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Ajekpakororo:
Shame? ??
Hian!!!!!
Anyway, I have been asked severally by guys and I have never asked a guy how many ladies he has slept with as I THINK IT AINT MATURED.To whom TOOTO and PRICCK is given, Bleep is expected.My ex asked me this USELESS question one very romantic night and this was EXACTLY the outcome.

Ex:HHow many men have you been with?
Messurprised, vexed) Really? What kind of question is that?
Ex:NNothing! Just curious to know (ssmiling mildly to get me to relax and spill)
Me:I am not gonna talk about that.that.Its my personal .......
Ex:I have the right to know! Just in case I happen to meet someone I know who must have blah blah. ?..
Mesensing he was challenging me, I stood up, brought out a biro and big long note sheet) I Wil call names, then you write.




Na so I start to dey list names of people wey Bleep me, the one I Bleep, the one wey I give BJ , the one wey give me Head down, the ones wey na kiss them chop, the ones wey na toes Dem lick, there are ones that will only insist on eating my sushi iiiiii (I go just spread the legs for their face, ENGOYYYMENT), The ones wey toast me, the ones wey I toast, the ones wey , huh hahaha, e get the ones wey na BOOBI b their Specialty alone, the ones wey we dey blow weed enter mouth dey too.The idiooot book kon fulfull.I could see him getting uncomfortable as I gave EXPLICIT JINGOLISM.By the time the names don dey pass 60, his hand writing kon change for paper .O boy, I know stop oooooooooooooo. I started adding my male siblings too. My guy finally asked me to STOP.

ME:Baby, you are yet to add your name
Exssqueezing the paper)I don't believe you anyway..
Me:Well, most people don't...
Ex:Are you for real...
Me:WWhy would you ask for truth you can't handle.
ExSad faced) I still insist I don believe you slept with over 60 men...

Silence everywhere
more silence
Two eyes looked at two, one was smiling while the other was looked very worried.
Anyways, he didn't believe me, and he wasn't the last.

TOOTO wey Baba God personally give me, na him person go dey cry inside, The person dey CRAZE? ?


Hi Lagunna.

weldone...

Why ask a question that research has proven 99.99% don't give truthful answers

There's no need asking because a girl will never give you an honest answer to this question

Ajekpakororo:
Shame? ??
Hian!!!!!
Anyway, I have been asked severally by guys and I have never asked a guy how many ladies he has slept with as I THINK IT AINT MATURED.To whom TOOTO and PRICCK is given, Bleep is expected.My ex asked me this USELESS question one very romantic night and this was EXACTLY the outcome.

Ex:HHow many men have you been with?
Messurprised, vexed) Really? What kind of question is that?
Ex:NNothing! Just curious to know (ssmiling mildly to get me to relax and spill)
Me:I am not gonna talk about that.that.Its my personal .......
Ex:I have the right to know! Just in case I happen to meet someone I know who must have blah blah. ?..
Mesensing he was challenging me, I stood up, brought out a biro and big long note sheet) I Wil call names, then you write.




Na so I start to dey list names of people wey Bleep me, the one I Bleep, the one wey I give BJ , the one wey give me Head down, the ones wey na kiss them chop, the ones wey na toes Dem lick, there are ones that will only insist on eating my sushi iiiiii (I go just spread the legs for their face, ENGOYYYMENT), The ones wey toast me, the ones wey I toast, the ones wey , huh hahaha, e get the ones wey na BOOBI b their Specialty alone, the ones wey we dey blow weed enter mouth dey too.The idiooot book kon fulfull.I could see him getting uncomfortable as I gave EXPLICIT JINGOLISM.By the time the names don dey pass 60, his hand writing kon change for paper .O boy, I know stop oooooooooooooo. I started adding my male siblings too. My guy finally asked me to STOP.

ME:Baby, you are yet to add your name
Exssqueezing the paper)I don't believe you anyway..
Me:Well, most people don't...
Ex:Are you for real...
Me:WWhy would you ask for truth you can't handle.
ExSad faced) I still insist I don believe you slept with over 60 men...

Silence everywhere
more silence
Two eyes looked at two, one was smiling while the other was looked very worried.
Anyways, he didn't believe me, and he wasn't the last.

TOOTO wey Baba God personally give me, na him person go dey cry inside, The person dey CRAZE? ?


Hi Lagunna.

Mesef wan enter that list o!
I love list

Fucking and wicked mods. I opened a topic same with these, but nairaland won't allow it to see the lime light

softysparky:
What exactly will you do with the answer
Maybe you should also ask for names, styles and positions or better still collect their phone numbers.

All the above

@Bold: What, are we organizing an or.gy

On serious note, yes. I think it's appropriate.

