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Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by TahariX(f): 8:54pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
GoodGirl2: !!!!! |
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by Nobody: 9:07pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
CFCfan:and where was it stated in the post and when do men order their gf to go and cook and wash their laundry? Cut Nigerian guys some slack Abeg. We are not that bad like this cheap feminist paint us. Please, if you want to comment, pls do in relation to the post. 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by tintingz(m): 9:13pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
slimmy05:Go back and read through some guys posts...they all expected their "girlfriends" to cook for them when no introduction, engagement have not even occur in that relationship. This guys don't even no their girlfriends parent. Some girls are just so desperate and they are dumped, this is an advantage guys now do. cooking na love? abeg which love be that? Naija girls don suffer. 3 Likes |
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by tintingz(m): 9:15pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
Rilwayne001:They are lazy block heads. 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by veraniky(f): 9:20pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
slimmy05:i dnt knw y ur tking it so personal,ur 2 contribute ur idea 2 d discussion |
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by Olaone1: 9:27pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
tintingz:The food is also enjoyed by both. |
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by Nobody: 9:28pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
zoe123: I wouldn't know u were this lucky! Congratulation ma'am! And my warmest regards to him! |
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by Nobody: 9:34pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
mascot87:tch |
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by pickabeau1: 9:38pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
nomabeeee: OK...moderation in all things 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by Nobody: 9:39pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
slimmy05:ppl lyk u wn't jus get it,,persuade u lil sis 2 turn into ha bf slave if u av one |
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by Certifiedboss: 9:39pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
tintingz: Tell yourself the truth. Everybody hates the truth but the truth doesn't care. Relationship is a 50/50 thing. Just the way an average Nigerian girl expect you to be her provider because you're the bf that how an average Nigerian guy think you should hell make the home organized and cook when you come around. |
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by Nobody: 9:48pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
slimmy05:ppl lyk u wn't jus undastnd,,persuade ur lil sis 2 turn into her bf maid if u av one. |
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by tintingz(m): 9:56pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
Certifiedboss:Must you spend? If she needs a provider she should gon meet her father. Olaone1:Who will go to the market, buy food stuff and cook, sweating in the kitchen for one lazy dude? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by Certifiedboss: 9:56pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
It's very disheartening that some girls here are calling themselves guest at their bfs house simply because of this cooking issue . If you know the true meaning of being a guest trust me you won't spend 1month in the relationship when you're being treated as one. It's also a shame that some girls on here feel it's more respectful to open your legs for a guy you are not married to than helping him out in the kitchen. I see some girls see more of their female pride in cooking than them not going naked for a guy they are not married to. It's also a disappointment that some girls see it as a taboo to cook for a guy who's just a bf. Picture your elder brother telling you he's getting married to a guy who has never cooked for him? Won't you find it funny and laugh. According to the person that posted the article, she's against cooking always for the bf. A girl who truly loves her bf will know things she shouldn't allow the bf do when she's around. At the same time a guy who truly loves his gf won't treat her as a slave. On my part, no girl has ever washed for me, not because they refuse to but they hardly see my clothes dirty. I've only dated just one girl that cooked for me. I don't give a damn, I was feeding before I met her so I will still feed without her cooking. But in a case whereby she opens her mouth to lay down such rules about her not cooking because we are not yet married then I will make her understand that her welfare is totally the responsibility of her parents until I put a ring in her finger 5 Likes |
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by Certifiedboss: 10:00pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
tintingz: Who will go to work and bring out money to change wardrobe, weavon and phone for one liability of a gf? My dear be rational in your thinking. I believe we all are adult here and our brains should be put to full functionality. It takes two to tangle. The fact remains that two people that are truly in love won't complain about this. It's only a girl that doesn't know how to cook that's scared of the kitchen 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by Olaone1: 10:04pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
