Missy89:
See how the male posters are kissing the OP's A55.

As long as Africa remains a patriarchal society where men gets almost everything and there are weak laws protecting women. Social behavior would not change and most women will keep being a "liability" (whatever that means). If you don't like it, advocate for more women's right and compete on a level playing field.

Better go get a job and take care of your family or die trying.
Weak a55 niggahs

Gerrard59:
^^^
Once again your hypocrisy shows in broad daylight.

The same men who today are praising and shouting yes, yes, will tomorrow refuse to adhere to the simple fact that women should be given their equal rights and opportunities.

"We want Assets and not liabilities"
And when the woman ask for her equal opportunities and rights, we will hear
"Men have the sole responsibility to provide and a man is the head of the family".

Is this not the same Nairaland that we read of how a man wants the wife to resign her job and career , because he wants her to take care of the children. As if taking care of kids is solely a responsibility of a woman.

Most Nigerian men are synonymous with hypocrisy.

Ilovenigeria:

Na her hard earned money jooor women are supposed to be richer than men if they use their head well.

Gerrard59:
^^^
Once again your hypocrisy shows in broad daylight.

The same men who today are praising and shouting yes, yes, will tomorrow refuse to adhere to the simple fact that women should be given their equal rights and opportunities.

"We want Assets and not liabilities"
And when the woman ask for her equal opportunities and rights, we will hear
"Men have the sole responsibility to provide and a man is the head of the family".

Is this not the same Nairaland that we read of how a man wants the wife to resign her work, because he wants her to take care of the children. As if taking care of kids is solely a responsibility of a woman.

Most Nigerian men are synonymous with hypocrisy.

Gorgeous58:
Strive to be the kind of woman who, when your man hits rock bottom, when his business fails or he is retrenched from his job, can carry the family through. You must be able to provide what he otherwise would. This thing of women who sit doing nothing, and when a man goes through a difficult period, cannot come through for him, or at least even help him make a plan, is not on.

Let us start hustling with our men. We must stop being liabilities when we have what it takes to be assets.

Ladies, what's your take on this?

Gorgeous58:
Strive to be the kind of woman who, when your man hits rock bottom, when his business fails or he is retrenched from his job, can carry the family through. You must be able to provide what he otherwise would. This thing of women who sit doing nothing, and when a man goes through a difficult period, cannot come through for him, or at least even help him make a plan, is not on.

Let us start hustling with our men. We must stop being liabilities when we have what it takes to be assets.

Ladies, what's your take on this?

kandiikane:
Ok, even though I am all up for women working and having their own income but what i want to know is whether cooking, cleaning, taking care of the house, giving birth, bringing up the children, making sure the man is fed and taken cared of etc are all part of the woman being a liability to the man?

Or you mean those who sit down and do absolutely nothing but to sit and chop money?

naijaboiy:

neldrizzy

pcguru1:


I hear you sha, abeg dey use condom and be careful because some clients fit be ritualist, i for talk something else but i no dey judge people anyway

pcguru1:


Can't both partner share responsibility, obviously maybe not giving birth part,

pcguru1:


I don't know which part of the world, you live in but times have changed, right now in Nigeria a company won't blink twice to hire a female over a male if they were sure she was brilliant than the other. its a competitive field already, as for your post on "women will keep being a liability" i do feel ashamed for you, as someone who has facilitated in programs that promote women in technology, its a shame you have to put your own down because of what the society expects i do hope you don't think like this normally. I have no problem with a woman being in charge in fact my top boss is a female whose knowledge tops mine by miles, and i feel opportuned opportune to have learnt from her. change your mindset you have hidden potentials you might not be aware of.

DailyNews:
Lol....during dating/courtship, a lady should avoid being a liability to her boyfriend or rebranded boyfriend- 'fiancee'..but once he marries her, he should take absolute responsibility of her expenses...that's my stand always. I am not in support of a lady being the breadwinner o ....or even earning more than I am, nope...but let her productive for her own good and in case her parents and siblings need her assistance she won't need to be pestering me but allow me do so at my own time

Gerrard59:
^^^
Once again your hypocrisy shows in broad daylight.