Renylee:
It is always advisable to leave the past where it belongs.

NO!

EnlightenedSoul:
On serious note, yes. I think it's appropriate.

so how many men don shine your Congo

softysparky:
The same way you run around and fvck others is exactly the same way people fvck that your special one and go back to their own special ones.
That your special one you hold in high esteem is someone else's side chick
So don't think you are smart.

I thought girls are shy to say fvck?

ronald4lif:
I don't care to know how many men she has slept with, her past love life is irrelevant. I am no V, she's no V either, we both don f*ck, the number of times or people is baseless jare

And if you were a virgin?
Will it matter then?

That question has a lot to do with immaturity (you want to base "love" on conditions) and insecurity (you wanna be sure you're "the only one"......

My opinion: let the past be! If you want a future with him or her,that is.

A lady i was chasing sometime ago once asked me this same question...pls can anyone define her motive for asking me that?

danielmichael:
Chai na gal 1st comment
Chai I don ova suspect dis gal
Chai its nad a new ting shaaa
Chai na gals all de time
Chai na dem de mak us fall
Jus like one last nyte whr kill me.
Jesus help us dee guys

Angel Michael abeg take am small small o..

SmellOfMonkey:
so how many men don shine your Congo

I like you jare!

If it's appropriate she won't mind being asked, too.

Renylee:
It is always advisable to leave the past where it belongs.

on point!

Enegod:
Our past is what makes us who we are
today. But I don't feel it's necessary for a
person to know everything about how we
became who we are, in order to truly see
us as the person that we have become...

how many biscuit have u eaten

The worst question is, are you a virgin? You ll probably hear Yes and you ll never see her pants in that relationship except you rape her.

SmellOfMonkey:
so how many men don shine your Congo

congo-Brazaville or DR Congo?

malaria:
What happens in Las Vegas stays in Las Vegas

malaria....

see person name smh

I don't ask o but if am asked I ask in return. I have asked my exs, I later found out that they all lied about the numbers. Its not necessary to ask but sometimes u need to know who u are dating.

b0rn2fuck:
Countless number of people including oloshos and ashawo

we are not surprise...

your moniker said it all

softysparky:
Lol, why not ask her positions, styles, locations and sizes of the kini and finally get pen and paper because you will need to write down names of the guys she has fvcked.
After you are just trying to know her past.

why are you so pained? dirty past or what?....

UnimkeAk:
Why ask a question that research has proven 99.99% don't give truthful answers

true!
even as a V,I answered dishonestly cus I didn't know the purpose for which she asked...

its just totally outta place,very inappropriate.

SmellOfMonkey:
so how many men don shine your Congo

too much mr ibu no good ooo.

Osakah24:
The worst question is, are you a virgin? You ll probably hear Yes and you ll never see her pants in that relationship except you rape her.

lol...reminds me of my first gf in the university then, she left me because I told her that I am a virgin

emperorchedda:
The past defines the future
If you don't know history you can't understand the present/future

A girl who has slept with bunch of men before you date her will continue the trend because her body can no longer adapt to a single diick. Like they say Once a soldier always a soldier

In my humble opinion, who will b faithful will be despite the number of men or woman he/she has had sexx with.

Such question might be asked without much importance to it but because love is a thing of heart and the heart been full of deceit and intrigue can be dangerous to be let in into such a secret. Therefore. It is best left to the past. All parties must come to the table with a clean slate. It is tantamount like asking a lady who she had her first sexual experience with. It is not a good idea.

U don't need to ask such question, it will even make u feel jealous & u will now see her as a prostitude.

sexyseun:
My Boyfriends used to ask this question and am always frank with the answer "uncountable"

But truly how do you expect me to know the amount of guys i have slept with, its been so long since i got disvirgined na. Telling you a specific amount means am totally lying

folabayo1:
Revealing ur past to ur partner as a lady is not something bad or a mistake but the thing is are u sure ur partner loves u enuf to 4giv and 4get ur past? Or are u sure ur partner is matured enuf to handle it and move on wit u like he met u a V? And are u sure dat he is ready and prepare to know everything abt u and still treats u like a queen dat u are? And if no to all dis questions then 4get abt tellin him and enjoy ur rltshp like u both neva had pasts. My opinion!

Your opinion makes alot of sense and is usually the safest, I know. But in my case, as meticulous as I am. I usually always wanna know everything, every detail-inside out. Might be a bad thing, but thats just my nature. And I fully opened up to him, as he did to me and we 're good. This is one basic reason why you should date or marry someone who is a friend, not someone who appears outta the blue looking perfect. Friendship first and youd totally enjoy your relationship.

EnlightenedSoul:
On serious note, yes. I think it's appropriate.

It's very inappropriate.