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Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by charlesdibiat(m): 11:00am On Mar 17, 2015

u ar a cow

Karlman:
Thanks for your oafish tripe!

Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by leezbebe(f): 11:01am On Mar 17, 2015

nicerichard05:
[/color]All I see in this Write up is WAS. Lolz, babe ur case serious pass mama peace own.

nicerichard05:
[color=#990000]All I see in this Write up is WAS. Lolz, babe ur case serious pass mama peace own.

she dey try form american slang... Olodo oshi..

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Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by jiggar(m): 11:03am On Mar 17, 2015

After reading so many comments, I have decided to pen down my views. @op, I will be writing from two angles. one from the Bible angle and the other, from the average common sense angle. However, I am not here to judge or condemn you. Judgment is the sole responsibility of God and not man.
First, the Bible angle. The Bible warns us to stay away from premarital sex. But, unfortunately, we are all guilty of this and the best you can do now, is to ask God for forgiveness, He is always ready to help us out, even when we deliberately go astray, myself included. Pls, don't add more future destroying acts, by carrying out an abortion. Let me also add that, the woman that was brought to Jesus, for committing adultery, never got ridiculed and rejected by Jesus, rather He told her to go and sin no more. So, this is my take on the Bible angle.
For the common sense angle, I suggest you stop messing around with girls and keep yourself in check. Strive to get a small job, regardless of the pay, be prudent in your spendings and mind the kind of company you keep. You can also tell all of us here, the kind of qualifications you have or if you are skilled in any particular field.
I hope, I have been able to pass a little message and I want to say sorry, if you feel I sound judgmental.
God help you, your woman and more importantly, the unborn child.

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Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Praktikals(m): 11:07am On Mar 17, 2015

Pls keep the innocent baby. May the good lord bless your hustle IJN.

Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by luluosas(m): 11:07am On Mar 17, 2015

Karlman:
I need some sound advice from sound minds. My girlfriend is three weeks pregnant as I am typing to you. From the depth of my heart and soul I want to keep the pregnancy but I am unemployed and really broke. And when I think of my financial status and what would be required to nurse and deliver a babe, I am tempted to think of doing the unthinkable. But I am so drawn to this pregnancy and the baby in it. The way it came to me and the time it came to me and how I can already feel its presence even when its only a three week old cluster of blood, left me in perpetual amazement. This is not the first time a girlfriend would be pregnant for me, but never at any of the times have I felt as connected with them as I feel with this particular one. In the past cases I have always done the otherwise and moved on without blinking an eye but now I can't even lift a finger against this child. But how will I weather the storm of unemployment+pregnant babe+baby on the way? Already I can't sleep no more, staying up all night and day thinking on how to get all the miles covered.

Thanks for your time!

First, you have no right to have sexual affairs when you are not legally pronounced married, as sex is the preserved of the married couples ONLY. Secondly you have no right killing souls you can never give life to.
Now that your manhood refused to learn sense and you've gone again to have unlawful sex with a woman, you must bear the pregnancy and ensure that the baby is delivered safe and sound after nine months of the pregnancy. As for your joblessness, it is no excuse for you to be used by the devil to commit abortion again after you survived the previous ones you committed. Whatever that you are eating and surviving on today will also sustain the child when he is finally delivered.
If you need further counsel especially in the area of your joblessness, reach me on 08144845524 and let's discuss. Who knows, something good might come out of it. Thank you and GOD bless.

Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by fairygeh(f): 11:07am On Mar 17, 2015

wristwatch:
I hate tribalism comment. Does it mean we don't have the lazy ones among igbos and other tribe?

Besides ur comment is wicked.

Are u minding the fool saying yoruba? He is daft na

Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Wendy80(f): 11:10am On Mar 17, 2015

rokiatu:
If you was dumb enough to have unprotected sex when you are not ready for a child yet then your stupidity is beyond measure. My only advice is to stop wasting time thinking so much and go look for any kind of work for that matter even if you have to clean shoes. You are going to be a father congrats in advance. When you was hitting it raw and enjoying yourself, you didn't think about this day abi? When you was c..umming in her, you had no idea there was a thing call,pregnancy right? And the morning after you and your dumb gf couldn't think of a thing call "the morning after pill" ni? Well you see God give us a brain for a reason, if you can't think and make logical decisions you will be left to face the consequences.

