Damalex4luv:

Look at you, they say common sense is not common, I can truly see now that statement really suite you. Most people here on nairaland would do in real life whatever they claim they'll do here on nairaland. Besides the larger percentage of people here are mostly teenage that have never experienced most of this relationship palava. So if they're claiming they'll do something just to show they're man/woman enough you should be wise enough to decipher that most of them are only saying what they'll never do in reality.

Ha! Ode!

They are writing what they would do if they had the power.

Think smart, write smart

Chelseafan1:


Lol....I can't say if its a good idea to break it or not buh I'm currently in a long distance relationship, she's in Skul, I'm in faraway Kebbi state serving, we love each other so much, I can't break up cos I'm being paranoid, I get scared really and I get to study and watch her moves buh wen someone cheats, d partner may not get to know, even wen u catch someone red-handed, dey can still try to play smart on u.

My girl gets attention from too many guys a lot buh I av warned her and made her swear not to visit a guy at home or privately, she herself fears visiting a guy at home buh den, we don't av d power to know peoples mind, we can only trust and hope for the best.

Personally, I hate cheating, im being smart wt my babe, I let her alone, as much as I try to trust her, I don't totally do, wen I check ur phone, I see something fishy, I let u know right there, I made sure we swore not to ever cheat, it disgusts me, never will I cheat, its fair enough not to wanna be cheated on.

But most of our girls love attention from the male folks too much, they like to be noticed, taken out, seen around 'happening' guys, they like to have fun, in their quest for these, they end up falling prey of the bad guys.

Most girls need be educated, orientated about the fact that, they shouldn't get too close to different guys all in d name of friendship )especially if u don't wanna make regretable mistakes, its becoming increasing hard these days for guys to wanna stay platonic, they always want more, they don't care if a girl is in a rel or not.....it shouldn't be.

I think getting a faithful girl these days is just pure luck.

My guy,its not about swearing o!she has done that a lot .see even if she uses her life to swear.I can't ever gv dt trust out anymore

oreos:


Ha! Ode!

They are writing what they would do if they had the power.

Think smart, write smart

Oponu, one way traffic, I believe if a man should come to you now and take an oath telling you he'll never cheat on you, you'll gladly believe based on the fact that you're so gullible. Receive sense or die trying

love is blind

spiralwedge:
issylarry, pls tell them all... pls abeg u. You know why?
She may come back in weeks time to say she was pregnant for you. That time no one would believe you. And you cant any SH.IT. Tell them now and free yourself.
Ibadan girls are desperate n can be fetish o, especially when they are desperate to cover their shame.

thank me later

Thanks,have done that!I just explained everything to her elder brother

Op, with this comment; this is d guy that has been lashing your wife to be! wise up bro. Use your head

Larryjay4u:
Guy the story that unfolds was pathetic but not beyond repair. To be sincere with yourself bro, will you say you NEVER cheated on her at all or on any other lady you have dated before her? The truth is that the world we are leaving is so pervasive that such is so common but can only be stopped by our collective effort. We are all GUILTY but only the ones CAUGHT are nailed. So why not call her and ask why she did that and what you did not do right during the period. I am sure a sincere FORGIVENESS from you is all she need to be that kind of woman that you will forever be grateful to God for. Guy, I can assure you that if you do the result could become a BLESSING IN DISGUISE.

Damalex4luv:

Oponu, one way traffic, I believe if a man should come to you now and take an oath telling you he'll never cheat on you, you'll gladly believe based on the fact that you're so gullible. Receive sense or die trying

I can't believe I have been exchanging words with a teenager

Google is just a click way. Oops! You live in Nigeria. The educational system is so shitty that it would take years for you to master how to search for information. You can give it a try though. Try Google Scholar, thank me later.

