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Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by Nobody: 9:48am On Feb 12, 2015
mirexxx:
you're lying



Ooh lawd cheesy do you know me fron somewhere Smh
Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by Edusouls(m): 9:49am On Feb 12, 2015
no the cursed and dammned species didnt reciprocate, they went into self destruct, selling their souls to the devil and future, look around nowadays and see many hopless fellow ladies roaming the streets, desperate for husbands..after dumping and deceiving various men over the years including their future husband's, now whose husband are they looking for..most women is sure to end up single,miserable and unhappy for life...
charijee:
Men started the cheating game.....ladies are only reciprocating shocked

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Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by chinkichun: 9:49am On Feb 12, 2015
After seeing this same rubbish on contless threads, I just feel like imitating Gov. Oshiomhole and say: GO AND........
You know the rest smiley
Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by Adaezeagu(f): 9:50am On Feb 12, 2015
missugonma1:
U can start making good changes in the life of Nigerian girls by saying good about them....seriously Niger girls don suffer for some guys mouth
my sister eh nairaland own too much. 9ja gals dis 9ja galz dat. Alway trying to reduce our women to nothing.
Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by Nobody: 9:51am On Feb 12, 2015
omoharry:

there are decent women around, they are modest and down to earth but you guys rather go for the bling bling and the expensive looking chicks. what do you expect to get in return... there are descent girls that will be faithful to you when there is commitment in the relationship.



Where do i find them undecided
Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by justmag(m): 9:51am On Feb 12, 2015
diddydiva:

I can't really say much about this cos I don't know who you are either.

I know decent and morally disciplined Ladies still exist.

be good and you will meet good people

This is boloney! Good people don't always meet good people. Jesus was good but he met the devil and dem jews that nailed him on the cross.
Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by Nobody: 9:53am On Feb 12, 2015
justmag:
I believe there are good women out there and I hope the good women don't get offended by this. I have noticed some threads harshly bash women here and some good women get offended and shocked by it. Understandably so! Just understand that regardless of how you feel about some of these threads there are still and will always be women who are just scam artist, gold diggers and more importantly, LAZY BOTTOM WOMEN! I have had my share of them and I made a wise decision accordingly. Women should NOT feel comfortable asking a man constantly for money to get their hair done, pay for a recharge card and more. Women of some other society find pride in getting things done by themselves so they will never have to worry about a man using what they have done for them against them. I have the top most respect for women who have always done things for themselves. I will gladly buy a woman everything she wants if I can but ONLY if she deserves it. She can be broke too. But a women who permanently gets comfortable with receiving is not worth your TIME.



God bless you
Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by precisionindepth: 9:53am On Feb 12, 2015
mirexxx:
you're lying
seconded.
its just DAT most of the ladies DT r faithful are smtimes unfortunate to date unfortunate men.

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Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by delishpot: 9:54am On Feb 12, 2015
Only faithful guys should agree with the OP. Any cheating bf/ hubby that wants a good girl is just dreaming. Karma is solidly behind you like a strong iroko tree.

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Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by Adaezeagu(f): 9:54am On Feb 12, 2015
Monstertrucks:
op the more saddening fact is that we the cute guys suffer it more. I am also on the verge of deciding never to get married
see u see cute.
Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by precisionindepth: 9:56am On Feb 12, 2015
searching4love:




Statistics shows women cheats the most in Nigeria
I Dont concur

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Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by precisionindepth: 9:57am On Feb 12, 2015
searching4love:




My fear is wasting and investing much time in a fruitless and deceitfull relationship. Many girls will always have numerous guys at their disposal and it's hard to find who you can really trust among them due to thier materialistic nature. I have never met anyone who is willing to love me for me. Its always about the Benjamins
I tink u should move in the right direction.
Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by Brugo(m): 9:57am On Feb 12, 2015
searching4love:
I am a disciplined person. I have only cheated once and that was my university days. Infact i wont call it cheating cos i was drunk and seduced by a lady who came to charge in my room. Ever since i have always been conscious of myself but can that be said of ladies

Hahahaha why do I wish this would happen to me? Why? cheesy

Please where are the gals that can seduce me?