tintingz:So, if the foodstuff is already stacked up by the boyfriend in his cupboard, it's okay for her to cook? And, you don't call a guy who worked for the money to buy foodstuff "lazy". Okay? 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by StarFlux: 10:05pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
Both the guy and girl can cook. I don't see the big fuzz about cooking. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by tintingz(m): 10:13pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
Certifiedboss:any guy that does this is, is a maga mugun. So a guy should go to work and make money to change a girl wardrobe, buy her phones, pay her Brazilian hair? That guy must be maga-007 as long as they are not married or engaged, her provider still remains her parents. or are you telling me a girl can't hustle to make money? My dear be rational in your thinking. I believe we all are adult here and our brains should be put to full functionality. It takes two to tangle. The fact remains that two people that are truly in love won't complain about this. It's only a girl that doesn't know how to cook that's scared of the kitchenMy posts are more rational with valid points. Like have said if a girl willingly cooked for her boyfriend it is her choice but when a guy expected her or force his girlfriend to cook sound like a maid traits. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by tintingz(m): 10:24pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
Olaone1:who will be the one sweating in the kitchen? If he works for his money to by food that's his business, if he's hungry he should get to the kitchen and cook not expecting his unverified girlfriend to cook for him. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by Olaone1: 10:29pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
tintingz:unverified girlfriend? Seems you are intensifying your effort to please someone in here 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by deavicky(m): 11:44pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
TahariX:u can't even cook see how u paint ur nails like mammy water. |
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by Swiftboy(m): 11:56pm On Nov 01, 2014 |
TahariX:this is by far the most myopic worldview ever! Am not gona marry a lazy lady that'll ask me to cook for her cos she think cooking for both of us makes her a housemaid. Smh |
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by Beey(f): 12:26am On Nov 02, 2014 |
Pamcrest:Haha,my sister from another mother,I totally agree with you.Even Beyonce told them that if they like it,they should put a ring on it.Period!Thank you. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by Nobody: 12:34am On Nov 02, 2014 |
CFCfan:easier said than done. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by tobymichael(m): 12:39am On Nov 02, 2014 |
Na all these kain yarns dey make una stay una papa house till una reach 40years...mtchewwww |
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by Solozzo(m): 1:21am On Nov 02, 2014 |
Deefuray: Cooking for him is an expression of your love, which is spontaneous and unpoliticised. It helps you two get closer and understand yourselves. Why do you two make love when you are not his wife yet? Why does he care for you,help you financially and socially when u are not his wife yet. It's simply love! |
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by Certifiedboss: 3:24am On Nov 02, 2014 |
[quote author=tintingz post=27648336] any guy that does this is, is a maga mugun. So a guy should go to work and make money to change a girl wardrobe, buy her phones, pay her Brazilian hair? That guy must be maga-007 as long as they are not married or engaged, her provider still remains her parents. or are you telling me a girl can't hustle to make money? My posts are more rational with valid points. Like have said if a girl willingly cooked for her boyfriend it is her choice but when a guy expected her or force his girlfriend to cook sound like a maid traits. [/quote ] The original post never mentioned anything like the guy forcing the gf to cook. You swerving out of the main discussion |
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by Certifiedboss: 3:33am On Nov 02, 2014 |
Beey: Trust me Beyonce must have made a meal or two for JayZ before they got married. Don't let her songs fool you. She only made a rhyme. Girls like you are the type another fellow girl will give wrong advise and you end up loosing your relationship. The fact remains that two people that are truly in love won't see this as an issue 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by Certifiedboss: 3:38am On Nov 02, 2014 |
TahariX: Trust me you are the type that cook for your bf with your own money when you go to his house. It's painful. You're very wicked. Girls like you come on social networks and comment rubbish to mislead other light headed girls. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by Nobody: 5:29am On Nov 02, 2014 |
Nashoji: Put a ring on it means seal the deal in this case marriage, ooookkkkkaaaaaayyyyyy |
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by Poseidon012(m): 5:43am On Nov 02, 2014 |
DonCaleb:.......LOW MENTALITY |
Re: Should A Lady Cook For The Guy She's Dating? by Poseidon012(m): 5:46am On Nov 02, 2014 |
Certifiedboss:GOD BLESS YOU |
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