I almost forgot. You need to stop acting like a fool. Be open-minded to new information and if you are in doubt, you can ask nicely

sambrow:
It will be hard for you to do, cus I know u love her. But if u want to be happy, just end d relatnshp. If u don't it will still hapn again and I bet u, she won't marry you. Suffer d breakup pain now and u will smile at d end. Talking frm experience

Honestly, this guy is right!!! She won't marry you. So get up from this stupid heartbreak nonsense! Lots of ladies with good characters out there...

issylarry:


My guy,its not about swearing o!she has done that a lot .see even if she uses her life to swear.I can't ever gv dt trust out anymore

Not the ,'I swear to God, I will never cheat on you' kind of swear o, I mean, swearing like if I should ever cheat on you, let me die an horrible death, lemme not make it in life, let my life be as worthless as that of a mad man and serious curses like that...

Which type she dey swear.??

issylarry:
I had the greatest shock of my life last week, which I never still believe why it happened to me. To cut the story short,I had a fiancee which we have been planning on getting married. In The course of time have been so familiar with her mum and siblings and we were just about preparing for our introduction. Due to the nature of my work I live in lagos and she stays at Ibadan, have been so faithful to her(you all know what am talking about).

On the 16th of aug, (saturday), I told her I was going to come around on the 19th. (Wednesday). when I got to Ibadan on wednesday, I checked-in in a guest house closer to her house. I was so happy been around her again, because I believed since her mum knows me, mehn, I thought I owned her. (That was the best mistake have ever made),Later in the night she was called by her brother to come over, so she decided to go and attend to her brother leaving me with her phone. Seriously,when she left I was just staring at the phone for some minutes and later I decided to check out for some more lovely pictures of my ironical wife. As time goes by I then decided to glance through her chats (wasn't intentional but didn't know what springed that up in me) Her recent chats was laced accordingly to how recent the chats has been. My chats with her was first,then I opened the 2nd chat(what I saw was crazy).

My so called ironical fiancee have been cheating on me. The chats was like my gf initiated the chat with him. She went to his place on Monday and they had sex. This is the lady I want to marry o,seriously I feel love doesn't truely exist. Its just a name not an ACT anymore. I got annoyed and asked her out of my room because if I should see her I could inflicts my annoyance on her(she might end up in hospital).

Now,what can I do? she's been begging me not to tell her elder brother .The mum hasn't heard anything about what transpired, even her siblings and have decided to let them know, so that they would know the kind of daughter they are living with(Packaged-slut). Is that the right decision? Or should I just delete every contacts I have with her? What can I do? Her mum do call me sometimes, now its so obvious am breaking up the relationship! But do I have to tell her mum or siblings who can understand how I really feel about it! Please, can you share me some advice or perspectives! I will appreciate it.

Do you love her? if yes,forgive her,she begged for forgiveness, pardon her...There's no perfect relationship...its okay to be annoyed don't follow people's opinion just follow your heart

Chelseafan1:


Not the ,'I swear to God, I will never cheat on you' kind of swear o, I mean, swearing like if I should ever cheat on you, let me die an horrible death, lemme not make it in life, let my life be as worthless as that of a mad man and serious curses like that...

Which type she dey swear.??

Guy no waste ur time with swear. Irunmole no dey swear for irunmole. D girl fit be irunmole, her swear no go affect her... Na u go go bald

BOUNTYDOG:



I quite feel ur pain then,but thank God you scaled thru all that,do u know how many innocent souls have lost their lives with just little thing as u passed thru?
Its good anyway but I hope u did hit him back without traces to you,or u did as oppression in his face?remember now you are not practising the teachings of the majesty but the devil's philosophy which is the game of cultists."He who fights and runaway,lives to fight another day.

Bro,it was nothing personal. As for ID, there was no personal contact. It was just supposed to be a simple rough up,but it went out of hand when he insulted one of them by calling him a small boy! This is a guy that policemen take permission from him before effecting an arrest in his neighbourhood,else, there will be a shootout. So,it was out of my hand,and there was nothing that I could do. It was his Fellow corpers and CLO that pleaded for him. He was given an ultimatum to redeploy or disappear. His arrogance was the cause of his beating,not me!

oreos:


I can't believe I have been exchanging words with a teenager

Google is just a click way. Oops! You live in Nigeria. The educational system is so shitty that it would take years for you to master how to search for information. You can give it a try though. Try Google Scholar, thank me later.

