Evina:
Actually, it is the other way round.

When a girl is friendly with a guy, he begins to have the erroneous idea that she is an easy lay.

iceberylin:
When will our Girls have sense

evegran:
Always gets on my nerves when things like this are generalized. Can't you simply say "some"?
Is that word missing in your vocabs OP? Smh for your mentality!

I sincerely can't totally blame you sha, its apparent some bush girls are making your head swell. KMT!

Can't you make a statement without resolving to insults? smh for your mentality.

I wouldn't blame you either, its the carpenters hammering you that is knocking out your senses

magabounce:
Buh fr real, av had experiences whr av tried tu be jst friends wif ladies... Buh they wanted the "something extra" In my opinion, itz a two way thing

adepiero:
Can't you make a statement without resolving to insults? smh for your mentality.

I wouldn't blame you either, its the carpenters hammering you that is knocking out your senses

Evina:
Actually, it is the other way round.

When a girl is friendly with a guy, he begins to have the erroneous idea that she is an easy lay.

evegran:



Aww that's an attempt to hurt my feelings? You're not even close!

Wait, you're one of em unemployed faceless cocks on NL? Aww I sense rejection all over you.

Get a job okay?

Think again pvssy. if your looking for jobless guys here check "Jobs & vacancy section"

I guess you care about your stomach more than your brain and it shows greatly in your comment.

get a degree! and I don't mean "B.Sc. Prostitution"

adepiero:
Think again pvssy. if your looking for jobless guys here check "Jobs & vacancy section"

I guess you care about your stomach more than your brain and it shows greatly in your comment.

get a degree! and I don't mean "B.Sc. Prostitution"

adepiero:
Nigerian girls and misconception of the phrase "ask me out!"

Often times I've come across scenarios where a guy talks to a lady in a friendly manner only for the girl to tell her girlfriends that he is trying to ask her out!

My ideology of asking a lady out is that first you invite her on a date or multiple dates and during one of such dates you let out your intention but in Nigeria, reverse seems to be the case. once you strike up a convo, she believes you've already started to ask her out

Is this a Nigerian mentality or a misinterpretation of the word "ask me out" feel free to air your opinion

adepiero:

My ideology of asking a lady out is that first you invite her on a date or multiple dates and during one of such dates you let out your intention

adepiero:
Think again pvssy. if your looking for jobless guys here check "Jobs & vacancy section"

I guess you care about your stomach more than your brain and it shows greatly in your comment.

get a degree! and I don't mean "B.Sc. Prostitution"

ellechrystal:

Including ur sisters n cousins? Please u guys shouldn't generalise it. Ask out ko. No b date una dey go? Shuo..
Even guys use d phrase very well o. No b only chicks Abeg make una calm down..mtchewww

adepiero:
Nigerian girls and misconception of the phrase "ask me out!"

Often times I've come across scenarios where a guy talks to a lady in a friendly manner only for the girl to tell her girlfriends that he is trying to ask her out!

My ideology of asking a lady out is that first you invite her on a date or multiple dates and during one of such dates you let out your intention but in Nigeria, reverse seems to be the case. once you strike up a convo, she believes you've already started to ask her out

Is this a Nigerian mentality or a misinterpretation of the word "ask me out" feel free to air your opinion

ejikeme:




Easy love. Everybody is entitled to their word. i know he shouldn't have generalised his word, but calling names won't calm you.

UjSizzle:

There is no such thing as the 'greenlight'. It's simply a mental construct.
You must already have nursed some intentions, no matter how subliminal, to even begin interpreting her actions and mannerism as a 'come get me' sign. Otherwise you'd simply regard her behaviour as normal as you would anyone's else.

Ilovenigeria:

Op stop jooor.

Shey when one lady like that got raped on her first time visiting a guy's house people blamed her. Some said she suppose know that once you visit a man house...na fvck be that oooo.

Stop blaming Nigerian girls, our guys are not trying at all. Follow him out to eat icecream...oooooboy you must surely payback with you punanny.u

If you keep quiet for them to do normal wooing they will complain you have brother/friendzone them.

adepiero:
Can't you make a statement without resolving to insults? smh for your mentality.

I wouldn't blame you either, its the carpenters hammering you that is knocking out your senses

adepiero:


My ideology of asking a lady out is that first you invite her on a date or multiple dates and during one of such dates you let out your intention

ellechrystal:


No mind them. Na wetin them sabi... common 4 naija guy to dash u 5 k, them go dey look ur chest n d front of ur Jean even right B4 u... I tire 4 them o

foxxynik:


Uhmm... Bro, don't get it twisted!

Asking a girl out is more like asking her for a date!
Your ideology about what girls feel when you have a convo with her isn't really factual.

When you converse with a girl nicely and you tend to display good moves...you give her no option than to feel you'll do the needful...as to asking her for a date..or asking her out!

Mostly, asking a girl out could be done even on ur first date...if the feelings are mutual.

So asking a girl out and asking a girl for a date are intertwine in all cases! Hope u mark my points!

ellechrystal:

It calmed me well well

AgapeCharis:
There's no such thing as greenlight? U and I knw that's not true. Its nt just a mental construct. It is a deliberate action(s) put forth to giving the other party an idea of "I want u" Most times, we don't even get to notice it at d early stage cos we see it as just been friendly. And most of d times, we have no intentions at all for d "greenlighter(new English )" That's an explanation to why we only notice it when extreme actions r taken

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Evegran
Take it easy on d op abeg
Though its true nt every lady thinks dt way but the ratio of dox dt have dt mentality is on d higher side. True or false?

Ilovenigeria:

I swear ooooo.
Even when you visit them on your period, They will ask you why didn't you tell them before coming for the date msteew.

Ghyft:
I guess the topic should be 'NIGERIANS and their misconception of "ask me out"

ejikeme:



for real? never knew calling names do calm people. will try it someday. but if my eyes turns puffy after it, I will hold you responsible.

nickz:
ouch!!!.....you are evil

ellechrystal:


Gbam... that one dey vex me ehhh..
Those ones need brain repair..something Don fall off d brain B4.
D moment they notice sey u b fine girl, d next thing on their mind is Bleep.
I tire

Evina:
Actually, it is the other way round.

When a girl is friendly with a guy, he begins to have the erroneous idea that she is an easy lay.