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Re: To My Future Wife by dahmie2013: 6:24am On Nov 23, 2014
K!
Re: To My Future Wife by khattab02: 6:25am On Nov 23, 2014
MaleoPearls:
Attai agbaa ooo.
lol..
Re: To My Future Wife by onadana:
Success tips to a happy marriage grin

1) What type of marriage or home do you want.What you lay down is what your wife would follow,women are naturally submissive.
2)You don't deserve respect,you earn it.It doesn't matter if your wife is working or not you must fulfill your responsibility as the head of the home.
3) Be transparent with your finances,madam should know what you earn...you can't give what you don't have.
4)Never discuss your wife with anybody and I mean
anybody.
5) Communication is the key to a successful marriage...talk,express your feelings in a respectable way.
6)Your wife is not your slave she is your helpmate.
7)Apologizing is a sign of maturity.
coolKeep your relations far from your house,they can visit,but your wife must be informed..their stay must have a time frame.
cool Satisfy her well in bed she needs it.
9)Make sure she exercises and takes care of her self.
10)Be part of your wife and children's life...be there.
11)Pray together.
12)REMEMBER ALWAYS WOMEN ARE BABIES,DO YOU THROW THEM AWAY...NO..YOU TREAT THEM WITH TENDER,LOVE AND CARE.

Happy marriage life,don't forget to thank me later.
Re: To My Future Wife by tellwisdom: 6:31am On Nov 23, 2014
2014 you are still writing a letter to a woman?? Mugu undecided
Re: To My Future Wife by Ego2(f): 6:33am On Nov 23, 2014
Op ur letter brought tears too my eyes. Plz remm too read this letter too ur future wife on ur wedding day.
Re: To My Future Wife by STENON(f): 6:33am On Nov 23, 2014
hydeka:
Hey stenon, I did it! My father was right afterall.Never give up grin
Hahahahaha........Hehehehehe.......

very much surprised.....

wow!!....I love your spirit o......

You have done it well.....
Re: To My Future Wife by emperordan(m): 6:35am On Nov 23, 2014
So touchy! I love this letter and I hope the future wife is wise enough to appreciate this and not use it against him and play with his heart.

May God give us loving and good wives!
Re: To My Future Wife by Pennyways: 6:36am On Nov 23, 2014
Op just d write ditto any how like say 2morrow no dey

me I already no say my future wife na Dora, so I d keep close watch on her
Re: To My Future Wife by sirjoe001(m): 6:38am On Nov 23, 2014
Nice one
Re: To My Future Wife by milkytea(f): 6:38am On Nov 23, 2014
Honestly, I haven't yet read your letter but anyone who takes out the time to write a letter to just anyone these days - has my full respect.

It's half past midnight where I am so perhaps if I have time in the morning I will read the OP and give a comprehensive review, you certainly deserve that much.

You seem like a sweet and intelligent man, @eleojo23. smiley smiley Please do not allow the ignorant & emotionally bankrupt teens and man-children on this thread to muddle your perspective on love and relationships - you're on the right path.
Re: To My Future Wife by nobodyyy: 6:40am On Nov 23, 2014
i love ur write up. people r only being jealous ov smone that thinks so well. if only men can even make dis attempt in der wicked hearts most gud ladies wont be belittled this way. i pray u find dat wife but u hv to be prepared to endure her as u alrdy knw dat shez not perfect. u hv set a goal for ur self so work towards its achievement.
Re: To My Future Wife by khattab02: 6:42am On Nov 23, 2014
In some people's paradigm, every man, every woman and every society is the same. Shallow I tell you.
Re: To My Future Wife by milkytea(f): 6:45am On Nov 23, 2014
coolmoon500:
Omg, I made a similar post almost a year ago because I knew it would be perfect when we finally meet.

I love your creativity, I write, so I always appreciate a well written piece.

grin
hydeka:
Are you thinking what I'm thinking? grin
OmolodMilkman93:
You are definitely not alone on this,......
Match made in Heaven? Soulmates? cheesy shocked
Re: To My Future Wife by khattab02: 6:47am On Nov 23, 2014
Hmmm....




Meaning.....








Future wife could be reading now. Lol
Re: To My Future Wife by Nobody: 6:48am On Nov 23, 2014
cococandy:
pls read that again and tell us where he stated that marriage is a bed of roses . Or where he comes off as someone who doesn't understand that marriage comes with trials.
It's ok babe. I somehow sense some turbulence in your words of apprehension towards me. It's ok. Seems like you have been giving marriage/relationship some deep thoughts of recent.

