Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,161,452 members, 7,846,894 topics. Date: Saturday, 01 June 2024 at 06:18 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" (48910 Views)
Should I Stop Her From Visiting Guys? / Simple Tricks We Ladies Use To Attract Men / My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) ... (11) (12) (13) (14) (15) (16) (17) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Nobody: 8:54am On Aug 10, 2015 |
Toks2008: Even the "shorthand " they use in sending message pisses me off! Back in University, I didn't even date in school. Although there are matured ones, but they are relatively very few . Of course there are older guys that still behave like kids, but I know how to make them feel silly/ childish during conversation, reducing them to mere nonentities. To me its not all about the money because, even money makes me misbehave and disrespectful when pushed to the wwall.Its about someone who is way above my level of thinking, ready to teach and fill in that void.Any man I date must contribute something meaningful to my life, there must be positive impact he made in my life.I too on the other hand will contribute in making him not regret dating me.If we finally part ways, it must be done in a orderly a d matured way. |
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Pidggin(f): 8:56am On Aug 10, 2015 |
yanabasee: It is easy to see your faults from your post. What is misleading about warning girls to avoid visiting guys alone, will you be okay if your future teenage daughter or maybe your niece visits a man/boy alone? You keep saying her information doesn't count, well it wasn't meant for you. You said "One small loose girl" how do you know this much about her? This is why she was warning ladies "If you get raped or molested someone will call you loose and say it was your fault why not avoid it?" Can't you see why it is essential for ladies to do the best they can to prevent such circumstances? I don't think you understand the meaning of the words you are even posting please define "Cheap" |
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by yanabasee(m): 8:56am On Aug 10, 2015 |
Legionss:. . Indeed...you're very lucky! . . I've heard cases of guys who got raped by female... But its often very rare! 1 Like |
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by sweetgala(m): 8:56am On Aug 10, 2015 |
Legionss: Rather if I may correct you for both male and female whom have been victims of sexual assault, 75% of the cases their abuser is known to them and someone they trust. That is statistical fact |
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Nobody: 8:57am On Aug 10, 2015 |
classicB: Love, lol. My teacher taught me that love is an example of Abstract Noun. Abstract: You can't see or touch but you can FEEL. How do you girls make us "feel" it? |
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Nobody: 8:59am On Aug 10, 2015 |
Vyolet:That's why you guys always fall for it. Look, there are quite a couple of pointers you should watch out for when talking with a guy and it's not my job to talk about these pointers here. Only few girls can figure them out actually. The last time I met a chick, talked with her and the next day i got a text call me message from her. Called her and she confessed i was so different and asked if I had a girlfriend. Damn I was so speechless when she said i should be ready to have a second gf. |
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Nobody: 8:59am On Aug 10, 2015 |
yanabasee: And what make you think i di t have men that cares for me? What makes you think its only women that needs care? I am drowning here with someone that needs my 100 percent attention. Men also need to be taken care of as much as women. Talkin about Sex, when I need it, I get it! I hardly attach emotions to it.I no dey use boyfriend do husband. |
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Toks2008(m): 9:01am On Aug 10, 2015 |
softysparky: lol infact meen fantacized about been raped by many ladies not even one so if you rape me i will evn thank you aftr the act lol. How are you doing? do have a blessed week ahead. |
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Nobody: 9:02am On Aug 10, 2015 |
yanabasee: Since most of them thinks "a girls no to sex is yes", it should also apply for men getting raped by women! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Vyolet(f): 9:04am On Aug 10, 2015 |
naijaboiy:Makes sense with mild objectivity. Confusion in the sense that,when she visits alone,he assumes she wants it and may eventually force her if she refuses,when visits with friends, he calls her immature,some will even claim they came for free food. Sometimes I just laugh at some of these attitudes from guys. Now back to where you wrote that guys should have made his intention known before inviting a girl over and initiating sex. See,eve. if they have had sex severally on phone,once she visits and she says NO,let her NO be NO,once he forces her on the conclusion that they have been intimate on phone,it is nothing but rape. |
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by sweetgala(m): 9:05am On Aug 10, 2015 |
Cooleasy: The generalisation is correct, all men and women have the potential to abuse the trust confided in them so yes, all men are potential rapists. Would you rather your sister was a victim after the fact. Being careful is important, I can see some men have cited loose reasons such as decency and dressing; how can you say that. The way an individual chooses to express their civil liberties should never expose them to physical assault Imagine if I conclude by your dressing or vague disposition that you are a yahoo boy or cultist, and then made arrests based on that 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Nobody: 9:06am On Aug 10, 2015 |