Or are you lying? Cos this is too GOOD to be true.
Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by alujonjonkijon: 9:57am On Feb 12, 2015
all you need is to due your due dilligence.bad or good character cannot be hidden for long.do your homeowrk and go ahead and marry a good girl and they are still in their millions in nigeria.
Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by Nobody: 9:57am On Feb 12, 2015
charijee:
Men started the cheating game.....ladies are only reciprocating shocked

The earlier you ladies own up to your promiscuity and stop pointing fingers, the less irritating you become and the closer you are to salvation.....
Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by omoharry(f): 9:58am On Feb 12, 2015
searching4love:



I have tried both online and real life and till now can't find any. Do you know where the faithful one's are undecided
when you think the way you do, how can you attract a vitreous woman. Don't you know your mentality is a vibration toward what you attract? looking at your page all I see are in your post are "ALL WOMEN ARE CHEAT"; "ALL WOMEN ARE THIEVE".Wetin we do you? haba!! if we are all thieve and cheats then why are you looking for one among us. Maybe you should hang on to your male folks and find succor there. Don't generalized negatively about women when you know you will surely end up with one.

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Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by mirexxx(f): 9:58am On Feb 12, 2015
precisionindepth:
seconded.
its just DAT most of the ladies DT r faithful are smtimes unfortunate to date unfortunate men.
I totally agree with you! smiley smiley
Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by delishpot: 9:58am On Feb 12, 2015
omoharry:

there are decent women around, they are modest and down to earth but you guys rather go for the bling bling and the expensive looking chicks. what do you expect to get in return... there are descent girls that will be faithful to you when there is commitment in the relationship.

True that. I know guys personaly who left good girls. They acctualy dumped them and went for those you reffered to as blibg bling. They complain that the girl is dry and not fashionable and outgoing. Then they go for those babes with big pans in hands ready to pan for gold.
Men created this ish we are facing today. Now the world don rotten finish.

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Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by precisionindepth: 9:59am On Feb 12, 2015
searching4love:




My fear is wasting and investing much time in a fruitless and deceitfull relationship. Many girls will always have numerous guys at their disposal and it's hard to find who you can really trust among them due to thier materialistic nature. I have never met anyone who is willing to love me for me. Its always about the Benjamins
I tink u need to move in the right direction
Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by StarFlux: 9:59am On Feb 12, 2015
It's really sad to see the increase in cheating in modern days. You start to wonder if it's even possible to create a marriage without a cheating partner. For me, it's a very troubling matter of concern. I see some advice here as to going abroad and finding someone there. While logically, a lot of naija women and men are looking for wealth, which is why they're willing to cheat, women and men abroad have equally silly reasons to cheat as well. What everything has in common though (personal opinion) is that city-people seem more likely to cheat than say a village woman/man. Perhaps because they haven't been corrupted to the same degree and exposed to the immoralism so rampant today.

I also advice not sleeping with your partner until marriage. It won't last anyway if your partner isn't willing to wait. True love takes time to build and involves compromise.
Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by charijee(f): 9:59am On Feb 12, 2015
drlawizle:


The earlier you ladies own up to your promiscuity and stop pointing fingers, the less irritating you become and the closer you are to salvation.....
Say the same thing to the guys

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Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by precisionindepth: 10:00am On Feb 12, 2015
diddydiva:

I can't really say much about this cos I don't know who you are either.

I know decent and morally disciplined Ladies still exist.

be good and you will meet good people
seconded
Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by precisionindepth: 10:00am On Feb 12, 2015
searching4love:



You don't know me but by all i said here u should have a clue of what I've experienced. Searching for decent and morally disciplined ladies is like searching for a pin in the ocean. The probability is very low
I Dont tink so.
Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by charijee(f): 10:01am On Feb 12, 2015
omoharry:
when you think the way you do, how can you attract a vitreous woman. Don't you know your mentality is a vibration toward what you attract? looking at your page all I see are in your post are "ALL WOMEN ARE CHEAT"; "ALL WOMEN ARE THIEVE".Wetin we do you? haba!! if we are all thieve and cheats then why are you looking for one among us. Maybe you should hang on to your male folks and find succor there. Don't generalized negatively about women when you know you will surely end up with one.
Tell him something!!!

