emusmith:


Wow...I'm happy for you both

My dear na God ooh. Tnx

Toks2008:


And wat if he has no money at the moment to move to a self contain yet interested in settling down with you?

Would u insist he gets money at all cost to move out or you manage with him?

No bae,I don't c my self As a liability kinda of wife,he's income with myn should be able to get us a decent apartment,m nt against the self contain stuff all m saying is the type of environment d house is situated

mirexxx:
yeah!

that means you don't want to marry, in abuja you can hardly find a young working class guy who is not living in a self contain...
So please delete that impression from ya mind cos you'll only day dream till you get old and desperate.. Here is one thing you don't know, when you marry a guy from the scratch and stay with him till he gets to higher levels believe me he'll respect you forever!!!

Iamsynord:
Expantiate on the term " Self Contain "

r u a lady?

Jarus:
Self contain pass self-contain o

Self contain for Lekki, pass 3 bedroom for Ikorodu.

abi,lol

Yes I can, some ladies saying no may be living in a room apartment with their family. Everyone claim posh on social media. I don't blame them, I blame you guys that would call a ugly girl beautiful here in nl, making them feel on top of the world.

samsonbazy:
u won't but u are presently living in face me and slap u

hahaha,I no fit laugh o

First ask urself where she dey stay b4 I meet her nah Op if she no fit stay d doooor open wild jor 4 d next lady who can stay jor

Hmmmm,is cool thou but I can add to it n we get a room n parlor,afterall we r one,for privacy atleast.

sure rome is not built in a day

sure

Wonder if ladies will even settle down with guy who works in the same state with his parents and stays with them :/

mirexxx:
nobody cares what you think! d op asked a question and i answered so mind your business

Take it easy, we are not fighting. Have peace.

2dice:

lol..@ you can't suffer with a man..
And if he marries you when he his made.. Do you think you are worth him?

I worth him,if also ve my own money,so I won't look like a gold digger to him,the thing is just dat,it got to an extent I can suffer with a man,talking frm experience,so,I don wise up

its hard for a girl to live with a guy in his BQ, Girls are after money and not love

Ofcourse, as a matter of fact my folks had less than dt in there own tym, bt steadily they grew in strenght n in riches as d years went by n today I'm reaping the fruit of their labor.

ginawest:
i gladly will....as far as dre z a roof ova my head,d type of ouz doesn't matter.

Liar.. just looked at ur pics now.. ur kind of girl can not/will not stay in any kind of house... be truthful

Yes U make sense as for odas wit their comments many of them wll stll remain single for life

ginawest:
i gladly will....as far as dre z a roof ova my head,d type of ouz doesn't matter.

ginawest:
i gladly will....as far as dre z a roof ova my head,d type of ouz doesn't matter.

This got my attention.u are an example of a virtuos woman as explained in the bible.

ginawest:
i gladly will....as far as dre z a roof ova my head,d type of ouz doesn't matter.

Aawwwwww! This got me.. I like you already. pple like u are always lucky.

Dont wast your time trying to impress a lady that has got no added value, you may crumble under the burden

mimiejacobz:


No bae,I don't c my self As a liability kinda of wife,he's income with myn should be able to get us a decent apartment,m nt against the self contain stuff all m saying is the type of environment d house is situated

A good thing you are willing to support.

Many ladies will end up been unmarried for many years if they are unwilling to start with a hustling guy from the scratch.

check out 95% of our celebrities n check the lady they married n you will realize that these ladies hve been with them when they were nobody as in nobody.

Ladies should please undstnd that.

btw that bae word though...

Viciyus:


Poooovvvvvveeeeeeeeeerrrrrrrrrrrrrrttttttttttttttttttyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

Back to sender!

U

Toks2008:


The point is about availability of funds.

If the guy has money for a duplex n can sustain the rent fine n good but not that the lady must insist on getting a bigger apartmnt at all cost expecially when the children have not started coming in.

life is about planning and yes i agree that a lady who will not mind staying in even a room face me i face you is a potential home maker.

And any girl who minds is not a homemaker? That's just a fallacy coz even those who don't mind might just be desperate to get married and give you a headache in your self con

So that assumption is a lil bit myopic. No offense...

mirexxx:
No i won't

No u won't?......how old are u?

Any private university girl dat says yes.. Na thunder go fire you.... una wen dem don plan marriages for...

MojAyo:
I worth him,if also ve my own money,so I won't look like a gold digger to him,the thing is just dat,it got to an extent I can suffer with a man,talking frm experience,so,I don wise up

hmnn what if he has to get married first before he start making it

Adaeze003:


Nope! It's just room kitchen and toilet...


Mehn... I aint asking for too much but self contain we can as well join resources n get a proper apartment...

Some people just wishing hardship on themselves just to look good on nl... and telling fairy tales up and down. yes, I know people who rose from grass to grace but some didn't too! It's life, that you're poor today doesn't give you license to be rich tomorrow... lets tell ourselves the truth sometimes...

If you go into such with the mindset of "self con today, duplex tomorrow" and the duplex doesn't come you will get frustrated! #fact so before you go ahead to wish yourself hardship, you better tell yourself that it may stay that way forever then if duplex comes, fine.

Lemme not forget to say that women now work(for those still living in 1914). Work and try to get the things you want biko. And if his ego is too huge that he won't let you contribute, he's adviced to use that huge ego and refuse to live in a self con as well.

Well said. Its not everyone who is poor now that will be rich tomorrow. I know a relative who allowed a man to move into a single room in her father's house. This couple have been married for over 30 years and all through their years in marriage uptil this moment they are still living in that single room with grown children. Bottomline is accepting a guy who has clear visions, clear goals and he is on the path to achieving them.
For example a guy living in face me i slap you but he is writing ICAN, investing into professional courses and anything that will make him to achieve his clear set goals. Not some lazy chap wasting his youth with bad friends or in a drinking bar.

ginawest:
i gladly will....as far as dre z a roof ova my head,d type of ouz doesn't matter.

Ifahear!

Adaeze003:


Nope! It's just room kitchen and toilet...


Mehn... I aint asking for too much but self contain we can as well join resources n get a proper apartment...

Some people just wishing hardship on themselves just to look good on nl... and telling fairy tales up and down. yes, I know people who rose from grass to grace but some didn't too! It's life, that you're poor today doesn't give you license to be rich tomorrow... lets tell ourselves the truth sometimes...

If you go into such with the mindset of "self con today, duplex tomorrow" and the duplex doesn't come you will get frustrated! #fact so before you go ahead to wish yourself hardship, you better tell yourself that it may stay that way forever then if duplex comes, fine.

Lemme not forget to say that women now work(for those still living in 1914). Work and try to get the things you want biko. And if his ego is too huge that he won't let you contribute, he's adviced to use that huge ego and refuse to live in a self con as well.

we still have ladies that see beyond their noses on NL, I'm thrilled

crowns2:

Well said. Its not everyone who is poor now that will be rich tomorrow. I know a relative who allowed a man to move into a single room in her father's house. This couple have been married for over 30 years and all through their years in marriage uptil this moment they are still living in that single room with grown children. Bottomline is accepting a guy who has clear visions, clear goals and he is on the path to achieving them.
For example a guy living in face me i slap you but he is writing ICAN, investing into professional courses and anything that will make him to achieve his clear set goals. Not some lazy chap wasting his youth with bad friends or in a drinking bar.

Now that's a relief.... someone agrees... some girls can't take the truth...

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Some people are more interested in a house than a home.

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