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Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by GlorifiedTunde(m): 7:46am On May 17, 2015 |
Wow! This dude stole my mind. I can only hope those girls will listen. I found one already and I thank God for that. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by CaptainJune: 7:48am On May 17, 2015 |
Op is sooooo on point. When I meet a girl whose standard is 'No Sex Before Marriage" I'm really really wowed! All my thoughts would be this is the Real Deal worth any price and sacrifice to be the proud owner. No right thinking guy is insane to EVER attempt to plan the rest of his life with a cheap commodity that he easily afforded for junk price and knows any other man can easily entice into infidelity by waving a couple of N10 bills or cheap promises or over-rehearsed compliments before her where solid gold is still available in the market. Who no like better thing?? No-Sex-Before-Marriage girls are the greatest and most sought after objects by men in need of a trustworthy life partner because they are very very very rare gems. Sadly, many don't know this and compromise their standards by following the steps of their already worthless girl friends maybe to feel important or wanted or loved - so opposite in direction to the path of worth, not knowing they are of much worth than all the seven wonders of the world, and all the gems this world can boast of are like rags compared to her. Ladies, let me let you in on a secret you may find bizarre. Guys are SEXUALLY ATTRACTED to skimpily dressed girls (especially bad girls), girls who bare their bosoms or assets in scanty dresses, promiscuous girls who love flirting, that is, girls with low standards because they only want to satisfy their greedy desires for PLEASURE, NOT LOVE. THAT ATTRACTION ALWAYS FADES INTO EXTINCTION WHEN THEY ARE ABLE TO SATISFY THEIR SEXUAL DESIRES. NO FEELINGS INVOLVED. However, they are GENUINELY ATTRACTED to girls with high standards who make it their principle that they will not have sex until after marriage because they want to satisfy their deepest and strongest longing and desire for LOVE, NOT PLEASURE. THAT ATTRACTION GROWS STRONGER EACH DAY BEFORE AND AFTER HAVING HER AS A WIFE AND IT NEVER FADES. Have you seen that girl who says no to premarital sex and sticks to it? SHE IS THE DREAM OF EVERY GUY. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by eightsin(m): 7:48am On May 17, 2015 |
See the way these ladies are praising the op. But I don't think I'd take any girl that says no sex before marriage especially if she is not a virgin serious. I just see it as trap. But of a truth, you people make this sex sound one sided. Like its always all a bout the guy. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by donmarshia(m): 7:49am On May 17, 2015 |
An2elect2: When you talk about a lady living for Christ, I hope you mean truly walking in Love and obeying the Word in thick and thin, not just going to Church and forming over commitment like many ladies do. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by IamLEGEND1: 7:50am On May 17, 2015 |
sirr:if u know there is an judge watching u in HD, den stop lying too. shey e fit carry u go hell too |
Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by wizard007(m): 7:51am On May 17, 2015 |
Shyna112: That's a blatant lie, only boys will disrespect a lady because you've had sex with her, its a same same situation for both of you, if this happens to you, then they are two things involved 1 YOU NEVER RESPECTED HER B4 THE SEX 2 GIRL HAS LOW SELF ESTEEM Some babes go sex you ehn, and you'd still want to lick their butts, basically because you don't wanna lose them, they are just too good in everything, even in the sex thingy. #maturemindonly 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by GlorifiedTunde(m): 7:54am On May 17, 2015 |
sirr: Nothing do u bro. You're so on point. You'll find one someday. But the truth is that she may not come in an physically beautiful package - speaking from experience. It took me a while to find her, she's too much of a priceless Sundance. I just tunned her up a lil bit. Now I see God intentionally hid her beauty -oother guys are now like "how come we didn't see this beauty?" |
Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by eightsin(m): 7:56am On May 17, 2015 |
donmarshia: As a human, she is expected to default sometimes but as long and as soon as she finds her way back, she should feel new again |
Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by CaptainJune: 7:57am On May 17, 2015 |
wizard007:Would you be ready to take her as a wife knowing her superior bedmatics skills gained through years of experience with various guys? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by ikukuhero: 8:00am On May 17, 2015 |