Toks2008: Oh dear! Na you dey talk am o. Nigerian men loves to be raped by women. Foursome achieved without pay but gain ! |
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Nobody: 9:08am On Aug 10, 2015 |
emperorchedda: From the initial write up one can conclude that this girl has serious mental issues, perhaps she was a prostitute who is just looking for a medium to vent spleen |
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by yanabasee(m): 9:09am On Aug 10, 2015 |
Pidggin:. . Like seriously! I have been educated to sit my daughter down and give good advices! Why would she even visit a man by herself? You don't visit men by urself... Like somebody posted up there... The are quite a number of girls out there that have never encountered rape cases before...not becoz they dnt visit guys...but becoz they understand men! And becoz they know their worth! A friend of mine met a girl 6years ago in the university....he deflowered the girl... Now they're married! There are good testimonies about girls out there who's got good virtue and they live to protect it! . . I said she's loose becoz her post depicts every sense of it.... She has a guy and yet she has had three cases of attempted rape... What took her to those other guys place? If not to cheat on her man! . . The essential thing for a girl to do is to stick to one man! With this effort! This unwarranted rape cases will reduce! . . Get a lexicon and look up for the word "cheap"... You will get a perfect definition! |
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Nobody: 9:12am On Aug 10, 2015 |
When they expose their chest, and hairy legs, they forgot some nigeria ladies like me loves the fetish. Why haven't I rape anyone with curled hairs "here and there?" All those ones that sample their GBOLA on swimming pools, I am yet to pounce on them, not minding if i will be charged for assault! Make una take time o.The fact that we are not raping you guys is because we are exercising self control. For the smart ones, they know when a lady is hungry, they take time to show off their charm and Bingo! Every don dey happen. Na the mumu ones dey molest. |
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Vyolet(f): 9:13am On Aug 10, 2015 |
DeeTus:Some guys are good at pretence,they are so sleek and smooth, they rarely talk about anything immoral beside you,it's either education,business or religion,you trust them completely and feel free,these are the same guys that will turn to monster later. Second gf? run and stop being nice to her,that's how it starts. |
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Toks2008(m): 9:13am On Aug 10, 2015 |
EggovinMma: I was not even looking at it from the mental IQ point of vieew as we have very young guys with very matured mindset. What im talking about is the readiness for commitmeent emotionally and even finalcially cos most guys at 30 are still finding their feet so if a 20yr old girl starts dating say a 23yr old guy i guess when the girl is 27 the guy is probably still findng his feet and age is no longer on the ladys side so at the end it may be a wasted affair but if a lady at her early twenties or late teens dates a guy wth say 8yrs gap,there is usually this way the guy treats her like a pet,a delicate entity that needs care and affection and affairs like this usually bcomes more purposeful and the lady wont have to go through frustrations cos before the lady clocks 26 the guy is probably in his 30s and seettling down will be a top priority. This happens in most cases. honesly i feel confortable with a lady im at least 8yrs older than and this age gap alone is a turn on for me and no matter how nasty she behaves,i will just see her like a spoilt kid sis. |
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by yanabasee(m): 9:17am On Aug 10, 2015 |
EggovinMma:. . Yeah! The one I heard happened in a boarding school..... Female boarding school... A mother had two children and they live very close to the school...and she wanted travelling for three days journey and she took the boy to the school to live... A place was created for him stay after much plea and the principal heed to it... At night... Some sex starved girls....jumped off the hostel fence and sneak to where he little cubicle and ganged on this 16years old chap.... He fainted and they ran off... The mother was called to came and get her son when she sent the sister to travel all the way from lagos to go and get him... Its really been long though.... About 14years ago! |
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Toks2008(m): 9:19am On Aug 10, 2015 |
EggovinMma: Gbam even tensome. Tell guys that there is a street that is so dangerous because ladies rape guys and trust guys to ask you the time of th day the rape usually takes place and it will blow your mind how many guys will delibrately go into the street with a pack of condom lol. 2 Likes |
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Nobody: 9:23am On Aug 10, 2015 |
Toks2008: Well all fingers aren't equal. There are fairly wealthy 27 yr old who are ready to play the marriage game. I see my younger brother as that kind who will get married immediately he hits it bibig.He has a stable gf and a matured mindset. He is 26! Quick to let go of flimsy issues, focused and a pathetic hustler! His gf is of same age with him, both are equally matured.Age isn't a restriction when it comes to making money . Although younger guys tends to spend it without reinvesting for the future. |
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Aronu(m): 9:23am On Aug 10, 2015 |
