issylarry:


Lolz,na ladies go suffer am pass o!

No one will suffer jhur.. it's all about understanding... freedom rocks

misspicy:
How was d communication btwn u two within dat period?

Very often! Both written and oral

bqlekan:

No one will suffer jhur.. it's all about understanding... freedom rocks

If you say so sha

bros,..dnt tell me u never shak another bae before in your life,.am nt saying she right,..give her a chance to make things right as this might be the bond tie you for u2.......but if you knw her too well...then decission is urs men.......................

issylarry:

Very often! Both written and oral

Dump that G....she is a cheater,run fast like ur life depends on it...,tell her family wat she did because she is gonna,lie to them

misspicy:

Dump that G....she is a cheater,run fast like ur life depends on it...,tell her family wat she did because she is gonna,lie to them

Thanks a lot!Its so obvious the relationship is over,but should I tell her family first or I wait till they ask?

issylarry:


Thanks a lot!Its so obvious the relationship is over,but should I tell her family first or I wait till they ask?

Tell them first before she.lies to them n paint u black

misspicy:
Tell them first before she.lies to them n paint u black

Thanks dear

Xmen149:
bros,..dnt tell me u never shak another bae before in your life,.am nt saying she right,..give her a chance to make things right as this might be the bond tie you for u2.......but if you knw her too well...then decission is urs men.......................

Sure na,that was long ago before I get too serious abt my sef.Seriously,we were just 2 months apart and she's bn having sex with another guy in my absence.does that mean she has been doing it long before now!sum people really doesn't deserve 2nd chance.

dump her sorry ass and if her grand father call you tell them what you saw else she would put it on you and believe me it aint gonna be funny,i am speaking from experience.

Have you been faithful to her all this time? I mean have you cheated on her?

issylarry:
I had the greatest shock of my life last week, which I never still believe why it happened to me. To cut the story short,I had a fiancee which we have been planning on getting married. In The course of time have been so familiar with her mum and siblings and we were just about preparing for our introduction. Due to the nature of my work I live in lagos and she stays at Ibadan, have been so faithful to her(you all know what am talking about).

On the 16th of aug, (saturday), I told her I was going to come around on the 19th. (Wednesday). when I got to Ibadan on wednesday, I checked-in in a guest house closer to her house. I was so happy been around her again, because I believed since her mum knows me, mehn, I thought I owned her. (That was the best mistake have ever made),Later in the night she was called by her brother to come over, so she decided to go and attend to her brother leaving me with her phone. Seriously,when she left I was just staring at the phone for some minutes and later I decided to check out for some more lovely pictures of my ironical wife. As time goes by I then decided to glance through her chats (wasn't intentional but didn't know what springed that up in me) Her recent chats was laced accordingly to how recent the chats has been. My chats with her was first,then I opened the 2nd chat(what I saw was crazy).

My so called ironical fiancee have been cheating on me. The chats was like my gf initiated the chat with him. She went to his place on Monday and they had sex. This is the lady I want to marry o,seriously I feel love doesn't truely exist. Its just a name not an ACT anymore. I got annoyed and asked her out of my room because if I should see her I could inflicts my annoyance on her(she might end up in hospital).

Now,what can I do? she's been begging me not to tell her elder brother .The mum hasn't heard anything about what transpired, even her siblings and have decided to let them know, so that they would know the kind of daughter they are living with(Packaged-slut). Is that the right decision? Or should I just delete every contacts I have with her? What can I do? Her mum do call me sometimes, now its so obvious am breaking up the relationship! But do I have to tell her mum or siblings who can understand how I really feel about it! Please, can you share me some advice or perspectives! I will appreciate it.

What if she wasnt caught..what if she told you herself..what would be your reaction?

No need telling her mum, siblings etc.
Just walk away QUIETLY and thank your stars you found out earlier than later.
Cheers.

Pals pls help me. I wan buy solar power bank now. How wil i know d original? Pls help

Love is not common to find, people settle down due to responsibility and understanding, I suggest people should stop trying and have fun

I don't know why you mentioned distance in your topic. You got played by the girl, doesn't matter if you are neighbours or even live in the same house. A cheater would always be a cheater.

Did ÿou read his comment at all or try to figure out who he was quoting?

issylarry:


Guy You are so absurd and acting beyond the boundary of common sense.it's really not your fault caused you don't know how it feels,na turn by turn.na your wife go fall your hands.

First and foremost, I need to highlight some of the misconstructions in your story.

1. In T(t)he course of time have been so familiar with her mum and siblings and we were just about preparing for our introduction.

2. Due to the nature of my work I live in lagos and she stays at Ibadan, (i) have been so(not necessary) faithful to her(you all know what (i) am talking about).

3. On the 16th of a(A)ug(.), (delete), I told her I was going to come around on the 19th. (Wednesday). when I got to Ibadan on w(W)ednesday, I checked-in (in)delete a guest house closer to her house.

4. I was so happy been around her again, because I believed since her mum knows me, mehn (what nonsense is this?), I thought I owned her.

Nonsense write-up!!! Too many grammatical errors

Are you related to Faka Jonathan?

