babyfaceafrica:
I will like to know your opinion...in my own opinion...he who has no skeleton in his cupboard has nothing to fear.....my lady can check anything she likes..if she hinders me from checking hers..she is out..just like that!!

AgapeCharis:
Don't worry. Remain cool with him cheating with the idea that he'll always come back to you until he starts getting more satisfaction outside. Until he starts sharing and giving you less attention.

I've heard that word a couple of times. I wonder where it came from.

Lizabeth25:
After reading your comment, I had to confirm if you are a HE or SHE. Because I'm disappointed that this kind of comment will come from a guy. Maybe your age is allowing not to understand something about matured MEN and Nature.

Let me put you through.....you see, men have different reasons for staying with different ladies. Some guys believes that a particular babe makes him feel cool, another makes him feel important, another makes him feel responsible and so on their list goes.

But there is a particular lady will make him feel what others cannot make him feel. This lady will be the only one who he will see as d NO 1. He protects her, loves her like mad buh still cheat on her.

No matter how a man loves his wife, he will always have a reason to cheat on her. No matter how serious d cheating is. Men are not wicked...they are naturally cheaters.

So why bothering yourself over side chick's when you already have the wedding ring on your finger?

HaroldFinch:
I don't think it helps. It only fuels your anger and hatred more. Nobody is perfect and 'monitoring' will only allow your eyes to feed on your partner's secrets and flaws, which you also have. Whenever you're in doubts, call your partner and discuss as opined above. Communication helps a lot. I once monitored an ex and it became a disease. I wish I had used all those time for better things. We ended up breaking up cos I discovered lots of things that I found difficult to erase. I'm pretty sure if she had 'monitored me too, the same thing might have happened. In sum,' monitoring ' is like playing God. Start appreciating the good things in your partner and discuss things you find inconvenient.

Twaci:
The topic says it all, do u think it is right to monitor your partner?

By monitor, I mean; always checking his/her phone, making sure you know ALL of his/her friends, always noting every activity carried out by him/her on all their social sites (e.g Nairaland, facebook, twitter, IG...), and so on.

I have my opinion on this but need to hear yours. Let's talk.

Good morning.

thinkdip:

falconey, I heard you are the father of shares. ..is that true?

AgapeCharis:
Smh.

Well, it's cool with you. No biggie. You have some misconstrued ideas though.

Lizabeth25:
Nah.....its not a misconstrued idea....its just a bitter truth about men and the earlier a lady realizes this, the better for her because realizing this on time will reduce numbers of heartbreaks on the path of side chicks.!



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falconey:
monitor what?

I remember what a sagacious man once told me " the punny is not yours,its just your time with it"

Mercyblack:
wonders..
*sips alomo* na dem sabi

ireneony:
is very wrong if not you go die before your time

Tashaamania:
Monitoring often leads to finding out things that may even hurt you.. So, No thanks. I aint monitoring shiit

cherryice:
sis ur man is stl buttt hurt tht he sent a pm
hes bn goin all over nl sayin every dhiiit abt pms. Lol its funny tht rily hurt him bad.. ddnt mean it tht way
cn u tell him its ok n he shd cry nomore?
I see he hasnt recovered lol

Twaci:
The topic says it all, do u think it is right to monitor your partner?

By monitor, I mean; always checking his/her phone, making sure you know ALL of his/her friends, always noting every activity carried out by him/her on all their social sites (e.g Nairaland, facebook, twitter, IG...), and so on.

I have my opinion on this but need to hear yours. Let's talk.

Good morning.

Tashaamania:

Which man again? What are you talking about?

cherryice:
ur nl man..
one tht pushes the truck
tht really must hv hurt him so bad dt hes bcomin lik a screwd bittch all overr d forum lol

Tashaamania:

Smh, go take your drugs pls, and pretend like you didnt see me

cherryice:
m nt sick