The 'no to sex before marriage' standard is biblical and should be upheld. But ladies should also remember that staying chaste before marriage MAY never guarantee them a happy marriage. Even as we focus on no sex before marriage as a way of 'raising our value' in men's eyes, we must also not throw aside things such as truthfulness, honesty, reliability, calmness, godliness, forgiveness, humility ....and general character development. A lady with a good character is more pricely and will make a better companion than one without but just with the 'no sex .....' mentality. However, i advocate sexual purity until marriage - because God hates fornication and sin. As i strive to keep myself away from immorality and sin, through God's grace, I am also building my character through God's word, to be a better person. Proverbs 31 comes handy. Remain blessed everyone and live to please the Lord. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by ThisMeansWAR: 8:02am On May 17, 2015 |
*yawns* If we are in relationships and you tell me that no Sex nonsense.. E Don over be that.. Sefini.. After all, what is the point of having a relationship with you if not for Sex... We could have just become normal friends.. Then, there won't be any string attached and whatever we do won't be mandatory. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by sirr(m): 8:07am On May 17, 2015 |
GlorifiedTunde:Wow, Thanks bro. Most grateful and encouraged. Thanks alot |
Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by silent10(m): 8:08am On May 17, 2015 |
Nt in dis our modern days OP, where parents urge their son/daughter 2 hv s*x with their intended spouse. Taste b4 u buy |
Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by Assslayer: 8:10am On May 17, 2015 |
misreal: If you can tam the 7 living characteristics which includes Reproduction (sex) then I can believe in your fable holy ghost , you can't tell me because you don't have natural sex you don't jack at times or except something is wrong with ur John Thomas. I choose not to believe all these man made believes to tam nature 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by AgentPierce(f): 8:10am On May 17, 2015 |
kevinberry: You're not man enough. Real men don't divorce their wives |
Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by silent10(m): 8:12am On May 17, 2015 |
all4naija: |
Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by CaptainJune: 8:15am On May 17, 2015 |
However, I don't subscribe to the action of disrespecting a girl on the basis of morality. I give respect to wayward and sincere girls but I draw a thick invisible line of association and interaction between them. Girls with class and principles are my taste. I might be attracted to the body of a promiscuous girl but she is of no real value to me beyond her looks (a pathetic way to be seen by others) and my attraction lasts as long as smoke in the air. My definition of beauty is the one that is skin deep. Only girls with class and standard have that. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by CaptainJune: 8:20am On May 17, 2015 |
all4naija:Does it mean all the girls in a sexual relationship with their boyfriends are beautiful? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by sirr(m): 8:25am On May 17, 2015 |
CaptainJune:Bros, you just made a day, THANKS SO MUCH, really encouraged. God bless You plenty. |
Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by misreal(m): 8:25am On May 17, 2015 |
Assslayer:man made beliefs??don't worry sir I am a living testimony. |
Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by sirr(m): 8:26am On May 17, 2015 |
CaptainJune:VERY WELL SAID BOSS, THANKS A LOT. GOD BLESS YOU BOSS 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by Truckpusher(m): 8:26am On May 17, 2015 |
rman:I still wonder how some guys agree to such wicked arrangement from these manipulative people. You want a relationship without sex but could you please keep your filthy hands off my wallet and stop making me your personal driver ? Some of these girls are funny but what could be more funny than someone that agrees to rules and regulations that he is not comfortable with just to be seen as a gentleman. Bro, I've been very close to girls a lot all my life and if you see how they perceive guys that are always at their beck and call you'll dare not give them am inch to use your head. Why would one be in a relationship where the very gift of the relationship is under lock and key because of some flimsy excuses. Like you rightly said ,the moment they come across an alpha male all that stories won't hold water and unfortunately this same girl that is tying you down on that fake relationship could be getting it from one insignificant dude while you're there forming a good man. after all there is no technology to understand what that payzone has gone through. My best advice is to get it or leave such wicked relationship. Let her get herself another guinea pig. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by Truckpusher(m): 8:35am On May 17, 2015 |