Walks out of thread, hissing continuously

prettysassygirl:
she doesent deserve you,any girl that cheats on her man before marriage wld do DAT after,she ain't worth it,dia better girls out there,DAT I am sure

babe, help me tell am oh...." a chicken that sleeps on a tree in IBADAN, will continue sleeping on a tree when it gets to LAGOS"...

issylarry:
I had the greatest shock of my life last week, which I never still believe why it happened to me. To cut the story short,I had a fiancee which we have been planning on getting married. In The course of time have been so familiar with her mum and siblings and we were just about preparing for our introduction. Due to the nature of my work I live in lagos and she stays at Ibadan, have been so faithful to her(you all know what am talking about).

On the 16th of aug, (saturday), I told her I was going to come around on the 19th. (Wednesday). when I got to Ibadan on wednesday, I checked-in in a guest house closer to her house. I was so happy been around her again, because I believed since her mum knows me, mehn, I thought I owned her. (That was the best mistake have ever made),Later in the night she was called by her brother to come over, so she decided to go and attend to her brother leaving me with her phone. Seriously,when she left I was just staring at the phone for some minutes and later I decided to check out for some more lovely pictures of my ironical wife. As time goes by I then decided to glance through her chats (wasn't intentional but didn't know what springed that up in me) Her recent chats was laced accordingly to how recent the chats has been. My chats with her was first,then I opened the 2nd chat(what I saw was crazy).

My so called ironical fiancee have been cheating on me. The chats was like my gf initiated the chat with him. She went to his place on Monday and they had sex. This is the lady I want to marry o,seriously I feel love doesn't truely exist. Its just a name not an ACT anymore. I got annoyed and asked her out of my room because if I should see her I could inflicts my annoyance on her(she might end up in hospital).

Now,what can I do? she's been begging me not to tell her elder brother .The mum hasn't heard anything about what transpired, even her siblings and have decided to let them know, so that they would know the kind of daughter they are living with(Packaged-slut). Is that the right decision? Or should I just delete every contacts I have with her? What can I do? Her mum do call me sometimes, now its so obvious am breaking up the relationship! But do I have to tell her mum or siblings who can understand how I really feel about it! Please, can you share me some advice or perspectives! I will appreciate it.

you are in for a great poo...(shit,nsi)

Lash sweet die,but its sweeter when theres love involve,how does this relate to your problem? Ive got no damn idea

Bro forgive n forget



Check ursef well.
She nor b gf na?

issylarry:
I had the greatest shock of my life last week, which I never still believe why it happened to me. To cut the story short,I had a fiancee which we have been planning on getting married. In The course of time have been so familiar with her mum and siblings and we were just about preparing for our introduction. Due to the nature of my work I live in lagos and she stays at Ibadan, have been so faithful to her(you all know what am talking about).

On the 16th of aug, (saturday), I told her I was going to come around on the 19th. (Wednesday). when I got to Ibadan on wednesday, I checked-in in a guest house closer to her house. I was so happy been around her again, because I believed since her mum knows me, mehn, I thought I owned her. (That was the best mistake have ever made),Later in the night she was called by her brother to come over, so she decided to go and attend to her brother leaving me with her phone. Seriously,when she left I was just staring at the phone for some minutes and later I decided to check out for some more lovely pictures of my ironical wife. As time goes by I then decided to glance through her chats (wasn't intentional but didn't know what springed that up in me) Her recent chats was laced accordingly to how recent the chats has been. My chats with her was first,then I opened the 2nd chat(what I saw was crazy).

My so called ironical fiancee have been cheating on me. The chats was like my gf initiated the chat with him. She went to his place on Monday and they had sex. This is the lady I want to marry o,seriously I feel love doesn't truely exist. Its just a name not an ACT anymore. I got annoyed and asked her out of my room because if I should see her I could inflicts my annoyance on her(she might end up in hospital).

Now,what can I do? she's been begging me not to tell her elder brother .The mum hasn't heard anything about what transpired, even her siblings and have decided to let them know, so that they would know the kind of daughter they are living with(Packaged-slut). Is that the right decision? Or should I just delete every contacts I have with her? What can I do? Her mum do call me sometimes, now its so obvious am breaking up the relationship! But do I have to tell her mum or siblings who can understand how I really feel about it! Please, can you share me some advice or perspectives! I will appreciate it.

Hello Bros,

Though i feel your pain but let ask you some few questions which bothers on morals:

1.Do you really love her?
2.How sure are you that the next girl you will find wont even be more worse than her?
3.When you confront her what was her reactions?
4.Can you tell us in all honesty that you have not cheat on her during your relationship?

Even though its hard to forgive such act pls still let her know that you forgive her and move on with your life with speed

If your answers are positive then you can breakup cos its better now than for you to get married and regret.

misspicy:

Tell them first before she.lies to them n paint u black

I'm only commenting because I wished I saw this advice before my former girl went to paint me black infront of her parents and claimed she didn't do anything. She kept on lying that I was the problem. I had my own fault but I expected her to say the whole story.

From experience too, he should talk first o, that way he can leave in peace or else they will accuse the guy of irresponsibility and waste of their daughters time.

what else do you need? The hand writing is already on the wall....she is not you woman.

Marry her and we will be here to read your other stories of how your 2 children are not yours.