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Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by SirShymexx: 5:31pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
tpiah99: Laughable lol. Ever wondered why women are seldom allowed into the elite forces in the military, where loyalty/allegiance/trust and being calm under pressure are a necessity cos every operation is about life and death/destruction? In brotherhoods where everything is done under an oath and you have to remain loyal at all times? That is the reality. Faggits are effeminate men with female tendencies - so can you see how illogical you sound in trying to ascribe homoeroticism to reality? schizophrenic much? - loool. Take ya meds. 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Moana(f): 5:33pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
SirShymexx: Wait she left something very personal on a public forum and babyosisi only used a post on a public forum. She didn't use something she was told in private on a public forum so i dont understand how that was immature. We all know this is a public forum and if you decide to air out your own dirty laundry there anyone can make a comment and remark on it. Which is why its always best to leave your private life to be just that, private! Moreover, from all the wars humanity has been involved in from time immemorial - and the ability to advance mentally after those wars, thus enabling the creation of things to make life easier for us - is the reason why men will always be different from women. You can't do that without learning from ya mistakes; taking responsibilities; and growing mentally. That's what makes you a man, and why humanity keeps progressing everyday cos men are in-charge.and the only reason why most conutries have resorted to improving technology and social development without war was because they realised that all of that could be accomplished without war in the first place. 5). Shiit, I was born to beat the darn pum to smithereens and make the batty bounce like it's got hydraulics on it. And I shall keep doing that till the wheels fall off. I never created myself this way, with the innate urge of wanting to mate and procreate - the most high did. And all I can do is to keep following what's innately part of my existence, and to keep obeying the will of the most high and the greatness of creation. However, one thing I won't do is go out of my way to please a group stuck perpetually in playing the blame game - while destroying the lives of many. I'll never be a victim. Women just have to change their ways - learn the art of taking responsibilities. It's not always about you!whats highly laughable is you making a mockery of women and going back to state how much in need you are of them. Maybe you need to take you own advice about taking responsibility, you cannot kill someone and blame your actions on someone else. Like i said you have never had a real relationship with any of those "few 'mature independent woman" that exist in this world which is why you can never give valuable or positive advice on relationships. Its something you have never experinced, therefore you cannot possibly have anything to contribute to it. 13 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by tpiah99: 5:34pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
@ shymexx (very gayish id) you must think you're fooling no one. as per schizo, check yourself, nuff said. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by tpiah99: 5:35pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
SirShymexx: hmph. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by SirShymexx: 5:36pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
coogar: Check the thread. I saw it today. Overgrown kids with big boils on their chests mocking the next person's private life, like osisi hasn't been exposed in politics section several times lol 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Ewuro4: 6:01pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
soulglo: Really ? Hmmm |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by coogar: 6:29pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
SirShymexx: it's a disgrace...... the level of the PHD(pull-her-down) syndrome in this section is baffling. what happened to the sisterhood we used to know amongst women? 3 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 6:31pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
SirShymexx: Someone should tell this sheemale shymexx to face his front o and stop this sick obsession of me Kilode? Exposed who? Where? Your fellow gays post a picture of an innocent women they claim is me and they made your day? No wonder they say you are gay You sound like one You must be one Step 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by soulglo: 6:35pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Ewuro4: Yes, really. I want to see it. Where anybody mocked her. It is very important to me 3 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 6:35pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
tpiah99: He is not a man He doesn't act like one 5 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 6:37pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
coogar: Coogar Biko kwa A woman opens her loud mouth to blame some women murdered for causing their deaths while she has told us how she wasted time before leaving a horrible marriage. Why didn't her husband kill Her for deceit These other women deserved death and she didn't? 4 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 6:39pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Moana: The boy is sick He entertains himself by rambling 3 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by coogar: 6:41pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
babyosisi: you shouldn't have used her past against her. there's no justification for it. she never ever justified murder, she just elaborated on the root causes of the horrible trend. you should send her a private apology. 4 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 6:44pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
coogar: * waka* Used her past against her? The woman is making a mockery of dead women telling us how to be good wives to avoid being killed and she fled a bad marriage Isn't that hypocrisy of the highest order I had to go digging after Aisha2 mentioned her divorce and voila there it was Why didn't her own husband kill her for wanting to leave or for leaving Let her come and answer that question 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by coogar: 6:45pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
babyosisi: perhaps, mutter was decent enough not to commit marital infidelity or paternity fraud like the deceased women. there would be no need for any husband to shoot a virtuous wife. 7 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by raumdeuter: 6:46pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Fhemmmy: After paying Child support for the kids which includes the money to care for their welbeing, both couples keep their money. The one who earns $35k lives on his/her 35k and the 100k lives on his/her 100k If you need more money, then go to school, learn a new trade or work more hours |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 6:46pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
coogar: And who tells you that was the reason these women died? This coogar sef 4 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by coogar: 6:48pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