I almost forgot. You need to stop acting like a fool. Be open-minded to new information and if you are in doubt, you can ask nicely

Why should I even waste my time on you. I know your type having like 6 accounts on nairaland and will be spewing thrash all over people just because it's a faceless forum. I'm a grown up guy and have joined this platform going to 8years now so I know many of your kind, they come and go. It'll soon be dawn on you that a woman that will ever have a chance of lasting long in her home shouldn't be one that will be abusing men all around. Enu e lowa yen, just carry your frustration go somewr else. Sebi you just register last week, you'll soon get another account. Frustrated fool

time spent apart doesn't matter. she cheated and will do it again because she doesn't love him. whether 2mins or 2 months, a cheat will cheat

misspicy:
.... I no support her buh issylarry how long were u guys apart.

Justiyke4u:
I did not read the post but I can say that planning is everything

U gave the best comments here. U must be a genius. Good comment like this can only be from u without reading the post.

Please read the article now that we have read ur comments and grade yaself

oreos:


I can't believe I have been exchanging words with a teenager

Google is just a click way. Oops! You live in Nigeria. The educational system is so shitty that it would take years for you to master how to search for information. You can give it a try though. Try Google Scholar, thank me later.

I almost forgot. You need to stop acting like a fool. Be open-minded to new information and if you are in doubt, you can ask nicely

Olodo you can give it a try. I finally give up on you.
Why should I even waste my time on you. I know your type having like 6 accounts on nairaland and will be spewing thrash all over people just because it's a faceless forum. I'm a grown up guy and have joined this platform going to 8years now so I know many of your kind, they come and go. It'll soon be dawn on you that a woman that will ever have a chance of lasting long in her home shouldn't be one that will be abusing men all around. Enu e lowa yen, just carry your frustration go somewr else. Sebi you just register last week, you'll soon get another account. Frustrated fool

Salligreen:


Guy no waste ur time with swear. Irunmole no dey swear for irunmole. D girl fit be irunmole, her swear no go affect her... Na u go go bald

That's why I'm not totally relaxed and trust a lady 100%, once in a while I go check her phone, read her chats with boys and co, throw some sensible questions to her, no matter how long the babe delete and hide posts reach, one day go be one day wey her monkey wey go market no go return.

But say make I just relax kon dey form trust, abeg, I no dey do dt one, I'll check ur whatsapp, bbm, call log, text message and of course, u av 100% access to my phone too

the only thing in your favour is that you now know she is having sex but im sure she never told you she is a virgin and that all her fuckmates are now dead now that you intend to marry her.if there are overwhelming qualities in her,pls address the sex with another guy issue and if you believe she has a strong enough character,please forgive her and go ahead.even married women are having sex with other men and when caught,wise husbands elects to forgive.sex is a human thing.maybe she had an urge that wont go away and had sex.it doesnt mean she loved u less.it doesnt mean she loves the other guy.

issylarry:
Thanks,have done that!I just explained everything to her elder brother

bros, pls tell one more person... maybe her friend that was close to u both.
I wish u d best in ur future relationship

Damalex4luv:

Why should I even waste my time on you. I know your type having like 6 accounts on nairaland and will be spewing thrash all over people just because it's a faceless forum. I'm a grown up guy and have joined this platform going to 8years now so I know many of your kind, they come and go. It'll soon be dawn on you that a woman that will ever have a chance of lasting long in her home shouldn't be one that will be abusing men all around. Enu e lowa yen, just carry your frustration go somewr else. Sebi you just register last week, you'll soon get another account. Frustrated fool

Dear frustrated son of a slut,

I am not on Nairaland for sensible men. My Nairaland persona is dedicated to stupi.d men of which you are unlucky to be one of them. Unlike you, I do not live for the opposite sex. I am me and I am real. So far I haven't gotten any unsatisfactory remark about my behaviour that screams 'Oh, no one can ever tolerate her'. That should tell how much of a darling I am.The type of darling that does what needs to be done regardless of whom, who and how. I know that lately your life has been nothing, forgive me if I do not think much of a moniker who goes about creating meaningless threads . In the real world, you cannot hold a conversation with me, not even with my youngest brother.

