy has had many sexual escapades does'nt mean he can satisfy a woman. What a fallacy. For such guys, sex does'nt really mean much, psychologically they are used to it. Conversly, the fact that a guy is a virgin does'nt mean he is not 'good' in bed. A guy who keeps himself (for reasons best known to him) somehow has prepared himself for that 'D-night', he has read about sex, seen sex related materials learned a lot about it anticipating that day. He is more likely to be eager to satisfy his wife, and besides; for him, sex is'nt just a call of nature but an important bond. The fact that he is virgin does'nt mean he is not a 'bad boy'.

raising all the negative sides of the issue.....well done but its not a good one..not a good way to presenting issues of high dynamism. Keep it up though if ur a virgin...thanks

akiOYIBO:
raising all the negative sides of the issue.....well done but its a good one..not a good way to presenting issues of high dynamism. Keep it up though if ur a virgin...thanks

Please, communicate your argument in unambigous terms.. Besides, that does'nt mean the writer is a virgin.. What if he was just being critical.

O.P i can see dat ur worries is as a result of fear. Dnt be intimidated because u re virgin. For some pple sex is gross emotional commitment and very sacred, for others it's just fun. when u deem it fit to do the deed, you will be relived.Dont place your hopes too high cos u will be dissapointed. And abt those girls dancing in music videos, they are just doing their jobs,some of dem are very descent..(frm experience)

Tallesty1:
If you are a virgin male...

And you marry a non-virgin female then you don suffer be that............

How?

You won't even know how or where to start to satisfy her............

She will be your teacher. Your ego will be bruised continuously until you learn.

Virginity is the greatest emotional/physical treasure a person can GIVE. But your part, you will give and not receive.

You are going to love her SOOOO
much because she is your first............

But her own don go tey tey.

Issues of ex will pop up every now and then.

It will take you long to get used to the idea that the girl is not as “pure,” “clean” and innocent as you. It will bother you to know that another guy has touched her before you or that she simply has more experience in the bedroom department than you.

She cannot love you completely because all the guys she dated took some part of her with them.

You will need to prove to her that you are not an azzhole like all the guys she dated.

No matter how good you are to her.

There is this one guy that she will never 4get.

If you are virgin male then adopt Yerima's style when you wanna marry.

so true @bolded.

Here we go again!! Why do people often associate "Being Good Girl" with "Virgins" U better wake up and smell the roses!!! The era for that kinda knowledge is long gone! Guy who re virgins and r seeking virgins CAN find these virgins they seek but she cud be anti-social, crazy, boring or something you may not appreciate. Note! There are some girls who claim to be virgins and sleep around like clock work and there are virgins who act like they have been sleeping around. You can find some of them in these Music videos too! They just don't look it! Virgins are also exposed to the good and bad of the world! Just cause they don't sleep around doesn't mean they are not tainted!! There are so many virgins that dress and act like prostitutes!!! You need to know that!! I suggest these male "Virgins" ask God for a Good wife or Girlfriend! and realize virgin is not equal to Good except you are the "Virgin Mary!". Believe dat!!!

IYANGBALI:
See as people plenty for this thread like say CBN dey recruit. Toto na bastaard

Hahahahahahahaha...
You made my day with this comment.But you spoil sha!

I think d best thing now is to start a Dating site for Virgins. dat is for inexperiences versus inexperienced.....Lol...
d issue is dat guyz if u are a virgin just dey pray make u jam beta babe viceversa who will understand u for who u are cos d way d society is so rotten its expected dat one is suposed to also move wth d trend.. for ladies who are truely virgins (nor be i do am just once)..lolz.., abeg dont be decieved by wat ppl av been posting here. abeg hold ur virginity tight for d correct guy who will value u for who u are..
Proudly a Virgin and im loving it......Lolz.....

virginboy1:
I am 25,and like any sane male my age, i have a libido that can far too much for me handle at times.And I feel weird atyms whenever my friends and colleagues express their sex tales.
I need someone that I love and am willing to hold onto my virginity until we are married,so that leaves me with the problem of how long will i wait to get married,Am worried that I will have no sexual stamina when it comes and that my partner will look down on me.
Or that I might not last long.
Is there any advice I can get from here or are there guys like me here?

@ virgin boy

Please do not allow yourself to be hassled.
Your betrays a wrong mindset common among guys your age I.e Am i a 'real man'? Can I satisfy a woman? My friends are laughing at me!
Don't allow the tall tales your friends tell to get you down & to be honest if sex is the benchmark for their 'manhood' or achievement in life the you need new friends who can inspire you to be better / achieve more in your life.

As to the idea of satisfying a woman sexually please let me inform you that sex/ making love is a two way partnership.
It takes two to make it work/sweet and it also takes two to make it fail/bitter.

If you and a partner are about to get down and the only thing she does is lie down on her back like a log of wood and rattle off all the things she expects you to do in order to 'satisfy' her then believe me .. You are better off not touching her at all.... Such girls are completely self centered and the WORST sexual partners ever....I can't go into deeper details ,this is not the sexuality room.

V-boy , I no fit shout! Focus on making a life for yourself and let the real women come looking for you

virginboy1:
I am 25,and like any sane male my age, i have a libido that can far too much for me handle at times.And I feel weird atyms whenever my friends and colleagues express their sex tales.
I need someone that I love and am willing to hold onto my virginity until we are married,so that leaves me with the problem of how long will i wait to get married,Am worried that I will have no sexual stamina when it comes and that my partner will look down on me.
Or that I might not last long.
Is there any advice I can get from here or are there guys like me here?

