martineverest:
A lady dat cannot live with u even if u live inside gutter should not be ur wife.....if she cannot manage,au revoir.no 2 ways about it.

exactly. That's why I love my wife everyday. She was there when I was nothing before I became something. I don't have space for nonsense in my life. If you can't love me now don't love me later when my later is much greater cos it's obvious she only wants the paper. People ask me why I married a white girl and not a Nigerian girl. My reply is always this. That none of them can match up to her now and in a million years to come. White girls marry for true love and your not pocket.

pbs4real:
sowie 2 say dis,i tink u stil gat a lot 2 learn abt life*no offence*

Babies everywhere

2dice:

and if he doesn't agree?

This your post na wa oh...na swear dem swear for the man be that.

goofyone:
The art of Nigerian English. Oh Christ!

What's wrong?

hmmmmmm


interesting comments

i believe in humble beginnings

mimiejacobz:


lol, is dt y u had draw my attention to it by sending me 3 mention's,evry1 can't be lyk u my dear, they askd for opinion n I gave mine if u can do it doesn't mean I can as well,no point pretending

are u not living in batcher? Y forming?

jamex93:


any lady that cant settle down wit you in a self cont

dont worth being around your bungalow

PARA MODE

true talk

Imagine such a post coming from a guy..

Yeap! A room and parlour self contain,its no big deal,the koko be say,make you find love and peace of mind for my marriage.

emusmith:
Would you agree to "start life" with him in a self contain?

Be sincere.
Open up.

Slimzjoe:


You won't?? So I should build my Duplex before coming to Marry?

Bro don't mind the criminal

mirexxx:
your dad didn't keep your mom in a studio and you wanna live in a studio with your wife? ain't u wicked?

hahaha,vry funny

mirexxx:
a parlor,bedroom,bathroom,kitchen n store

that's not self contain, self contain is only the room, the kitchen and bedroom

True talk......westerners actually define what true luv means...meaning of 'true luv' to naija women is 'money,money,money and more money'

mulattoclaro:
exactly. That's why I love my wife everyday. She was there when I was nothing before I became something. I don't have space for nonsense in my life. If you can't love me now don't love me later when my later is much greater cos it's obvious she only wants the paper. People ask me why I married a white girl and not a Nigerian girl. My reply is always this. That none of them can match up to her now and in a million years to come. White girls marry for true love and your not pocket.

martineverest:
Go and hangursf,dude

can't really get you, what you have in mind is because many people here support the self con, I should follow same train, bro it gonna sound stupid, beside its a choice everyone has own ways to follow, I'm not forming like you said in your first post, I can't marry in self con, working hard for a better one

Na ppl like u dey quick see men to marry...thumbs up,sis

Midehi:
the most important thing here is 'true love' with the way i love him,i dont mind anywhere,even if in an uncompleted building,i will stay with him cos hes my happiness & i know with our hardwork we will go higher.

what i mean is 'anywhere...mansion, duplex,bush, under the bridge....as far as its him cos we cant do without each other.

Jarus:
Self contain pass self-contain o

Self contain for Lekki, pass 3 bedroom for Ikorodu.

serviced self contain in lekki phase 1 or ikoyi na still self-con?

wristwatch:


Some self con get levels o!

So nah massion u wan take start?

isn't it good,must u suffer all in d name of marraige.

y not as far am Hapi DAT all.

doris4u:
I don't see anything wrong wit settling wit a guy staying in a self con as far as there is love,u might not know wat d future will be.I know of a couple dat started living in just one room, few yes after d man won a lottery and they are in d USA for over 10 yes now.

You can lieeeeee


There is God ohh.

Afroconnect:

This your post na wa oh...na swear dem swear for the man be that.

me i might not..
I will work and get us abetter place

Great of u....sorry for d misunderstanding

malonephill:
can't really get you, what you have in mind is because many people here support the self con, I should follow same train, bro it gonna sound stupid, beside its a choice everyone has own ways to follow, I'm not forming like you said in your first post, I can't marry in self con, working hard for a better one

that's no question,how could you be asking such a question ? must u live in a 2/3 bdroom flat or a big house before u marry ? you have to start from some where and self contain is not bad,there pple who live in one room and build their own house so if a lady is not ready to marry u becos of dat then she is not ur woman.

emusmith:
Would you agree to "start life" with him in a self contain?

Be sincere.
Open up.

Yes I can

Bants:


All na same thing tomato and tometo

Lol. Ok.

emusmith:


Nigerian ladies forming trash...is there an undergraduate in Nigeria who doesn't understand what a "selfcon" is?

Lol, Maybe she doesn't know for real.

ginawest:
i gladly will....as far as dre z a roof ova my head,d type of ouz doesn't matter.

Godbless u, may God provide u all ur heart desires. I smell Wife material in u, keep it up.

do ur father have a duplex ?

mirexxx:
No i won't

Midehi:
the most important thing here is 'true love' with the way i love him,i dont mind anywhere,even if in an uncompleted building,i will stay with him cos hes my happiness & i know with our hardwork we will go higher.

what i mean is 'anywhere...mansion, duplex,bush, under the bridge....as far as its him cos we cant do without each other.

You are a real and wealthy woman base on your writing.


For nairaland, you can easily know poverty women and wealthy one

2dice:

bae.. some suffering can Edit LOVE

the love go clear kia kia,can u eat love,its nt only about love,its also about money

emusmith:
Would you agree to "start life" with him in a self contain?

Be sincere.
Open up.

Yes, I can. We can start from there and hopefully move into our own house in the future.

Why not ma dear? I am an example. I and ma huby actually started our lives in a self contain. I gave birth to our first child in a self contain. Life was not rily rosy for us then after our wedding, after one yr huby got a well paid job and we saved to purchase a land. I managed his money for him (since he's a heavy spender) and still does dat till now, after d purchase of land we still continue saving to bulid, and today we are proud owners of a four bedroom flat in Ph. We moved from dat "self contain" to our own house dis yr. In lyf u do not look at where u are, but look at where u will be, only if u remain focused without pursuing unnecessary things and trust in God. Spend wisely and above all, marry who u love & who loves u cos she can stay whereva u are as long as u are there with her also

mirexxx:
No i won't

You just define the meaning of poverty yourself.

You are suffering from poverty