Yes. Marriage is a good thing, but believe me, it is the most trying single aspect of your life that will test the very fiber of your being.

It's ok. Play your part and pray your partner plays his part well. There are no guarantees. The only guarantee is the words you repeated after the pastor at your wedding.
Re: To My Future Wife by menesheh(m): 6:48am On Nov 23, 2014
Stories to the God of love
Re: To My Future Wife by shyshally(f): 6:50am On Nov 23, 2014
Wow,I love this write up,the writing pattern is lovely,I write too,n this just makes me love it the more,your choice of words and sentences.thumbs up to you n I hope you find her.dnt mind all those saying go out and have fun,as the saying goes 'cut your coat according to your size'.do what you think is best for you,n have in mind,everything we do has a consequence,good or bad
Re: To My Future Wife by evayung(m): 6:50am On Nov 23, 2014
impressive...
success bro :-Ximpressive...
success bro
Re: To My Future Wife by yim(f): 6:53am On Nov 23, 2014
For all those insulting, the OP, u are kind of the people who have let past experiences colour their future or are men who think being loving is a sign of weakness. My advice to you all: GROW UP
@ d OP, may God hear your prayers and give you a woman that will appreciate this and your home will be an example for all. God bless you so much for seeing women as a treasure rather some who see them as instruments to be used.
Once again God bless you
Re: To My Future Wife by leezbebe(f): 6:55am On Nov 23, 2014
Awwwwww,sooooo sweet....pray u get 2 meet her soon.. grin
Re: To My Future Wife by esonuu(m): 6:55am On Nov 23, 2014
Abeg who read am finish? Passin jare
Re: To My Future Wife by milkytea(f): 6:56am On Nov 23, 2014
yim:
For all those insulting, the OP, u are kind of the people who have let past experiences colour their future or are men who think being loving is a sign of weakness. My advice to you all: GROW UP
@ d OP, may God hear your prayers and give you a woman that will appreciate this and your home will be an example for all. God bless you so much for seeing women as a treasure rather some who see them as instruments to be used.
Once again God bless you
You are so pretty shocked
Re: To My Future Wife by chronique(m): 6:57am On Nov 23, 2014
Same here. I think the two future letter writers should contact themselves and peruse both letters,with the view of determining if the letters are meant for both of them. I'm thinking of writing my own letter too. There might just be a lady outtherewriting one,or who has written one;won't you write your own?
OmolodMilkman93:
You are definitely not alone on this,......
Re: To My Future Wife by Nairalane: 6:58am On Nov 23, 2014
Connotatively, it means ur future wife is a naralander
Re: To My Future Wife by SunqieOlaT(m): 7:00am On Nov 23, 2014
Parable undecided
Re: To My Future Wife by egopersonified(f): 7:01am On Nov 23, 2014
Op, can you wait for my unborn daughter?
Re: To My Future Wife by baski92(m): 7:06am On Nov 23, 2014
Hmm story's Dat touch.....
Re: To My Future Wife by edaloba(m): 7:07am On Nov 23, 2014
Space booked
Re: To My Future Wife by Matthewbriggs(m):
The upside of writing a letter to your future wife in a way shows that you have a clear picture of what you really want, it highlights your expectations and prayers for the future. I don't think it makes you feminine or musculine. It makes you human. We all have these fantasy men and women... The only difference is that you took your time to pen yours down.

The challenge is that letters of such is most time driven by fantasy, I am talking from the perspective of a guy who has written 2 of such letter like this in the past.

With time reality would come knocking, you would see your fantasy been torn to shreds by real life events that would make you question your expectations. it is very important you stay prepared for it ... To still believe as you restrategize.

The truth is that fantasy can sometimes blind our eyes from a better reality. It is important that In as much as your dream, be prepared to face the real world. Filled with imperfect people. Be prepared for a reality that by chance maybe different from your fantasy


As you dream and fantasize never forget to be prepared for fire.

Life ain't fare.

#MathewBriggs
Re: To My Future Wife by NinaD: 7:11am On Nov 23, 2014
Awwwwwwww dat was rili sweet ...if only mre men wld b lyk u
Re: To My Future Wife by Raxxye(m): 7:12am On Nov 23, 2014
Nice one!
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