Welcome to the real world.

Advice he sought for not insult Dearie. U did well without d insult.

Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by 9cbaby(f): 11:11am On Mar 17, 2015

rokiatu:
If you was dumb enough to have unprotected sex when you are not ready for a child yet then your stupidity is beyond measure. My only advice is to stop wasting time thinking so much and go look for any kind of work for that matter even if you have to clean shoes. You are going to be a father congrats in advance. When you was hitting it raw and enjoying yourself, you didn't think about this day abi? When you was c..umming in her, you had no idea there was a thing call,pregnancy right? And the morning after you and your dumb gf couldn't think of a thing call "the morning after pill" ni? Well you see God give us a brain for a reason, if you can't think and make logical decisions you will be left to face the consequences.must u abuse him?he only need your advice

Welcome to the real world.

Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by bullabong(m): 11:11am On Mar 17, 2015

Karlman:
I need some sound advice from sound minds. My girlfriend is three weeks pregnant as I am typing to you. From the depth of my heart and soul I want to keep the pregnancy but I am unemployed and really broke. And when I think of my financial status and what would be required to nurse and deliver a babe, I am tempted to think of doing the unthinkable. But I am so drawn to this pregnancy and the baby in it. The way it came to me and the time it came to me and how I can already feel its presence even when its only a three week old cluster of blood, left me in perpetual amazement. This is not the first time a girlfriend would be pregnant for me, but never at any of the times have I felt as connected with them as I feel with this particular one. In the past cases I have always done the otherwise and moved on without blinking an eye but now I can't even lift a finger against this child. But how will I weather the storm of unemployment+pregnant babe+baby on the way? Already I can't sleep no more, staying up all night and day thinking on how to get all the miles covered.

Thanks for your time!

let the baby grow and look for work to do and see how God will surprise u.This may be ur last chance at being a father u know.

Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by chidi4sam(m): 11:14am On Mar 17, 2015

rokiatu:
If you was dumb enough to have unprotected sex when you are not ready for a child yet then your stupidity is beyond measure. My only advice is to stop wasting time thinking so much and go look for any kind of work for that matter even if you have to clean shoes. You are going to be a father congrats in advance. When you was hitting it raw and enjoying yourself, you didn't think about this day abi? When you was c..umming in her, you had no idea there was a thing call,pregnancy right? And the morning after you and your dumb gf couldn't think of a thing call "the morning after pill" ni? Well you see God give us a brain for a reason, if you can't think and make logical decisions you will be left to face the consequences.

Welcome to the real world.

. Like seriously? I can't fathom out what she's really trying to communicate. Some1 should please help me interpret this Arabic comment. OLODO.

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Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by akubudejud(m): 11:14am On Mar 17, 2015

..What advice are you expecting form any body after the did is done, if you are able to impregnate her without asking for the advice or consent of any one then you must be ready for the consequences too ...simple!

WHAT A QUESTION!!!

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Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by ElziLaz(m): 11:17am On Mar 17, 2015

Guy,let her have the baby. Don't kill what you can't create. Have the baby while you trust God to help you. You on the other hand should try hard to get something doin. The Lord is your strength.

Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Wendy80(f): 11:17am On Mar 17, 2015

runzlord:
seriously there are more kind words to use and still pass your message.

I tire oh.
Imagine calling even d girlfriend dumb.
No1 is above mistake.

Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Nobody: 11:18am On Mar 17, 2015

@Karlman....keep that baby.tommorrow wld takecare of it self.

Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by bluebarz(m): 11:20am On Mar 17, 2015

Keep that baby. It has the right to live, is gonna be tough but trust me it's worth it in the end. #Talking from experience...

Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by UnimkeAk(m): 11:21am On Mar 17, 2015

InestamablJewel:
TRASH, MY BROTHER NO BODY WILL HATE YOU, RATHER THEY RESPECT YOU EVEN MORE KNOWING YOU HAD THE PRIVILEDGE TO GET RID OF IT AND DIDNT, THEY WILL RATHER HATE YOU IF THEY LEARN YOU ABORTED THEIR GRAND CHILD, COS ITS A SIGN OF IRRESPONSIBLITY, A CLUSTER OF BLOOD THAT MOST LIKELY WILL BE BETTER THAN EVEN BOTH THE SITTING PRESIDENT AND INTENDED PRESIDENT OF THIS GREAT COUNTRY.

WHAT ARE THE ODDS; THAT CHILD COULD ALSO GROW UP TO BE THE "BANE OF HIS SOCIETY".

The OP is not ready and he should abort that cluster of blood while it is not yet late.

Or will u link him up or give him a job.

Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by k9ine(m): 11:27am On Mar 17, 2015

@ Karlman
Let me keep it brief by not writing you an epistle.
I do not know what religion or faith you practice, but Premarital sex is wrong and sinful. It surprises me you say other girls had been pregnant for you before now.
You have committed one wrong, don't commit another wrong by aborting the baby. In all honesty you will never forgive yourself from the very moment you abort.
Force your third-leg to remain where it is. Get something tangible doing. What does your lady do, schooling or working?
Both of you must decide to keep the baby and plan towards the birth of the baby.
For counsel, you may visit a Catholic Convent, the Sisters would give you good advice and direction.

Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Wendy80(f): 11:30am On Mar 17, 2015

Online peeps playing all Holy like they live a perfect life. I wonder what people gain insulting people all in d name of posting comments or giving advise.
If u can insult someone online (u don't even know) that means U are ill-mannered and unhappy with ur own life.
That said, OP get a job no matter how little.

Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by verygudbadguy(m): 11:36am On Mar 17, 2015*

sauceny:
Three weeks old pregnancy & you believe in lazy ness,you sound like a dumb lazy yoruba boi....So you believe you can't do anything or find a job before the baby is born¿

My friend go & sit down

#SayNoToTribalism #AdviseAndNotCrucify

@OP I got married and had a baby without a job. I got my present job 3 months after having that baby. My life has never remained the same ever since.
Pray, Fast, do whatever will make you attract God's mercy and favour and He will surprise you with a job soonest.

Do not abort that glorious child. Stay blessed!

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Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by ribbit: 11:39am On Mar 17, 2015

KashyBaby:
Have tat baby see the world coz u never know, one day this baby cud b a scientist, artist or even a president...they r the most amazing creatures in the world...so no matter wat, even if ur broke now, never pull this baby out...instead u stand up,find a job and raise ur family...
Goood luck to u.

the baby could also become armed robber, scam artist, psychopath or roadside skank if he or she is not well taken care off..

Poster, don't bring a baby into the world to suffer.

Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by MrCork: 11:41am On Mar 17, 2015

Karlman:
I need some sound advice from sound minds. My girlfriend is three weeks pregnant as I am typing to you. From the depth of my heart and soul I want to keep the pregnancy but I am unemployed and really broke. And when I think of my financial status and what would be required to nurse and deliver a babe, I am tempted to think of doing the unthinkable. But I am so drawn to this pregnancy and the baby in it. The way it came to me and the time it came to me and how I can already feel its presence even when its only a three week old cluster of blood, left me in perpetual amazement. This is not the first time a girlfriend would be pregnant for me, but never at any of the times have I felt as connected with them as I feel with this particular one. In the past cases I have always done the otherwise and moved on without blinking an eye but now I can't even lift a finger against this child. But how will I weather the storm of unemployment+pregnant babe+baby on the way? Already I can't sleep no more, staying up all night and day thinking on how to get all the miles covered.

Thanks for your time!