babyosisi: why else did they die? have you read the profiles of some of the men in that article? none of them had any previous criminal history. you mean a man can just wake up one day and shoot his wife dead? what kinda brain infection is that - ebola or dengue? raumdeuter: and to think some of these women went to good schools and are highly trained. yet they become agberos that fight for someone else's assets. who raised these greedy women? 2 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by edwife(f): 6:49pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Tragedy struck at Akenfa, a suburb of Yenagoa metropolis, Bayelsa State, on Thursday, following the stabbing to death of a lawyer, Mr. Henry Gagariga, by his wife, Victoria. [img]http://4.bp..com/-gzukdhgiJxw/VNOM5jFyX3I/AAAAAAAEcl0/TnUq9MFJZs0/s1600/2.jpg[/img] [img]http://4.bp..com/-l43epqH6r7s/VNOM6SYaGaI/AAAAAAAEcl8/EelUMoD6UiE/s1600/3.jpg[/img] |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 6:50pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Ewuro4:My bitterleaf , how is you day going ma'am? 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by SirShymexx: 6:53pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Moana: 1). Nah, she never left something personal on the internet - she was going through a turbulent time in her existence, like every other human being. Decided to share it with folks for advice - and for others to learn from her experience. And she has since learned from that experience and grown to be a better person. Regardless of whether she posted it here or not, there's an unwritten rule that comes with mature discourse on public forums - and it's about discussing issues, not people. The only exception is when it gets brolic, and folks are going at one another - then everything is allowed. However, in this case, she only posted her opinions. Err, if you lot want folks to make their private lives private - why are you lot always eager to give inane advice from thread to thread? You revel in being parrots with advice for everyone's problem - yet you want them to keep their private lives private cos whenever they disagree with you politely, it's time to descend on them with a smear campaign against based on their past. Better apologise to the woman before most of end up NL-jobless with no inane advice to give again. Ya lives depend on that ish loool. 3). Nah, technological/social advancement and military industrial complex are intertwined - ditto industrialisation. Just look at all the greatest countries in history, with superior technologies - and you'll see the military industrial complex as the nucleus of every one of them. Let me start from recent times and cite two examples: take a look at the British Empire when it reigned supreme - its greatness started with military industrial complex which kicked off the industrial revolution. And when you look America today, without the military industrial complex, it wouldn't be as advanced as it's today. Also, with social development: I'll cite two examples. Both the 1st and 2nd world wars made Europe what it's today, by killing tribalism on the continent. It enabled the countries to restructure their systems and enact policies, to allow co-existence based on mutual respect. Then you have the end of the cold war induced by the Soviet war in Afghanistan as what created the genesis of today's globalisation. 3). Nah, I don't need women - I just alluded to the innate urge that comes with the male anatomy. And you can always satisfy that urge, without necessarily being in "need" of them since it's mutual. You just do give and take like Phil Jackson's triangle offense lol. Shiit, no strings attached is the name of the game. Lmao @ mature independent woman - another contradictory term. An oxymoron. You lot are just delusional! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by soulglo: 6:54pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
coogar: SMH. You mean the same way Mutter cooked and scraped for her demon and still got treated the way she was. I feel sorry for you 4 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by coogar: 6:54pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
@ edwife, that woman cannot be a nigerian o! nigerian woman, carry knife and stab her hubby? impossible. we don't raise unruly women in nigeria. i swear down, no woman has ever committed murder or manslaughter in nigeria. if you ever catch a nigerian housewife with a bloodied knife, she has just slaughtered a live chicken. police should investigate this one wella. i am sure a man dressed in a woman's attire committed the criminal act. naija women are too innocent for this kinda crime. soulglo: shut the fück up, you semi-illiterate sket! 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 6:54pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
coogar: Police had been called to the Emeruwa household numerous times for domestic abuse The wife had left plenty times and returned for the sake of her children Only very few killers don't turn killers overnight,they had exhibited these traits a while As for the asset angle In the event of divorce,a woman needs a powerful attorney to get all that she is entitled to Every red cent 3 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by mutter(f): 6:56pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Wait she left something very personal on a public forum and babyosisi only used a post on a public forum. She didn't use something she was told in private on a public forum so i don't understand how that was immature. We all know this is a public forum and if you decide to air out your own dirty laundry there anyone can make a comment and remark on it. Which is why its always best to leave your private life to be just that, private! What is very personal when the identity of the posters are not disclosed. So when a woman speaks out about her abuse it is called - airing out her dirty linen. Good to know! Next time I advice women to try and endure the abuse and stay in their marriage because abused women do not have any respect I can refer them here. We indeed have a culture of silence. You see I just find it amazing that it is only women that think that they can hail those stones against me, never got that from any man here. However you must realize that I am not a teenage who is not in control of her emotions. I speak out freely about my experiences and hope others can learn from them and also freeing myself of them. I am also not ashamed about it because I did not commit any offense. An offense was committed against me. Well rape victims, abuse victims you have it now spelt out for you. Keep it to yourself`s and don`t wash your dirty linen in public. Your fellow women don`t like it. 6 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by coogar: 6:56pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
babyosisi: what about the others? you only singled out emeruwa. to think all these women were all innocent is ridiculous. i just don't think responsible family men would wake up one day and start shooting. i am too smart to believe that. babyosisi: that's pretty much given. here in the UK, she's automatically qualified for legal aid. the man must pay for himself. |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by SirShymexx: 6:57pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
Grandma babyosisi the 55 years old babymama and tpiah, I ain't no one got time for the both of you. Babyosisi, you're like my mum's age, and no matter how puerile you sound like a little girl, I won't do a back and forth with you. I can't be doing that to someone who's like my mum's age, man. Wasn't raised that way. Ciao! Tpiah the tilapia, just take ya meds - and don't create a thread for me like you always do. 7 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 6:58pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
mutter: Bia mutter let me ask you this Was your former handle here mamaput? |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by soulglo: 6:58pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
edwife: Should we blame this man for sticking his neck out for a stabbing? SMH. Divorce is always an option. 1 Like |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 6:59pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
SirShymexx: Ok You don win Happy now? |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Nobody: 7:00pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
soulglo: LOL He must have driven her crazy. For a wife to do something like this a few months into marriage, he must have been a really wicked person. 4 Likes |
Re: Concern As More Us-based Nigerians Murder Their Spouses by Fhemmmy: 7:01pm On Feb 05, 2015 |
raumdeuter: Totally agree . . . |
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