@OP, because of this statement of yours: ''Idk what else to say, but i know prevention is better than cure. I pray God deliver us from these animals disguised in human clothing called men'' I have a prayer for you... MAY U NEVA GET MARRIED TO ONE OF THE ''ANIMALS DISGUISED IN HUMAN CLOTHING CALLED MEN'' IN THIS LIFE, LET GOD CONTINUALLY DELIVER AND PREVENT YOU FROM US IN JESUS NAME... I believe God will not answer you, maybe at age 40, as you pray day and night for one of these animals to come your way, or suddenly metamorphose into a ''sister'' in the church so that these animals will notice...We shall all be blind to see you!!! 1 Like |
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by yanabasee(m): 9:26am On Aug 10, 2015 |
Toks2008:. . And not like a wife! Indeed! . . To me...its a turn off.... I hate immaturity..... Or girls dat behave nastily! . . I can't date a girl am much older than.... There was a time I had this girl... She will tell me she feels like climbing on my head...that she wants to play with my head... Sometimes she will say she wants to kiss my nose... Not in a romantic way... When we walk together in the street...she will be talkin and be pointing fingers at other people... Quite a teen! Mehn! Matured girls rocks! I jst don't knw how u cope! But I was very patient with her... She wasn't able to cope so she left and went to date a guy she was almost in the same age with... That was a pretty good idea... 1 Like |
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Nobody: 9:27am On Aug 10, 2015 |
yanabasee: Now that's is a bloody rape! Girls school for that matter.You see, Konji is no respecter of any man, hence the need for both sex to exercise self control. I schooled in a girls school . Can testify to these and many atrocities there. whew! I will never send my child to same sex school. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by yanabasee(m): 9:27am On Aug 10, 2015 |
Toks2008:. . Lol.... Awoof! |
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Toks2008(m): 9:29am On Aug 10, 2015 |
yanabasee: Lol it may surprise some people to know that some ladies fantacize about been raped. I have been mostly molested by ladies and at 17 i was molested by an akwa ibom lady and several times i hve been threatened by ladies that they will rape me and many tims i will entr my hostel to see anaked girl in my bed and i cant start recounting all. the funniest on was when at 25 a lady lured me into sx nd after the act i was praying for fgveness and she just started laughing at me and she took advantage of m several times. This rape thing is also carried out by ladies but they will rather call it sexual molestation and not rape as the rape thing sounds manly lol. |
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by lexy2014: 9:31am On Aug 10, 2015 |
classicB:what experiences did u have? |
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Toks2008(m): 9:33am On Aug 10, 2015 |
EggovinMma: ofcourse there will always be few exceptions but few. 1 Like |
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Nobody: 9:34am On Aug 10, 2015 |
Toks2008: But it's not as easy as it seems o.Even for men, getting raped by several girls can hurt real bad. I have heard cases where the victims faint .Its traumatic. How long the penis want stand for over 3/4 sexually active girls? Some will even hold the victims hand, beating and slapping him to keep quiet a d "eerect".It is not humane o.o.For those guys that wants to be raped, it's not as easy as it seem. 1 Like |
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by Toks2008(m): 9:36am On Aug 10, 2015 |
yanabasee: you never really wanted her else you could hve shaped her to be wat u want cos at that age they can still be configured. |
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by yanabasee(m): 9:38am On Aug 10, 2015 |
Toks2008:. . Lol...they won't even say a word close to molestation... They will say they handle with you or that they had fun with you.... Reason ppl don't take rape by female as a case! |
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by cyprus000: 9:41am On Aug 10, 2015 |
Begonia:[size=13pt] This is what happens when an uncouth pedofilic-twat_ is given access to cyber space. They begin to exibit intelligence of an arbotus. And when you read their comment,one I.Q drops from 99% to 00.01%. And it is evident that this leprachaun sasquatch,pyscho/sapiopathic worthless piece of _shit. Is a soul-draining,guinea worm-like virus,who I'm certain cannot be a sapien behind a computer/phone screen but a cretinous vicious invention programmed to infuriate and alter human sanity from one nairaland section to another. If not,I would have adviced you be quarantined in an animal zoo,but on a second thought,it will be an animal abuse to take a heap of shitt lyk yourself to the zoo. what a wool-brained dogshit. [/size] 1 Like |
Re: Correction To : "WE LADIES Should Stop Visiting Guys" by yanabasee(m): 9:41am On Aug 10, 2015 |
Toks2008:. . Mehn.... This one was haywired.... She wasn't the type that will let u scold her or tell her what to do... She was just bent on embarrassing me! I took her ones to a batch and I left there with shame... Ones took her to get clothes and her collections were damn! . . They are some teenage girls u can never change until they set their minds towards it...that's when they attend the stage of maturity! |
(1) (2) (3) ... (11) (12) (13) (14) (15) (16) (17) (Reply)
Life Without A Girlfriend. / A Nairalander Wedding In Pics / When You Use Your Friend To Test Your Boyfriend & They Are Now Getting Married
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 111 |