I do not have numerous Nairaland accounts. When I am bored, I deactivate and activate another when I need to straighten stupid men. Do you know that I only attack perverts, potential rapists, abusers, sexist pigs and hypocrites? It will take a man who falls within the listed categories to attack me and I bet that you fall into one.

I was really hoping that your comebacks would be great but all I have seen so far are retorts of an imbecile_. Therefore quote me if you are ready to tell me your category and DO NOT if you are not, else I am going to put you on ignore button.

Your dearest,

Oreos

XOXO

oreos:


Dear frustrated son of a slut,

I am not on Nairaland for sensible men. My Nairaland persona is dedicated to stupi.d men of which you are unlucky to be one of them. Unlike you, I do not live for the opposite sex. I am me and I am real. So far I haven't gotten any unsatisfactory remark about my behaviour that screams 'Oh, no one can ever tolerate her'. That should tell how much of a darling I am.The type of darling that does what needs to be done regardless of whom, who and how. I know that lately your life has been nothing, forgive me if I do not think much of a moniker who goes about creating meaningless threads . In the real world, you cannot hold a conversation with me, not even with my youngest brother.

I do not have numerous Nairaland accounts. When I am bored, I deactivate and activate another when I need to straighten stupid men. Do you know that I only attack perverts, potential rapists, abusers, sexist pigs and hypocrites? It will take a man who falls within the listed categories to attack me and I bet that you fall into one.

I was really hoping that your comebacks would be great but all I have seen so far are retorts of an imbecile_. Therefore quote me if you are ready to tell me your category and DO NOT if you are not, else I am going to put you on ignore button.

Your dearest,

Oreos

XOXO

You want to be straightening men on nairaland by having different monikers. Why not straightening yourself first and your entire family instead of straightening people you've never met and not that you'll ever meet them till you'll die. For your information I graduated from the best school in this country and by the grace of God am doing very well, I don't have to boast to you because I can see already that your life Is full of frustration and regret. For you to tell me that you can't have a conversation with someone like me speaks volume of your level of intellect because am not at your level. You're the real hypocrite here, maybe you don't even know the real meaning of hypocrite, so many girls out now speaks English that they don't know it's true meanings. A hypocrite is a type like you that keep changing there monikers. That means you're not a woman of your words. You keep running helter skelter and believing you can straighten men here on nairaland only by merely abusing them. People that don't give a damn about you, just carry your borehole womanliness comot here, your customers are waiting for you. Dirty asshole.

Damalex4luv:

You want to be straightening men on nairaland by having different monikers. Why not straightening yourself first and your entire family instead of straightening people you've never met and not that you'll ever meet them till you'll die. For your information I graduated from the best school in this country and by the grace of God am doing very well, I don't have to boast to you because I can see already that your life Is full of frustration and regret. For you to tell me that you can't have a conversation with someone like me speaks volume of your level of intellect because am not at your level. You're the real hypocrite here, maybe you don't even know the real meaning of hypocrite, so many girl out now speaks English that they don't know it's tue meanings. A hypocrite is a type like you that keep changing there monikers. That means you're not a woman of your words. You keep running helter skelter and believing you can straighten men here on nairaland only by merely abusing them. People that don't give a damn about you, just carry your borehole womanliness comot here, your customers are waiting for you. Dirty asshole.

I am schooling in a world class univeristy. Kini big deal

Go and entertain your momma's customers. Let me rest joor

oreos:


I am schooling in a world class univeristy. Kini big deal

Go and entertain your momma's customers. Let me rest joor

Continue schooling so that they can imbibe some senses into you. You'll surely need that to sale through in your future endeavours. World class university my foot...

Damalex4luv:

Continue schooling so that they can imbibe some senses into you. You'll surely need that to sale through in your future endeavours. World class university my foot...

Don't be sad.

That was what I have been trying to tell you. We are miles apart. I will be damned if any of my mates came up with the trash you call threads.

Good night

Damalex4luv:

That thunder will strike you and your entire family together. You just started having your heart broken. As you're dating them, they will be dropping you. Such a useless idiot hiding under the shadow of a faceless forum. If you claim to be truly pretty put your pic on your profile and let's access your wrinkled face. Frustrated asshole, you can go and jump into a lagoon for all I care.