......babies??..... cant stand babies..... ABORT!!!! (no ofeeinse) angry

Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by princerhema: 11:44am On Mar 17, 2015

Karlman:
She does a little job

when she threw her legs wild apart for for u to climb dat resaulted to her pregnancy did any of us know? Did u tell any of us? Guy respect your self now grin

na wetin ur yard stick bring for u. So manege am

Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by zeongeon: 11:45am On Mar 17, 2015

swaggzo:
As a coded guy, if you cum inside your girl, you get those emergency contraception pills for her the next morning.
I Wonder why this Guy just lose guard anyhow.
it's really a tough decision to make.

No mind that man..to to sweet am sote him forget say e get brain.

Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by joseph1832(m): 11:47am On Mar 17, 2015

b0rn2fuck:
a guy called Mobuch has been telling everyone on nairaland that he slept with you, this is blackmailing or else he eventually did. I would have pm you but my pm iss not going anymore. This matter no concern but as per na rokiatu, the tin go pain me for body small

Bros no tell me say you don dey take that yeye scallywag mobuch seriously oh! Everybody no say him na fool for her and him sabi lie. Check him profile you go see say him say na Norway him base when him tell us say him dey Owerri dey do TAN work for Jonathan.

Mobuch too dey lie. No take am serious.

Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Nobody: 11:49am On Mar 17, 2015

Why should someone call a fellow Nairalander dumb angry

but stupidity is ur rank , anyone can him or herself in any situation u never thought of but how will u feel when someone condemn u or raise words at u angry

how is it ur biz if he impregnates his gf and if dey don't want each other dey won't go that far so pls release ur mode of sense activity grin

and be not a tanoids grin

Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by AshantiDimaria(f): 11:50am On Mar 17, 2015

When you were entring in to d jerusalem did u remember dt u are unemployed? Foolish you

Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Nobody: 11:51am On Mar 17, 2015

zeongeon:
No mind that man..to to sweet am sote him forget say e get brain.

u sef no f**k, no be u give charity belle come date chinaka grin

Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by kandiikane(m): 11:51am On Mar 17, 2015

To those saying don't abort the child it could be a scientist etc? How certain are you, especially in your country and economy. Children are more likely to be born in poverty, suffer in poverty, die in poverty than become a scientist. What if the baby is the type who is born to be in such unfortunate situations? I know you would probably tell me back to sender but it's not a curse but reality.

Right now, he wants to keep the embryo but once the baby comes will he actually stick around to be a father? So many men have felt such connections in the beginning but started feeling disconnection at the latter stages of the pregnancy or a couple of months after the child is born.

Weigh the pros and cons of having that child but the first question to ask is, are you ready to be a father, to take up responsibility from now until it's born, through to it growing up and becoming an adult. For life?

You better start hustling for a job and get one before the Fetus is 3months. If you are to abort, don't delay, do it ASAP.

BUT why don't you use condoms though, imagine the diseases that could be hidden in just one person? If your girlfriend decides to keep the baby, take her for a general std test, they can affect pregnancy.

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Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Nobody: 11:54am On Mar 17, 2015

ribbit:
the baby could also become armed robber, scam artist, psychopath or roadside skank if he or she is not well taken care off..

Poster, don't bring a baby into the world to suffer.

av u ribbit ur brain, how can say such things to an innocent child, I reject it for that baby sho shocked

kaikaii dey ur blood dis early momo

Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by zeongeon: 11:55am On Mar 17, 2015

adeekiti:
u sef no f**k, no be u give charity belle come date chinaka

bros remember say nah u and me charity they Bleep that season ooh...e fit be say nah u give am belle ooh cos she dey always talk how one ade guy from ekiti dey skin dive am... Lolzzz..lol

Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by Nobody: 11:55am On Mar 17, 2015

ribbit:
the baby could also become armed robber, scam artist, psychopath or roadside skank if he or she is not well taken care off..

Poster, don't bring a baby into the world to suffer.

i fit break ur head with cold bottle in ruggedman's voice grin

Re: My Babe Is Pregnant And Am Unemployed; Should I Keep The Baby? by docconceptscom: 11:55am On Mar 17, 2015

just keep it d baby,all things work 4 good for who know their GOD

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