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Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by mirexxx(f): 10:01am On Feb 12, 2015
searching4love:




Ooh lawd cheesy do you know me from somewhere Smh
lols cheesy cheesy
Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by Drewin: 10:05am On Feb 12, 2015
diddydiva:

are you decent and morally disciplined too?

do you really know what you want in ladies?

do you understand the ladies you meet?

what are your motives for going into a relationship?

how do you woo ladies?

what type of ladies do you date

what type of lifestyle do you live?

who are your friends?

how do you apologize when you are wrong?


answer this questions sincerely within yourself and you will understand what is happening
You are very intelligent
Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by raymondinc(m): 10:05am On Feb 12, 2015
searching4love:
Going by the trend of cheating mostly found among the female folks especially Nigerian girls, one begins to wonder if there is still hope for we the unmarried men. Where are the women of virtue and dignity why has promiscuity become a norm and way of life among our ladies Are there still good women out there Are there still ladies who stick to just one guy irrespective of your financial situation?


I have been scammed and taken for granted by ladies who took advantage of the love and care i had for them. It saddens me to know that most Nigerian men have the same story to tell about our females. How and where can one really find the love of one's life in this our immorality filled society?

Your opinions are needed
my brothers my candid advise to you all is that if you were having 50 percent love for your woman please reduce it to at least 20 percent. What this guy is saying is an unforetold truth Nigerian girls or women rather would still with you for some reasons (1) because you are famous and travel overseas (2) you are well to do (wealthy). No Nigerian lady would go out with you for a genuine love platform. Never you invest in a woman they are very dangerous even more than the politicians, they don't deserve love believe me, I was fvcking a lady and her husband to be whom I never knew called right out that moment and guess what she said "honey I'm not at home now o, shey I told you I was going to finish up the assignment given to me in my catery school, please baby as soon as I got home I'm going to call you" I was so shocked that I couldn't continue with her but asked her to leave immediately. So please guys don't trust them, they are so deceitful.

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Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by twinee(f): 10:07am On Feb 12, 2015
@ Op, you don't have to conclude on all ladies being wayward, am sure that with time you will definitely come across your soul mate... Best of luck.
Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by Nobody: 10:08am On Feb 12, 2015
Blackett:
Ma G. Don't let them _stupid girls get to you. They have been sent by the devil to bring you down. If you remain down, the devil wins. So look him in the face and tell him to fvck off. The search must continue, and you must find a real lady.

Just take it that those _idiots that have already come your way were not meant to be in your life. I'll like to believe that a failed bf/gf relationship is better than a failed marriage. So just keep being your nice self, clean up yourself, work on your body, and one day, a girl that deserves you will come your way. You'll see her, and you'll know. Don't let them idiotic 2 faced lopsided discombobulated girls drag you to their level. Scum they are, and scum they shall remain.

One day you'll meet them in their misery, while you continue to ball. That's life. What goes around comes around.
Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by Drewin: 10:10am On Feb 12, 2015
searching4love:




Why are you emphasizing on me working on myself? Is anything wrong in me? Haven't you heard that the most serious guys unfortunately end up with dishonest women? I have nothing to work on undecided
Can you see?!!!... The solution is clear... You don't believe you have a problem... So you don't see your own mistakes... If you can't see your own mistakes... How will you know when the ladies are sending you some body language to show you what you are doing wrong...
Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by bayulll01(m): 10:11am On Feb 12, 2015
charijee:
Men started the cheating game.....ladies are only reciprocating shocked
and its makes it right abi,very soon u will want to become a mother this is how you want to train ur kids abi
Re: I RATHER DIE SINGLE THAN GET MARRIED by martolux(m): 10:12am On Feb 12, 2015
searching4love:




Statistics shows women cheats the most in Nigeria
do you have written references for that?

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