YOU ARE HARSH OHH

Pele. Move on bro. This babe aint your wife. Proceed at your own risk. What u r gona have in the long run is too many issues to contend with. She doesn't value u. Don't make the mistake of your life.

oreos:


Don't be sad.

That was what I have been trying to tell you. We are miles apart. I will be damned if any of my mates came up with the trash you call threads.

Good night

Why won't you be damned, what so special in the threads I opened. Most of them are jokes and not that am abusive unlike your frustrated self. Am only having fun i'm not living a life of regret so the threads I opened should be my business and not yours, for all I care you can go to helll. You said you're miles away, does that really bring out any form changes in you. Just make sure you don't only learn books in school, you should also learn courtesy because school is not everything. There is a life after school which is the real world waiting for you.
Sorry for all the abuses, am not really used to that, you frustrated me into doing all that. Am sorry once again. Good night

the girl be feeling like "Jesus, why did I leave my phone with him na"

Have always said that there isn't any such thing as Love, it's all about Understanding .....how well you understand your partner makes it easy for una to stay together, cos if na cheat, they will always cheat, even to the detriment of their own happiness, its a good thing you found out yourself ojarey

issylarry:


Going to appreciate your contribution

Guy d truth is dis and I've to b frank wit u. "Once a cheat aways a cheat" bt I doubt if she will cheat on u if u go ahead to marry her. I've been there b4 so I knw hw u feel even wen I was down to earth wit her yet she went on to b a serial cheat. We r nt together again bt I've to b honest with u "I always want her back because I love her so much and she is one of a kind" bt I find it hard to let go. So my guy if u knw u can't live without her bro 4gv her and do everytin possible to forget it. Na just fork she fork jor, body no b firewood, it cud be she did it out of appreciation or due to r absent though she has no justification for her act sha ooo but guy if u knw say u love her 4get am abeg after all no b u disvirgin her so y u con dey do lk say na only u don enter that plc b4? But if u can't 4get it den guy ahead ahead bt I tell u one tin u, u will miss her o and one last tin, don't ever tell any of her relative or frnds what conspired b/w u both ok keep it a secret with that she will respect u and its even d best way to torment her and she will b d one to confess her sins. Stay bless bro better tins aways ahead. Take@!!

forix4u:

Guy d truth is dis and I've to b frank wit u. "Once a cheat aways a cheat" bt I doubt if she will cheat on u if u go ahead to marry her. I've been there b4 so I knw hw u feel even wen I was down to earth wit her yet she went on to b a serial cheat. We r nt together again bt I've to b honest with u "I always want her back because I love her so much and she is one of a kind" bt I find it hard to let go. So my guy if u knw u can't live without her bro 4gv her and do everytin possible to forget it. Na just fork she fork jor, body no b firewood, it cud be she did it out of appreciation or due to r absent though she has no justification for her act sha ooo but guy if u knw say u love her 4get am abeg after all no b u disvirgin her so y u con dey do lk say na only u don enter that plc b4? But if u can't 4get it den guy ahead ahead bt I tell u one tin u, u will miss her o and one last tin, don't ever tell any of her relative or frnds what conspired b/w u both ok keep it a secret with that she will respect u and its even d best way to torment her and she will b d one to confess her sins. Stay bless bro better tins aways ahead. Take@!!

Don't take this guy's advice! OP, seriously, what makes u think you're special to this girl? You're probably number 3 on her list. The moment she opened her legs for that guy was d moment you dropped further down on her man list!
She probably stored your name as Rosco on her cell and only changes it when you're in town.
Remember, anybody hammering someone else's chic hammers like that's the last time... Hammers with so much intensity... Drilling the last oil well... And u my friend is left with an equipment with no residual value. Make the wise decision and suffer the pain now... She probably moved on to the next guy, you're here thinking she cares.

falconey:
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how are u sure she will open up to her family, she may even lie against u and tell her people that she caught u in bed with another lady and that's why u want to withraw. Just confide in someone close to u among her family. The person will now b doing the talking while u start another search.