eightsin:Don't mind them . 99% of these girls that preaches the no-sex before marriage thing are prolly very mature adults that has seen it all and understanding that her chances of getting married is winding down as each year passes now resorts to Miss sophisticated using all their experiences to follow you up and of course they will always see a willing mugu to scam. Don't be fooled.Once I hear that no-sex talk, I quietly walk away because I'm not ready for that drama. After God fear women my friend. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by CaptainJune: 8:39am On May 17, 2015 |
Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by nekede11(m): 8:41am On May 17, 2015 |
Nice 1 |
Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by Davivah: 8:47am On May 17, 2015 |
sirr: Thank you so much....So.... not all guys are corrupt |
Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by MizMyColi(f): 8:55am On May 17, 2015 |
@Truckpusher @rman You two sound so impossible right now Something is fundamentally wrong with that kind of mentality. So, because you give to her, then she must pay you back with sex?! It's funny how you think it's your right. And then there are ladies who think they can play smart on a guy by magarizing him without putting nyansh for ground. There is also the group who think that because the guy digs their farmland at his convenience, then he owes them and vice versa. There is also the group of ladies who think that because a man gets to sex them often, then marriage is their only reward. There is also the category who think that because they aren't having sex, then the man would be pressured into marrying them so he can done the deed Maybe I'm even part of those who think this way, albeit unconsciously. Like seriously, now that I think of it....it is just so stvpid and inhumane. I should have sex with a guy who isn't my husband because I want to and I'm ready, not because I was pressured into it. And even if I mistakenly allow myself bow to the pressure....I know it's something I will regret for a looong time. God! What makes us different from whores then? Dammit! Not all of us are after your monies and wealth and rides Some of us don't have, I mean, some of us are really struggling, but we learn to cut our coat according to our size. This reminds me of a female friend who just gifted me 200USD. She also bought me a wristwatch worth 30-35k in the US alone. If she were a guy, I wonder what her prize would be for giving to me like she does. Before everyone harps on about her having ulterior motives, I want to add that she is super rich....and sometimes I wonder what I have done for her to deserve such love and admiration. If you have the means to better a person's life, do so because you can, don't go overboard, and don't go on afterwards thinking they owe you their bodies. Ladies shouldn't tease their guys to a point of no return only to deny him the real ponmo when they know they are not ready. There is a mysticism about sex, it is best pleasurable when both parties are emotionally and psychologically ready. For some ladies, it would require that you prove to them they are worth going all the way with. For others, they are ready when they are ready. It's one crazy world out there. The only way a person can lay claim to my body as his right and vice versa is if we are married... No Sane Lady Enjoys Body Counts If the relationship ends, good and fine! If he loved me enough, he wouldn't wanna see me become a shadow of myself for bowing to the sex pressure when it's apparent I'm not ready. And if it can't wait....then he should go get exclusive rights on me! Forgive me for valuing myself this much 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by CANTICLES: 8:57am On May 17, 2015 |
Very true @ op ...... It makes more sense and meaning , infact very attractive, MORE RESPECT TO THE GIRL when u pay the brideprice of a girl whose unclothedness uv never seen . But i dont see the same thing happening when u pay the brideprice of a girl whose unclothedness uv seen . It doesnt add up . 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by hedonistic: 8:59am On May 17, 2015 |
Another maga. The supply of mumu guys in Nigeria is almost endless. She is saying no to sex to you and yet another guy is banging her mercilessly while you are in one lonely corner wanking away in admiration. Mumu x 10. 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by Chivee(f): 9:11am On May 17, 2015 |
sirr:Thank you so much. |
Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by Mhizizzy(f): 9:11am On May 17, 2015 |
This thread is a NYC one |
Re: Ladies, Your "NO-TO-SEX" Makes You Even More Attractive To Us (must Read) by Nobody: 9:14am On May 17, 2015 |
An2elect2: Noted.....but that kind of man u are looking for is rare or does not exist, plz change that mentality of expectung that only see the christ u and not the u in u because a man can pretend to be good enough for u by exhibiting all the God fearing lifestyle u expected just to enter ur life, then at the end u will be the one saying "i never knew u were like this". No matter how much u love Jesus christ, u can never marry Jesus christ but Man. just saying #Happysunday |
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