Bros! 3yrs ago no far Oo....that's 2013 na...well, Family comes first tho..she may be very nice & all that now..but believe me, your bro might not see her in that light, infact he'll want to prove it to u that she's not as loyal as she claims to be. + whenever they meet, sparks of d past re-ignite, esp d very crazy moments. In d end, u'll have trust issues & then, u might get urself heartbroken. Maybe we might not get u explicitly, but I think d only person's opinion u need before going in, is that of your bro. He might know her better than u & he might reveal his own perception about her...u can then take ur decision 4rm!

tolexy007:
ko si nkan to fi n seyan....aye n se ru e

hummmmmmm

Harinholar:
hummmmmmm

beeni bye gone is bye gone

Lordabas:

She's grown up now & ready to start a meaningful relationship.
Tenks

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its obvious u already made up your mind. so why ask for advice?

Capital NO.

When there are excess out there. Smhss

am a living witness to dis,but mine was with my cousin,only DAT mine dated my cuz for few wks b4 dey separated,@1st wen I heard I Left her for few weeks but after going tru her attitude and character towards me and comparing how encouraging/supporting/loving she has been,and considering that shes even 18yrs old den,and checking the ties between me and my cuz which was later accused of rape and sexually harassing ladies home and abroad, am thanking God that I chose her...dis yr will make it the 8th year anniversary of our relationship...

tolexy007:
ko si nkan to fi n seyan....aye n se ru e

Omo Yoruba pon bele lele yi o.

Hmmm...... family matter....go ahead... date her... then marry her ..... and get a kid .... then your very friends and yourself wouldn't be sure if the kid is yours .... your elder brother's.... your yunger brother's.....do you have cousins? The girl has no problem sleeping with other family members... look before you leap.

Mikwus:


Did you read it well, he said slept with.........why not ask if it was a one night stand after a party. Then you can advise rightly

I have made my submission! Keep you your view.

Marc9:


All I have to say to you kiddo, go and see the 'John Wick' movie! Or 'Exodus..kings and gods' movie, take note of the last plague.

make d plague fire ur whole family

Lordabas:
just found out now before it got serious or we started dating that she slept with my brother 3yrs ago. She has been very honest with me about how she was wild partying hard, very young and naive.i think i got a thing for her and by her actions of late to me and words of other people i think she's a very nice girl. Whatever actions people had in the past with her when i wasn't involved i tell them to leave it in the past i dont care
To be honest with all of you i really don't care but i think some strong feelings are clouding full judgement

...I and my brother still get along great together

Ok Would appreciate some helpful insight

op. My only qstn to yu is... Did she knw dt yu n ur broda were related. If yes, dnt go ahead. If no... Den dnt let d past ruin ur future or present probably.

For me oo no I can't, y wuld I date a girl my bro once has xex wit, mehn!! Dats disgusting... Nothing can come in between me and my blood not even a girl. He for better if I no knw d people wey she don bang before me

CoolKizzy:
Okafor's Theorem

lol. Bro, yu mek me laf lyk say laughing gas na oxygen

Different strokes. Me and my brother have bleeped 4 girls. Guy its called tru pass.

So because the both of us came out through the same route, we'd now have to enter through the same route again?

No, baby, let my brother maintain his route. I'd find mine.

Which girl will date 2 brothers self? lolz

Lizabeth25:
Which girl will date 2 brothers self? lolz

Shameless and desperate one

Akuchima:
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its obvious u already made up your mind. so why ask for advice?

Abi ooo

this is the problem am having with my elder bro now,my bro is planning to marry a girl i have dated 3months ago,i knew the girl through my bro but i asked my bro if he was interested in the girl b4 i went in and he said they were just friends,now that i have gone and come out my bro start indicating interest to worsten the matter he wants to marry the girl,he knew when i was dting her and even when we broke up,i have tried talking to my bro but he wouldnt listen

its complicated

Nah! I won't as this may result to conflict in the future.Nah! I won't as this may result to conflict in the future.Nah! I won't as this may result to conflict in the future.

Marc9:
A brother I shared almost everything with while growing up.... my shirt, my shoes, my hats, my cream, my cologne, just name it.

So what's so unacceptable about this, if I found out my fiancee had an affair with my brother?

Well, people's perceptions are different. What a chimp would understand, a monkey might not.

You are joking right?

NEVER

Lordabas:
just found out now before it got serious or we started dating that she slept with my brother 3yrs ago. She has been very honest with me about how she was wild partying hard, very young and naive.i think i got a thing for her and by her actions of late to me and words of other people i think she's a very nice girl. Whatever actions people had in the past with her when i wasn't involved i tell them to leave it in the past i dont care
To be honest with all of you i really don't care but i think some strong feelings are clouding full judgement

...I and my brother still get along great together

Ok Would appreciate some helpful insight

OP, you are a fool,
if you don't end the relationship now, be ready to hate your brother forever. Two major things that destroy good relationship among guys
1. money
2. woman
she told you because she knew that you will certainly find out either now or later, run for your life. sex is a sacred act, as long as they see each other, nothing is impossible.

...kaî!your sexual act will get emotional. your brother's face could be seen thru your face.

for me, e no go sweet me if I know the guy that has/is tidying up my fyiokM8. it will look like I'm rubbing my rod with a fellow man's own.

just like two people sharing a toothpick.

tpwealth:
You are joking right?

You fellas keep missing the point. Dating a lady who my brother dated(slept with) in the past is no different from dating any other lady some other guys not related to me have dated.

No laws of attraction or tradition tags it a taboo to date my brother's ex!

dajoaneke:
babe, I don't know how its done in space, here on earth its different. Do u know that the same love can make her go after the younger brother? ... Pardon my monkey brain but it seem like you've been in this kinda mess before. No lie o.

no...i have never been in such a situation, am just giving my thoughts on d whole issue

Lordabas:
just found out now before it got serious or we started dating that she slept with my brother 3yrs ago. She has been very honest with me about how she was wild partying hard, very young and naive.i think i got a thing for her and by her actions of late to me and words of other people i think she's a very nice girl. Whatever actions people had in the past with her when i wasn't involved i tell them to leave it in the past i dont care
To be honest with all of you i really don't care but i think some strong feelings are clouding full judgement

...I and my brother still get along great together

Ok Would appreciate some helpful insight

...u don't like punnnny? ...bro how lonng u been g@y?

hmmmm it depends if truly she is my wife i will

I used to think this is possible but now I've figured out it's not, so hell no I won't date her.
She will always f.uck your brother. Talk of Okafor's law taking hold of them once they become close again.