Wow, virgin at 25? And you're a dude? You're highly respected sire.

Hamatrony:
Such question isn't meant for ladies who had lost their virginities, you don't expect them to tell you how it reallly feels to lose it cos most of these ladies regret on their wedding night, giving a stupid excuse that "sex is overrated", should that give you a go-ahead to sleep around, even if we guys want sex from you, standing on your feet should be what it takes.....To me, I see virginity as trust and respect, there is no acquisation that can pull you down as long as your husband knows you aren't a wayward lady. Av choose to marry a virgin and so shall it be cos I still have this strong belv that virgins are out there waiting for guys lik me to com their way

God bless u. U just said my mind.

50calibre:
You've kept a "clean sheet" & you think that's a good thing, you're even happy about it.

You're creating psychological issues for yourself by conforming to crazy standards imposed on you by some religion.

I don't know your age, but a guy who's still a Virgin at 22, definitely has an underlying psychological problem.

sorry to say, but u are very very very STUPID". Don't ask me why cos i'll break that ur silly head nd brain.

Odilafta:
Let devil keep dansing shoki on your head while his angels are busy singing skelewu for you.
Call it over or under rater,you'll have what fits you at the end of the day.
Virgin men have better things to worry about,such as how to expand their businesses,face their studies and make it in life than praying Nkechi is not pregnant from that one night fling,that Agatha will not r3mber he was among the guys who deflowered her,that the itching on his d..ick is not staph,that his daddy will not mistakenly see the condom in his bible and that the sudden loss of weight is Aids.

Lady you nailed it and I can't just stop laughing

tosyne2much:
The only disadvantage of being a virgin till marriage is, you might erupt blood for the first week having sex, for the subsequent week, it might take you 7hours of marathon sex to erupt spe.rm

blood ke?

Tallesty1:
Nah......


Go virgin hunt

and how will i knw if a girl is a virgin..

jmoore:
As a man who has kept a "clean sheet", I am not worried about the virgin ladies who are in the minority. When I am ready to marry one, I will find that virtuous virgin lady.

Just wait ,,,, chicken now grow teeth at age 106

chibwike:
blood ke?

yeah blood

menesheh:
it may not be u, ur brain hot. U are pretty young in that pics to possess such brain






Not meant to abuse

Let me prove you wrong,there are still youths that use their brain wisely

shollynoob:
Well Said, can i call u baby?

Yes
can I also call you grandpa?

tosyne2much:
yeah blood

Indeed some vampire on NL.. where u take see blood.. u can lie ooo...."in a 2yr old pikin voice"......Lol

AirborneLacer:
@Op, Well, we are trying our best.

Eledumare will see us through

re u a virgin

Tallesty1:
If you are a virgin male...

And you marry a non-virgin female then you don suffer be that............

How?

You won't even know how or where to start to satisfy her............

She will be your teacher. Your ego will be bruised continuously until you learn.

Virginity is the greatest emotional/physical treasure a person can GIVE. But your part, you will give and not receive.

You are going to love her SOOOO
much because she is your first............

But her own don go tey tey.

Issues of ex will pop up every now and then.

It will take you long to get used to the idea that the girl is not as “pure,” “clean” and innocent as you. It will bother you to know that another guy has touched her before you or that she simply has more experience in the bedroom department than you.

She cannot love you completely because all the guys she dated took some part of her with them.

You will need to prove to her that you are not an azzhole like all the guys she dated.

No matter how good you are to her.

There is this one guy that she will never 4get.

If you are virgin male then adopt Yerima's style when you wanna marry.

love doctor, nice

Tallesty1:
If you are a virgin male...

And you marry a non-virgin female then you don suffer be that............

How?

You won't even know how or where to start to satisfy her............

She will be your teacher. Your ego will be bruised continuously until you learn.

Virginity is the greatest emotional/physical treasure a person can GIVE. But your part, you will give and not receive.

You are going to love her SOOOO
much because she is your first............

But her own don go tey tey.

Issues of ex will pop up every now and then.

It will take you long to get used to the idea that the girl is not as “pure,” “clean” and innocent as you. It will bother you to know that another guy has touched her before you or that she simply has more experience in the bedroom department than you.

She cannot love you completely because all the guys she dated took some part of her with them.

You will need to prove to her that you are not an azzhole like all the guys she dated.

No matter how good you are to her.

There is this one guy that she will never 4get.

If you are virgin male then adopt Yerima's style when you wanna marry.

My brother, you couldn't have said it better.....

*sighs and cleans sweat* this is the first thread on NL that i have read from page one to the last, with rapt attention...maybe coz it concerns me....yeah, it really concerns me..Emodeee thumbs up

its so funny when I see virgin guys on this thread claiming "i like my status, I'm proud of it". dats a big lie, deep within dem dey now its a lie, give dem free pomo now dey will bleep with no hesitation. they may not be so worried and hunt for kitty like its a survival boat in a sinking sheep (like most guys do). I'm 22, & I'm in dat category, seriously I'm not too worried abt it, but will bleep any kitty dat comes my way now. its not a must to marry a virgin. #forMe.

Atmmachine:
Are you tired of life ??
Do you want to die ??
#Smell a yoruba girl's pant

wicked!!!!!

tosyne2much:
bwahahahahaha on top 9ja ladies ni

are u M or F