ono:
I will use myself as example.

I was a virgin man - at 27 years when I met my wife (nowadays, I read about something called konji gripping men who don't engage in pre marital sex. Sorry, nothing like that happened to me). Truth is, all those years I stayed away from ''evil'', I did see several good looking beautiful women and girls and I was attracted to them. But it ends when I get back home or to my work.

So, when my wife asked how many girls I have been with and I told her none, she said I'm from outer space - Mars perhaps!

I did not directly ask how many men she's been with. I did that in a ''subtle'' way - so she provided the answer without knowing it. She's been with more than one. But you know what? I still went ahead and married this lady - but we made sure we're both medically okay as required.

All is well after more than 9 years of marriage and 3 beautiful kids.


My advice, you can ask her (if you plan on settling down with her) - but not in a very direct, childish way.

And for ladies saying it's best you leave the past behind, know that truth will always find a way to the surface. Better let him know now - if he asked for it (whether he can handle it or not, it doesn't matter. Tell him).

*clears throat* how you carry ask am abeg?

lifestyle1:


weldone...

Thanks jare.
It wasn't and still not easy.
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EnlightenedSoul:


All the above

@Bold: What, are we organizing an or.gy

My dear ooooo.

liljboy:

*clears throat* how you carry ask am abeg?

Na talk dey bring talk. Dem no dey open mouth finish dey talk some kind things. You use your head.

softysparky:

And a man that has slept with bunch of women?

Will mostly continue the trend.

softysparky:

The same way you run around and fvck others is exactly the same way people fvck that your special one and go back to their own special ones.
That your special one you hold in high esteem is someone else's side chick
So don't think you are smart.

See as e just dey sweet u to use the 'F' word without caution...

emperorchedda:
The past defines the future
If you don't know history you can't understand the present/future

A girl who has slept with bunch of men before you date her will continue the trend because her body can no longer adapt to a single diick. Like they say Once a soldier always a soldier

Nice one bro.

I guess this is the reason u see married women everywhere looking for younger boys whose husbands r better in everything.

Absolutely no point asking if you can't handle the truth

iykedare:
There is nothing wrong with the question? I will ask this question to know her present value.

That's if you will ever get an honest answer.

FredHandsome:


See as e just dey sweet u to use the 'F' word without caution...

I just want to drive the point home. That guy thinks he can bleep other girls and reserve his special whatever.

Tashaamania:


I'm right. People like Lagunna I know, infact all men, wants one thing- not to be cheated upon yet they want to cheat..

Not all men cheat, nor want to cheat...... Why do ladies use this false hypothesis as a reason to mess around.....

I have learnt not to ask though cos all you get is a lie, its usually 1 guy, and he forced her or she was so inlove yet he broke her heart , as long as shes decent and i am certain, her exes don't really matter to me, any man who worries about a ladys body count will die before his time......

softysparky:
What exactly will you do with the answer
Maybe you should also ask for names, styles and positions or better still collect their phone numbers.

Guilty as charged

i think the more appropriate question should be 'How many relationship have you had?' asking how many guys she has slept with make her look a bit slutty, you might end the relationship if her reply is beyond your expectation.....
thanks. see you same time same station. bye

Some ladies ask this question out of jealousy tho. I have an ex who asks me when how many ladies I bleeped even years after we broke up. Sometimes some people believe the answer to this question determines how decent or faithful the guy/lady would be.

tyconcepts:
Answer to the question.....

Have kissed lots of frogs before I met you prince charming

I really think thats a beautifully honest answer a lady can give. any normal guy wont ask how many frogs

folabayo1:
yes u are ryt but that's not really common dis days cos most rlsthp of nowadays is meet n jump into sex in few days and some might lead to marriage while some might end in disaster but u r so on point.

True.

holiface:
I onced asked a gal such question she said that am the 15th guy and she was being honest

and u went ahead and bleeped her abi?

#15demons

Iyowuski:
i think the more appropriate question should be 'How many relationship have you had?' asking how many guys she has slept with is a birth sluty, u might end the relationship if her reply is beyond ur expectation.....
thanks see you same time same station. bye

Better pikin.

nairabetguru:



Guilty as charged

91 and still counting.

emperorchedda:
The past defines the future
If you don't know history you can't understand the present/future

A girl who has slept with bunch of men before you date her will continue the trend because her body can no longer adapt to a single diick. Like they say Once a soldier always a soldier

I cannot believe people actually liked this, what a stup!d post.

sexyseun:
My Boyfriends used to ask this question and am always frank with the answer "uncountable"

But truly how do you expect me to know the amount of guys i have slept with, its been so long since i got disvirgined na. Telling you a specific amount means am totally lying

chai,u don run high milage

The question is definitely a show spoiler especially if the girl tells you the raw truth. No responsible guy wants to end up with a girl who has a marred past and slutty tendencies.

softysparky:

I just want to drive the point home. That guy thinks he can bleep other girls and reserve his special whatever.

I get it. We are all special to someone, thus, have to be careful how we live our lives. BTW, you have the looks of my kinda lady. How do you do?

blakky97:

I thought girls are shy to say fvck?

But they are not shy to fvck

softysparky:

The same way you run around and fvck others is exactly the same way people fvck that your special one and go back to their own special ones.
That your special one you hold in high esteem is someone else's side chick
So don't think you are smart.

there is nothing wrong about that


I DON SLEEP WITH 50 LADIES

Reading some comment,I feel like crying....and the people who made this comments are future mother and fathers........**how would the future of the future generation be**.......And one thing that pains me about these people who are ashamed of their past is that they won't desist from their past acts

EnlightenedSoul:


Ya think so? It can be made to be inappropriate (as demonstrated by 'SmellOfMonkey'), but it isn't so to begin with in my view.

Full disclosure.

I feel it's unnecessary anyway, what difference would it make? The same way you wouldn't want a guy boring you with stories of his previous girlfriends.

Reading some comment,I feel like crying....and the people who made this comments are future mother and fathers--___--**how would the future of the future generation be**.......And one thing that pains me about these people who are ashamed of their past is that they won't desist from their past acts

softysparky:

But they are not shy to fvck

oh! aren't they? that means you fvck?

softysparky:

Better pikin.

softy i think the more appropriate word should be 'kid'
better kid
thanks see you same time same station