Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,152,356 members, 7,815,756 topics. Date: Thursday, 02 May 2024 at 05:45 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? (28279 Views)
VIDEO: Secondary School Students Caught Doing It Right In The Class / What Name Did You Save Your Partner's Contact With? / Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by chrischuks2(m): 10:14am On Apr 22, 2015 |
No it isn't right . Although I'm paranoiac. I have done that before, promise myself never to do so again. From my experience its better you let things be. You will end up destroying your relationship, because you might not be able to live with your findings. |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Nobody: 10:19am On Apr 22, 2015 |
sinaj:baby, wahrapen |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Nobody: 10:38am On Apr 22, 2015 |
Orijin101:eeyah |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by bouquiy(f): 10:44am On Apr 22, 2015 |
it's wrong, indulging in it is a sign of insecurity and lack of trust towards one's partner |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by danbrowndmf(m): 10:54am On Apr 22, 2015 |
Twacitell me ur own opinion.do u monitor ur bf like dat?. |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Twaci(f): 10:58am On Apr 22, 2015 |
danbrowndmf:I can't lie...I do get tempted... |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by danbrowndmf(m): 11:04am On Apr 22, 2015 |
Twaci:The reason i dnt do luv stuff for now. Student like ous should nt be daten,bcus if u try ask question,the bea will be like "can you take care of my needs" |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by sinaj(f): 12:30pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
Orijin101: norin rapen |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by kinglekan: 1:32pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
TheSonOfMark: Hunger can make one read things in reverse. Just re-read it. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by kinglekan: 1:41pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
naijaboiy: Well said bruv!! You second para says it all quite simply. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by ofpeaceandroyal: 2:47pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
If you ever feel like you have the need to snoop, then you should. Trust is a very important thing - and so is intuition. I wouldn't snoop if I felt I had no reason to. If I did feel like something was up - I would snoop. by snooping you can save yourself from an even nastier situation. If you have the relationship that "all things are open" and there's no reason not to trust each other, its good for the both of you. Anyone who doesnt have something to hide wont accuse the partner of monitoring, the would see it as a part of care and watching over them. Your monitoring sometimes doesnt have to do with insecurities, there is always a side of your partner that you never know or which they reveal better to other people, and sometimes from there you can correct their mistakes or advise them rightfully on some things they are up to. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by naijaboiy: 2:58pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
ofpeaceandroyal:Exactly! 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Deejavuu(f): 3:53pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
TheSonOfMark: |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by WackyJ1(m): 9:08pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
I use to do this once, I checked and I saw evidences that broke my heart. I then tried to correct and all that but then she cried for her "privacy". I wasn't wrong, my only mistake was letting her know what I had found. Snooping is not a matter of insecurities, mistrust and bla bla bla. Most times these girls are not to be trusted, they almost always get up to some mischief. They hide it so well that the only way to find out is to see a slip up somewhere in an inbox, whatsapp or BBM. Checking her messages is not to be done all the time because it results in needless headache. But it needs to be done once in a while so that you do not get fooled into thinking that you're a relationship of commitment and trust when the girl is playing pranks behind you. When you check and you find something suspicious and not right, it's not the time to correct, it is the time to reassess. It's not the time to start preaching sermon to the girl but the time to know that that countdown to the end of the relationship is at hand. 8 Likes |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by fajani(m): 10:35pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
Nothing is bad.... I am not afraid of the storm cos I am learning how to sail my ship |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Nobody: 10:51pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
MONITORING YOUR PARTNER SOLVES NOTHING RATHER IT IS A RECIPE FOR HBP TO THE SELF EMPLOYED MONITORER. |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by kindnyce(m): 9:54pm On May 01, 2015 |
ITS ALRIGHT,TO KEEP AN EYE ON HER.. BUT TO SPY ON HER,,MEN THATS SOMETHING ELSE BETTER GET HER TO KNOW EACH OTHER BETTER LEARN TO TRUST AND APPRECIATE EACH OTHER |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Nobody: 9:54pm On May 01, 2015 |
It's the insecure babes that monitors their men even to the toilet.! A lady who knows her place in the life of her man won't waste her time on things like that because she knows that no matter how many side chick's her man has, he will always come back to her. #justsayingmymind# |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Truckpusher(m): 9:55pm On May 01, 2015 |
Twaci:Only jobless people do that. If you think she's cheating on you , you simply create the environment for her to cheat and catch her red handed. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Nobody: 9:57pm On May 01, 2015 |
just don't get caught... or else that might be the end of the relationship. |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Jcob(m): 9:58pm On May 01, 2015 |
Rokiatu!!! |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Ekugbeh(m): 9:58pm On May 01, 2015 |
I hate tho |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by mystiqueDZ(f): 9:58pm On May 01, 2015 |
YES and NO |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Ekugbeh(m): 9:58pm On May 01, 2015 |
I hate it tho |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by austinesteve(m): 9:58pm On May 01, 2015 |
monitoring spirit abi?....***in PEJ's voice*** "continue until u see wat ur not suppose to see"....give ur partner space, i feel love should be built on trust and tolerance. instead of monitoring him or her like monitoring lizard. |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by hardbody: 10:00pm On May 01, 2015 |
What the eye does not see the heart does not grieve over. Surpress the urge to know and you will live happy and longer. |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Nobody: 10:01pm On May 01, 2015 |
naijaboiy: Exactly!! 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by fajani(m): 10:02pm On May 01, 2015 |
you know nothing..... it is right mehn, |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by chi4ik4(m): 10:03pm On May 01, 2015 |
it's very good to monitor your partner o because if u don't hold what u have very tight, another person will carry it. but monitor with maturity not like a kid. I monitor my babe rigidly & it's been helping me in my relationship because if u give ur babe free hand, she can even date 5 guys at the same time 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by charlsecy(m): 10:04pm On May 01, 2015 |
What if they infect you because you didn't monitor them and therefore didn't take the necessary precautions? 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by Nobody: 10:05pm On May 01, 2015 |
TheSonOfMark:You ma nigga |
Re: Is It Right To "Monitor" Your Partner? by naijaboiy: 10:05pm On May 01, 2015 |
AgapeCharis: |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (Reply)
Pre-Wedding Photos Of A Nairalander With His Wife To Be / 10 Budget Friendly Things To Get For Your Partner This Valentine's Day / How To Catch A Cheating Girlfirend Using Whatsapp Web.
Viewing this topic: 1 guest(s)
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 47 |