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Evina:
Actually, it is the other way round.

When a girl is friendly with a guy, he begins to have the erroneous idea that she is an easy lay.

Jakeattah:
soo true....

And a Nigerian lady can go on repeated dates with 100 different guys, at the end its only if you say 'I love u' that you re dating

slimmy05:
You meet a girl and you've had some rounds of love making and she is still saying, youre not my bf because you've not asked me out.

Natasha2:
Erm poster you also have a misconception about it. To ask someone out doesn't necessarily mean you want him or her to be your bf or gf. It is just inviting someone to go out with you. For example I can ask you out to the cinema,or for ice cream or whatever it is I want us to do. But I guess everyone narrows "asking me out" to relationship and love.



And as for the other part guys do it too, a girls is being nice and you think she wants you.



So I'm asking you out right now @ op can you join me for ice cream next week?

Evina:
The only place I am really friendly with a guy is online. Because in real life, they always misconstrue the most genuine intentions. They always want to push for something further.

mzzhavilah:
I get u point op but u seriously don't kn wot most guys do.friendly manner is diff from flirtin right? cos some guys intentionlly flirt wit gals and still claim friendly,and mind u wen d intention isn't known misconception is born.if d lady is single nd searching u ve to make ur being friendly clear or get ready to be misunderstood and d telling her friends part is just to look good in d sight of her peers.

I get your point too but am just saying girls conclude way too early and sometimes they do it at first meeting.

I flirt with my female friends just to know their inner side but it doesn't get beyond that! if I like them enough to go further fine, else its nothing more than a flirt. if they jump to conclusion then its at their own peril

Natasha2:
Of course how does having sex with someone make you her bf??

ellechrystal:
See who is talking... from ur description of nigerian babes it even shows d kinda guy u r.. u r describing a typical local babe who grew up in d rural setting. Feels inferior, I mean serious complex problem who doesn't know romance. It means na only those ones u fit chyk.
It speaks volumes...It means u urself ve a problem .
Please go get urself a correct naija babe who will spoil u silly.
One more thing... Some naija men r not just it atall. They r ridiculously unromantic n rigid to d core. Lord ve mercy.
While some will so spoil u that u keep questioning their origin.
Go n pray to God to lead u to where correct naija babes r. Stop hanging around wrapper monsters..
*runs out of thread*

UnimkeAk:
Not all girls just basic bitchess.

tosyne2much:
I think you also have a misconception with the phrase, however, ask me out can be used interchangable with the later . That is, when you "ask a lady out" without stating the purpose, it actually means you are requesting for a date, and when you ask her out for a dinner , it actually means you are inviting her over for a dinner
In conclusion- ask me out can be used for both inviting a lady for dinner and wooing a lady

UnimkeAk:
Not all girls just basic bitchess.

And those biitches are not girls? SMH

slimmy05:
when am already enjoying all the benefits acruing to one? Abeg abeg.

Tunguy01:
it wnt hurt if I can hang out wit ur sister , or is she a wrapper freak too , like seriously naija girls ar fake , dey ar nt romantic unless dey want 2 get down wit u

kristein:
no need of op joinin u..i will join u..u juz tell me wia u wana fix d date

Eyah only if I meant what I said

Or are you asking me out? Hahahahahahahaha somebody tell me I concluded too fast

Natasha2:
swerry read my post again, I mentioned that people "narrow" asking out to only relationships and love. Meaning it can be substituted for that. I didnt rule that out.

Tunguy01:
I hate Nigeria's girls especially dos dat tie rapper when it comes to romance , dey ar so dull nd daft romantically , weneva u ar conversing wit Dem , dey start staring @ ur lips wit d thought of getting laid sooner

Natasha2:
please kindly explain how sex becomes "ALL THE BENEFITS"?? Is sex the only thing there is to a relationship?

Natasha2:
Erm poster you also have a misconception about it. To ask someone out doesn't necessarily mean you want him or her to be your bf or gf. It is just inviting someone to go out with you. For example I can ask you out to the cinema,or for ice cream or whatever it is I want us to do. But I guess everyone narrows "asking me out" to relationship and love.



And as for the other part guys do it too, a girls is being nice and you think she wants you.



So I'm asking you out right now @ op can you join me for ice cream next week?

tosyne2much:
Alryt got that

Thinkr:
No it is not. But since it is the only thing 99.9% of girls offer in a relationship. Hence he made that statement.

ellechrystal:
Lmao...vice versa

ellechrystal:
Lmao...vice versa

adepiero:
And those biitches are not girls? SMH

piagetskinner:
The who scenario is just difficult for one to understand

Natasha2:
Eyah only if I meant what I said

Or are you asking me out? Hahahahahahahaha somebody tell me I concluded too fast