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Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by faithugo64(op): 1:27pm On Oct 10, 2014*

most ladies believe that a guy who loves you would never want to sleep with you untill he marries you.so here is my question

is it possible to love someone and not have the DESIRE to kiss,hug or have sex with him/her?

Please i don't mean having sex with the person,i mean is it possible not to have the DESIRE(wanting) to be intimate with that person.

NOTE: HERE AM NOT TALKING ABOUT AGAPE LOVE O!!!

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by eph12(m): 1:31pm On Oct 10, 2014

Loving someone and having sexual urge are two different things and are not related in any way.

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by jmoore(m): 1:35pm On Oct 10, 2014

Yes, it is possible.

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 1:37pm On Oct 10, 2014

...hanhan!!!....

What will now give the love fire, as in real FAYA??.....

..liking someone already, you start having some silly thoughts...Talkless of loving someone.....

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by philantoxx(m): 1:38pm On Oct 10, 2014

fink the two complement each other.

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by faithugo64(op): 1:39pm On Oct 10, 2014

temigracie:
...hanhan!!!....

What will now give the love fire, as in real FAYA??.....

..liking someone already, you start having some silly thoughts...Talkless of loving someone.....

so why then do people think that sex has nothing to do with love?

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by chibwike(m): 1:40pm On Oct 10, 2014*

Yeah, i can't sleep with a girl i truely love...
*modified*

Pals i need ur votes in the ongoing Mr NL 2014. God bless you as you do so.

www.nairaland.com/chibwike

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Rhapsodi(m): 1:42pm On Oct 10, 2014

Yea its very true, cos wen real love is involve it comes from the heart, so ur feelings and emotion won't let u have sex nt even think of it. Am in such a relationship

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by faithugo64(op): 1:44pm On Oct 10, 2014

chibwike:
yeah, i can't sleep with a girl i truely love...

and your wife? I belive you will marry someone that you love, does it mean you are not going to sleep with her?

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by chibwike(m): 1:46pm On Oct 10, 2014

faithugo64:
and your wife? I belive you will marry someone that you love, does it mean you are not going to sleep with her?

when am married, i'd know that am married

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by teewai3(m): 1:47pm On Oct 10, 2014

hell yes!!! its possible but also depends on d two parties involve!

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by 1stimpression(f): 1:51pm On Oct 10, 2014

Yeah it's possible because sex and love are two different things..

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 1:52pm On Oct 10, 2014

Not possible to be inlove and not have the urge to have sex.
Sex adds flavor to the situationship grin

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by DaWorshiper(m): 1:55pm On Oct 10, 2014

Sure! It's possible!
That's why we have lust and we have love. Besides, there are 3 types of love. So it depends on which u're feeling, that will tell if u can think of such act with the person.
For example, i love my sister but i can neva desire to hav sex with her.

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by izaray(f): 1:55pm On Oct 10, 2014

[quote author=faithugo64 post=27024616]and your wife? I belive you will marry someone that you love, does it mean you are not going to sleep with her?(quote)Good question

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 1:58pm On Oct 10, 2014*

Every time Love and Sex.

Is there no any other thing to be talking about.

Some people are really meant to be in VENUS, only few will understand.

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by izaray(f): 2:00pm On Oct 10, 2014

chibwike:
yeah, i can't sleep with a girl i truely love...

So u are trying to tell us dat, all d gals u av been sleeping wit, u dnt love any of dem?

Make ur girl frnd see dis, na seriousl bad market go follow u, for her side!

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 2:02pm On Oct 10, 2014

its possible

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by izaray(f): 2:09pm On Oct 10, 2014*

@Poster, dnt let any body deceive u, cos many people have been into a relationship,

dat involves sex, and still end up getting married.

Your prayers should be, God should lead you to d right person!

Tho, some guys can still love u and do without sex o,

but is very rare to get in dis century

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Etetejake(m): 2:21pm On Oct 10, 2014

That type of luv died with Romeo and Juliet.

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by chibwike(m): 2:23pm On Oct 10, 2014*

izaray:
So u are trying to tell us dat, all d gals u av been sleeping wit, u dnt love any of dem?

Make ur girl frnd see dis, na seriousl bad market go follow u, for her side!

abi she go dey happy cef, say i dey respect her virginity, till we marry.

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by peewhydee(m): 2:45pm On Oct 10, 2014

Sure the desire is natural but real men set boundaries so that they dont breach especially when they haven't been dating long enough for such to happen. Talk about clearly defined limits.

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by iceberylin(m): 2:49pm On Oct 10, 2014

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by izaray(f): 2:56pm On Oct 10, 2014

chibwike:
abi she go dey happy cef, say i dey respect her virginity, till we marry.

Now u are happily

writing dis, later on, u will come and cry to nairaland for advice dat ur babe dump u, and i will be d first person dat will flog u wit koboko lo

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 2:58pm On Oct 10, 2014

and when you dont, the one u love will assume you are already sleeping outside.

chibwike:
yeah, i can't sleep with a girl i truely love...

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by dennykel60: 3:02pm On Oct 10, 2014

It is possible but it depends on the decision of both parties. When I start dating my girl, I had no intent on having sex with her. After a year past, her friend told me that she was complaining that I don't touch her. I asked her if that is what she wants, she said yes. I really love my girl to the extent I want to marry her soon. So it depends.

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Infomizer(m): 3:03pm On Oct 10, 2014

Platonic love, baby!

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 3:07pm On Oct 10, 2014

its possible to love sm1,and nt be sexually attracted to d person..exclusive to agape love.i wuld never wana get intimate wt sm1 i dnt love though,i just feel love nt matter hw superficial shuld be a prerequsite 4 sex. BTW shebi they say sex is different 4rm makin love ni

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by hizson(m): 3:44pm On Oct 10, 2014

That's what I call a definition of true love. He will never do what will make her look impure..i once heard of a story abt a guy who refused to ve sex with his gal n she was like bt am not a virgin n his reply was since I was not the one dat deflowered you I still see you like a virgin..my own opinion though... cry

...I believe love is patient enough to wait..meaning he would definately have the urge bt he should be able to hold on..

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by tosyne2much(m): 3:52pm On Oct 10, 2014

Its very possible, just that an average Nigeria dude is sex starved. They believe they are on top of the game the moment dey bleep a lady.. * oya sex starved dudes, make una come bash me ooo* grin

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by Nobody: 4:25pm On Oct 10, 2014

Do not be deceived, it is better to marry than to burn, those were the words of apostle Paul.

When romance is involved, sex will always be an issue, but when love is involved, doing right by your partner will be
Paramount on your list. The real question is what do you term right and wrong?

Honestly it depends on the two people involved, and it seriously boils down to what they believe in.
Personally am a christian so I believe that loving someone means no sex, till its proper to become intimate, not because I don't want it, but because I believe its wrong. if that's what she wants she better look elsewhere.

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Re: Is It Possible To Love Someone And Not Have The Desire To Sleep With The Person? by mesoade(m): 4:30pm On Oct 10, 2014*

dennykel60:
It is possible but it depends on the decision of both parties. When I start dating my girl, I had no intent on having sex with her. After a year past, her friend told me that she was complaining that I don't touch her. I asked her if that is what she wants, she said yes. I really love my girl to the extent I want to marry her soon. So it depends.

so,she's even the one complaining ure not having sex with her?

Girls sha,confused set of beings
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My nigga was so in love . . He had a chance and romanced his virgin girl that she was so damn wet i guess,she told him to pull in his bulala and my nigga was like,"i don't want you to lose your virginity now". My nigga didn't sex her all in the name of L-O-V-E . . So,now,what will you call this?

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