The same men who today are praising and shouting yes, yes, will tomorrow refuse to adhere to the simple fact that women should be given their equal rights and opportunities.

"We want Assets and not liabilities"
And when the woman ask for her equal opportunities and rights, we will hear
"Men have the sole responsibility to provide and a man is the head of the family".

Is this not the same Nairaland that we read of how a man wants the wife to resign her job and career , because he wants her to take care of the children. As if taking care of kids is solely a responsibility of a woman.

Most Nigerian men are synonymous with hypocrisy.

tommiebuck:
well, nice one @OP, but i tell you some men are lazy and gigolos, me ama work hard for myself to be rich, me will never hustle with any man and i wont even collect stuff from any man who is not my father or husband. like i said earlier,me cant hustle with any man o, at the end of the day he will take all the money to another woman,.not all men though.

me ll work hard for myself and i will also collecr money from my husband,not because i do not have money but because it is the responsibility of my husband to take care of me.
LADIES PLS AND PLS DP NOT DO JOINT HUSLE WITH ANY MAN O. SOME OF THEM DONT WORTH IT

tommiebuck:
well, nice one @OP, but i tell you some men are lazy and gigolos, me ama work hard for myself to be rich, me will never hustle with any man and i wont even collect stuff from any man who is not my father or husband. like i said earlier,me cant hustle with any man o, at the end of the day he will take all the money to another woman,.not all men though.

me ll work hard for myself and i will also collecr money from my husband,not because i do not have money but because it is the responsibility of my husband to take care of me.
LADIES PLS AND PLS DP NOT DO JOINT HUSTLE WITH ANY MAN O. SOME OF THEM
DONT WORTH IT
with this few points of mine, i hope i am able to convince you that i am an asset and not a liability.

kandiikane:
@gorgeous58, Ok, even though I am all up for women working and having their own income but what i want to know is whether cooking, cleaning, taking care of the house, giving birth, bringing up the children, making sure the man is fed and taken cared of etc are all part of the woman being a liability to the man?

Or you mean those who sit down and do absolutely nothing but to sit and chop money because the latter are a minority compared to the women earning their income or taking care of the home.

Gorgeous58:
Strive to be the kind of woman who, when your man hits rock bottom, when his business fails or he is retrenched from his job, can carry the family through. You must be able to provide what he otherwise would. This thing of women who sit doing nothing, and when a man goes through a difficult period, cannot come through for him, or at least even help him make a plan, is not on.

Let us start hustling with our men. We must stop being liabilities when we have what it takes to be assets.

Ladies, what's your take on this?

Gorgeous58:


Seriously, some women do the later. As for the former, taking care of house chores won't cut it if the man becomes financially handicapped tomorrow. The woman should at least have something to offer when trying times come around. What if she becomes widowed? What then?

Gerrard59:






As usual you continue your hypocrisy, Why should she be an asset during courtship but a liability during marriage?. What's wrong in a woman providing 50-50 in the family? What's your problem with Career women?

What will you do should your future wife(who I earnestly pity and feel sorry for) earn more than you?


As for your brazen hypocrisy, at times I wonder if you're been paid for it.

caesaraba:


God bless you ma`am. We men are smarter now. Once we find your type, the next thing is a ring on a finger. My rule now is simple, I`ll only date a woman who has a means of livelihood going forward. Thankfully, that number of women is increasing in our society. No more painted-nails,open-hands and ready-to-suck-me-dry-women.

AgapeCharis:
And some men stl force their wives to directly or indirectly become house wives

Smh

Gorgeous58:


Seriously, some women do the later. As for the former, taking care of house chores won't cut it if the man becomes financially handicapped tomorrow. The woman should at least have something to offer when trying times come around. What if she becomes widowed? What then?

Gorgeous58:
Strive to be the kind of woman who, when your man hits rock bottom, when his business fails or he is retrenched from his job, can carry the family through. You must be able to provide what he otherwise would. This thing of women who sit doing nothing, and when a man goes through a difficult period, cannot come through for him, or at least even help him make a plan, is not on.

Let us start hustling with our men. We must stop being liabilities when we have what it takes to be assets.

Ladies, what's your take on this?